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Have you guys ever heard of the band Nirvana? :3

Yeah, but I’ve only heard one or two songs by them.

*sniffles* Poor Kurt Cobain!

Dog, that was a long time ago!

It’s still sad, Cat!

Yeah… I guess. A real shame…

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Bargain

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one time i was in an olive garden bathroom and my packer fell out of my shorts and this ten year old boy just looked at me with absolute terror and without thinking i said "that's what happens when you don't eat your vegetables" later i saw him eating salad at a speed no human should be capable of

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i could listen to that poor little mouse shout BABIIIIT all day

i have FANTASTIC NEWS. NOW YOU CAN

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ok i wanna make a hated foods poll as a very picky autistic

Tell me why you don't like the thing you picked (flavor, texture, something else?)

RB for more results

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If you're feeling helpless, boost/share these links. Donate if you can

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you have to be otherkin and weird. for your health

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Donate Insulin and medication to diabetics in Gaza

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i dont like talking about this stuff publicly very often bc . it's honestly scary, but like... i think more people need to realize that trans fetishization includes trans men too. and trans people are capable of fetishizing other trans people. trans women are capable of fetishizing fellow trans women, and the same can be said for trans men. the same can also be said for trans women fetishizing trans men and vice versa.

i'm mainly gonna talk about the fetishization of trans men for this because i'm a victim of this kind of fetishization and i personally haven't seen a lot of people talking about this issue. but like... it feels like a lot of queer spaces favor conventionally attractive feminine transmascs because they're considered easier to sexualize, regardless of their consent. in fact, i've seen people actively ignore or look down upon trans men who are actively more masculine.

i've been in an abusive relationship in which i was feminized so my abusers could use me as a sex object rather than an actual partner. they sexualized afab qualities in trans men, and would constantly ogle over my body and sexualize me and our t4t relationships as often as possible behind closed doors. ever since that shit happened to me, i've been doing a lot of self reflection and also some reflection of how the trans community treat trans men. too many people are way too comfortable with feminizing trans men and only valuing trans men when they're sexualized. too many people are too comfortable with using terms like "boy pussy/boobs" and "femboy" in regards to trans men regardless of any context. i've literally seen this kind of shit pop up in completely nonsexual contexts where it's just.. a trans guy existing.

the general perception of trans men seriously needs to be reconsidered. how many people see us as men- real people- rather than "uwu cutsie boy toys"??

btw i wanna establish that i hate transfem fetishization just as much as transmasc fetishization. i don't have as much room to speak on that subject bc im a trans man, but like... there's absolutely a large problem in regards to how people frequently fetishize trans women.

i also wanna clarify that feminine trans men are awesome and should be treated with the same amount of respect as any other person. i'm not criticizing how people identify themselves or how they present, i'm criticizing how people take advantage of that and use it as a chance to sexualize trans people.

trans people are not your sex toys. we are not objects for you to ogle.

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it feels like a lot of "progressive" online spaces have really latched onto this ooo boykisser pastel stockings kitty femboy image of GNC men and i have to admit i have concerns about how those spaces would respond to GNC men who either can't or simply don't want to look like that

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🎶 everybody do the wenis 🎶 the wenis is a dance 🎶 everybody is a genius 🎶 who knows it in advance 🎶

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For the purposes of this poll please just stick to birth names! I'd like to do another poll for names people chose themselves later in life.