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BDSM Links And Resources

I thought I would update the list of BDSM links and resources I posted a while ago, as some links were no longer working and I had several new ones to add, including a list of books. These should be particularly helpful to those who are new to BDSM and looking to explore D/s relationships, as the best way to go about that is to first read everything you can and then read even more! Not only will this allow you to educate yourself, help keep you safe and avoid any potential mistakes or regrets, but also the more you understand something, the less intimidating it will seem.

If you have anything to add, please don’t hesitate to let me know and I will update this list, in particular if there any books that a submissive might find helpful or informative, as most of the books I have read or included are intended for Dominants.

Note: For the sake of consistency and readability, I have used capitals throughout this document and have not used lower case when referring to submissives or slaves.

Websites:

Babygirls ‘n’ Daddy Doms: Website dedicated to littles, babygirls and Daddy Doms, with a lot of useful information on the subject.

Collarme: A free BDSM dating website and community, that is probably the most popular and a better option than the commercial alternatives.

DS Arts: Academy of DS Arts, fairly self explanatory.

Evil Monk: Ambrosio’s BDSM Website, featuring many useful articles.

Fetlife: An online BDSM community that I would highly recommend and which is perhaps best described as Facebook for the kinky, allowing users to create a profile, publish photos or writing and join interest groups where you can ask questions.

Kink Academy: An online resource with many educational and instructional videos on various aspects of BDSM, although users must pay a small fee to access all of the content.

Submissive Guide: As the name suggests, this is an online resource for submissives.

The Iron Gate: A general BDSM online resource, with many aticles, essays and even stories on the subject.

Dating and Relationships:

10 Principles For Healthy 24/7 D/s And M/s (Source: sexgeek.wordpress.com)

Difference of Dynamics in BDSM (Source: the-little-kitten.tumblr.com)

Finding Your Dominant (Source: asubmissivesjourney.com)

How To Find A Partner (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 3 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

So You Want Your Boyfriend To Dominate You (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate Her (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

The Unfortunate But Common Misconceptions About DD/lg Relationships (Source: a-lolitas-life.tumblr.com)

Play:

Consent Is Mandatory And Non-Negotiable (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

Food Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Rules and Tasks for Building Confidence (Source: themostdangerousplaything.tumblr.com)

Tools of Consent in BDSM (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Training in D/s - Why? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - How? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - Thoughts And Concerns (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Wax Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

Safety:

Basics Of Safe, Sane And Consensual Power Exchange (Source: Molly Devon / the-iron-gate.com)

Common Sense (Source: Sean R. Powell / the-iron-gate.com)

Emotional Safety (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Offline/Online BDSM Safety Rules (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Ouch Is Not A Safe Word: Safe Words, Limits, and Scene Protocol (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Rules For Meeting Strangers (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Safewords and Safesigns 101 (Source: kinkology.tumblr.com)

S.S.C. VS R.A.C.K. (Source: Justin Medlin / the-iron-gate.com)

Checklists, Communication and Negotiation:

BDSM Play Partner Check List (Source: Sovereign House / the-iron-gate.com)

BDSM Scene Negotiations (Source: daddyvinnie.tumblr.com)

Can I Get That In Writing: Basics of Negotiations (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Communication (Source: submissivesupportgroup.tumblr.com)

If I Ever See Another Checklist I Will Scream: An Extremely Thorough Play Checklist (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Negotiation Forms (Source: Jay Wiseman, SM 101: A Realistic Introduction / greenerypress.com)

What Are Negotiations Good For? (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare:

Aftercare for submissives (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Dominants (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Switches (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Emergency Self-Administered Aftercare (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Sub Drop (Source: David Williams / subshelpingsubs.tripod.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare (Source: desires-of-a-domimant-man.tumblr.com)

Dominance and Dominants:

A Dominant is NOT… (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dom (Source: Washington Sexuality University / the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dominant (Source: cherhatton.tumblr.com)

An Open Letter To A Novice Dom (Source: evilmonk.org)

Qualities of A Successful Dominant (Source: Polly Peachum / the-iron-gate.com)

Daddy Doms: They’re Not What You Think (Source: edenfantasys.com)

Domination for Nice Guys (Source: Franklin Veaux / the-iron-gate.com)

How To Spot A Non Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Learning To Be A Dom (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts - Part One: Dominants (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

The Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Daddy Dom? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

What Makes A Good Dominant (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

What Should A Dominant Be (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Submission and Submissives:

10 Considerations For Inexperienced Subs (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

A Submissive Bill of Rights (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Creed (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Ethics (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Introduction To Submission (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

Learning to Trust Your Instincts (Source: bewildbetruebekinkybeyou.tumblr.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts- Part 2: Submissives/Slaves (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Some Rules For The Submissive (Source: daddylookingforhisbaby.tumblr.com)

Submissive Owner’s Manual (Source: youmadememe.tumblr.com)

Ten Tips For The Novice, Heterosexual submissive Woman (Source: Jay Wiseman / the-iron-gate.com)

Warning Signs for Submissives (Source: RC Bauer / the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Babygirl? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

Books:

BDSM: The Naked Truth by Dr Charley Ferrer

Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Devil in the Details I: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - The Master, The Slave, The Power by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details II: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Mastery Refine: The Issues, The Skills by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details III: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Sustainable Structure and Traning by LT Morrison

Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame and Jon Jacobs

Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships by Dan and Dawn Williams

Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Solutions 402, Living in Harmony by Robert Rubel

Protocols: A Variety of Views by Robert Rubel

Real Service by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Phillp Miller and Molly Devon

SM101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman

The Control Book by Peter Masters

The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

This Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters

Where I Am Led: A Service Exploration Workbook by Christina Parker

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Patreon prompt: Harry Potter. Desperate to get a stripper for Fleur’s bachelorette party, Hermione decides to confund Harry. giving him a lust potion to boot. Bad idea! Harry’s magic make him irresistible to the would be bride, and she strips him personally, revealing his giant cock. The other witches watch stunned as Harry and Fleur fuck like animals in front of them.

In theory, having Harry as the stripper for Fleur’s bachelorette party wasn’t a bad idea. There was a pretty dubious sense a confounding charm and feeding him a lust potion may have been pretty bad, but Hermione felt like it was the only way to make Harry want to do it, and she was willing to play dirty for the sake of making Fleur’s party into something memorable, and maybe for getting a chance to peek at the goods herself when he performed. Problem was, Hermione’s magic was too good, and when he came out to perform he had a sense of raw animal magnetism to him, a power that left him doing things to the girls in attendance, and none more powerfully than Fleur, whose Veela blood was extra sensitive to the primal want and frustration that his presence began to induce.

Fleur stripped Harry down herself, almost tearing his clothes off of him, and when his massive, throbbing cock was exposed, rock hard and aching, she didn’t even hesitate. She threw herself up into his powerful arms as he pulled her down onto his cock and gave her a hard, powerful standing fuck right there, his lips locking with the bride to be’s as they pounded away without hesitation, moans rising up out of control as in plain view of friends and even family, Fleur lost herself to the excitement of spending her bachelorette party cheating on her fiance with Harry Potter. She didn’t even feel bad about it, even exclaiming, “My fiance is not half the man you are, Harry!” as she bounced on his big dick.

The sight was absolutely indecent and insane, but there was nothing the women could do to look away. They were captivated by what they saw, drawn in by the primal rumblings of the magic Hermione had used on him, and their eyes remained firmly on him, the lingering outrage beneath the surface barely even finding purchase as they simply stared on, wishing to be in that same position, frustrated by the feelings they felt but so turned on that the idea Fleur was wrong for jumping onto Harry’s dick and betraying Bill didn’t even really occur to them. They were too busy struggling to keep their own thoughts and actions chaste to judge.

It all boiled over in the most satisfying of ways when Fleur came, screaming, “Cum in me, Harry!” as she threw her head back in pure ecstasy, shameless about giving herself up to the pleasure. She came hard and loud, growing even louder as Harry pumped her full of cum and her body burned up in heated bliss. She couldn’t get enough of it, and seemingly neither could Harry, who didn’t set her down after he pumped a load in her pussy, but shoved her down onto her hands and knees on the floor, claiming her spent twat again and immediately getting right back to work at pounding her, to her ravenous and vocal satisfaction.

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Patreon prompt: Harry Potter - Sequel to Lavender’s Sex Shop. Hermione Weasley can’t believe the new Harry Potter dildo is real. Lavender calls in her new business partner to prove to Hermione that it is real and spectacular —  Harry shows Hermione his dick fits (snugly) in her pussy, mouth, and ass. 

Hermione had decided that there was just no way that the Harry Potter dildo was real. It was too big, too absurd, and the recent changes to make it even bigger had her rolling her eyes at the mere thought of it, refusing to partake in the sinful secret sensation sweeping the witches of the nation. Maybe she was just hoping it wasn’t true, because marrying Ron when all this time Harry was hung like a horse would have given her second thoughts and doubts that she didn’t want to have to confront. Whatever the reason, she had confronted Lavender about her business venture right there in her sex shop, and she was determined to get Lavender to admit it was fake.

Instead, she found herself bent over a table in the back room, getting fucked by Harry’s cock, and her eyes remained wide in shock the whole time, the clever witch having zero idea how to handle the pressure and surprise of Harry’s girthy cock plunging into her, so harsh and steady that she felt like it had to be a dream. But it wasn’t. Harry pushed into her, the fit so unbearably snug as he forced his way into her and loosened her up, fucking her like she’d never been fucked before, and Hermione felt completely incapable of handling nay part of what was happening to her now. “It’s real?” she whined, staring in confusion toward Lavender.

“And it’s amazing, isn’t it?” Lavender asked, sitting on the table with her legs spread, skirt hitched up and panties around her ankle as she fingered herself to the sight of Hermione having her realization. “Harry came over demanding I make it more accurate and give him a cut, and we’re in business now. I can’t believe I underestimated the size of his cock, but let me tell you, having that monster inside of me has really made me better at making sex toys.”

Hermione whimpered, taking the steady fucking from Harry, who seemed as smug and self-satisfied as anyone could possibly be. In his eyes, he was riding high on the thrill of total control, able to push on and prove his prowess and his sexual wiles to Hermione as she writhed beneath him in confused, heady ecstasy. There was nothing she wanted more now than to be overwhelmed, and she couldn’t hold herself back from accepting that pleasure, accepting that heat. This was an incredible feeling that she ached and craved for more of, and she found herself cumming harder than she ever thought possible, Harry’s cock pushing to the hilt inside of her and giving the married woman a creampie and plenty of second thoughts.

“It fits just as easily into any hole,” Harry said with a smirk, whispering in Hermione’s ear his sweet temptation.

As Harry pulled out of her, Hermione grabbed his cock and began to guide it up toward her round ass, settling his shaft down between her cheeks. Ready to make plenty of bad decisions and violations of her marital vows, Hermione whined, “Show me.”

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list of nymphet/age gap movies in alphabetical order

feel free to message me if you have something to correct/ links or more movies to put on the list, thank you ! (◡‿◡✿)

A

A Circle of Two (1981)

Age of Constent (1969)

All the Right Noises (1971)

American Beauty (1999)

The Amy Fisher Story (1993)

An Awfully Big Adventure (1995)

An Education (2009)

Anita: Swedish Nymphet (1973)

Angela (1995)

A Real Young Girl (1976) 

B

Babydoll (1956)

Baby Love (1968)

The Babysitter (1995)

The Babysitters (2007)

Bambina (1974)

Beau Pere (1981)

The Best Offer (2013)

Blame it on Rio (1984)

Breezy (1973)

C

Carried Away (1996)

Claire’s Knee (1970)

The Crush (1993) 

D

Daydream Nation (2010)

Death Game (1977)

Down in the Valley (2005)

Dreamchild (1985)

E

Election (1999)

Elegy (2008)

Eugenie de Sade (1974)

Excess Baggage (1997)

F

Fish Tank (2010)

Freeway (1996)

G

Georgia Rule (2007)

Ghost World (2001)

Great Balls of Fire! (1989)

H

Hick (2011)

J

Jolene (2008)

K

Kitten With A Whip (1964)

L

Laura (1979) 

Lebirinto A Magia do Tempo Labyrinth (1986)

Leon The Professioinal (1994)

Lili (1953)

Little Sweetheart (1989)

Lola/ Twinky (1970)

Lolita (1962)

Lolita (1997)

The Lover (1992)

Lost in Translation (2003)

M

Marie Poipeéé (1976)

Molly Maxwell (2013)

Mini’s First Time (2006)

Mumsy, Nanny, Sonny and Girly (1970)

My Father the Hero (1994)

My First Mister (2001)

My Little Princess (2011)

N

The Night of Iguana (1964)

Noce blanche (1989)

O

The Oranges (2011)

P

Piccole labbra (1978)

Poison Ivy (1992)

Poison Ivy II (1996)

Pretty Baby (1978)

Pretty Maids All in a Row (1971)

Pretty Poison (1968)

R

The Requiem for a Vampire / Vierges et vampires (1971)

Ripe (1996)

S

Schoolgirl Hitchhikers (1973)

Shopgirl (2005)

Secretary (2011)

Sense and Sensibility (1995)

Sleeping Beauty (2011)

Suburban Girl (2007)

Slums of Beverly Hills (1998)

Stealing Beauty (1996)

Stoker (2013)

Snow Cake (2006)

T

Taxi Driver (1976)

Tideland (2005)

V/W

Venus (2006)

Weekend with the Babysitter (1970)

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36 fillette (1988)

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Harry Potter A-Z challenge: ozzzymandius vs. ibuzoo

Y - You know Who

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The Ultimate List of 50 Man Tips

1. Buy high quality tools, so you only have to buy them once.

2. Keep a change of clothes at the office.

3. Never hit anyone unless they are an immediate threat.

4. Every hat should serve a purpose.

5. Never take her to the movies on the first date.

6. Learn to wet shave.

7. Nothing looks better than a well-tailored suit.

8. Shave with the grain on the first go-around.

9. Always look a person in the eye when you talk to them.

10. Buy a plunger before you need a plunger.

11. Exercise makes you happy. Run, lift, and play sports.

12. Brush your teeth before you put on your tie.

13. A small amount of your paycheck should go directly to your savings account every month.

14. Call Mom and Dad every week.

15. Never wear a clip-on tie.

16. Give a firm handshake.

17. Compliment her shoes.

18. Never leave a pint unfinished.

19. If you aren’t confident, fake it. It will come around.

20. You can tell the size of a man by the size of things that bother him.

21. Be conscious of your body language.

22. The only reason to ever point a gun at someone is if you intend to shoot them. Period.

23. Always stand to shake someone’s hand.

24. Never lend anything you can’t afford to lose.

25. Ask more than you answer. Everybody likes to talk about themselves.

26. Never have sex with anyone that doesn’t want it as much as you.

27. Go for women out of your league. You may end up surprised.

28. Manliness is not only being able to take care of yourself, but others as well.

29. Go with the decision that will make for a good story.

30. When you walk, look straight ahead, not at your feet.

31. Nice guys don’t finish last, boring guys do.

32. Find your passion and figure out how to get paid for it.

33. Don’t let the little head do the thinking for the big head.

34. No matter their job or status, everyone deserves your respect.

35. The most important thing you can learn is personal responsibility. Bad things happen; it’s your job to overcome them.

36. The first one to get angry loses.

37. A man does what needs to be done without complaining.

38. Never stop learning.

39. Always go out into public dressed like you’re about to meet the love of your life.

40. Don’t change yourself just to make someone happy.

41. If you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong room.

42. Luck favors the prepared.

43. Women find confidence sexy as hell.

44. Do whatever you want to do, but be the best at it.

45. No one is on their deathbed wishing they spent more time at work.

46. Foreplay is important.

47. First impressions matter.

48. Don’t waste your time on gossip.

49. Under-promise and over-deliver.

50. Own up to your screw-ups.

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Heaven For OCD People »

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1. Your skin may never be perfect, and that’s okay. 2. Life is too short not to have the underwear, the coffee, and the haircut you want. 3. Everyone (including your family, your coworkers, and your best friend) will talk about you behind your back, and you’ll talk about them too. It doesn’t mean you don’t love each other. 4. It’s okay to spend money on things that make you happy. 5. Sometimes without fault or reason, relationships deteriorate. It will happen when you’re six, it will happen when you’re sixty. That’s life.

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