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Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.
It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.
Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.
Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.
Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)
Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!
You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!
If you want it in a simple phrase:
You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.
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computer how do I kiss someone through a screen. computer how do I pull him through the screen so I can cuddle him. computer. computer do you hear me
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Sinkingship core
(credit to @cryptidko (aka my pookie <3) for their pressure oc and art at the bottom)
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can we give characters lame scars. boring scars. sometimes you dont need to have a big mystery for it. i have a scar on my hand from scratching it on a plastic donut container. lifes full of surprises like that.
#the tiny scar i have right next to my left eye when i accidentally ran into a veterinarian examination table when i was 5#literally my only scar lmao
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Mmmm waffles,,, esp with butter in the holes,,, lotsa buttr...
@aer-arts @nuklear-sauce
I'm boutta start a war on Tumblr
Pancakes or Waffles (Reblog with answer then tag more people)
@mifgirlcomics @belladeezbombz
@mosslover999 @the-real-great-papyrus
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You’re not depressed. You just need $250,000 in your bank account.
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Update: Art Commissions are currently closed, mostly because of me trying to figure out how to accept payment lmao
!!! ART COMMS OPEN !!!
Hey, my art commissions are open! I have a carrd with all the information on there, and the link will be below! I'm currently working on setting up a PayPal account, so i will only be accepting from Cash App for now ^^
I usually trace bases, but i will keep tracing to a minimum when drawing commissions!! (I mainly trace for practice anyways ✨)
When DMing me, please specify why! I get anxious when i get random DMs ;v;
Commissions Carrd And Art Examples Below The Cut!!
1: Head shot full render + simple background
2: ref sheet
3: doodle page, colored / sketch / lineart
4: full body full render + complex background
I hope you consider commissioning me!!! It will be greatly appreciated!!!
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Where's my Breakfast?
Oil on Panel 30x30 cm
Artist: Daniel Arthur
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IMPORTANT!!!
I’ve only seen like one person talk about this and it’s super important that this gets out there
Multiple punk symbols and sayings have been added to the FBI’s domestic terrorism guide
Things included are
The symbol for anarchy
ACAB and 1312
The three arrows pointing down in a circle
Eat the rich
Those are a few but it also mentions anything anti-fascist and anti capitalist
So if you live in the US please be careful
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