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Rewatching Amar A Muerte with my mom is hilarious she's over here saying all she remembers is that she hated everybody in this telenovela except the lesbians

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I guess the biggest problem with tentacle porn is that it seldom has a positive message

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The problem with having a child with an attorney that has spoken to the child like an adult since birth is that she's 4 years old and she's negotiating the order in which we're going to complete tasks as a family to best suit her idea of an ideal day.

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Your Eyes are Vacant and Theres something Evil as Fuck About You

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why do Tinamou eggs look like that. i want to eat them whole 

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haven't been to a mooseheads game in person for over a year and apparently they made some changes to the arena.... the main one being a gigantic moose bust that flashes red eyes and shoots smoke out it's nose when we score

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I'm not sure where I read it - I think it was on the wikipedia page of that trans doctor from the 1920s, but I don't remember his name - but basically, it was talking about this trans man's experience being trans in the early 20th century, and his family's reaction. And it made a point of saying how his grandparents were entirely supportive and even wrote him as their grandson on their gravestones. And there's a similar story for a trans girl, also in a similar time period I believe, where her family took her to a doctor when she started Being Trans and the doctor's reaction was literally "Okay, she says she's a girl? Then treat her like a girl! Buy her dresses and call her by whatever name she wants!" and they did!!

Obviously transphobia still existed back then, and it was strong. But throughout time, there have been cases where people heard their loved one say "I am not that gender, that doesn't fit me," and their love and trust in that person overrode any prejudice or lack of understanding, and they just accepted them. Whether it's a doctor encouraging parents to treat their little girl like a little girl, or grandparents marking their grandson's gender in stone (even when, if I remember correctly, his parents had doubts), trans people have always had people who cared for us and believed us and supported us, despite what the rest of society might have said.

UPDATE: IT WAS ALAN L. HART, from his wikipedia page:

Hart wrote later, in 1911, of his happiness during this time, when he was free to present as male, playing with boys' toys made for him by his grandfather. His parents and grandparents largely accepted and supported his gender expression, though his mother described his "desire to be a boy" as "foolish." His grandparents' obituaries, from 1921 and 1924, both list Hart as a grandson.

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Adult realization: you will make mistakes, you will act irrationally. You will commit some wrongs that cannot be fully righted. People will dislike you and misunderstand you for all sorts of reasons. None of these make you a bad person. All you can do is try your best to be kind and just to people, grow and learn.

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joke i'll never get tired of: "they died doing what they loved, [something no one would ever do on purpose]"

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A hummingbird thought a man’s orange hat was a flower [x]

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nothing really matters

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We go forward.

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we don't care about your music, we care about the dumb shitposts you make. that's why you have all of these followers. and there's plenty more shitposters in the sea so unless you're cool with us leaving keep the music shit on a sideblog

I am extremely cool with you leaving! How about this, you leave, I keep posting my little songs, and I'll keep gaining followers anyway, deal?

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i'm afraid the character limit in the former bird app is destroying my potential