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Three experiences i had at my southern california university LGBT center:
-Faculty berating me, yelling into the queer space from outside it, about “what about the LGBT women who would immeidately see someone as big and tall and you and get scared and have flashbacks about men? Just because you wanna be a girl? What do you expect to be done about them??” And everyone in the queer space turning away and not helping me, and i had to end up saying “i don’t know.” Which helped bring the UNIVERSITY FACULTY MEMBER to her senses and she stopped. But no one said shit about it, no one came up to me after, nobody helped or did anything.
-i was facing housing insecurity, and went to the wall of resources (bunch of different panphlets of paper describing different queer organizations and events and listings) and found information for housing. “Afab only.” In fact, basically about half of all the resources were listed as “afab only.”
-I commented idly about how there were not as many trans women in the queer space, and like zero older trans fems when there were plenty of trans mascs. And everyone gave somber, rejected looks and said shit like “no one knows why trans women end up leaving us,” implying trans women are routinely selfishly wanting to distance themselves from the queer community to pass better. And i was devastated thinking trans women just routinely leave fully welcoming queer spaces for no good reason.
Can you guess why some trans women and other TMA people are absolutely terrified of going into queer spaces after experiencing all this in ONE queer space?
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under my marxist-lorist dictatorship anyone who uses the term 'calarts style' unironically will die
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Best movie to start off summer 2025☀️ Elio and Glordon's friendship really warmed my heart ❤️
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I just watched elio, you should too! it's really cute :>
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glordon is a trans kid to me.... happy pride glordon!! <3
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the way the paragraph is split i thought they were she/her-ing andrew cuomo
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surely the impulse to call any currently-cis man or camab person who is in any way engaged with or shows any sort of interest in or kinship with lesbianism a violent predatory fetishistic rapist-in-waiting is a politically neutral one fully reclaimable from terf circles which has 0 potential ramifications for transfem and especially closeted transfem lesbians
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saw elio [twice in two days lmao] and i love it so much... i think reno would love it too so i drew them dressed as elio for halloween!!!
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dont know how to articulate the way seeing people who in all other contexts treat "nonbinary" and "transfem" as mutually exclusive suddenly drawing kris in skirts and dresses but only to spite people he/him-ing them makes me feel. how many of you would actually be cool with a transfeminine reading of kris outside of this? the art it self is all good but knowing that its done out of spite more than an acknowledgement of transfem nonbinary people kind of sours it for me
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sycafries [my selfship with. fries.]
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