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I'm making my own post about an issue that's poisoning our community. Because I'm very triggered and concerned.

⚠️ CW for nsfw, fetish, kink, abelism, etc. ⚠️

Before you read. I'm making this so fucking clear. I am a minor, my partner is a minor, and I am a TEENAGER. I use agere to cope with my bpd, ptsd from prior abuse, and my hypersexual intrusive thoughts. My work is entirely sfw, and if you think anything different of it, you're the problem.

There's been a recent uproar with agere blocklist accounts coming after anyone and everyone if they do not fit their idea of sfw.

Padded regressor artists, writers, etc, are being accused of being predatory, abdl, and nsfw.

Not only is this disgusting on the call-out posters part, because padded agere is NOT nsfw, kink, or anything of the sort. But this is also abelist for people and regressors who need diapers to live their lives, and are being accused of fetish when they're literally using an aid.

To continue, this nonsensical calling out without evidence is damaging to people's reputations, mental health, etc. Especially when you're not properly tagging them, and they don't even know.

It is presumably mainly minors running these accounts. As to why they're ran so terribly and with so little consideration to touchy subjects.

Kink and fetish are their own communities. They deserve to be respected. Whether you support or understand them. If you demand respect as an agere account, then it has to be two ways. Kink and fetish have been a part of the lgbtq community since the beginning, and they will always exist, whether you like it or not. That doesn't mean you have to put up with weirdos interacting with your stuff, but you can not come after existing accounts simply because they're nsfw. News flash, tumblr is a mature site. 17+ (if I remember right), so there's gonna be adults being adults.

So let me make this clear. Consenting people who participate in kink, fetish, etc, are not predators. Littles / caregivers who have a sex life are not predators. Artists / writers who create works based on padded regression are not predators. Littles / caregivers who experience sexual intrusive thoughts and talk about them are not nsfw, and padded regressors and people who wear diapers are not predators.

I will not speak on this subject further because of how triggering it is for me. I knew someone who policed communities and accused them of things. It was harmful, toxic, and ruined a lot of people's reputations for no reason. We no longer talk, obviously.

So, to reiterate, my account is SAFE. FOR. WORK. I am a MINOR. my partner/caregiver is a MINOR. if you interpret anything I do as kink/nsfw/fetish, you are the issue. I cope MY way, and do MY own work MY way. I make my content to support people who dont feel supported in their own community. Who feel excluded because of their mental health, thoughts, interests, etc. If that's so much as a reason to accuse someone of being a predator and ruining their reputation, then you are a bad person. Period.

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contemplating creating a vent/trauma regression playlist if anyone is interested… it’d be a mix of age regression and pet regression fyi!! if you have any song recommendations, please feel free to share!

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Regressuary Fic #4

@regressuary

Tags: @cryingatwindermerepeaks

Also a gift to ducky for nailing her interview and for her help!!! @aggies-little-duck

@helloomimi @kawaiipeacemusic

Bingo: canon compliant

TW: None as far as I know

Word Count: 723 words

General Info: Pitch Perfect, cgs Aubrey and Chloe & little Beca

The Bellas had been rehearsing for almost three hours and even Aubrey was realizing she had been pushing them too far. She kept looking over at Beca waiting patiently for the girl to slip. She knew  Beca needed to if she wasn’t close already. She was beating herself up for doing this grueling of a practice when Beca had already had a bad week.  Chloe had packed the little bag for her before practice started while Aubrey had distracted Beca. If big Beca ever thought she and Chloe considered she was little when she was ‘big’ a tantrum would be thrown.

 “Break Bellas!” Aubrey called and quickly walked over to Beca who was clearly struggling with her regression. Her hands balled into fists at her sides and her eyes a little fuzzy “poor baby” Aubrey cooed and putting a hand on her back walked her over to Chloe. Chloe was sitting on one of the bleachers with the little bag on her lap. Beca wordlessly clambered onto Aubrey’s lap the moment she sat down. “Hmm quiet day baby girl?” Chloe questioned and Beca nodded burying her face into Aubrey. 

Beca tended to have ‘quiet time’ after long practices especially when she had been fighting off her headspace. So it came to no surprise that her face was currently buried into Aubrey as she plays   with her hair. Chloe found a blanket and wrapped Beca in it before kissing her forehead. “So practice is over hmm?” Chloe said giving Aubrey an amused glance and Aubrey nodded “of course we’ve got a baby on our hands” she coos holding becas hands away from her hair playfully.

Beca pouted up at Aubrey and she melted quickly letting go and stroking her hair “pushover” Chloe teased “oh like you’re much better” Aubrey retorted. “Should we head back to the house?” She asked and Chloe nodded slowly “let’s get her out to the car” she murmurs. “Hey love” Beca looked up with wide eyes “time to go can you walk and hold mommy and I’s hands?” Chloe suggested and Beca huffed but nodded. 

Aubrey set her down quickly unwrapping her from the blanket so that she wouldn’t trip while Chloe grabbed the little bag and then the three of theirs shared bag. Aubrey and Chloe each took one of Becas hands and they walked back out to Aubrey’s car. “Joose” Beca mumbled and Chloe chuckled “when we get into the car love” she promised and Beca nodded. Chloe strapped a quiet Beca into the car and grabbed a music themed sippy cup and filling it with apple juice. 

“Juice addict” Aubrey teased and Beca stuck her tongue out at her but quickly began to sip from the sippy cup. She smiled at it and Chloe hopped into the front with Aubrey and Aubrey drove them back to the Beca house. “Mama” Beca said pointing to Chloe when they reached the driveway “mommy” she said pointing at Aubrey. Chloe did an over exaggerated gasp “aubs we’ve got a smart chatty cookie on our hands” Aubrey chuckled as she parked the car “of course we do” she murmured.

She hopped out and helped beca out who proudly displayed her now empty sippy cup. “Good job love” Aubrey said rubbing her back “movie time hmm?” Chloe suggested and Beca nodded “mhm mama!!” She was much more talkative after the juice. The three of them walked inside and Aubrey headed to the kitchen to make Beca a snack while Chloe and Beca set up a mini fort. Aubrey came in with carrots & dino nuggets with ketchup for Beca “here you go darling” she said and crouched to get into the fort. “What are we watching?” She questioned as Beca settled onto her lap.

“Mulan!!” Mulan was Becas favorite Disney movie and she knew all the words by heart. As she munched on the Dino nuggets Aubrey glanced over “no singing or talking with your mouth full remember?” She said warningly and Beca nodded. She swallowed “I know mommy” as she bungled into Aubrey Chloe crawled over and began to trace shapes on Becas back while she held Aubrey’s hand and the opening scene of Mulan played. Before long Beca was singing and humming along while Aubrey rested her head on Chloe’s shoulder while Chloe intermittently gave affection to both of her girls. 

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What I pack in my emergency chronic illness kit:

As someone with autism, EDS, gastro issues and possibly pots

Salt packs for my circulation 🐾

Electrolyte packets 🍼

Pain meds 🦴

Other meds 🩹

Heat patches 🦝

A hand warmer 🐾

Chapstick 🍼

Connector (in case my headphones die) 🦴

Bandaids 🩹

Hand creme 🦝

Mouth wash (it makes my mouth less gross after I throw up/regurgitate food) 🐾

Emergency medical info card 🍼

Nail clippers (for sensory issues) 🦴

Pads/period products 🩹

Communication cards 🦝

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being a phys + mentally disabled regressor.. putting stickers on pill containers and mobility aids.. carrying around "childrens" water bottles and cups, plushies and comfort items.. themed bandages and compression gear.. stimming and exaggerated behavior.. pointing out objects that relate to your interests.. phone straps and lanyards.. carrying around medical items in your bag.. decorating your bag with pins and patches of your interests, keychains of characters.. bubble-baths when showering isnt an option, bringing toys into bathtime.. reading bedtime stories, listening to child-friendly music to calm yourself.. eating interest-shaped safe foods.. struggling to play "normally" but playing in your own way - making up stories, lining up toys, counting objects, watching television, coloring.. being yourself in every possible way.

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tips to caring for littles who suffer from:

pmdd ( premenstrual dysphoric disorder )

and chronic illnesses

Req by @bumble-bxbe

• if your little suffers from pmdd, understand right away that they may be feeling a lot of painful things right now. Both mentally and physically.

• offer support, cuddles, affection, etc. During this time, your baby may need more reassurance than usual.

• try to reduce stress. Stress can make symptoms of pmdd worse, so stepping in and placing in rules to take time for meditation, breathing exercises, etc.

• encourage your baby to eat well. A healthy diet of grains, fruits, and vegetables plus lots of water can help ease pain.

• occasionally, people may be fine taking supplements, and vitamins can help with pmdd. Just make sure it is safe for you little to do so.

• try to keep track of your littles menstrual cycle, possibly using period tracker app (be careful if american due to current political affairs) or by writing down notes.

• if possible, using a heating pad or a warm water bottle on a cramp may help ease it or let it become somewhat more tolerable.

• during flair ups of chronic illness, focus on managing your littles rest. It helps skip time of the pain and let your body relax a little.

• if possible, move your little around yourself, and or encourage gentle and careful movements.

• try to distract them with activities, pacing them to not hurt themselves further and applying heat or cold packs if needed.

• keep a flare-up journal of your babys symptoms and identify triggers of such.

• if medicated, encourage your little one to take medications as required. And reward them for being brave.

• if your little is comfortable with it, you may pour them a hot bath, help them wash their body, and soak themselves. Include toys and bubbles!

• offer to massage an area of tension for your little, this may help with the pain.

• most important, just be there for them. This time is extremely hard for your little, so consider their feelings and be gentle. You're doing a great job.

I'm not a doctor, nor am I sure this is all super helpful. I tried my best to provide some good tips, and I hope the original requester is feeling better since their og ask. Take care everyone - Miss Piggie<3

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Spring!

Always feel free to request themed outfit boards like this

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scene kiddo regression board <3:･ﾟ✧:･ﾟ✧

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🌿"Masc" toddler/padded age regressor + "dog/puppy" pet regressor🌲

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🐾 - black-red-grey pet collars :3!

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🐾 - black-red-grey pet collars :3!

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Alright.

So! I wanna make friends. Specifically regressor ones.

If you also wanna make such friends, but are too shy to reach out, just give this post a Like and I’ll send you an ask saying hi. You don’t have to reblog, don’t have to comment, none of that. Just a Like.

Or, if you use a sideblog, you can leave a comment. Anything. Even just a single period. “.” That’s all it would take.

I get that it can be hard to reach out—really hard. But that doesn’t mean you deserve to not have friends.

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Shout out to autistic regressors who act "more" autistic when regressed. Shout out to autistic regressors who loose their verbal skills when regressed. Shout out to autistic regressors who stim more obviously or more out of control when regressed. Shout out to autistic regressors who cannot mask when regressed and come across as more socially awkward / cannot behave in a socially acceptable manner when regressed. Shout out to autistic regressors who have stronger sensory issues when regressed. Shout out to autistic regressors who act more stereotypically autistic when regressed.

Shout out to autistic regressors.

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i’m going to start deleting any asks that mention anything about diaper kinks / piss kinks, positive or negative. i don’t want to talk about it on this blog anymore.

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Kiddo who reassures you about your mobility aids

Kiddo who brings them to you happily

Kiddo who tells you okay when you have to take a break from playing with them

Kiddo who (with permission) puts stickers on them to make them pretty for you

“It’s okay to take a break, I can play by myself for now. You said it’s important to listen to our bodies and you’re listening to yours!”

“I can get them for you! Stay riiighhhtttt there and I’ll be back so fast promise!”

“Look! I know you were feeling bad today so I put my bestest stickers on them! These are my magic feel better stickers!”

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I want a cute agere bag so bad mine is broken :,)

I have been seeing som of me edits on pintrest + and insta pls don't repost my stuff to other plases without giving me credit