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i miss a friend.

i miss their presence.

sometimes, when you get enough of someone

you miss the things that you don’t have

it’s human things, we like things we can’t have

we don’t want things we already have

we miss them when it’s gone

i just feel this heavy weigh on my shoulders

about my adventure in life

is this the right path? the right direction?

am i just stuck in my old ways?

how should i decide?

am i just missing the past bc im scared of the present?

because im scared of moving forward?

i dont know

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i really despise when you disappear just like that… watch me suddenly just disappear from your life 😌

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i lied.

i’m not okay.

i just didn’t wanna tell you.

either way, you know it.

i said my head hurts

it’s true.

it hurts from all the crying

i’m not feeling well

it’s also true

cause my head’s been messed up

someday, it’ll be okay.

maybe today.

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so i attended a family reunion today. my grandmother’s side of the family.

well, i didn’t have my girlies w me but it was nice.. i guess. i earned 2h by playing rock paper scissors (which i also won before in a family event.. in some way i felt validated to be a queen of rock paper scissors)

so anyway, it was also rly hot but yeah. the event ended at 5pm and i was so ready to go home. i wanted to shower and just sleep.

idk what happened but somehow, we went to s relatives place near the event place.

i mean i dont have a choice so even tho i wanna go– im just coping. til my dad wanted to go home cuz he’s sleepy and hilo (he’s drunk ig)

then so he told everyone that he’ll be leaving w me and my other aunties at around 6-7pm.

(for context: my dad is the youngest of them. he has two older brothers and 3 older sisters. they were complete in the reunion)

so anyway, i was happy that dad wanted to go home but his two older brothers who were drinking were like WAAAIT. then, it became chaotic.

then it just became chaotic. turns out, it was the eldest brother who wanted to stay and hang out in the relatives place. the middle brother initially wanted to go home but yeah we still went anyway.

so after finding out my dad wanted to go home, they decided to ask someone to drive us home bc he’s drunk. then the middle brother said if they’re gonna drive around then everyone should just go home. the eldest brother said to just have two rounds of drinks before everyone goes home.

then dude wtf they couldn’t decide wtf to do??? anyway, it was rly chaotic and all of us were like wtf is happening.

the ending, we all still went home. me and my aunties, my dad, the eldest brother. the middle brother stayed w my other cousins.

idk how they decided that but whatever, im home. it’s just rly chaotic???? like i feel like things r so simple but they’re making it complicated. whatever, im just glad im home so i can rest, eat and take a shower.

that’s all.

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feelings are so complicated.

i miss you. do i miss you because i'm lonely? bc i'm not distracted?

why is it so hard to lose you? thinking about it now, it happened so quickly. i felt so many things and i wanna talk to you again but im so scared to complicate things.

im so scared of hurting again and hurting you.

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i missed him a lot this week.

but it’s not i want him to come back bc i know there’s a lot going on with his life but i just missed his presence.

i miss talking to him. i guess im grateful that i was with him before he was gone but it’s one of the factors why i missed him bc i was hanging out w him a lot lately.

i also don’t know when he will back, he can take his sweet ass time but i do miss hanging with him.

to the point where i even saved stories to tell to him when he comes back.

he may be suffering rn still, i hope he’s doing well. i prayed that he feels peace now and isn’t hurting as much.

this is the first time ive missed him this much like i kept telling my friend that i missed him.

i don’t rly have things to say except that i miss him and i still do and i wont stop missing him until i see and talk to him again lol.

p.s. it’s taking everything in me to not reread our convo lol

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my sister has always been moody… mom was always blaming it on her pcos and i guess that’s fair due to the hormonal fluctuations. however, i don’t think we can always blame it on the pcos because there are times she’s being disrespectful to other people especially her family?

i think the reason that i grew up to be obedient was because my sister was always the pasaway one. we can’t be both pasaway to our parents, they’d go insane. also, it’s true i think my mom does spoil her. i mean to be fair, she does spoil me too but the way she spoil my sister is a little bit extreme.

there are just times wherein we ask her simple questions and she doesn’t respond. sometimes, she kind of ruins the mood tbh. just a simple yes or no question and no response like for what? if you’re having a bad day, u don’t have to bring it upon everyone.

also, she’s 20 and like i think she should be aware of the right and wrong. at least be respectful towards ur family.

one thing i also don’t like is the way she’s two faced to other people and she’s acting so nice but to us she’s being weird and distant.

im used to her attitude but i dont think its a good trait to have until ure old esp in ur relationships w other people. u have to be stable.

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“every time i push the thoughts away, you’re pulling me in again and again”

- magnets by NIKI

i think she made this song from me, from the first listen it was so fucking relatable that i hate it. why does it feel like that? i try so hard to let go of everything but it’s so hard. i still miss u, the memories and everything that happened. i still want it to happen even tho it’s not right. it’s fine right? to want it to happen but knowing it won’t? i’ve killed the hope in me that it will but still.. sometimes i want it.

maybe it’s true that u want things u cant have. it’s just upsetting bc why did it have to happen in the first place? why couldn’t it have not happened so i wouldn’t be longing for it now?

why did u make me long for u? why did it start if it’s just gonna end?

why am i still fixated on this even tho things changed a long time ago? was i wrong? deep inside, am i still hoping?

how pathetic, how could i hope for something like this? have i no shame?

i keep thinking maybe i’m just lonely and u just happened to be there. but what was i to do?

every time i tell myself that i need to stop, i can’t? i really have no self control.

i guess i have no choice but to miss it.. long for it until i don’t. i can’t force myself to stop. as long as i don’t go insane and do stupid things, it’s fine, just keep it in.

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letters to you:

hi dad, i miss you. you didn’t come home this weekend and it sucks but i understand you need to have ur space after what happened. i wanted to tell u that i have your back bc i know u often feel lonely and ignored. i hate myself for knowing but not doing anything, i feel useless but also idk how to start. i know communication is so important but i also struggle with communicating just like our entire family. i remember the last time u left when u argued with mom and it shattered me because i thought u would never come back. i remember doing things i never thought i would do again but the pain was unbearable. i was strong this time though, i kept it to myself. maybe im just in denial, idk. i also remember when i felt like they didn’t care that u left. that hurts so bad. why weren’t they upset?

anyway, i hope u come back soon. i try to talk to u as much as i can because i wanted to make u feel like u have me even tho i have my own little world at home. i like playing games to distract myself from reality. sometimes, i envy other families who feel whole and are close to one another. why aren’t we like that? it makes me feel like i have these issues bc of that.

it’s alright though, this is my life and i can’t change what already happened. all i know is how much i love my family even though it feels broken at times. please come back soon dad. i hope things get better. ❤️‍🩹

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ive been wanting to be active and just move my body– be productive cuz im just a lazy bun.

today, i woke up at 5:40 and went to jog w my dad a lil bit near our house. it’s an oval and i had like 8 lapse. it was basically just walking with a bit jogging lol. i dont rly jog that much so like yaaa, but it was fun and nice. very productive. very tiring as well but it’s worth it. also, i got to bond w my dad so that’s always nice 🤍

then like after i rested.. just watched stuff u kno, took a small nap (it was crazy, i slept at 11pm yesterday and woke up early and tire myself then i only took a small nap in the afternoon)

then at lunch, i ate sm (sinigang and adobo) faavs, anything sabaw ill devour it. then i went upstairs walked just to help digest my food (cuz i usually jus lie down which is not good)

oh and i took a shower and got rid of my tonsil stones once and for all omfg cuz like broo it’s rly annoying 💀

then i got hungry at like 5pm so i ate and then opened my laptop.. wanted to play but like i didn’t feel like playing so i just deleted photos in my laptop and also in my phone :)) that was productive. from 10k to 8k in my camera roll, that’s nicee.

then i got bored again so i went upstairs to like clean idk.. swept the floor and mopped and cleaned my room a lil biiit. so like now yeah im tired af dhdjjsisisjd

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i think my biggest regret this year is losing a friend more than losing a partner cuz like for this one i knew that it was my fault and i wasn't being a good friend but like i was struggling as well. im always like the jealous type, i always wanna belong and hate being left out but yeah i rly showed a bad side of me that ppl didn't like that one of them had to cut me off for being toxic. it also took a few months for me to realize that ive lost her already bc i was jus detaching myself from the pain in the situation. i was griefing when i found out but ive like made my peace w it. i have peace but then sometimes there's just what if's but the past months of jus isolating, u just cant force things. i thought abt trying to fix it but sometimes u just gonna let things go. so at the end of the day, i am proud of myself. i lost a bit of confidence in myself and feel like ive been isolating myself from friends cuz im like so scared of not being a good fit in a group but like also im jus rly glad i still have them, such a big opener that not everything is abt me and like they're always jus gon be there and we're all jus living our lives. anyways, glad that i had u in my college life and i hope someday we can be civil w each other ;) <3

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so i jus went back to 2019 when lily had her heartbreak about her ex cheating on her and it's jus more sad bc it's public and like what ppl think of u and the situation it's insane and crazy ofc they're gonna side w lily cuz she's obv the victim of infidelity (i knew her in 2020 and i think she's already dating michael) so yea anyways watching the vid of like the timeline of what happened sucks and i felt a lil bit hurt by the betrayal of it all, of ur loved one betraying u after u give all ur love to them and it just sucks. then, i realized that ive also experience being cheated on lol but like i didn't think it was a big deal now and it jus made me realize that ive moved past it. i can move past the worst painful things in life and maybe forgive idk lol, however yea there is no turning back ever. jus wow sometimes u jus have experience to feel things and learn and grow. it's not forever that u feel the pain u felt and dealt w for so long. im so proud of myself for recovering from not feeling enough as a person for that person.

im jus rly sorry for ppl who have experienced that cuz it rly sucks when u feel the excruciating pain of ooofff

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i honestly just cant wait to get busy and not give too much shits abt other stuff bc i srsly hate having lots of time for caring i jus hope i get a different life at work and be treated well bc im honestly so tired of being treated like a piece of shit

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i’m watching the kardashians in disney+ which was the first thing i watched here lol and like damn i’m so annoyed at scott lol,, he’s literally like a crazy ex boyfriend AAAAAAAAAHHH he is so frustrating. yes u have kids with ur ex and u treat ur family’s ex but wtf, he is ur ex ?? and u still have feelings for him right? yet u know ur not better and will never be better. damn u had 3 kids but no ring-- wtf is that? then u like act ok that kourt is engaged and sayin travis has got a lot to work to?? lmao, how bitter r u? didnt u jus say that u like kourt?? dafuq? arent u the one hoping that u two will end up together?? again?? damn and ur manipulating the kardashians for not being invited to stuff, excuse me??? and sayin that they’re ur only family?? their family is kourt and u were once a family but its over now, ur just the father of u and kourt’s children. idk man i can’t stand him, he’s like so problematic and needs a lot of therapy. he seems like he doesnt have a lot of friends and he needs to get a life away from the kardashians bc kourt is starting her own family. he should also do that and stop saying shit.

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i love my mom but i can’t forgive her for always giving me silent treatment for little mistakes i make and making me feel like such an asshole (while she doesn’t get mad at my sister for being a lazy ass as well bc surprise the youngest is always the favorite) and how i adapted her trait of giving people i love silent treatment and being petty for their actions when i get hurt or disappointed over the smallest thing and also making them feel like crap about themselves. i can’t fucking stop it, i know it’s wrong but it’s the only thing i can do and i wish i can communicate to my mom how crazy and traumatizing that makes me feel. the way i can see how much she adores and gives so much attention to my sister even when she does mistakes or being a bitch is crazy. now i often seek love and attention from people especially my partner and when i dont get much attention, i seek it for and become unreasonable. i hate that. i fucking hate the way i live sometimes.

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played overwatch earlier and dude i was such a bad mercy like all i can do is heal and i’m not even healing that well unlike our other healer and i have like only 5k heals and theirs was 7k and i got 0 eliminations and only few assists then i’m hopeless bc all i do is freaking die bc i don’t much skills beside healing then i switched to moira and dude my kda was so much better i had 11 eliminations and like more assists and healing 😭😭 and we also won the game so idk i think i popped off before in moira than mercy lol

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narealize ko parang isang beses lang ako sinundo nila papa for the purpose na sunduin lang ako ganon ??? i mean ofc susunduin ako pag galing airport pero like ung idk gala or something na for my own interest tapos susunduin ako?? it was shs ung first overnight ko w friends sa debut ng friend ko, sinundo nila ako ng umaga and that was a shining moment for me kasi i felt special na sinundo ako ganon? tapos ngayon lahat ako nalang,, commute magisa and i learned everything on my own. then i realized my sister has it all. shs na sya pero hatid sundo pa sya minsan ni papa tas pag may mga gala hinahatid sya or sinusundo tho gets ko mas malapit sya pero grabe ung privilege nya as a bunso kasi un ung mga di ko naexperience 😭😭😭 i guess perks tlga ng pagiging bunso ung parang oldest kami nakaranas lahat ng pagiging strict, being independent and coping by urself while ung bunso nakuha nila lahat ng love, ung mga wrong parenting sa eldest maapply na sa youngest and jus sometimes u cant help but be jealous kasi parang ang swerte nila but at the same time you are who u are bc ure the eldest 😭😭 i saw a tiktok na unstable daw mga eldest based sa mga fictional characters and nag comment ako na “i knew something is wrong with the eldest” and may nagreply “bold of u to assume there was something right” lmao that was so funny but like lol yea 😭😭 idk based sakin very independent ung mga panganay. my bff is a bunso pero ung ate nya na pinsan ko din sobrang similar namin in some ways na we like the same games, music pati ung like anxiety. dude we r so similar na di kami clingy sa tao except like few ppl kasi we were raised to be strong for our parents 😭 tas idk based sa exp ko ung mga friends kong panganay mej unstable din HAHAHAHAHAHA coincidence?? i think not !!