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And how am I supposed to make what I said clear to you if you don't tell me what you're struggling with?! It's not my fault! I cannot make myself clearer for you if you don't tell me what's bothering you. I am not a magician.

And I am not angry at you for not knowing if I wished a conversation with you. I just explained that I did. My tone is always neutral. The sentence about me interacting with you as if you're me is so confusing. How do you want me to interact with you if you don't tell me? I am just going to interact like how I'm used to. I cannot be the one to blame for everything you don't understand if you don't explain what you don't understand. I can't read minds, especially through a screen.

Also. I said it was early. It is not 3 a.m or whatever. It is soon 8 a.m and I didn't say I was sleepy. I went to bed early, I woke up early. If I needed so desperately to go to bed, I would have gone to bed.

Antis, while I get many of you are against proshippers because of problematic ships, these were strawpage anons sent to someone I follow on twitter.

Think about it bluntly, you may be against content being romanticized, sexualized and so forth. But the enemy of your enemy is not your friend.

at the least don’t don’t align yourself with people who hates yume/self shippers.

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And you still didn't fully answer it

If you don't tell me what you did not understand clearly I can't answer you. Everything I said is pretty clear to me.

My initial post had nothing to do with generalisation

I said that your generalised antishippers, which is true.

I'm afraid you completely missed my point to then say I didn't know what a paraphilia is.

I didn't?? You said that selfship is a paraphilia. It's false.

Fictionphilia IS essentially a paraphilia.

Again. You do not know what a paraphilia is. Nobody calls selfship or fictiosexuality or fictionromanticism fictionphilia. I am not even sure it exists as a medical term.

I already explained this in one of my posts that didn't get a lot of attention but there is a huge difference between kinks/fetishes and paraphilias.

“Paraphilia is a medical term. And while it means, roughly, "atypical sexual interest", and it's close to kink, a kink is any non normative sexual interest or practice (yes, "SFW" kink doesn't exist). So, in a country where pedocriminality is common and normalized, ageplay won't be a kink. But a pedophilic person will stay a pedophilic person. A paraphilia also impacts real life. If your "paraphilia" is only fictional or in RP context, then it's a kink/fetish. Not a paraphilia.” what I said (with some modification to remove unrelated things), and the response to you.

Being attracted to fictional characters is not atypical. It's very typical actually, it cannot be a paraphilia.

mostly because I am not sure you are wishing to engage in the first place.

I would not have wasted/taken time where I could sleep (because it is early where I live) to respond to you if I did not want to engage, it'll be stupid.

Antis, while I get many of you are against proshippers because of problematic ships, these were strawpage anons sent to someone I follow on twitter.

Think about it bluntly, you may be against content being romanticized, sexualized and so forth. But the enemy of your enemy is not your friend.

at the least don’t don’t align yourself with people who hates yume/self shippers.

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Many selfshippers are also proship

Yes, and I find it hypocritical since the most used arguments of proshippers is "fiction doesn't affect reality" and selfship is like a direct example of that sentence being untrue. Not sure what you thought you were doing. I said that a lot of antishippers are selfshippers because you generalise antishippers as anti selfship as a whole when it is not true. I have seen anti selfship proshippers but I don't say all of them are against selfship, do I?

You don't need to always agree with a proshipper

I genuinely don't understand what you are trying to say. I know I don't always need to disagree or agree with someone? If they say something true I won't disagree with them for the sake of it?

Not sure what the whole lgbt v conservatives lgbt means

It was a comparison. The "antishipper community" (I don't see how else to call antishippers as a whole) is fast and huge. Being against or pro selfshipping is not a stance of antishipper. The term antishipper is neutral on selfship. Now. Many antishippers are selfshippers.

The queer community, in itself, doesn't have any real political stance except "we need rights etc...", but many queer people are leftists or close to the left. But there are also conservative queers. The comparison is that you cannot generalise a whole community like that.

[That long paragraph about this drama. I am not copying it because it's too long for me to do so.]

What part of harmful paraphilias do you not understand? Selfship isn't a paraphilia. It's a kink at the limit but not a paraphilia. You do not know what a paraphilia is. Being attracted to fictional characters is something that happens to everyone, I fear. That clearly doesn't fit into paraphilia. Also, indulging in non harmful paraphilias in a safe way is not bad, I fear? The paraphilia didn't become harmful, that's not how harmful paraphilias work.

The whole drama feels stupid too. You can't expect your partner to love a fictional character like you but you can expect them to accept that you selfship. It's not cheating or whatever. This is pretty much very logical if you want my opinion.

[The whole last paragraph, again, not copying it.]

I genuinely don't understand what you're saying. I know that not all proshippers support actually harming children, animals etc... even if some do but they, inherently, support people indulging in harmful paraphilias. I don't understand what you're saying.

Antis, while I get many of you are against proshippers because of problematic ships, these were strawpage anons sent to someone I follow on twitter.

Think about it bluntly, you may be against content being romanticized, sexualized and so forth. But the enemy of your enemy is not your friend.

at the least don’t don’t align yourself with people who hates yume/self shippers.

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"my therapist said-" that writing is a good coping mechanism and you didn't mention what type of writing you were doing "my therapist said-"

that art therapy is good, not that drawing a child like that. art therapy is supposed to help you, not be an excuse to draw a 13 year old boy in weird positions yet you forgot to mention what you were drawing to your therapist

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You realise a lot of antishippers are selfshippers, right? That you don't need to agree with everything some random antishippers do to be an antishipper, right? It's like saying being in the queer community is bad because there are conservative queers. Like, ok but what do you want us to do about it? On the other hand, I don't think I want to associate myself with people who think indulging in harmful paraphilias is an ok thing to do.

Antis, while I get many of you are against proshippers because of problematic ships, these were strawpage anons sent to someone I follow on twitter.

Think about it bluntly, you may be against content being romanticized, sexualized and so forth. But the enemy of your enemy is not your friend.

at the least don’t don’t align yourself with people who hates yume/self shippers.

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Sure, 'fiction doesn't affect reality' but AO3 stans can't stop talking about how many kinks they discovered they had thanks to fanfiction. Or how it affected and influenced them into having a kink they didn't have previously.

Well, it looks like fiction does affect reality, after all.

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Not gonna lie, when I keep seeing proshippers whine about "purity culture," I get reminded how they have no genuine interaction any actual puritan. I have an incel classmates in some classmates who is a puritan. He thinks all depictions of sex, even just things that are perceived as sexual like being half naked to be "degenerate" and how modern society has "fallen from class." He would spew the most disgusting bullshit against any queer person like my friends or me or just anyone apart from the community. When I look at you pathetic profic/proshipers whining about someone saying your gross for shipping a child with an adult or cry about people criticising you for enjoying harry potter, I remember that guy. The guy that is actually harming people, the guy whose creepy to his crush who already doesnt want him, the guy with friends that are borderline predators, the guy that attacks queer people and any expression of sexuality that is exclusively traditionally romantic, all I can do is just laugh at you. I have to go to school with a vile puritan and your all out here whining about some normal people that will obviously be grossed out by your incest and pedo shit, or will obviously judge you by platforming an active transphobe. Stfu about purity culture in fandoms when its clear you dont know what that shit means.

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when I see the most beautiful, ethereal, god sent, unique, creative, wonderful, mind bending, ego shattering, mystical art but it's made by a fuckass pedoshitter

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I love having antiship blog cause, if anything talking shit about people i don't like is rising on my list of hobbies

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Random proshipper: *uses thoughtcrime, puritan and censorship non stop*

Me:

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Posts will go slower because I am having a narc crash and some issues with my autism. I have a Roblox account if you want to talk to me a bit. It's "illdeity". I stole it from the twitter URL of a friend of mine.

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if you're an ADULT, OVER 18, ALLOWED TO VOTE, who's always seeking attention from minors even just excessively making posts about them, I'M GOING TO CALL YOU A PEDOPHILE, I'M NOT SORRY LMAO YOU ARE SO CLEARLY A PEDOPHILE, I don't wanna use that term loosely but why are you so hyperfixiated on someone you know who's 14....? like girl if you're planning on grooming me then at least be conventionally attractive or just state you're proud to be a pedo cause no normal adult wastes their time on a teen

look I don't wanna vague post cause that's cringey so this is very targeted at @/aint-my-final-form and pedoshit froggo

If they make a response post to this then it's true they have alt accounts stalking my page, sorry I don't make the rules but hey consider following my blog since you're soooooo obsessed with me 😘😘😘

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You are mistaken paraphilic disorder (<- wow! Disability) with paraphilias. Most of the time, pedophilia is a paraphilic disorder. All disorders are disabilities. I am also a CSA victim and I am also disabled. Before you come at my throat. Pro para just reflects being against killing people for having a paraphilia that they literally cannot control, most of them are anti contact/abuse.

I am going to make one thing FUCKING CLEAR. Pedophilia is not a fucking disability. It is a paraphilia. There are two kinds of paraphilias. Non-harmful ones like coulrophilia, exophilia, teratophilia, etc, and harmful ones, like pedophilia, zoophilia, and necrophilia. Most of the people who say they are "pro-para" on here include harmful paras in there. I do not. You want to fuck clowns? Same, bestie. You want to fuck kids? GET OUT OF MY SIGHT YOU PIECE OF SHIT. First of all, categorizing paraphilias as disabilities is sex-negative. You are characterizing someone with an atypical sexual interest as "disabled." That is bigoted as fuck. Second of all, hi, hello, disabled CSA victim here. I DO NOT FUCKING WANT PEDOPHILES GROUPED IN WITH ME. PERIOD. This should not be a controversial opinion. If you think pedophilia in ANY FORM is okay, UNFOLLOW ME.

Oh and before I see some fucker in my comments start trying to compare being trans to pedophilia (because I saw some bitch do that with gay people and incest the other day), PEDOPHILIA IS A SEXUAL INTEREST IN MINORS. Yes, I know there are multiple connected paraphilias (infantophilia, pedophilia, hebephilia and ephebophilia), but pedophile is generally used as a colloquial term for all of these and that is how I'm using the term. Trans people are not fucking any more sexually interested in minors than the average person (and I will beat the shit out of the ones who are.) If you are sexually interested in a person under 18 you are a pedophile. If you are 18 or 19 and the person you are sexually interested in is not at the age of consent or above (or if they do not fall under the Romeo and Juliet law), you are a pedophile. An 18 year old dating a 13 year old is pedophilia. An 18 year old dating a 17 year old is not. I'm not listening to your arguments.

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Historically they were Nazi Jewish and I wish I was joking.

I'm just appalled? I don't know what to even say anymore. These people deserve to not feel safe.

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What?? Just....what

Wouldn't a Jewish being a nazi be a huge slap to the face to their own people and culture because MILLIONS of them were killed by that group.

You know what they say. Neonazis and nazis follow your damn leader 🩸🧠💥🔫

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"trans gay man" so a straight woman ok!

Yay! My first anon hate!

Anyway, outside of my transness and gayness I would still be queer (arospec and more) whether you like it or not! I cannot be a straight woman because I am a gay man, because being gay is tied to me being transgender. There's no me existing without my gayness and transness even if you hate it.

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I didn't know there was an emoji combo for anti fujoshi, nice!

wat does the emoji combo mean? owo /genq

The one in my name? It's an anti fujoshi combo

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Proshippers not actually caring about CP part 1:

Hey! Please don't do this!

How can you be neutral to child porn??? How is there a grey area for this? That's literally illegal. Granted I have this person blocked but the post was so insane I had to cut it into pieces just to process what the fuck I was reading.