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I have this list i've been creating for a couple of years called "people being people". Every time I see something kind or nice being done to me or someone else, I write it down and I read it every time I need to feel better.

I know that goods deeds aren't for recognition, but I do hope those people know I noticed and I love them

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(person who learned from childhood to make themself as small and unimportant as possible to avoid being a burden) yeah its okay we dont have to do my thing if you dont want i dont mind

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ideal living situation is what i call the 'sitcom special' : having all your closest friends live in the same apartment building or neighborhood where you each have your own space but can wander in and out of eachothers homes at will, seemingly always welcome and never at bad times. and also all of you only have jobs when its important to the plot.

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i'm going to make a life i love even if it's not the one i expected or thought i wanted. and i am going to let myself be proud and grateful of what i do have. i am allowed to be proud of it without other people realizing the gravity of what i have accomplished in scale to my life and abilities. i do not need permission.

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☁️🍯 i wish you a happy and safe november. it’s going to be a good month 🍯☁️

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musings on the sun

christina perneta, noor hindi, vincent van gogh, jeanette winterson, zinaida vysota docenko, anne sexton, olga kos, khalil gibran

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Why don't we take the day off to be a little imperfect? Maybe everything won't fall apart, maybe you can be content with being good enough. Hold my hand, you don't have to do it all at once. Just for today, do something without it being perfect, by the smallest thing. Maybe try not to make your hair perfect, maybe eat a ugly piece of toast, don't send that perfect good morning text. Take perfectionism out of your life little by little, including the people who demand perfection from you, because you can't be happy with being yourself if you are around people who constantly tell you that you're never enough. 🌱

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i sometimes forget that this is everyone’s first time on earth too. like. this is my first time seeing a butterfly this color. but its that little girl’s first time seeing any butterfly, ever. and i accidentally left a bag of groceries at the store after paying and now i’m cursing under my breath and it’s like. there a thousand other people out there who did that today too. and a thousand more from yesterday. and. like. we’re not actually alone. and we’re not actually failing. at least not in a way that a few billion people haven’t before you

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this is going to be difficult -> i am capable of doing difficult things -> i have done everything prior to this moment -> this difficulty will soon be proof of capability

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daily reminder

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Stay in there.

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see the world through the eyes of an ENFJ.

hi everyone! it's been some time since the last time i posted on here [i have to say that this year has been hectic tho]. tonight i got lost on my thoughts about how the ENFJs see the world through their eyes and it was this morning when i decided to write about it.

i went yesterday afternoon to have dinner with my partner's family, and when i came back home i felt different kinds of feelings after that beautiful time. it has been stated multiple times that ENFJs are people-oriented, commited to bring and maintain harmony inside of their circle and willing to meet the needs of everyone in the group. that makes them extremely interesting to analyse and understand.

the first thing that comes to my mind when thinking about the ENFJs in general is the love they develop for both difficult and simple things. it can be either a person or the birds, ENFJs develop strong bonds with their surroundings and they aspire to maintain them in the long time. as an ENFJ, i do catch myself full of love and commitment towards everything i know [and i can assure that it also creates trouble from time to time]. ENFJs also tend to make people feel welcome and accepted, and that leads them to struggle to meet everyone's needs and take full responsibility of the group. in my opinion, i often find myself desperately searching for a way to make people feel as if they were home, and i assure you we can tell if they feel that way or not.

but that's how ENFJs keep their life happy. i believe this proactivity towards others keep ENFJs happy and gives them a reason to feel useful [not because they have to be useful themselves, but because they always want to make a positive difference in the world]. the love the ENFJs have within their hearts is truly something else... and most of them use that for the best of purposes [which leads them to succesful outcomes].

it's like a cycle that repeats over time: the more i give myself to others, the fuller i feel inside.

ENFJs also have strong values that they would defend to the hilt. that also means they will strive to make everyone respect these values [and i do indeed know that this is kinda wrong, cause one cannot impose their values over another]. this view they have about the world gives them the courage and strenght they need to go the extra mile for the things they want to achieve [so it's usual to see them as leaders, since they also keep harmony and read people very well]. this goes hand in hand with the indecision of making the right choice in order to keep everyone happy and satisfied [i also know it's impossible to do that but if it can be posible, i will always try to achieve that].

with all this said, i know the approach i made may not fit with every ENFJ that could read this. every one of us is different and for that exact reason, there are millions of scenarios that can happen [can we say that i did an outline?? hahah]. i hope this post was entertaining for y'all, and my question for today is the following: do y'all often feel like you fully meet the needs of others? or, on the other hand, you feel stressed for the opposite reason? i hope you're doing well, i love y'all a lot! <3 [also, please don`t forget to drink a lot of water on this very hot and beautiful summer].

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my space is super safe for any trans lesbian in the world🥺🥺🥺🥺 my partner is trans lesbian, and every time i see her struggling bc of that my heart breaks in two. i wish they all have a safe environment to be themselves, i feel like there’s a lot of work to do inside and outside the community about trans lesbians. 

i feel so much anger when the world doesn’t acknowledge them as women and they not only use the wrong pronouns, but assume that they like men cause hahahhh heteropatriarchy :(((( i really wish society worked hard to overcome the huge repulsion they actually have towards trans lesbians :( 

thanks for bringing this topic to the surface and reminding them that they’re valid, i will show your message to my girlfriend 💖🧡💛💚💙💜

Like and reblog if your account is a safe space for trans lesbians. It feels like trans lesbians in particular get shamed and ridiculed a lot by people in and out of the community. If you’re reading this I want to let you know you’re valid and I hope your safe and doing well.

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Together ✨️