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The realism of Robby being a little bit of an unintentional misogynist is so, so important to me. Like he is a good boss and a great teacher, he is friends with women and works with women and teaches women and respects women greatly. And yet—it’s Langdon, and then Whitaker, who Robby adopts as his mentees. It’s David, not the girls on the kill list, who Robby prioritizes care for. It’s the dad accused of grooming his daughter who Robby refuses to report, while informing the authorities about the mother drugging him without a second thought. He reams Langdon out for berating Santos, but doesn’t check in on Santos until Langdon refuses to let it go and Robby becomes suspicious of there being an actual problem.

And obviously we are seeing Robby on the worst day of life, and maybe even calling him a “little bit of a misogynist” is a bit too much because he’s not, really. But he does have ingrained biases and he does seem to only be able to fully see himself in and completely empathize with other men. And that is just. So true of even the nicest, kindest, most wonderful and feminist men I know.

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what in the world could i have pinned for this to happen

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Mutual to mutual communication

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making heavy use of a technique i like to call "bothering my cat" which consists largely of bothering my cat

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TOMORROW IS HALLOWEEN!!!

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popped into reality a month ago. no training whatsofuckingever. here have a lethal weapon because you're hot, says the federal bureau of investigation. we trust you

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there's a dark timeline out there where tumblr fanfic writers are considered influencers and get sponsorships, and during kinktober, the horniest fanfics drop and all your fave bloggers are doing "day 1 - toys" and they're including a paragraph that loosely goes something like

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Mushrooms are objectively the funniest thing on gods green earth like this one destroys your liver and kidneys and kills you this one makes a fine cooking oil this one introduces you to the machine elves this one grows in your shower and slowly destroys your lungs this one is delicious in a stir fry. Who else has the range

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there's a stage in sandwich consumption where it's falling to pieces & you're desperately cupping it in your hands & it's like this poor wounded animal that is covered in mustard & wants to die

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does the 69 button have a name or are we all calling it the 69 button.

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“that’s sounds like a you problem” is literally one of the funniest ways to respond to criticism

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Wild to look back at the Hunger Games trilogy now and know that at any given moment there's like a 70% chance that Haymitch is reciting "The Raven" in his head.

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sunrise on the reaping is just this onion headline over and over again:

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i know right?? i was 13 and it feels like just yesterday 🥲🥲

can’t believe it’s been ten years since stitchers premiered, where’s my bitter n twisted stitchers nation at 💔💔💔

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remember when we all found out that he collected cas’ ashes by himself and spread them in a meadow with a windmill and blackberry bushes by himself. and then hugged him and held his face and said “welcome home” in an alley in the middle of nowhere. all while the market research was occurring. that was such a crazy time.