npd-hottakes

[npd-hottakes]

the amount of times I get like 20 notes in a row and it's all from the same person and they have -system in their username is crazy. At least 15 times now.

Lotta narcissistic systems out there i guess.

[npd-hottakes]

have you ever actually been high

I'm referring to narc highs not drugs. Like high vs crash

[npd-hottakes]

feeling high as hell for the five minutes after someone says something nice and then feeling like killing yourself afterwards because the conversation is over now

[npd-hottakes]

Sure sure we all have difficulties handling relationships and all that, but i wish more npd people would talk about how physical appearance can make or ruin your entire day.

Will feel fine, then have to get ready to go somewhere and one little thing looks off and i have an entire meltdown and start trying to beat myself to death.

My bangs wont sit right? Beat myself to death. My skins breaking out? Beat myself to death. My clothes look bunchy and weird? Beat myself to death-

Ik its embarrassing and comes off as comical but the way i view my physical appearance and react to it is so different then non npd people. Even other cluster b people just like don't get it. I feel almost alone in this seeing as i don't know any other npd havers irl and when i have these freak outs people just genuinely don't know how to react. Not exactly a hot take but why does nobody ever bring up shit like this am i just extra insane or something.

I don't relate but I get it

[npd-hottakes]

i'll just leave this here

[npd-hottakes]

i genuinely feel so disconnected from pwbpd theyre always the ones who say insanely ableist shit and are never called out for it because they have the “victim cluster b disorder”

.

[npd-hottakes]

wish there was a way to tell people I want what's best for them UNLESS it hurts me.

You'd like me more if I got better? Yeah I can do that, I need you to love me

You'd be happier if you didn't know me? Haha bitch I can send you photos of me with a rope around my neck if it'll make you stop saying silly things like that~

[npd-hottakes]

"Narc abuse" is actually what happens to random teenagers on their way to finding out they have NPD. It's what happens when a narcissist has to deal with the people around them start playing with their emotions, trying to get them angry so that they'll be their perfect little narcissistic attack dog, only to yelp "it bites!" when the unhealthy coping mechanisms they've been cultivating turn out to actually be unhealthy.

^

[npd-hottakes]

NPD's deserve empathy, encouragement, and respect!!!

hell yeah

[npd-hottakes]

It doesn't make you evil to focus on yourself rather than strangers that you have nothing to do with

its weird the amount of people who think putting yourself first is a bad thing

[npd-hottakes]

I think people don't understand that NPD isn't just about "oh I'm so awesome" but also having a constant feeling of worthlessness 💭

.

[npd-hottakes]

Character with little to no empathy being a good person will always be more interesting than them being a bad person

[npd-hottakes]

Not about npd but I just wanna say that someone's delusions are still real experiences they're going through and telling someone that their delusions aren't real will more often than not make things worse unless they're already in a stable state of mind.

[npd-hottakes]

People who think guilt and empathy make you a good person are more evil than people who don't feel guilt or empathy

Who's worse, mentally ill people or those oppressing mentally ill people?

[npd-hottakes]

people need to understand that I don't owe anyone anything and that everyone owns me everything and that this isn't hypocritical to say because I'm just factually better than them.

[npd-hottakes]

Reminder that you are not morally obligated to do anything, and that saying "wow that sucks" and moving on won't and can't make things worse.

[npd-hottakes]

you have amazing opinions

My next opinion is that the human body is stupid and revenge shouldn't make me feel like throwing up