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I've tried to use frames from the show that i feel represent both the apparent reading of each arcana and also the twist one could give them when reversed or looking for the shadow of the image.

i used functional alt text to explain the internal logic of the imagery as well as describing the content.

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Yesterday I was with my friends near the place where the displaced people are. We were playing football. Night came, so I greeted them one by one, as if I was saying goodbye to them.

I went home, sat on Tumblr for a while, then suddenly fell asleep at 1:30 a.m. A house next to us, not 50 meters away, was bombed. It was my friends’ house, so I ran quickly, my tears falling, drop by drop. They took one out, so I looked at him and found that he was my new friend, whom I had only met two weeks ago. Then they took out his little sister, who was no more than 10 years old. My heart was beating so fast that it almost stopped. Then they took out the rest. There were about 10-12 dead people, and my mind has not stopped thinking until now Please I want to live

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eclipse: sometimes your own body casts a shadow that doesn't let you see the entirety of the sun.

IRVING!!!! YOU DON'T KNOW HOW LOVED YOUR INNIE WAS!!!! anyway.

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found family horror: the queer person who keeps projecting their unmet deepest childhood attachment needs onto you

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has anybody ever foud out what sex is for

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Man Im sorry for snapping at you , uts just that I only got 8 hours of sleep last night and I only had like, two pandcakes with strawberrys and whipped cream and like three premium sausags for breakfast

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Grief is so fucking wild. It sinks into your muscles, forces itself to be felt. It steals your appetite, floods your brain with cortisol. It makes you so, so tired.

If someone you know is grieving, telling them "just let me know what I can do" means nothing. They can't. They don't know. And the small things are too embarrassing to ask for.

Bring them a cheese platter. Pre-Cut fruit. Peanut butter pretzels. Protein shakes (like slimfast) Food that requires no prep and does not create dishes.

Do the dishes. Take out the trash. Sweep the floor. Vacuum the carpet. They won't ask you to do this, but it will help.

A bottle of acetaminophen honestly might help more than flowers. Grief really can cause muscle aches.

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a corpse and a necrophile walk into a bar,

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I’ve never had any interest in watching porn. My first boyfriend tried to get me to watch it with him but I found it extremely off putting and synthetic. I love reading erotica and sexy comics but mainstream porn is exclusively made with straight dudes in mind.

However, when I worked at the porn store I was required to have some passing familiarity with the titles we carried. We had an employee library for this purpose but I really dragged my heels on watching any of them until a coworker told me she did hers by having a Porn and Pizza night with friends.

I was so down for that idea. I called up several friends and told them the plan and we all sat down together to watch my first pick, Pirates II. The first Pirates movie was roughly in line with a Pirates of the Caribbean porn parody. Pirates II is to this day still one of the most expensive pornos ever produced. They lied about what they were using the replica ship for and promised not to have sex on it. They promptly then had sex all over it.

You might think it would be awkward to watch porn with your friends but we had a blast. Sex is already so close to absurdity at the best of times that with a hard cider in hand we all thought it was the height of hilarity.

The only issue was that I absolutely abhor come shots. Semen in general is just not my jam but in porn they delight in flinging it around onto faces to much distress on my part.

My friends took this as a personal challenge, to protect me from that visual they created a drinking game around telling me the exact moment to look away. Our apartment sounded like a bizarre sports match of shouting as climaxes neared in each scene.

“Not yet!” “Wait- now!”

“No, no, not yet, wait for it… wait for it- NOW! QUICK!”

We got a noise complaint afterward but it was a delightful night.

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"who said that" is a powerful spell that casts a defensive bubble around your most vulnerable thoughts

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that bit in Patricia Evan’s book where she talks about the Teddy fantasy and what projecting the role of comfort object onto other people (and especially women) actually achieves and does for the person doing it and then she zeroes in on the pain, confusion, and fear they genuinely and deeply feel the exact moment Teddy says a line it isn’t supposed to be able to say.

and there’s interesting sadisms at work there.

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"I'm not skilled at gardening and i don't have the time/energy to learn, but i really want a pretty garden, so i hired a gardener"

That makes a lot of sense, it's nice to experience that beauty!

"I love writing music, and I can play a few instruments, but my playing skills don't cover the breadth or depth of what I want my songs to sound like, and none of my usual partners were available for recording this month, so I hired someone who's good on sax and another musician who plays an upright bass to help me record my new stuff, and they added a lot of depth to the experience!"

Good call, when you really want the right sound right now it makes sense to bring in people who are available and talented!

"I'm a decent cook and my friends love the food i make, but sometimes I enjoy a really high-quality meal in a carefully curated atmosphere or i don't want to do dishes, so i go to a restaurant and pay a chef and cooks and waitstaff and dish washers to make me a fantastic meal in a nice setting without any of the chores."

Of course, we all love a good time without the usual work sometimes!

"I love music and I play the piano really well, but sometimes I want to hear it played by someone who's really dedicated their career to it, or who plays in a style I'm not experienced with, so I go to a concert and pay a musician for their music, or I buy their albums so I can listen to it at home."

Yes, getting to experience an expert in their craft is a real treat!

"I've been way too busy to take care of myself or my living space lately and it's been taking a toll on my mental health, so i hired someone to help me tidy up this week and then went to a salon to get spiffed up so I could feel better about myself, and i paid those professionals for their work and education and experience and skill."

Good on you, self care is so important!

"I'm not very experienced with sex and and would like someone else to show me what it can feel like, or I want to enjoy sex at a time when I don't have anyone available, or I enjoy sex and am pretty good at it but I want to experience it a dedicated atmosphere with someone who takes it seriously, or I want to see what all is possible when someone is really an expert at it and treats it like a set of skills they've spent a long time working to master, or sex makes me feel good and i could really use that good experience in my life right now, so I paid a sex worker to help me achieve that goal."

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If you think the last one is somehow fundamentally different from the others, that hiring a professional to provide a service that you want or need for any reason is suddenly immoral because it involves sex, you should probably reflect on why. Because really, at the end of the day, it's not.

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i think the reason "fiction affects reality" trips so many people up is because they think it means "engaging with media that depicts uncomfortable subjects will taint your soul" when really all it means is that "fiction is meant to reflect certain ideas of the world intentionally or not, and it's going affect your perception of it, if you don't go in with a healthy bit of skepticism"

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Gaza toddler needs vaccines

Ayla is living with chronic malnutrition, dehydration, and diarrhea due to the IOF's food blockade, leaving her immune system extremely compromised. The lOF's destruction of Gaza's waste management systems has also caused a surge in infectious diseases, and Ayla needs all the immune support she can get to avoid a lethal infection.

We still need to raise $100 for the first vaccine, and the second is $500, so we have set a new temporary goal of $600 usd. The second vaccine is in VERY SHORT SUPPLY and we need to raise the funds for it ASAP!! Please share widely and donate if you can!!

Current: $64,642 out of $65,159 usd (as of 24 August 2025)

Need to raise: $517 usd

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every week i have to beg you all to remember this.

AMMAR IS A DEATHLY ILL INFANT IN GAZA. HE NEEDS AN INJECTION EVERY WEEK.

IF WE DO NOT RAISE THE MONEY FOR THIS INJECTION, HE WILL DIE.

ammar has NEVER received consistent community support, and everyone who has been supporting him up until this time is tapped out.

NO ONE ELSE IS COMING TO SAVE HIM.

IF YOU DO NOTHING, HE WILL DIE.

DONATE.

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[ID: two tweets by tredlocity reading

i'm glad video games abandoned objective karma systems in favor of the much superior "your friends didn't like that' system

tired: stealing a sword from a dead man will add to your "evil" points

wired: stealing a sword from a dead man is neutral

inspired: stealing a sword from a dead man is frowned upon by the guy you're trying to fuck

the reblog is a tumblr reply by missymistake reading, "Objective moral stances are hard to pin down, but your buddy Craig sure as fuck didn't like that decision"

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a sound is still a sound around no one