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The closest friend I have irl is always going, "Oh I'm such an asshole I never call you by your new name and always forget to use they/them with you! I'm such an asshole!" *Proceeds to call me by my old name and use she/her for the rest of the day*

Sigh I'm so tired

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I was so excited when my friend said her cat had kittens and that I could have one if I wanted. I was so excited. I’ve had this kitten for literally 5 hours and I’m just now seeing that he has fucking fleas. 5 hours in my apartment. FUCK

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I don't understand how my mother has 3 kids and the youngest of them being 22, she still doesn't trust us to wake up on time in the morning

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I will never understand people's tendency to treat their elderly parents and grandparents like children.

"They don't know any better/They're from a different time" No. No, they do know better. I grew up in the 90s/2000s and I don't think ramen noodle hair or all jean outfits are cute anymore. In the last year of high school when I first heard the phrase "Black Lives Matter", I thought no, all lives matter. And you know what, I listened to people and changed how I thought. I listened and I learned. If they can learn how to use a smart phone, they can learn how to treat people in the way they want to be treated.

"I have to make sure they have people to talk to and that they eat and ask them a million times what they want" yadayada

No. They are grown fucking adults. If they want something, they are more than capable to ask for it or get it themselves. They can make conversation themselves. They can say "Hey I wanna go here or do this". I really don't understand why I'm required to ask for things and make conversation when people who are 50+ years older than me have to have their hands held throughout the entire exchange.

I just don't get it.

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Sorry I’m such a bad person for giving someone else the benefit of the doubt. I will now think that every mistake someone makes at work is because they are incompetent, including you.

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Someone explain to me why I just got yelled at by my coworker cause I was defending our new coworker (who has only been here for a month mind you) and saying “Yes there are some things that she should be getting by now, but I will say we need to give them a little more time because our computer system is complicated and there is a lot to it. We also shouldn’t be calling them dumb because that’s just mean”

She responded with, “WELL I GUESS I’M A TERRIBLE PERSON AND WE ALL CAN HATE ME I GUESS”

Dude, chill and stop fucking victimizing yourself. 

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I wonder what would be a better investment, a desktop computer with a nice monitor or an ipad-type tablet for drawing anywhere?

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I’m sorry but when you start working at a new place, you can’t just change how things are done. I know you might have a better way of doing things/think there is a better way, don’t just change it. Like come on. Bring it up with people who already work here to see if it’s something that might work. Don’t just fucking change things. Not your goddamn place. Sorry

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I can't stand how with phones, we are, what feels like, required to be reachable at all times. Like we have to answer every text/call/Snapchat/etc.

Especially Snapchat. I hate how it let's people know if you've read the message or not. There are some days where I don't have the energy to answer some messages. I'll check them to make sure nothing's wrong or if it needs an immediate answer.

There are just some days (most for me tbh) where I don't really want to chat or I don't have a good addition to the convo do I just won't respond. And if I wait till the next day or two to respond I get interrogated about why I didn't initially answer and have to give them a good enough reason as to why I didn't answer.

Sometimes, I just want to be alone.

If anyone on here knows me, you know I'm not really chatty. And there's a reason for that. Shit that really messed me up happened in high school that pretty much started over what was said over texts. So now I'm very avoidant of texting just to make sure I don't say anything that makes that shit happen again.

But no, if I don't answer a snap in 20 minutes, I get a flurry of texts demanding to know if I got it or why I'm not answering cause it said I opened it. So I spent the whole day on do not disturb and I know she's gonna hate me for that but damn it I wanted the weekend to relax and be alone.

Nope, all I got was a weekend of headaches, being nauseous, panic attacks, and sleep.

Why the hell is it so frowned upon to want to spend time alone and not talk to anyone? For just 24 hours

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God why does it have to like literally hurt to see such pretty art sometimes?? Can’t I just gaze and admire and not compare it to my own art and proceed to make me never want to draw again?

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Yo requests are not commissions. You don’t get progress pics, you don’t get to dictate what I draw. You’re not paying me. I am fully within my right to not do it at all. Don’t push me on this. I will block and never post your request that I worked for FIVE FUCKING HOURS last night. I don’t do full body commissions nor do I do commissions that feature heave animal presence. Why do you think a request is gonna have all of that.

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I wish I wouldn’t spend as much time making myself palatable to society as I do.

I want to get random tattoos without worrying someone will judge me and say “Why would you do that? It’s pointless. People won’t hire you, won’t take you seriously”.

I wish I didn’t care.

I want to dye my hair a fun color without the fear or losing my job. 

I want to do my makeup completely differently than I do now. I want to have that dark scene eye makeup that people did in middle/high school. But I know people will look at me weird and say it doesn’t ‘suit’ me.

I hate being seen as this quite, kind, blah person. I don’t want to feel like I have to be so polite and smile at everyone. But, I was raised to be a kind, sweet girl.

God I wish I could just exist how I want without society seeing me

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I can’t believe I thought coming home for my long weekend was a good idea.

I have to resign myself to a secluded room to watch anime or draw so I don’t get sneered at for being “too cringy”. Can’t sit and watch video game play-throughs because my brother thinks markiplier is weird and then complains that I’m taking up the nice TV with stupid things.

Fuck it, I’m going back home today and no one is gonna stop me.

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Does anyone ever get a wave of…dysphoria (??) that makes you so nauseous and wanting to cry and feel like your breath has been taken away and you wanna just curl up in a sweatshirt and sweatpants but you can’t cause you’re at work and that just makes things like 10 times worse?