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For me, censorship laws are a lot like the death penalty. There are people I wish would die, but I don't want the government to have any say over who lives or dies (because then they can stretch laws out to justify killing someone they dont like). There are stories that I think are reprehensible and should have never been written, but I don't want the government to have any say over which stories are reprehensible (because then they can stretch out what they deem wrong out to fit anything they don't like)

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I bring a “there’s no meaningful difference between men and women that doesn’t exclude someone” to the function that gender essentialists hate

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i think i’m finally starting to maybe potentially grow out of the lower end of my age sliding? i haven’t been on the lower end in a while because our systeens just tend to take over when i am. could still be wrong but very interesting nonetheless. me and the boys are enjoying the adult range tbh. have any other headmates had this happen? where your age sliding shifts one way or the other? i’m curious!

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being a system with insys dating of your introjects and also a maladaptive daydreamer that dates their paras and also a selfshipper that dates fictional characters gets really confusing really fast

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“forcefully inserting myself into my headmates paracosms so i can have big siblings” mission successful. i have now been adopted tenfold.

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it’s not your fault if your source is “problematic” or smth btw. you didn’t make it like that, be it real or fictional. be critical of it, acknowledge what’s bad about it, but you don’t need to beat yourself up for being from there. stay safe my loves and remember that it’s your life and no one else’s <3

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"systems never talk about the bad parts of systemhood, it's always about 'friends in your head' and 'haha fictional character is doing X' what about the suffering-"

have you ever considered that traumatized people don't owe you a show?

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Don't panic if you can't feel your headmates. A day of them being gone doesn't mean that it was all fake. Don't let the doubt get ya

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some of you take being religious and not being religious way too far my god.

if you wanna follow your religion strictly to the smallest of rules then good for you, but stop expecting everyone else to do the same thing. how someone engages with THEIR faith is none of your goddamn business just likes it’s none of their business how you engage in yours.

i will never say you’re wrong for being super strict about how you engage in your religion but i will say you’re wrong for forcing and degrading others to do as you do.

same goes the other way around for people who don’t engage in religion on a more intense level. you have no say over what someone believes in so stop trying to force them to drop the things giving them comfort and hope. just because you don’t need it, doesn’t mean everyone wants to go without it.

just mind your business and focus on your own relationship with whatever faith you do or don’t have.

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I think all systems deserve to be a little cringey in the way that makes the ppl on r/systemcringe angry

as a treat :3c

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oc x canon but it’s actually just headmate x headmate

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every system should have a pet. and by that i mean the nonhuman headmate who runs around telling everyone how much they love them.

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bit of a plural rant, not my usual kind of post

just a reminder that “plural” was literally made by endogenic systems FOR endogenic systems. if you’re anti endo, get the fuck out of the plural tags. you are not part of the plural community. fuck off back to your cave with your sysmed buddies because you do not belong here and you are not welcome here until you get your shit sorted and stop giving a fuck about how other systems formed. it is not your business. you do not get to tell people to DIE because you can’t handle that brains work different person to person.

sysmeds and anti endos, it’s block on sight.

this blog is 100% plural safe and 100% system safe for those who are not bigoted and ableist sysmeds. i 100% support non-traumagenic and non-disordered plurals and systems. you are welcome and you are loved

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do you guys schedule out times to front so people get an even amount of time in the outerworld? cuz we’re struggling HARD with this

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Polyamorous (2) : the attraction to multiple individuals with the consent of everyone involved. This attraction could be anything; romantic, emotional, queerplatonic and/or sexual. This can be through a relationship including three or more people, or having a string of other relationships that the people involved are knowledgeable to the fact they are one of many and consent to such.

This first post for polyamorous is here!

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it has been extremely fucking weird and uncomfortable to watch certain corners of this website start replacing calling people transfem or transmasc with “tma” or “tme” in casual contexts. i do not think we should be treating identity as interchangeable with what bigotry you think someone would face, whether or not you agree with the tma/tme model being useful.

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Aegosexual : a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum in which one experiences a disconnect between themselves and the subject of arousal. They may or may not feel sexual attraction, but have no desire to participate in sexual activities with another person.