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So, there's the whole Kesha vs Taylor post going around. The one where "I would rather be like Kesha, with compassion versus being spiteful like Taylor." Everyone is entitled to opinions, so I'm gonna throw mine out there and say I hate this post. I hate it. You look in the comments of the original post and see where people are putting the two against each other. And that sucks. Because, Taylor donated money to Kesha during her whole trial of sexual harassment and abuse; and Kesha was one of the ONLY FEW who supported Taylor during her sexual assault case. The women were there for each other to show love and support. Like. Awesome. I get the original intent of the post, I do. And honestly? Every one is entitled to react how they want in a situation that is DIRECTLY about them. Sometimes, it's graceful. Sometimes, it's just not. And that's okay. I mean, the same people who are disgruntled by her recent song are the same people who made light of Britney shaving her head in 2007--and shared memes that they were "this close to going 2007 Britney." ...I hesitated to write this, because it's a soap box and people roll their eyes at it. But, I just wanted to speak on the opposition part of it.

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Today was a good day. #vulcanpark#mcwaynesciencecenter #birmingham

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Our friendship in a nutshell. @officialbaddest_ig_vixen

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Beverly Hills… That's where I want to be. #beverlyhills #90210

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Basically, the most dramatic scene to ever exist. #beverlyhills #90210 #1990 #SCOTCHIRISH

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I would call this "AshBurgers" but... yeah. #bobsburgers #gettingmarried #julyfirst #doodle #fiance #ashburgers #yeahididitanyway

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When being stoked for dog food is caught on camera.

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So... as it turns out: you're off the hook. I don't need it, okay? I don't need you to be happy for me. I don't need you to celebrate me. I don't even need your blessing. I don't need to be given away. I don't need to be made to feel guilty because he didn't ask YOUR permission (even though he asked MY FATHER.) I don't need to worry about whether or not you'll think I'm a beautiful bride or the fact that I came in second to your favorite. I don't need to wonder why you didn't care. I don't need to pretend that you were just "too busy with other things." I don't need you to respond to my RSVP. I don't need you to be there--"because, you might cause a scene." I don't need you to be happy for me... because, as it turns out: all of this is happening regardless of you. This is fucking happening because someone decided to make me their family. Because, they know I'm not a bad person. Because, they know I'm actually a pretty fucking GREAT person. I don't need to be a part of your narrative of me being a selfish, defiant child anymore. Here's to the future. #married #gettingmarried #fiance #itsgonnabechoice #movingon and finally... #isthatsceneenoughforyou ??

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#textsfromthereasonable

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Countdown... #wedding #thereeses #howimetmyhusband #theeighties #itsgonnabechoice

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Us in a nutshell. #saysomethingnicechallenge

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#soupmates #harrypotter #ronallday

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No perfect photo exists of the two of us...

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The next time you try to be petty...

Remember, that I actually have people that love me. That forgive me. That actually care about me. Meanwhile, your parents probably wish you were just a stain on their bed and no one will ever love a “nasty sewer cunt” like yourself. (That’s a direct quote from a person who called themselves a friend of yours at one time.) Hahahaha–keep trying to be relevant in a world that has forgotten you. I was sure you already died, because that's how little I think of you. You can’t touch me. Operation to fuck with me a decade later? Failed. Fuck yourself, since no one else will. 👌🏻👌🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻❤❤

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This love though. The only toxic relationship I'll get behind. #batman #catwoman #batmancomics #batmanreturns

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My soon to be official nephew had his first hair cut today!! ❤❤

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"Don't talk like one of them: you're not! Even if you'd like to be. To them? You're just a freak--like me. They need you right now. But, when they don't? They'll cast you out, like a leper. See, their morals, their code... it's a bad joke. Dropped at the first sign of trouble. They're only as good as the world allows them to be. I'll show you...when the chips are down, these... these civilized people will eat each other. See, I'm not a monster, I'm just ahead of the curve." #thedarkknight #trump #obama #makeamericagreatagain #makeamericasafeagain #makeamericabelieveagain #joker #quotes #political