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ayyyyeee me rn y’all i’ve been mia for so damn long but basically i got traumatized like 8 times in a row HALLELUJAH anyway hi

i'm dtf

down to forget

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how are u gonna be 20 yrs old and freak out over people having the same character over you this is so embarrassing. are you 5???? “dont follow if you also self ship with sasori of the red sand” GET A GRIP

if you read my carrd enough to know that you should have read it enough to know the extremely valid reason i feel like that. ableist ass. also what kind of entitled bullshit is this. why did you feel the need to send this. what POSSESSED you to waste your time on this when you could have just kept scrolling and minded your own business. you’re the one who’s being a little bitch hiding on anon to escape personal responsibility

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there’s literally never time to do anything. like you do something and finish it and then it’s time to do another thing. how do we live like this

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this.

sorry for being mad and starting discourse on Sasori’s birthday but holy shit the Sasori liker side of this fandom is making me fucking insane. As a preface, I’m a huge advocate for letting people have fun and crack shipping. I’m also not a hardcore anti- I find myself thinking a lot of times anymore that antis have a tendency to take things too far and over police without leaving any room for interpretation, unfairly generalizing and often times seeing things too black and white and failing to realize nuance in some situations. That being said, I also think that shipping things that are outright and inarguably pedophilic, abusive and predatory is bad and should be condemned.

The issue I’m noticing is fucking rampant among the Sasori side of this fandom is y’all are doing anything and everything to avoid having ships for him that aren’t inarguably pedophilic and predatory. It’s like y’all will ship him with fucking ANYONE except people where the relationship would be at least to a degree okay.

You want to ship him with a woman? Cool, I think he’s a woman liker bisexual too. But why do y’all flock to the ship between him and a 15 year old girl who he addresses explicitly as a child instead of, I don’t know, Konan? Who is arguably even calls beautiful and worthy of being preserved as art? And is his own age? Something similar applies to the very specific subset of sasodei shippers who portray Deidara as young as possible and Sasori being attracted to Deidara while Deidara is as young as possible beyond what’s realistic for canon- you could easily portray Sasori being attracted to adult Deidara and you choose to make content sexualizing a very very young Deidara with him... why? If not for thinking pedophilia is cute and sexy? This is coming from an avid sasodei shipper.

And people who want him to be a pretty “smol boy” with a big hunky boyfriend- first of all, I encourage you to examine this, because a lot of the content I see for this is perpetuating harmful fetishized, yaoi-adjacent stereotypes and stereotypes based on appearance such as him being short or and “pretty”, and those are things that are harmful and perpetuating that has negative effects for real life communities, particularly LGBT men. Not only that, but a worrying majority of people in this category seem to want to sexualize him while making him look as young as possible. Which is concerning for reasons I hope I don’t have to explain. However, if you’re set in this- why do you jump to shipping him with someone he only knew as a child save for the instance of killing him? Why can’t we ship him with Kakuzu or something? Or just have your own headcanons about him and Deidara? And sure, arguments can be made about how Kakuzu and Deidara are also bad to ship with him, but those ships are where I tend to think that there’s more nuance and it’s not necessarily bad to ship even if I understand why someone would personally be uncomfortable.

And for both of these- making OCs is an option. I get he doesn’t interact with a lot of people in canon, but OC x Canon ships aren’t harmful and in my opinion, there’s a lot of unfair bias against them for absolutely no good reason. Make OCs to ship with him. That’s what I did. Or get creative with canon characters to ship with him- nothing wrong with shipping him with someone he has no interaction with but could have a potentially good dynamic with.

It’s literally like you guys will ship him with anyone else to avoid having, for lack of a more civil term, non-freak ships for him. I’m not sure what it is about Sasori specifically that attracts this extreme on both sides, I guess he just has a lot of traits that make him bait for both extremes or something, but this is getting so worrying and I know a lot of people who agree but are too afraid to say it because some of y’all will be so vicious about it. I’m trying to keep this as civil as possible. It’s getting to the point I’m coming across Naruto fans who are instantly weary of people who have Sasori as a favorite because a lot of us either romanticize and sexualize these really horrible things, perpetuate harmful stereotypes, or are straight up mean and elitist for no reason.

Alright, that’s my Sasori birthday rant. No, I’m not going to turn anon options on for my ask box- if you want to argue about this, do it with your name attached to it if you really stand by what you have to say about it. If you aren’t going to be civil, have the balls to do it with your own name. I doubt this is even going to reach a lot of people in opposition to this though granted I’m pretty sure I have a good majority of the people this is targeted at blocked, but still. This has been bugging me for a while and it’s been bugging a lot of the people I’m friends with for a while and I feel like someone needs to say something about it.

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let’s talk about the german naruto opening

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Crush

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Konan is on the bass guitar in the punk rock band “akatsuki” 

Obito is a big fan of her

commissions are open 

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Genin babies Mikoto and Kushina. \m/

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hey how did things end up going with your weird coworker ??? idk why but i just thought it it randomly today

oh yEAH. so, he continues to message me even though i no longer work there bc he has a crush on me and i’ve expressed multiple times i don’t feel the same way. recently, he asked AGAIN to see my rp’s and i was like, “bruh you don’t even watch naruto or *insert another fandom bc he doesn’t watch anime in general*, why would you wanna read something you don’t know not to mention, you literally said you don’t like homosexuals so like???” and sometimes he’ll send me random snaps that are just pictures of nothing with no captions just to get my attention. honestly, very close to hard blocking him on everything bc i’ve said so many times it makes me uncomfortable and i don’t like him like that. boy really can’t take a hint.

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tested positive for needing some fucking attention

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OMG THANK U FOR TAGGING ME IN THIS THESE ARE SO CUTE

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reblog if ur bi, ur not biphobic, or ur best friend is a beautiful valid bisexual

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「 ig: mariemokatt 」

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good morning to the one other person who likes this specifically