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Reblog to give big naturals to the person you reblogged this from

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That's a really pretty name, I like it!

we've been thinking lately about changing our system name, since Foxflower Shrine is a bit of a mouthful and not really safe to say around our parents. what do people think of the Lyra system (lee-ra or lie-ra, either is fine), from the name of the lyre/harp constellation? not locked into it yet but it's by far the top contender.

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Reblog this to place a small flower in the hair of prev, and that you're very proud of them

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My contribution to the burning bright zine

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The person I reblogged this from deserves to be happy

I tried to scroll past this. I really did

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Auditory processing issues

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Since I just saw a post on this and since I work in food service now:

Guys, being a regular and ordering the same thing every time you come in is absolutely fine.

Literally no one is going to be side-eyeing you. The fact of the matter is we have other stuff going on.

That’s not a put-down or anything. I try to make sure all the customers who interact with me feel like they’re our most important customer. However, we are busy and often people just sort of slip by unnoticed. 

When I do think about regulars that come into the store, it’s not usually: “Oh my God, I can’t believe they come to Panera every day. Yikes, so cringe.” It’s usually: “I wonder how John is doing. I hope his coffee was alright. I had to get it in a bit of a rush today because of all the to-go orders.”

And I really want to scream this from the rooftops because I had a guy just a couple of weeks ago say how embarrassed he felt for always ordering the same thing. That he felt ashamed of being so predictable. Meanwhile, I’m just glad he didn’t order something we don’t have (looking at you Panera wraps) and that he’s not yelling at me. 

You know what’s cringe? Getting snippy with Panera employees because we don’t have the thing you wanted. You know what’s cringe? Complaining about the prices to me when I can’t afford to eat at this restaurant without the associate’s discount. You know what’s cringe? Yelling at Panera employees because you’ve had a bad day and they made the mistake of working in retail. 

That’s cringe. Eating the same sandwich every day? Not a problem. If you get noticed for it at all, it will be: “Oh, thank God, I know what to do with this one and have a low probability of getting yelled at.” Most of the time though, it’ll be the barista trying to remember everything you ordered, double checking the receipt to make sure they got it right, and then handing you the order before moving on to the next one. Because, let’s face it, you’re the twenty-sixth person to order a bagel with plain cream cheese this shift and the orders start blurring together after about the fifth one.

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A recent post breached containment so I think it's time for some rent lowering:

Trans children should have the right to undergo the correct puberty at the same time as their peers.

Puberty blockers were only ever a compromise and should not be seen as the end goal of trans advocacy.

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Remember that mental illness is not a virus you can pinpoint under a microscope.

Every mental health diagnosis is made up by someone and then reinforced through research.

This doesn’t mean it’s bad to identify with a diagnosis or label.

Mental illness labels are not infallible because they were made by human beings with bias. The DSM has been criticized for decades. Psychology is infamous for being based off WEIRD populations and therefore not applicable worldwide.

(WEIRD means Western, Educated, Industrialized, Rich, Democratic)

The people who made the diagnosis you were given are not immune to racism, sexism, queerphobia, classism, or any personal bias or systemic issues.

It’s not bad to use a label or identify with a diagnosis.

But psychology is not infallible.

Signed a disabled guy with a psych degree.

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reblog to give prev uhhhh a scritch behind the earrr

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It's scary to be transgender in the world right now but if you're transgender I love you and we have to stick together and keep fighting and keep living and keep loving

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@staff our identities aren’t nsfw and we will not stand for them to be treated as such

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having a bad memory sucks but it's even worse when you have an inconstantly bad memory. first kiss? no clue. when i realised i was trans? i dunno, some time in highschool i think. drinking orange juice in my grandma's car when i was 6? crystal clear, baby.

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me impatiently to the little french cat boiling me in a stew: chat am I cooked