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what jaskier imagines it looks like when he says he’s the damsel in distress [ID under cut]

[ID: fully rendered digital drawing of Jaskier and Geralt from witcher netflix. Geralt has his right arm wrapped around Jaskier’s shoulders and pulls him in for a dramatic kiss. Geralt is wearing all black, and he is holding a bloody silver sword in his left hand. He is covered in blood. Jaskier is wearing his red coat, holding Geralt by the back of his neck. They’re standing in the middle of the forest, surrounded by fog, and glowing red eyes peek out from behind the fog. ID end.]

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Things my sister said to me that i need to talk to my therapist about.

"I'm doing this because I love you"

"You can't ignore people you don't like"

"You can't tell people to fuck off, especially if they are family"

Ignoring doesn't work, tell to fuck off doesn't work, explaining what bothers me doesn't work.

(I had planned to go to two places on Monday to see how to apply [lavender fields and the garden center] but without a car I needed mom to drive and Mom was with Cheetah and Cheetah wanted to go to the park)

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This time on my sister:

(About a week ago)

Made cupcakes with the kids and made homemade buttercream frosting (a frosting recipe I have used for a while). Kids had fun making and decorating the the cupcakes.

My sister told me that I should have chose a frosting recipe with less suger and butter.....

ITS FUCKING **BUTTERCREAM FROSTING** THE TWO MOST IMPROTANT INGREDIANTS ARE CONFECTIONER SUGAR AND BUTTER.

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I'm normally OK with getting new animals if they come with the supplies to take care of them. My sister let the kids buy a goldfish. A fucking goldfish.

(Note: my sister doesn't believe in NB or Fluid people so she doesn't know and her kids call me Aunt)

Auntie has a 20 gallon tank. No it can't go in the tank with Auntie's other fish because it will eat or poison (by its poop) the other fish. My plants in the tank will be eaten and I'll have to clean the tank at least once one month probably every week when I built the tank to be clean every three months.

I'm pissed you decided to let the kids get a pet that Auntie is now going to have to care for since you don't live in this country!!!!

This is what I sent to my friends last week. After that my sister bought a fish thank and supplies needed to after I told her the fish would died in about 6 months when it should live for 20ish years repeatedly in frount of her child that she got it for and that Auntie would not care for it if she didn't have the right supplies.

Then she says that she did it b/c I was having a melt down. (I said Auntie is not caring for it and walked out of the house after they but it in a bowl to cool down) No you didn't want to deal with your child having the knowledge that ill care of it would only have it live for about 6month when it can live for 20+ years and your child seeing you make the choice that would only have it live for 6 month or starve b/c I wasn't going to care for it.



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Relizing you can't sleep because you don't feel safe in your own home is fun.

My sisters visit is wrecking me

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Me trying to tell my sister that the neighbours don't feel comfortable with her kids stripping in front of them and their kids to change clothes. (Her kids are 5&6 the neighbours' 6 kids are ages 3-8)

But who am I to tell my sister that her kids aren't babies anymore and should be changing clothes in their bedroom or bathroom.

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Reminder: toxic relationships might be fun to read about but they suck in real life.

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Sister's kids broke the knob to the shower and now it wont turn off. "I has been like that since I got here" no it fucking hasn't

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So I cant shovel in the back yard in fear of braking the sprinkler system but my sister can stake a massive blow up slip'n'slide. Thats nice to know.

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I was prepraird for a small amount of boundaries to be trampled. I was prepped for some of my efforts in making the house look good go unnoticed. But having all boundaries trampled. Having to say 'no' repeatedly and have it ignored each time. Then be called rude for getting snippier and snippier each time I say no and it is ignored.

Of fucking corse I'm going to be mean. Of fucking corse I'm going to ignore you b/c I don't want to be mean and your kids don't need to see that.

I sent one whole week cleaning the house. I spent months trying to get rid of items we don't need but being told I can't. I spent months of trial and error organising items so they could be found efficiently for an neurodivergent family (where if we don't see it, it doesn't exist).

Oh the house is not clean. It's fine your sister can get rid of that stuff. It's ok you can move it back once she is gone.

FUCK YOU

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Sister wants to talk about mental health with me. When she is the cause of all the current issues. Then gets pissy when i say it is none of her business.

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"I don't leave my babies with people" says my sister about me suggesting to leave her kids with our mom and me so she can see her friends and the kids don't have to travel b/c their sick.

Please note: She was telling us yesterday how she left her kid with their other set of grandparents for a week as she went galavanting off in Ireland for a week. (Yes the kids where sick then too)

You can tell us you don't trust us with your kids it's fine. That lets us improve.

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This time on my sister:

Her eldest (6yo, lets call them Lion) has walking pneumonia and she wants them to go for a bike ride with their cousins in the scorching sun on a 95 degree day.

I'm also getting trouble for losing the training wheels on the youngest's (5yo, lets call them  Cheetah) bike, even though I'm not the one who took them off. Sister did last time she was here. I took the training wheels off Lion's bike when I called and asked if they still had training wheels be for sister's family came to visit.

All training wheels I could find when reoginizing the garage made their way back to a single basket.

But Sister made me look through the garage five times already for them. (she didn't believe me when I said I checked the first three times.)

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Sucks to find out the water bill wasn't paid resulting in the water being shut off after taking a morning poo.