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twitter finally recommending me good stuff

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people always use t4t as a romantic relationship thing but like. t4t platonicism. t4t best friends. t4t as in no one will ever understand me like you do and i'd do anything for you as a result of that. t4t as in i love you no matter what, you're my friend.

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transfem who doesn’t really know how to build up a wardrobe of girl clothes and is sorta operating on instinct and has accidentally wound up in a situation where every article of clothing she owns is purple.

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teacher said i was a delight in class so now I take estrogen

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YOU CAN BE A GUY EVEN IF NO ONE SEES YOU AS ONE

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tiktok teen lgbts would not survive in the 80s and 90s when lesbians called gay guys fags lovingly and gay guys would call us dykes lovingly

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worthy. Happy Pride 2025.

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do you still see the woman I am? can you?

plaster, burlap, steel, cotton rope. 2024.

Made by taking alginate lifecasting molds of my body and pouring liquid plaster into the molds and suspending the casts from a welded frame.

This was originally an exploration of my dysphoria, the physical aspect i feel in seeing my own body, but also the social aspect of dysphoria and being put into boxes by those that perceive us. After finishing it feels more like a celebration of my transness, the beauty in trans femininity, and a celebration of my body despite the persistence of dysphoria and shame from society. Thanks for viewing.

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I hate to be all "cis good" on main, but if it weren't for the cis queer women that welcomed me into womanhood idk where I would be

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happy pride moth

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"women are always like—"

"men are always like—"

shut up shut up shut up shut up shutupshutupshutupsHUT UP 🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄 gender essentialism-hating herd of cows running you over

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where?

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wanna make it clear that there is no mainstream culture pressure for cis people to be trans men/women however there IS a cultural pressure, both mainstream and subcultural, for nonbinary people to be binary. and you know what really fucking sucks? when you are starting to explore your gender as a nonbinary person and every single thing you do is scrutinized as proof of you either being a cis person going through a phase or a binary trans egg going through a phase.

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if you want to actually materially address child abuse, the single most important thing you can do to start is give children the legally enforceable right to leave any situation they no longer want to be in.

church, extracurriculars, summer camps, school classes, their biological family's houses. notably, these are the places that child abuse is enabled by the child's inability to just fucking leave if they need to. they can't walk out of church if their youth pastor touches them inappropriately; they'll get punished for leaving. if they walk out of their house because their dad hits them, the cops pick them up and give them right back to their dad.

children need the legal autonomy to leave abusive situations in order to even begin to usefully materially address child abuse.

original post by qweerhet because it's unrebloggable but very important

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its called the egg prime directive because just like the star trek prime directive it allows you stand by while people suffer, and even lets you pretend like you have the moral high ground because of your inaction

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i simply don't think nonbinary people should have to see having our gender/s respected and acknowledged as a luxury. i think it's frankly sickening that that's the state of things tbh.