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feels like theres so much drama lately its kinda exhausting

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Pronouns.CC finished soon :3

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Remind me not to be parasocial about tumblr blogs again

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Fut-Schizophrenia

A label for those whos identity of having schizophrenia is only applicable in the future, or doesn't currently apply

Fut-Schizophrenia could also be cis, trans, tris, perma, null, etc

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NPDQUEER

Basically where your beliefs are revolved/influenced around your NPD, mostly meant to be used along other blankqueers and not on its own

NPD-High-Queer

Or Narc-High-Queer

A blankqueer where the beliefs you present are whatever will induce a NPD high (or narc-high) or prolong it, even if your personal morals go against the beliefs you present.

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my pride, my choice

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Been on normie account for a bit

Back now

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mmm

the evil urges are back

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Forms of Attraction Masterlist

Platonic: the desire of creating a close (or closer) platonic relationship/fellowship/acquaintanceship with another, or a willingness to engage in a very deep symbiotic friendship, sharing interests and experiences, but without the romantic involvement of both parties.

Social: “aspirational” or mentor-attraction; a desire to be closer to and/or more like someone because of their perceived talent and/or wisdom, based on socializing with any particular person(s) or group(s), forming interpersonal/group dynamics and societal relations. Wanting/needing social relationships within the public life sphere, showing themselves as socially closer and more alike you might inspire in you this form of attraction.

Amical: interchangeable with platonicity (sometimes refers to “best friends”); on a higher level of affinity than in just social/interpersonal circles (that are more impersonal).

Qplatonic (queerplatonic, quasiplatonic or quirkyplatonic): between romantic and platonic; neither romantic nor platonic, but can be functionally similar to both; a type of attraction that (while certainly aromantic) cannot be properly reduced to platonic without leaving some important aspects out. Also used as an umbrella term for any relationship that falls outside of the strict “romantic-or-platonic” binary. Can aim to live together, exchange affections interpreted as romantic, have sexual exclusiveness/exclusivity among themselves, among other factors, without having romantic attraction involved.

Ecstatic/emotional: capacity and desire of forming non-hierarchical, mutually nurturing emotional bonds with one or more people in a manner that might or might not depend on gendered preferrences. Amory/romanticity/gamy, alterous, qplatonic, platonic/amical and intellectual/spiritual are all possible subtypes of this one, but there might be others.

Mental (intellectual/psychological/spiritual/intelligible): capacity of forming an intellectual bond with one or more individuals. This bond is related to an exchange of wisdom, knowledge and interests of the involved. 

Doraric (dorare): craving to be close to, serve, and even worship someone out of an adoration which derives itself from attractions that are neither explicitly romantic, nor explicitly platonic. Considered a mix of spiritual and alterous attractions. The need to adora/adorate. Similar to noetic and spirituic.

Aesthetic: given how there is no real biological need of contemplating something beautiful for it is own sake, there is a lot going on for the existence of this attraction. It might be an admiration for the forms of someone who you do not feel otherwise sexually or sensually attracted to, the attraction someone with an artistic mind feels toward a model, and in some cases the simple closeness to an attractive person as a symbol of personal status might be related to the existence of this type of attraction. Desiring to observe a person because one finds them aesthetically pleasing/recognize their appearance (could be either beauty or ugliness).

Sexual: defined by the need of maintaining sexual relations, and oriented towards those persons with whom there are bigger possibilities of pursuing a satisfying sexual relation.

Sensual (in Lusophony we translate it as sensorial because sensual is too close in meaning to sexy in common parlance): desiring to know another by using one’s senses, especially through touch. This is NOT an explicitly sexual form of physical tactility, though it doesn’t have to be strictly romantic in nature either. The capability of being felt or corporeally touched, relating to tactile sensation forming an erotic-sensorial bond.

Erotic: culration of centralized expressions, appreciation for sexual arts or a desire to know someone using one’s senses through explicitly sexual acts (such as gouinage). Considered a mix of aesthetic, sensual, and sexual attraction. Sometimes it describes sexual desire (as in autoerotic).

Presential (tangible/vital/material): like sensual attraction, but more the long for to be in someone’s presence than to touch or be intimate with them. A desire to know someone through their presence without an aspect of intimacy.

Fluitic: being unsure of what one desires from the object of their attraction due to the nature of said attraction being “wavering” (frequently shifting from one type to another).

Romantic: capacity of forming [usually pair-based] bonds that is characterized by idealization (vision of the other part or of the relationship as perfect) and of such socially attributed additions that are commonly characterized by romance (gifts, dates, need to reaffirm the feeling, corniness, daydreaming about weddings and married life, etc.). Sometimes might include possessiveness and that is when it becomes an unhealthy relationship (but that is not necessarily the rule, there are healthy romantic relationships). The bond that gives birth to such serious relationships is called falling in love/passion, synonymous to ardor, adoration, devotion, fondness, intimacy, attachment, courtship, flirtation & dalliance.

Amorous (amoric): amato-attraction; attractions related to love/lovering individual(s). In Portuguese there’s a word called amasiar (“to amasiate”, living together while not officially out, as in relationship anarchy and Ludus (playful love)); describing serious relationships, affectionacy and liaison, the need of companionship(s) with mutual and consensual commitment, to be consensually intimate, and to feel and show/express an affectional kind you don’t feel towards friends. It could be either an open relation or closed one(s). Not necessarily romantic.

Gamous (marital): could be a subtype of romanticism; the need of marrying someone, civilly/religiously; desiring an eternal and enduring/pragmatic love; caring of someone reciprocatively and expecting it’s love forever and ever.

Alterous (alternative): beyond romantic and platonic but consists of desire for emotional closeness/conversance/familiarity.

Exteramo: a type of attraction that is neither platonic or romantic, rather existing outside of the two and not in between both.

Tutelary/protective (of protection): having a strong desire to take care, protect and support a certain person. It is the attraction one might feel towards a child, a pet or a vulnerable person you are favorably disposed toward them. It is based in a need of feeling needed. Someone who shifts from a normal to a sad or defenseless situation arises in us not just sympathy but also a sense of attraction that gets us involved with them and their needs, without feelings of a need for it to be understood in our terms from their side.

Cedural/submissive (being protected): wanting to feel protected, covered, understood, tutored and supported by someone, feeling needed/necessary. The reversal class of protectivity. In such circumstances in which you feel rather weak and vulnerable, the possibility that someone might protect you makes you feel an attraction towards some certain person.

Grace (of guardians): desire for a guided-like relationship.

Xenial: hospitable attraction that is felt or expressed to receive gain, portrayed to fulfill a goal. Hospital nurses, babysitters, hotel employees, escorts, social workers and anyone who has to give a form of hospitality, or emotional bond, in order to gain something in return (usually money).

Familial/parental: the experience to seek/woo strong familial attachment; similar to storge (familiar affection), also refers to irmanal/sororal/fraternal desire for your own kinsmen and lifelong friends, deeply attached to their family name, who remember lineal members who pass on with great fondness, honouring to descendants, bestowed on this attractional type, as its importance to them. Parental covers maternal, paternal and naternal/zaternal.

Sources: [x] [x] [x] [x] [x] [x] [x] (last two aren’t mentioned here, but are useful references).

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Might use a different name on here incase somehow one of my anti friends finds this

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seeing a userbox and i literally cannot read it

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I missed playing kaiju paradise so much im glad i got unbanned

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im high so idk if any of that made sense tbh

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thought about this for half a second so this might be stupid but the whole "radqueer being so far left it circles back to being right" is kinda wrong

Most conservatives tend to demonize anything they deem weird and unnatural, anything outside of the binary (cishet people) and justify it by going 'were protecting the kids!'

So when I see people label different identities as harmful because they don't fit their version of the binary and exclude them, then go and hide behind them being queer and 'protecting the lgbtqia community/children/other group' to justify it that's when it seems like they're just looping back around to being a conservative

The radqueer movements whole point is to make lesser known and often hated identities more accepted, excluding no one. To claim that we are the ones looping back around to being conservatives when we do the literal opposite of what they do just seems a bit uneducated (for lack of better word)

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My door is fucking wiggling

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Had sleep paralysis for a moment

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me after showing something i made in the discord server and no one said anything (this is the hundredth time probably)