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HOW TO SPOT TRAUMAS AND FEARS IN A BIRTH CHART pt.1 🦇☕️

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Pay attention to the 8th HOUSE:

The 8th house is all about fears, taboo, the dark side of the human mind and what’s hidden. It’s connected with Scorpio and associated with Pluto, the planet of regeneration and rebirth, it suggests that we’re all able to find the key for heal our traumas and win over our fears.

First, look at the sign on the cousp on the 8th house, here some examples (maybe I’ll explain in another post and in a more detailed way what does the sign on the 8th house cousp mean):

Aries 8th house: fears related to taking action, defining your individuality, competition, doing something exclusively for yourself, expressing your anger, impulsive behaviors.

Taurus 8th house: fears related to your own stability, expressing yourself in a creative way, expressing the sensual side of your personality.

Gemini 8th house: fears related to communication, expressing your opinion, being chatty, being superficial, not feeling smart enough.

Cancer 8th house: fears related to your roots, your family, expressing your emotions, being vulnerable.

Leo 8th house: fears related to self-expression in general, standing up for yourself, being extra, taking leadership, vanity, feeling confident, expressing yourself through art.

Virgo 8th house: fears related to rejection, being criticized, responsibility, respecting high standards, not feeling smart enough, being imperfect.

Libra 8th house: fears related to cooperation, relationships, connecting with other people, love, loosing your balance.

Scorpio 8th house: fears related to secrets, not being able to know what’s happening around and inside of yourself, jealousy, expressing your sexuality, open up, intimacy.

Sagittarius 8th house: fear of missing something, not living your life at the fullest, being trapped, not being able to experiment and have the opportunity to learn.

Capricorn in 8th house: fears related to taking responsibility, not working/trying hard enough, showing your emotions, open up.

Aquarius in 8th house: fears related to showing your authentic side to the world, feeling weird, not being able to “fit in”, being different, loneliness.

Pisces in 8th house: fears related to chaotic situations, deep emotions, love, explore your dreams, explore your spiritual side, losing yourself.

Look at the position of Pluto in the birth chart:

The position of Pluto in a specific house of your birth chart suggests how you can heal your traumas. Pluto can be a tricky planet, it’s connected to karmic lessons and can be challenging keeping on repeat the same lessons again and again until you change the game in a definitive way.

Pluto in 1th house: define your identity, find your authentic self and don’t be afraid to express who you truly are, open up with others, accept unconditionally your unique way to independence is the key.

Pluto in 2th house: find your comfort zone, guarantee yourself a stable lifestyle, develop resilience and try to set reachable goals for yourself, try to express yourself through art.

Pluto in 3th house: speak your mind, connect with people around you, share your ideas, relationships are important for your healing journey, write down your emotions, heal the relationships with your siblings.

Pluto in 4th house: understand and nurture your emotions, heal the relationship with your family, understand your roots and practice unconditional love, heal your inner child, feel a sense of belonging with your community.

Pluto in 5th house: heal your relationship with your inner child or surround yourself with children, give yourself the opportunity to “act like a kid” again, work on being spontaneous and less shy, express yourself through art and theater.

Pluto in 6th house: follow a healthy lifestyle, eat well and drink more water, do gym, work on your goals and dedicate your energy to a project or volunteering, connect with animals.

Pluto in 7th house: establish healthy relationships with others, define healthy boundaries with others, open up, establish 50-50 relationships based on mutual respect and cooperation.

Pluto in the 8th house: establish a healthy approach towards sexuality, explore your spiritual side and activate yourself in a direct way towards your fears, be honest and don’t fear your deepest thoughts.

Pluto in the 9 th house: expand your horizons through travel and education, learn is the key for healing your trauma, connect with new realities, explore your spiritual and philosophical side.

Pluto in the 10th house: find your goals and work hard to achieve them, you can heal your wounds through a carrier that makes you feel happy and aligned with your highest goals, you need a lot of structure and to work on your approach to responsibility.

Pluto in the 11th house: you need to find a community and work with people that shares your same view of life, find a place where you can feel a sense of belonging and community, don’t isolate yourself and open up with others, you can heal your wounds through friendships.

Pluto in the 12th house: you need to explore with your spiritual side, work on your internal dialog, try to sleep well, analyze your dreams and trust your intuition, your spiritual gift will guide you through the healing process.

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Friendship based ask here!🙆🏻‍♀️ From your own experience/observations: what aspects (synastry only) have you commonly seen in long term platonic bonds, and which houses occupied in Composite? have a good dayyy 🧚🏻‍♀️

Hello! Thank you, hope you have a great day as well! xx I've received a similar message before, talking about aspects in Synastry and Composite I've seen in long lasting relationships, so let me just combine this to one and say:

Which aspects/overlays in Synastry in Composite have I witnissed in long term connections (platonic and romantic)? REMINDER: if your connection doesn't have these exact aspects it doesn't mean it's doomed, these are purely based on personal observation!

don't copy my work please!

Synastry:

✧ Ascendant conjunct Moon: great intuition over each others feelings. The Ascendant person can feel like reading the Moon person's mind and Moon feels at home and safe around the Ascendant person. The Moon person should pay attention not to overwhelm the Ascendant person though. The Moon person feels free and safe to vent though, so communication regarding feelings is eased, which is a big plus! ✧ Ascendant conjunct Venus: being together feels just great and is a lot of fun. Here, these two can find naturally to each other, being out together feels really good and the other person mostly acts really appropriate/to your likings. The other person is your 'type' and can give you what you need to feel (superficially) happy in a connection. Can be an aspect that is more shallow if the Venus person is too focused on looks and being presentable.

✧ Ascendant conjunct Sun: Usually a very friendly connection, the Sun person is like the Ascendant but on steroids and the familarity it creates will most likely bear the benfit for a rather harmonious time together. Where the Ascendant person goes and what they desire and need in life is something the Sun person identifies, but the Sun person can potentially be overbearing at times, because their needs and personality needs room and thus takes no consideration regarding the Ascendant persons feelings. Can be overbearing at worst. ✧ Sun in the 7th/conjunct Descendant (bonus if it's vice versa): The Sun person will help you cultivate what might feel hard for the Descendant/7th house person to integrate in their life on their own. The Sun person here acts like an archetype for the Descendant/7th house person that will be the model they can orientate themself on and gives them direct inspiration and examples. Can promise a lot of growth for both parties.

✧ North Node conjunct Ascendant/MC: The Ascendant person introduces the North Node person to the new opportunities and situations in life they desperately need in order to thrive for their Lunar Node's position. Both MC and Ascendant person can become the perfect example/ orientation point for the Lunar Node person. The Lunar Node person at best wants to stick with them for a long(er) time. Things can get pretty hasty from time to time as the NN person can be quiet impulsive and demanding when it comes to their wishes/desires which can feel overwhelming for the angle person.

✧ Sun opposite Moon: They can see the other as a complementary model to their emotional or mental state. Can really create a good balance between the different I's - the ego/personality based on (Sun) and the emotional one (Moon). Works like a pendulum, but only if one doesn't get too egocentric (especially Sun, but this also depend which element and modality the Moon is in, sometimes the Moon fights back but often time it can retreat quickly).

✧ Moon opposite/square Moon: The opposition is far easier to balance out and I witnessed in most cases very harmonious from the beginning! Just very complementary, sometimes there is nagging or a bit of frustration but generally speaking they value each other a lot and see the other as a safe haven (especially fixed and mutuable signs find their oppositional moon pairs often!). The square is a bit tougher, but even this can work, especially if it's WaterxFire, EarthxAir. Also fixed signs and mutable signs in a square have an easier time getting along and finding common ground than I witnessed with cardinal moons. So the square can create exciting tension, especially in romantic and/or sexual relationships does this square work like a magnet, but it needs lots of patience and understanding. Communication is key, but it can create really strong bonds because you thoroughly had to get to know the other and probbaly lots of talking was required.

✧ Moon conjunct Venus: a really really sweet aspect to have, this can make each other so extremely devoted to create a harmonious connections that feels like laying in a freshly made bed. Very cozy and both focus to make the other feel emotionally safe, comforted and loved by being emotionally avaible/accasible or spending quality time/doing acts of service. Of course a trine and sextile are equally favorable but I noticed the conjunction is especially strong here in long term connections.

✧ Venus opposite Mars: Creates a strong attraction between two people. Both feel intruiged by the other and most likely can have a soft spot for them. This can create the urge to show the other what they like and need in a connection, and as much as it is exciting, after a while both will realize that opposites require compromise as well, so occasionally it can feel like a bummer when the other doesn't get what to do to make you feel comfortable and loved, or tension/agression due to unspoken conflict stand between you. But generally speaking the attraction can be pretty strong and thus binds two people together.

✧ Mars conjunct Moon: aggressive love, that's all I can say here haha. Both love and care for each other furiously. This can evoke impatience and frustration if the other isn't physically or emotionally avaible, but both are very concerned in being together and kinda feel like they have a huge soft spot for the other. Mars becomes softer, Moon feels courted but also encouraged to be dominant in their emotions and demands if Mars is fair and equal.

✧ Vertex conjunct Venus: being together opens up new self realizations for the Vertex person and it most likely feels like the being with the Venus person is opening them to new ways of self discovery but also realizing what love (doesn't matter which kind here) and coming together can be the answer for many questions or the starting point for many journey regarding self realization. A conenction that might be hard to let go of, because being together opened so many doors and formed you on profound levels.

✧ Venus or/and Sun in the 12th: this is something I've witnessed surprisingly a lot of times in relationships especially. People tend to fall for those who have their Venus and/or Sun in their 12th house, especially if one (or both) planet makes a conjunction with the Ascendant still. I also noticed these were the long term connections that knew each other inside and out. Telepathic and an eerily strong bond was between them. This overlay requires a lot of trust from both people, because not all that is felt is manifested in real life or vice versa, so both got to trust their partner and their word. Requires really getting to know the other's character before letting the self completely fall in the connection.

✧ Moon in the 9th: I don't know who spread the rumor that 9th house overlays are bad or doomed, but this overlay is truly magical because you both will most likely keep expanding your emotional understanding for the other ans grow together. This overlay evokes a dynamic in a relationship that can work against stagnating emotionally in a connection. This person becomes your life partner and your souls roam this world together!

✧ 8th house/4th house overlays: especially if it's Moon, Sun, Venus or Mercury. I've talked a lot about the 8th house overlay on my blog before, but both of these overlays have in common that they create a deep emotional bond to another. Very intimate and can feel like an uncanny resemblance. Staying with each other through thick and thinn basically. 4th house and 8th house overlays can feel triggering at times, because they cna stir up old feelings and negative experiences, as well as childhood trauma (but profoundly when Sun, Moon and Saturn are involved).

✧ Mars in the 5th/7th: pushes your buttons the right way, usually indicates a lot of attraction from the Mars person towards the house person and the house person is just equally excited over the energy Mars provides. Usually in both cases the house person felt very tempted by the Mars person, but I believe this feelings is mutually. Again, creates a dynamic that in the 5th house case prevents both from 'boredom' and in the 7th house case motivates them to develope their assertivness more.

✧ Moon/Mars in the 2nd: very secure. Both feel that they self esteem is boosted by the other, also the connection strives on feeling good together. Spending leisuring time together, or something that makes them both feel good and desirable (even if it's anging around with greasy hair and feeling accepted in their naturalness, also very common, espcially with Moon in the 2nd). In romantic or/and sexual connections the Mars overlay can feel very sensual. Being together because it can be convenient/practical as well.

Composite:

✧ Grand Trine: I know it's not a placement but an aspect pattern, but those who have it in their composite chart usually 'bounce back' preatty quickly after a negative experience/time in their relationship. Works like a subconscious problem solver, possibly both don't even realize it at first.

✧ Moon in the 5th: So many moments will be spend together to feel joy and create meaningul memories together. Spoiling the other with being emotionally open and being unafraid of grand emotions. Really valuing the positive moments together, especially when it's after a negative experience/time. Not wanting to let the saprk that energizes them die. Can enhance romance in romantic connections.

✧ Personal planets in the 10th: motivational, both work towards a common goal together and most likely can pull themself together when the situation it requires and another placement that can two people 'bounce back' and refocus after a negative experience/time, but especially with Moon in the 10th both should pay attention not to forget to look inwards and harness their vulnerable feelings, taking a break to reconnect emotionally regardless of outer circumstances.

✧ Cancer/Leo Ascendant: these conenctions usually valued looking out for the other and taking care of their wellbeing. If one was sad, the ther was looked out for. Cancer rising did this by providing emotional safety and objectivity, Leo rising by reinforcement of positive feelings/self esteem of the other.

✧ Venus in the 3rd: Talking about feelings and needs! Love language becomes basically communication. Makes communication easier (if Venus isn't harshly aspected), but generally it keeps the 'flow' of a connection alive and both can overcome stagnant periods easier.

✧Sun in the 4th/conjunct IC: Feeling like home to each other and trying to provide a comfortable and secure space. The energy here can feel very protective, looking out for the other and being very sensitive to the other's change of emotions is common, as both strive to lay back in safety in the emotional spaces they share.

✧ Saturn in the 7th/8th: intimacy and how two people come together, work together, share their repsonsibilities of the connection and how much they can give to another without falling apart themself are focal points. This can really tie two people together. With the 8th house in Saturn both can be truly intimate and vulnerable in front of the other because they will need to let go of their overly controling and protective habits. In thr 7th house it's about equally distributed responsibility and work in the relationship. Being a team. Both will have their irresponsible tendencies or their egocentric/loner tendencies.

✧ NN conjunct/close to AC/MC: as mucch as the North Node can indicate instability, this can contribute to ongoing progress in a connection. Striving for something better and greater the both can reach. Feeling like there is more to the story, like this connection has a clear direction or special purpose to follow.

✧ Jupiter in the 7th/conjunct the DC: an expansive relationship, feeling like this connection only provides you with more possibilities to broaden your horizons, both don't feel caged in, and thus the freedom this placement provides can some feel insecure, but it's only to look over the garden wall and tell the other about the pretty things they saw, so they can continue their journey together. Both will come together to check in on the other, because being together doesn't exclude personal growth while being emotionally connected.

✧ Saturn aspects: I think without diminishing the negative effect and pressure Saturn provides, Saturn contact in a chart are normal and thus part of the journey. Saturn is known to work like glue, and I think the effect here can make a connection sacred, because both people trust the other, find them reliable and responsible in regard of their feelings and the tasks within the connection. Though 'failing' Saturn's lesson is okay too and very normal. It's also just a aprt of the journey, please don't forget that.

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opia-2310 · 4 years ago

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You are the knife I turn inside myself; that is love.

I confuse instinct for desire — isn’t bite also touch?

because you want to die for love, you always have

Georges Bataille, Guilty / The Lovers, Akseli Gallen / Richard Siken, Wishbone / Shakespeare, Pericles / scene from Eiichi Yamamoto’s Belladonna of Sadness (1973) / Franz Kafka, Letters to Milena / Safet Zec, 1943 | Allegories of Fate / Marina Tsvetaeva, from Poem of the End: V / Carmen. Ill. Alastair. / Emily Brontë, from, “Wuthering Heights,” / Carmen. Ill. Alastair. / Natalie Diaz, Postcolonial Love Poem / Richard Siken

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Physical Appearance in the Natal Chart

Aries Sun/Moon/Rising/Chart Ruler, Mars in 1st, Mars Dominant, Mars conjunct Ascendant:

Thick hair, may have reddish undertones.

Could have a bigger head, sort of as if it's too big for their body. Bony or prominent cheekbones, medium/average height.

Face has red undertones or they may blush a lot.

Face tends to be longer, sort of like a horse.

Eyes are piercing and hooded. Usually almond shape and/or down-turned.

Prominent nose. I've noticed the tip of the nose often points downwards or straight ahead. Prominent chin, it may be a bit pointy, long.

They typically have broad shoulders with a more masculine, healthy, athletic shape to their body. Possibly a bit bony.

They have a magnetic and intense aura. Could be seen as intimidating, hard, cold.

Taurus Sun/Moon/Rising/Chart Ruler, Venus in 1st, Venus Dominant, Venus conjunct Ascendant:

Could have a round, square, or combination face type. Face is quite symmetrical, typically wide.

Hooded, downturned, small eyes.

Defined cheekbones, often bony and cheeks may be chubby.

Often has thick, dark hair.

Taurus rules the neck so they may have a long, thick, distinct neck. It could be compared to that of a swan, elegant, beautiful. Their neck goes perfectly with the rest of their body.

Body is generally thick or more muscular, distinguished bones and symmetrical proportions. Could be big-boned, chubby, or fat but still has the possibility of being thin or even underweight. Broad shoulders

People often find them and their aura attractive regardless of physical appearance. These native's are magnetic and people are attracted to them even if they aren't conventionally attractive however they often are.

Gemini Sun/Moon/Rising/Chart Ruler, Mercury in 1st, Mercury Dominant, Mercury conjunct Ascendant:

Has a youthful aura to them regardless of age, often appearing younger than they actually are.

Square/heart shaped face, prominent cheekbones and sharp jawline, chin could be cleft. Face could be more chiseled or strong and a little exaggerated, forehead may also be slightly bigger or hairline could be higher placed.

Small eyes with a youthful glow to them.

Straight, long, and narrow nose.

Average/tall in height and slim. Usually light in complexion.

Prominent hands. Their hands can be dainty, they could have longer fingers, maybe they have thick fingers. There is always something noticeable about their hands as Gemini rules over the hands.

Cancer Sun/Moon/Rising/Chart Ruler, Moon in 1st, Moon Dominant, Moon conjunct Ascendant:

Typically has a round face, can have chubby cheeks. Even if the face is longer there is still this softness and their cheeks can make their face appear rounder. The way their features are proportioned goes along so well with the rest of their being. I've personally observed they tend to have incredibly symmetrical faces, if not their face is still well proportioned.

Almond shape, beady, round, ethereal eyes, sort of shaped like a bean regardless of the size. Eyes may be watery or the native looks as if they've been crying, they look as if somehow their emotions are touching everything they look at.

Lips appear to be especially soft and well proportioned.

Face is often round however the chin can be more heart shaped. Chin is prominent, strong, sometimes bony, but the way it melts into the face is very smooth and soft

If the native is AFAB their chest is usually either above average in size or below average. Regardless of AGAB they are more prone to weight gain.

Leo Sun/Moon/Rising/Chart Ruler, Sun in 1st, Sun Dominant, Sun conjunct Ascendant:

Thick and beautiful hair, the native may put a lot of effort into their hair or it's just naturally in good shape. CAN have a receding hairline or big forehead, maybe even both.

Square or round face shape, especially with Cancer/Moon influence. Face can have the same shape as a cat or lion (Cliché ik but it's true 💀)

Eyes are round, wide set, often very down-turned or very up-turned. Eyes can be feline/cat-like.

Lips are either plump or very thin. Leo/Sun energy elevates one's traits, so their physical features can be very exaggerated.

Very big energy, their presence is felt. Can be seen as intimidating or someone who knows what they're doing.

Virgo Sun/Moon/Rising/Chart Ruler, Mercury in 1st, Mercury Dominant, Mercury conjunct Ascendant:

Oval or diamond shaped face, jaw is often sharp and/or chiseled. Almond shaped eyes that are sometimes wide-set.

Nose is kind of generic, usually long, not too distinct.

Typically shorter in height and slender.

Radiates this sort of angel vibe, which could also manifest in the native's physical appearance. Very ethereal, angelic.

Modest in style unless rest of chart indicates otherwise.

Very youthful, could appear younger than actual age.

Libra Sun/Moon/Rising/Chart Ruler, Venus in 1st, Venus Dominant, Venus conjunct Ascendant:

Symmetrical, long face.. Sort of like a horse. Large, prominent cheekbones.

Almond, protruding eyes. Either noticeably close-set or noticeably wide-set.

Nose with a narrow nose-bridge that gets bulbous or wide around the tip.

Lips are wide and heart shaped.

People are often attracted to their aura. These native's are magnetic and people are attracted to them even if they aren't necessarily attracted to their physical features.

Scorpio Sun/Moon/Rising/Chart Ruler, Mars/Pluto in 1st, Mars/Pluto Dominant, Mars/Pluto conjunct Ascendant:

Typically pale regardless of race, sharp features.

Intense gaze, often times making intense and long eye-contact. A Scorpio is easily recognized for their eyes and their stare, they look as if they're staring through your soul. Eyebrows are distinct, could be arched, significantly thick, significantly thin, or have this sort of angry/serious look to them.

Distinct nose, similar to Libra. Straight nose bridge that's bulbous/wide around the tip, I've noticed the entire nose can be bulbous as well. There may also be a bump at the middle of their nose.

Sharp jawline and square face, distinguished cheekbones.

Lips are plump even if on the thinner side.

Powerful aura and very big energy, the definition of distinguished. You just,,, notice them.

Sagittarius Sun/Moon/Rising/Chart Ruler, Jupiter in 1st, Jupiter Dominant, Jupiter conjunct Ascendant:

Usually tall and/or big, athletic physique, often thick. AFAB Sagittarius can be curvy or have a large behind area.

Face is usually either round or really long. Teeth are distinct and smile is big, could have "horse teeth".

Eyes are bright and filled with wisdom. Horizontally wide, vertically they can be wide or small. Eyebrows are often straight and upturned until it hits a sharp arch where the end then goes back down to the start.

Nose can be of any shape however I've often noticed they start off small and get wider as it reaches the tip, with a bump at the middle of their nose which is sometimes hooked or crooked.

Capricorn Sun/Moon/Rising/Chart Ruler, Saturn in 1st, Saturn Dominant, Saturn conjunct Ascendant:

Square face, distinct and high cheekbones

Bone structure is strong.

Sharp, strong jawline and strong, symmetrical chin. Skin tends to be darker as well as their hair.

Long and narrow nose, nose is thin while the tip has this sort of arrow shape.

Mouth is average to wide and they have beautiful, well-shaped teeth.

Mature and serious aura, at times intimidating. They come across as reserved, ambitious, and sometimes cold.

Aquarius Sun/Moon/Rising/Chart Ruler, Saturn/Uranus in 1st, Saturn/Uranus Dominant, Saturn/Uranus conjunct Ascendant:

On the taller side, usually slim, lean.

Could have a large forehead, has dark, thick hair. AMAB Aquarius usually has a widows peak, AFAB too sometimes.

Eyes are similar to Scorpio as they both have an intense gaze, however Aquarius's gaze is intense due to how unique and rare it is. They typically have lighter, hooded eyes, or double eyelids. Eyes tend to have a slight down-turn.

Nose is long and blockly, sort of in a rectangle shape and the tip often protrudes.

Wide mouth and thinner lips, could have a significantly flat philtrum.

Can look eccentric or "rare". Their appearance is often eye-catching and their beauty if of an uncommon type.

Pisces Sun/Moon/Rising/Chart Ruler, Jupiter/Neptune in 1st, Jupiter/Neptune Dominant, Jupiter/Neptune conjunct Ascendant:

Short. Could have pretty feet or just noticeable feet, something is different about them.

Face is often round and ethereal. Cheeks are often chubby, looks somewhat like a fish.

Eyes are big, light, and beautiful, could be watery or look as if they've been crying. Eyes are very dreamy as well as the rest of their appearance and aura.

Eyes can also be hooded, Pisces often have double-eyelids as well.

I've personally noticed their nose shape varies widely, it's not too distinct.

Lips are plump and fish-like and they have an innocent, friendly smile.

These native's have a dreamy, surreal, and ethereal aura.. As if they come from another planet.

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