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adhd-haver shocked once again as task they have been avoiding for 6 weeks takes 5 minutes

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headache? not in the mood to partake in any of your hobbies because of the headache? consider simply staring at the Make Headache Worse rectangle!

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My therapist, who specializes in adults with ADHD, recently told me that all of her clients need a three day crash period after a big life change. Finish the semester? Crash. Change jobs? Crash. Go on a really cool, really relaxing vacation? Crash the moment you get home.

It's true of literally all of her clients. She works with a lot of them to put systems in place so that their crashes are only three days. This includes the high-powered execs who travel regularly for work. It does not matter how successful or high functioning they are - they have ADHD, and crashing is just part of the process of living with it.

I'm sharing this with all you ADHD friends out there, just in case you (like me) start shaming yourself if your crash lasts more than one day. It turns out three days is kind of the best case scenario. Be kind to yourselves!

[This post has been edited to change "crashout" to "crash". It was causing confusion and/or offense, especially to people who thought I was referring to "crashout" as the term exists in AAVE (also being appropriated into gen z speak right now). I'm sorry about that. Please reblog this version of the post in the future!]

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I think "being scary" is not even in the top 5 things I'm looking for in a horror story.

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“Who would I be if I had not loved you? How would I know what love is?”

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TMA Detective Agency AU

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Oh no, there's doomed yaoi in my apple

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found this three year old draft buried in my files. is it funny? I don't remember

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you have to make a new self every few months or it starts to get stale

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Love that Jon looks like you could have mistaken him for being 38

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If I had a US American girlfriend I'd take such good care of her and keep her in a little shoebox and give her bits of hamburger and keep her away from dangerous things like feral cats and world maps. Unfortunately they're feral here so u can't keep them as pets :/

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I always wanted my friends to call me Gerry

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Debating silently showing this to one of the flight attendants while boarding

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Quick sketch but I love it

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I think early seasons Jonmartin is the funniest TMA ship to imagine the “only one bed” trope for.

Because Jon would be in full “I can’t sleep next to Martin! He’s suspicious!” mode and end up in some stupid self-inflicted scenario where he was sleeping in the elevator or on the roof.

Then meanwhile Martin would be back in the room going: “Its nice of him to let me have the bed. He can be a lot more considerate than he lets on sometimes.”

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Jon and Gerry and Jon and Gerry and Jon and Gerry