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Call your man "rock bottom" the way so many losers consider hitting him up to be the absolute lowest point of their entire lives.

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Pour one out for #lmanburg.

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My dear lgbt+ kids, 

„Conversion therapy“ (attempts to forcefully change someone’s sexual orientation or gender identity) isn’t therapy at all - it’s torture. 

It’s emotional and mental abuse, and in some cases includes physical abuse as well. It causes lasting trauma and immense harm to mental health. It greatly increases the risk of suicide. It’s also proven to not work. You can not change anyone’s identity. You can just scare and traumatize them into hiding or denying it. 

You probably already know all that. But what to do if you suspect that someone (your partner, a friend or even you yourself) may be at risk of it? 

Conversion therapy isn’t always announced as such. It‘s often sugar-coated, especially if done in a religious setting. They may use phrases like: 

„Values-based therapy“

„Christian counselors“ 

„Faith-based healing“ 

„Prayer therapy“ 

If you’re suspicious that a program your parents, someone at church etc. is pushing you to attend is actually conversion therapy, some possible safety precautions you can take are: 

Know your rights. Conversion therapy is illegal in some places. 

Document everything if you safely can. Save any texts, emails, letters etc. Take notes of any warning signs or threats. If you need legal help later, this can be crucial.

Tell safe adults (who are uninvolved in the situation) about your concerns. This could for example be a social worker, teacher or librarian if nobody in your family feels safe. 

If there are no safe adults you know in person, try to reach out to lgbt+ safety hotlines in your country.

If physical force or „kidnapping“ is a concern, avoid being alone. Stay in public spaces when outside and stay in contact with friends when home. 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Dad 

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I love when people take their plushes places and take pictures it's my favorite shit YES girl take Snoopy to those seaside cliffs YES take your handsewn frog to a waterfall

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i love tumblr so much actually

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Just to clarify, there's a bill that would STOP credit card companies from controlling who's allowed to spend money on porn or "risque" (read: queer) content. If you don't think big business should be able to tell you what to spend your own damn money on, call your senators and reps to let them know! It's the Fair Access to Banking Act, H.R.987 in the House, S.410 in the Senate.

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HEH?

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Your feminism isn’t worth shit if it doesn’t defend trans women

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Always a good time to burn down yet another village!

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“Must have reliable transportation” = “this is how we legally discriminate against poor people who take the bus”

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people talk about the weirdness of seeing school friends get married and have kids but its even crazier when its online friends. like bro i've seen your carrd kin list. we went to homestuck together. brothers in chronically online arms. what do you MEAN youre pregnant.

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Thought my gf cheated on me again so I messed around with her gay brother, but it turns out it really *was* just her cousin that she was spending time with, so now I’m kinda feeling guilty and confused

Is this how a priest in a confessional booth feels… ten hail marys

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Welp.

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Welp.