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"endos make a mockery of REAL systems" "ace people make a mockery of REAL queer people" "nonbinary people make a mockery of REAL trans people" "self-diagnosed people make a mockery of REAL disabled people" "bisexuals make a mockery of REAL gay people" "non-dysphoric trans people make a mockery of REAL trans people" "trans lesbians make a mockery of REAL lesbians"

arent you tired? arent you tired? arent you tired?

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I'm using language I feel is more accessible, but I understand those using different words for male/female.

Yeah, that's kind of weird to me too. Like: if you're using it as an transexperience label, that makes sense. But as an appearance, there have been visually females accidentally assigned male at birth! If you want to look like you were amab, there you go! you already that...

And yes, if anyone's wondering; you have to go through the same legal process to fix a doctor's/nurse's mistake, as a trans individual wanting to match their signed sex at birth to their gender.

And if someone is just wishing that their assigned sex was male, wouldn't it be TransAM or transassignedmale?

As someone who identifies as afab: I don't use it as a label, I use it as an event. My label is trans man.

I guess this person blocked me on this blog so I ended up being able to see his post but not being able to respond directly. And, although block evading(?) is considered a bad thing, I actually find it worse to intentionally misrepresent what someone said to you to dismiss someone's experiences with marginalization. Shit-talking someone in this way and then blocking them for correcting your bigotry is something I don't feel the need to respect, so I won't. But I doubt OP will see this post as a result of the block. I spent a lot of time on it anyways, and it could potentially be of interest to other people, so here's the preserved form of the original reply:

You cut off the actual demands I made in that post. That was simply the origin motivating my statement, which would be true and important regardless of whether or not I had seen a lot of that form of content.

It was not my algorithm, and that's an assumption on your end. I encountered these things through normal radqueer tags and scrolling through profiles of people who I wanted to read the recent posts of - each instance was divorced from algorithm and solely the result of raw frequency.

You are quite literally denying the experiences of a marginalized person recounting her experiences related to her marginalization. I am intersex, I see a lot of intersexism in the community. I will talk about that. Of course, you want to deny how real that is, and then make up a reason why to discredit me.

"You don't have to be comfortable with everything" I'm sorry for being uncomfortable with intersexism. I'm just some whiny motherfucker who needs to sit down and shut up so the perisex people can have fun.

The entire first post is so weird because you both want to deny the prevalence of intersexism I have observed AND defend it. So, classic bigot moment. And I feel comfortable saying that now, because you denied my attempts at offering you alternatives and holding off on any labels your way.

The second post is great at entirely avoiding what I'm criticizing to paint me as some identity tyrant. Okay, can you personally call yourself your AGAB if you want to? Whatever. I still have my qualms with it, but I guess that's a lesser issue. That's not what I'm complaining about, though. You know that's what I'm not complaining about. I'm not criticizing you for using the word AMAB, I'm criticizing you for conflating AGAB with appearance and sexual characteristics.

No, it's not like telling trans elders they can't identify as transsexual. What the fuck? I guess that's on the basis of you thinking this is a matter of identity. It's not, this is about the misusage of AGAB. And AGAB has a very bloody history that perisex trans people can't really reclaim, so it's not like the word transsexual. And misusing AGAB has so many consequences, both socially and medically. Someone calling themselves transsexual, at worst, makes someone uncomfortable.

Now actually address the main point of the criticism, not side nitpicks you can use to make yourself look like a victim of my evil anti-self-expression ways. Being radqueer does not mean you are no longer bigoted. Being radqueer involves having your bigotry pointed out and being willing to fix it. If you are stuck in your prejudices - unchanging and stubborn - that is definitional bigotry.

So here's the main point: What does something like transAMABbust mean? What are you trying to describe with this label? More directly - what is an "AMAB bust?" I genuinely cannot comprehend a potential extended definition of this that does not hit on transphobic and/or intersexist marks. And, further, why can't it just be redefined using a word that actually expresses what I know you mean?

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A part of me wishes to be plural again. Another part of me thinks I never was.

We're not sure if January was real...

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No, most endogenic systems don’t “just not remember their trauma.” They formed for reasons other than trauma, something that has been well documented to be possible for over 30 years.

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Happy pride to all my fellow trans people, including but not limited to:

TransRace

TransAbled

TransAge

TransBody

TransPerson

TransTime

TransSpecies

TransHarmful

TransHarmed

TransHobby

TransPlural

TransReligion

And all other transids!

You all deserve acceptance, and I will fight for it until you get it :3 (BTW sorry for posting late, I was so busy last night lol)

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★ Age non-conforming (ANC) is a term for those who do not follow age stereotypes and whose age expression differs from the age norms accepted in society (if such a term already exists, then I apologize, this will mean alt)

*:.｡. .｡.:*･゜ﾟ･*☆*:.｡. .｡.:*･゜ﾟ･*☆*:.｡. .｡.:*･゜ﾟ･*☆

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Reminder that anti-transhateful or anti-transharmful is still anti-transid/anti-trans.

Being uncomfortable with someone's identity? Fine if you keep it to yourself.

Being discriminatory towards someone's identity? In the radqueer community of all places?

I love you transhatefuls. I love you transharmfuls.

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I might be racenull or racial-apathetic? 🤔

Like I feel like I would care more if I was born a different race, but I'm white technically🤔 I don't feel any dysphoria about it, I kind of feel the same about my race as I do my species.

Like: Yeah, I'm biologically this, but I don't really feel connected to it or anything in the category🤔

I'm just me🤷‍♂️

The difference between my transspeciesnull identity and how I feel about race is; I don't care if someone calls me white. It's just something that I look like. Well, I do care a little bit if someone calls me human🤔

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Individuals think the same about the Kink community. Which; both are just about being yourself and enjoying your life!

They fear us because they don't take the time to truly understand us. They make their own assumptions and make our intentions out to be as malicious as possible, all because they cannot wrap their heads around the fact that somebody may be different in a way that they do not understand or have not encountered yet.

Radqueers do not deserve to be shunned just because we do not fit the typical definitions of "normal" and "safe".

Their concept of purity is built upon your shame. The revolution starts when you abolish that shame. Be yourself and be Radqueer.

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One of the things that pulled me towards being radqueer is; someone screaming at me about wanting "more inclusive language" to be accessible to those who aren't activists, they kept saying that I was obviously claiming that no one could identify as trans female or trans male, when I actively identified as trans male at the time...

I didn't have the words to explain it, but I tried my best to explain that their arguments for on trans intersex individuals are what led me to that conclusion. That we should treat male and female like sex terms, not gender terms...

I've never been against personal identity. I was talking about group identity.

And something that really rub me the wrong way is; they never addressed it when I asked why they were only defending trans women's rights to being female...

In the final straw was when that same person called me a bigot because I described my own experience, and it didn't match theirs...

I described how, at one point, I didn't add a space between trans and man: because I felt like trans was that connected to my identity, I have since changed but that was a fact and that they needed to respect people who experienced that, that personal identity does not harm anyone.

They said that I was starting to sound like a bigot in disguise, so I blocked them. Because they were obviously someone who just wanted to be mad at someone...

And that's what made me decide I was tired of being mad at individuals for just existing...

I'm radqueer because everyone deserves love, and being an well educated queer and exclusionist/label policer doesn't work.

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Transph*b1a it's not only about Transgenders

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This official reblog was also diagnosed professionally as autistic✨️

“Transautistic people are harming REAL autistic people and they want autism for the aesthetic!”

Shut up who cares we need more soldiers for the evil autism army

OP has been professionally diagnosed with autism btw

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I don't know what this means, but probably to someone!

reblog if you’re an unethical masturbation technic

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"b-but you have to have a diagnosis!! 🥺🥺"

Do you know how much some of them cost? Not everybody can afford them, and i'm not blind i can tell that I'm not mentally well and see my symptoms in a disorder that was PASSED DOWN ON ME

"b-b-but transids aren't valid you can't be trans[insert disorder here]!! 😭😭🥺🥺"

yes, you can. It's just another way to cope, your brain will do absolutely everything it can to prevent trauma / stress, there are people who personality got shattered into multiple others [i'm talking about did] there are people who harm themselves to forget, who take drugs to forget, who drink alcohol to forget, they are people who daydream all the time so they can escape, they are people who wish to get abused by others, there are people who are paras, and they're all just people who try to survive everyday and you're making it worse for them by invalidating them

"you're just an attention seeker!! not mentally ill!"

an mentally well person would not pretend to have a disorder they don't have, a mentally well people in general aren't that much of attention seekers

"b-but"

shut up omfg who invited you

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Happy Pride Month to all queer folks!!

This Pride Month, I want to make it clear to all of the queer folks who are pushed to the side that you are loved and you are seen.

To the genderfucky queers, to queer folks of color, to Indigenous queers, to young queers, to disabled queers, to the kinksters, to the nonhumans, to plural folks, to sexqueer folks, to the paraphiles, to the transIDers, and to everyone else,

You are loved and you are not alone.

As much as things seem to be falling apart, and as much as everything kind of sucks right now, there are folks out there who love and care for you. I'm one of them. We will survive.

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How do I be a silly wittre guy about transspeciesnull?

Like: I don't know what the fuck I am? What are you? a Taxonomists? Categorize this!

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where are all of the silly transid posts.

like “me omw to transition to being transpresident (vote for me guys plsss I need transvoters)”

or like “when I’m supposed to be an evil scawy transharmful but this is literally me

🧍”

or yk “GUYS BEING TRANSCULTIST ALSO MEANS GETTING TO PRODUCE THOSE WEIRDLY FUN INDOCTRINATION SONGS MADE TO MAKE YOUR CULT APPEAL MORE NORMAL 😍”

like gimme “A zoophile saying ‘I wouldnt date a therian’ is just a gay man saying ‘I wouldnt date a trans man’”

guyysss cmon I know we can do It