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Work on child's need, not your interest.

SLOW LEARNER’S BYCOTT

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Emotional Quarantine

The summers became adult by now, The seasonal flu was common now. But for me flu transformed into fear, I’m covid positive, I couldn’t bear. I became untouchable that night, No hugs, no kisses, and I cried. I encaged myself as if I was with leprosy, Seeing kids from far seemed so crazy, My soul was oxygenation by my daughter, A beautiful letter slipped under door, everyday. After 14…

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TOUCHED BY AUTISM

I was teaching him to laugh, I tutoraged him to cry, I modelled him to play, I acted him to dance, I struggled to make him read I strived him to  listen, I appreciated him to hug, I recognized him to help, Years passed by when, One whole day I sat under a willow tree, In a deep shallow mood, He communicated in my ear And I a stumble stance I gazed at him… He… He was far ahead of…

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PARENTAL TRAINING

I caught up my next flight in the very afternoon and my journey back was with heartaches and tears. What a paralyzed life females are living just because they are not taught how to live independently and raise kids. This is how females are made dependent on males and it leads to a crminal society coz that lady raises an army of children to revenge the husband. It was friday morning fajr prayers…

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FLOATED LOVE

Dear ALZ: Hello, I am very elated to know that my heart ached to meet you. First I thought it was my accident pain, then I thought I am missing my lost iphone, then I thought the heart aches are due to the chess game I lost with my friends, then I handed my pencil to my heart, it handed over to the soul after 15 minutes contemplation. The fingers moved to and fro quickly at the lightening speed,…

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Add me in "tug of war too"

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BULLYING IN ADOLESCENCE

(a sequel of Diary of sweet sixteen by S3nny) I sat on the beach looking at the basketball field. Books in my hand as I write my notes and try to understand the concept of hormones. My other friends are trading sandwiches and some cabbages. “Please give me that hamburger I want that one”, said Tina. “Can’t you let me eat that! I love it. My mum made it for me!���“, Bella stops in between as Tina…

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DIARY OF SWEET SIXTEEN

DIARY OF SWEET SIXTEEN

I  feel lonely when I don’t see the pictures of your face. I feel lost if I don’t search for your eyes. I don’t know if you feel it too but I think you are really the one. Who someone would see as their soul mate. Who someone would call the right person. I used to find my happiness in nature and arts and social life but since I met you I saw you in all beauty of nature and in all creativity of…

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REBT WITH CHILDREN

REBT WITH KIDS The application of RET to parenting and to the treatment of children and adolescence was pioneered by Ellis in the mid 1950s. In the late 1960s RET was promoted and used effectively with younger clients and school age children from grade 3  onwards to higher school. RET has been successfully employed with children and adolescence referred for the problems of…