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Aftercare. 💙✨

I know most people know what subdrop is, but for the few who don’t I’ll explain.

Subdrop is what happens to your body after you’ve drained your brain of all the hormones and chemicals that it releases during the scene or session.

Meaning, after you‘ve come down from your high, you start to feel mentally and emotionally attacked from what just happened. You start to think all these bad things about yourself and how anyone normal wouldn’t find what just occurred pleasurable in anyways.

That’s why aftercare is important. Showering your sub in compliments,food, cuddle sessions. Just stuff that will make them feel like you care and that you don’t judge them for enjoying what they like.

Another thing, I’m positive that most people don’t know what topdrop is. It’s that same as subdrop but it affects doms/dommes.

I know some people will be like- “Doms/dommes don’t go through that, nothing like that bothers them.” That’s where you’re wrong.

Remember we’re all human so no one is exempt from feeling used or feeling disgusted with their actions even though they shouldn’t be.

Not many know this but being a dom/domme is exhausting. A good top plans physical punishments down to the T so their is no room for accidents and after all that planning and executing said plan they sometimes feel bad for doing what they did or even feel used in a sense.

That’s why aftercare is important for both parties. Show them that you care and that you appreciate what they did. Reassure them that they didn’t hurt you in a bad way and that they only did what they did to help you grow. ASK👏 THEM👏 IF👏 THEY’RE👏 OKAY👏!! Especially right after a session.

That can be the difference between showing that you care or not.

AFTERCARE IS A NECESSITY FOR BOTH PARTICIPANTS!!👏💙✨

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The Love Witch (2016) dir. Anna Biller

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When he slaps you in the face for talking back but holds you and strokes your hair telling you how beautiful you are.

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He likes to chew and suck on my fingers. Guys. Help. I'm in love.

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Everyone, meet Troublemaker, i think it's safe to say he loves me lol

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Woo!! So far I like it lol

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Makeup looking good as fuuuuuck lol

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I need more people to follow, snaps getting boring. Add meeeeee!!!!!!

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Look at that smile!!! It's real!!! I hate my smile but there it is! And then ya know, basic Angel face haha

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Look how cute I am lol

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I don't usually take shots from webtoons and post them, but this scene hit me in the gut so hard. Why do I relate so well with Persephone?? #loreolympus #persephoneanderos #livetoserve #thatsokay #nocredit #CreditGoesToUsedBanaid #amazingartist #webtoobcomics

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Sam decided he needed to cuddle with little dude before bed last night.

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My boy playing with his new chalks

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My best friend is better than yours @sowrongitsashh

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Playing the waiting game can be so boring

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Adventures at Edgewater Animal Shelter #part2 (at Edgewater Animal Shelter)