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Need a sketchy doctor to prescribe me 24/7 diapers for my depression so I can wear diapers full time and go potty in my pants. Because even when I feel alone and hate myself, I can push all those icky thoughts into my diapy for some momentary peace. Works better than any drug ever has on me.

In other news, baby girl needs a change, but too comfy...

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Trans People Deserve Love And Ice Cream ❤️🏳️‍⚧️🍨

The character in the picture is Midori Khiao. An OC from a fan series of Pretty Cure 'Creative And Colorful Pretty Cure'. She's one of the main characters as the magical girl Cure Lime. She is a sixteen year old Thai teenager who identifies as a trans woman. She struggles with coming clean to people about her identity and hides as a boy in her work place in fear of being shunned. In turn, she believes she has to be one way in order to provide for her hospitalized little brother, who she is always putting before her own dreams of a greater culinary career and living as a woman. Her arc in the story is that of self acceptance and that prioritizing her own needs is far from selfish. Who she is, deserves all the love in the world because she is valid.

And any trans person deserves to know they are valid and loved as well, in spite of this world telling them no. ❤️

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Superman isn't woke. You're just so evil that you see a man doing acts of kindness and you think it's a targeted political agenda

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I'm ok btw. Still here

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I hate this life. My stress, anxiety, social isolation and executive dysfunction is going to kill me. Every day my mind and body breaks a little bit more and I can't make myself do anything to help it.

I haven't gotten meds or seen a doctor since before the election last year due to complications with healthcare providers and insurance.

I just feel like it'd be better for everyone if I disappeared in my car one night.

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all the cool girlbloggers wear diapers

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Your big sister making you sign a contract, giving her complete and total ownership over your potty training! Now it's up to her to decide what to do with it, as it no longer belongs to you!

You'll definitely be living up to the title of "little" sis with all the accidents, but won't it be nice not having to think about it anymore? Wetting the bed becoming a decision outside of your control, or having a little accident while out and about, all to your big sister's whims?

She'll always be there to help clean up and change you at least, and you'll get lots of love and affection whenever you do as you're told (not that you have much of a choice anyway)

All you gotta do is sign on the dotted line lil sis. There's no reason to be so shaky and worried! Big sis always knows best, right?

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Careful what you wish for~

We had been meeting on the weekends, sharing secrets and desires over glasses of wine, the warm glow of the room fading the boundaries between us. Each laugh drew you closer, the couch becoming a shrinking island in the sea of our confessions.

One night, after too much wine, you agreed to sleep in the guest room. I guided you into the dim light, your eyes heavy, the alcohol blurring your senses. I tucked you in and pressed a soft kiss to your forehead, an almost wicked smile finding on my lips as I turned off the light.

Morning came with cheerful birds chirping the dawn's arrival, but as you stirred, something felt wrong—alien. Groggy, you rubbed your eyes, only to realize your hands were encased in soft mittens. Panic gripped you as you sat up, the bed crinkling and squelching beneath you.

The room was unnaturally cheerful. A changing table loomed in the corner, its white wood and pastel pink upholstery mocking your confusion. Beneath it, stacks of thick diapers taunted you, clearly far too large for any infant. A rocking horse and a toy chest sat against the wall, all in that unsettling color scheme.

It hit you with horrifying clarity: you were in a crib meant for an adult. The tall white bars loomed above you, trapping you. You glanced down, dread pooling in your stomach. You were dressed in a black and pink onesie, emblazoned with “I ❤️ Mommy.” The thick padding between your legs, the unmistakable weight and warmth of a very used diaper, sent your heart racing.

As reality sank in, the cheerful chirping outside twisted into a mocking chorus. The comfortable warmth of last night had transformed into a nightmare, and the echo of my laughter lingered on your mind.

Then a voice broke your train of thought,

"Good morning baby girl, Mommy is so happy to have you home now."

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California Mortgage Lender Accused of Anti-LGBTQ+ Practices

San Francisco - A major West Coast mortgage lender is under federal investigation following accusations that it systematically denied both mortgage and refinance applications in historically LGBTQ+ neighborhoods throughout San Francisco. Internal records and whistleblower testimony suggest the company engaged in a covert form of redlining, a discriminatory practice long prohibited under federal law.

Redlining refers to the practice of refusing financial services, particularly home loans, to individuals based on their neighborhood’s racial, ethnic, or social identity rather than the applicant’s financial qualifications. Though common in the early to mid-20th century, it is now illegal under the Fair Housing Act and the Equal Credit Opportunity Act, which require lenders to base decisions solely on legitimate financial factors such as income, creditworthiness, and debt obligations.

Former employees of the lender, identified in public records as Pacific Crest Lending, say the company maintained an unspoken policy of denying loan applications originating from ZIP codes associated with LGBTQ+ communities, especially the Castro, Noe Valley, and Mission Dolores.

“We were told to stay out of the Castro,” said a former loan officer who worked at the lender for four years. “That was the exact phrase. At first, they talked about avoiding ‘high-risk districts,’ but eventually, it became clear they meant gay neighborhoods. One executive said, ‘We can’t extend long-term credit in areas where values might shift with lifestyle changes.’ It was always coded, but the intent was unmistakable.”

Another former compliance analyst recalled, “Loan and refinance applications from those areas were scrutinized differently. We used terms like ‘asset inconsistency’ or ‘neighborhood instability’ to justify rejections. These weren’t official policies, but everyone knew how to apply them.”

Pacific Crest Lending, once celebrated for its tech-forward approach and inclusive advertising, had cultivated a brand that appealed to progressive and diverse homebuyers. Its commercials often featured same-sex couples, rainbow flags, and messaging centered on community equity and belonging.

“It’s a gut punch,” said Alex Romero, a Castro resident whose mortgage application was denied in 2022. “They ran ads during Pride. They talked about ‘celebrating all families.’ But behind closed doors, they were redlining us like it was 1950.” Romero is now a plaintiff in one of several lawsuits alleging discrimination based on sexual orientation.

Other borrowers, including those seeking to refinance existing mortgages, reported similar treatment. “I had excellent credit, a stable income, and decades in the same profession,” said Jordan Bellamy, another Castro resident. “They told me I didn’t meet their lending criteria. No one could explain why. I now understand it had nothing to do with me and everything to do with where I live.”

The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB) and Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) have confirmed ongoing investigations into the company’s lending practices. A CFPB spokesperson stated, “Mortgage and refinance discrimination is illegal, period. We are reviewing documentation and whistleblower evidence. If violations are found, those responsible will be held accountable.”

Under federal statutes, companies found guilty of housing discrimination can face civil penalties including fines up to $25,000 per offense for first-time violations, and up to $100,000 for repeat offenses. Victims may be entitled to damages, both compensatory and punitive, as well as reimbursement of legal fees. In serious cases involving willful misconduct, executives and staff may face criminal charges, including conspiracy or obstruction, which could result in additional fines and potential prison time.

Multiple class-action lawsuits have already been filed against Pacific Crest Lending, and legal experts anticipate more to follow. Housing rights organizations are calling the case one of the most egregious examples of discriminatory lending in recent years.

If you believe you were unfairly denied a mortgage or refinance, especially if you live in or were seeking to purchase a home in a historically LGBTQ+ neighborhood, you are encouraged to file a complaint with the CFPB at www.consumerfinance.gov. Legal aid organizations and fair housing advocates can also help you understand your rights.

Source: California Mortgage Lender Accused of Anti-LGBTQ+ Practices

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