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I love you intersex people with multiple variations

I love you intersex people with unknown variations

I love you intersex people with unrecognized variations, and those of which current literature deems “impossible”

I love you intersex people who identify as trans, cis, and cistrans

I love you intersex people who do not disclose their intersex identities or variations, for any reason

I love you intersex people who transitioned one way and are now transitioning another way. And those who are now transitioning back to their natural traits

I love you intersex people who have health problems related to their variation

I love you intersex people who have dysphoria “both ways”

I love you intersex people who don’t “pass” as anything

I love you intersex people who have survived IGM, coercive treatment, medical neglect, and medical abuse

I love you intersex people

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rly tired of this thing that keeps happening online where a trans man will talk about the serious harm that he experiences as a result of the transphobia + misogyny + general distrust of queer men triple whammy and then all of the responses to it are just “actually you used the Wrong Word to describe your lived experience and using the Right Word is actually way more important to us than addressing the oppression you face every day” and if you stand up to that they call you a men’s right activist

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Grumpy boyfriend

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ok look, i have a bad opinion of the hp fandom for reasons that are not only trans related

first of all i think that the books are just plain bad and if u want smth in the same vein u should go to writers that are actually good (ursula k leguin for example)

mainly it's the fact that jkr's shadow will never cease to exist until they fucking let go of her fucking books

"well they meant a lot for me growing up"

you're grown up now, most of u are adults

and i know why this is happening, i know that reading comprehension is so low that even adults find it hard to process shit that is actually meant for their presumed reading level, but fuck i hate it

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"i actively enjoy making trans–masculine people feel unsafe, outspoken, and scared, and i want them all to know that if it were legal to cause physical harm to them i would do so" do you SEE what you're typing or what

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Days since transandrophobes have made frankly wildly offensive comparisons between transphobia and racism: 0

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I think T and masculinity should be sexualized in the same way that E and femininity is, so that more trans guys actually want to transition.

No more “Testosterone is poison”, we need more support for trans guys embracing the effects of T, support for all the amazing things it does, and more appreciation and sexualization of the various bodies that come from going on T. Whether you end up a fat bear, or a skinny hairless twink, or somewhere in between, I want to see more support for how hot each and every transmasculine body is.

Sexualize the shit out of T. It'll save someone's life one day.

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trans men and mascs who talk about how all tme queers must be secret transmisogynists because they were previously sure are something. like,

skill issue i love trans women and i always have

your experiences are not universal and may not be applicable to the broader community

skill issue

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noo joonghyuk your yippee sugoi life ...!!

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the fact that nonbinary people perceived as women but aren't are frequently called "hysterical" or that we're "bitching" about things when we talk about nonbinary issues. it's a way to misgender us but with plausible deniability because "it just means you're unreasonably complaining". it's a way to feminise us, forcing us back into womanhood.

this alone is exorsexism.

but then we have all the people claiming that this is a trans male/masc specific issue as if non-transmasc nonbinary people being feminised is somehow okay.

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They are like father and daughter

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What trans men say: when you exclude us from your activism simply because we're men, you are telling the patriarchy that it's okay to be misogynistic towards us, as long as we don't identify as women. Not only are you putting us in danger but you're also feeding the same evil that oppresses you, that will never respect you no matter how many of us you sacrifice, because at the end of the day predatory cis men see us as just another flavor of you. They hate us cause they hate you.

What y'all hear: when you say you hate men, that hurts our feelings so please stop saying that

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I wish other trans people stopped thinking trans men are here to be fairytale knights. “Trans men should use their strength to defend other trans people” no, actually. Trans men can do that, if they want to, but it’s not our obligation. We’re also just trying to survive.

If you only want us to exist so we can beat up the first transphobe to mildly inconvenience you but then kick us down and shove us out of our own spaces whenever we try to talk… you don’t want us to exist. What you want is a brick wall.

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Its frustrating when non-horror people come into horror spaces and ask why we like violence and watching people suffer and sexism and all other manner of moral hand-wringing, but i also find it frustrating when horror fans (myself included) attempt to sincerely engage with these questions. Like 9 times out of 10 the question is either being asked in bad faith, or the asker is genuinely confused, and neither of those types of people are prepared for a proper answer about how horror reflects the cultural landscape or the complex relationships between the genre and gender and race etc and they definitely aren't ready to hear about the real facet of sexuality and eroticism in basically all horror media

horror is an easy target for pearl clutching but you can subject pretty much any genre to the same criticism if you frame it poorly enough. Oh you like romance movies? So you enjoy watching men stalk women and violate their boundaries? You think cheating is okay? You think its cool when women give up their careers to get married? I dont like or watch romance movies but based off my limited understanding thats what they're all like, etc

i think we need to just start responding to bad faith questions about horror with "yeah i thought it was awesome when The Killer fed all those teenagers into a wood chipper"

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can't take posts like "you can't even talk about feminism anymore without someone asking 'what about men' 🙄" seriously because most of the time op is just pissed off that trans men asked them to consider the fact they also experience misogynistic violence for like .02 seconds and as we all know most people on here are physically incapable of doing that for some reason lol