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कि तुम होती तो कुछ बात होती…

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You exist...

As a memory blooming.

~Sujeet

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Mid Night Thoughts - Still here

3:55 AM - 19 May 2025 - Delhi

I was considering moving entirely to Substack, but the moment I logged back into Tumblr, my thoughts shifted. This space still carries the nostalgia of old college days, late-night musings, and the freedom of sharing my thoughts without filters and maybe even a few people who still remember me here.

No matter what other platforms I use, I think I’ll continue to stay here for my longer blogs. This place still feels like home.

- Sujeet

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Terror attacks and pain

The Pahalgam terror attack is heartbreaking, innocents killed after being singled out by religion. Prayers for the grieving families. Saddening to see loud voices for Palestine go silent when it’s about our own people. Empathy must never be selective.

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Rethinking Urban Rush – Why We Need to Decentralize Opportunities

April 19, 2025 – Delhi

Over the years, cities have turned into magnets for those in search of better jobs, education, and healthcare. Every day, thousands migrate from small towns and villages to urban centers, leading to overcrowded, chaotic cities grappling with mounting pressure on infrastructure and resources. Meanwhile, villages are often left behind, with limited opportunities and dwindling populations. This uneven distribution of growth is not only unsustainable but also raises a question — is moving to a city the only path to a better life?

The answer lies in decentralization.

Decentralizing opportunities doesn't mean taking away from cities; it means extending similar opportunities to other regions so people have the choice to stay where they are. Organizations can play a big role by promoting remote work options, enabling people to contribute from their hometowns or villages. The pandemic showed us that work doesn’t always require a physical office. Someone could live in their hometown, surrounded by family and community, while still working for a reputed company or accessing high-quality education online. If adopted seriously, this could ease migration to metro cities and bring opportunities closer to home. While many companies initially embraced remote work, some have now shifted to a hybrid model, while others have mandated a full return to the office.

Meanwhile, the government must step in to bridge the urban-rural divide. Developing villages with basic facilities – clean water, reliable electricity, internet access, schools, and health centers can slow the rush toward cities. When rural life becomes more sustainable and dignified, people won’t feel the need to leave it behind.

With a collaborative effort, if companies and the government work together, we can balance growth between urban and rural spaces, reduce overcrowding, and create a more harmonious and inclusive future. Balancing population growth across regions isn't just about convenience; it’s about sustainability. When villages and small towns are equipped with modern amenities and job opportunities, people will no longer be forced to migrate. This would reduce the burden on urban ecosystems and improve the overall quality of life for everyone and balanced society.

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Random Thoughts

When pain becomes too vast, we often go numb, and it quietly becomes a part of who we are.

It’s heartbreaking to imagine that the ones we loved so dearly are no longer with us. It feels like the world quietly collapses within. Yet, we cling to their memories, their belongings, and the pieces of them that remain out of love, longing, and the silent hope that they’re still close, somehow.

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Weekend Wrap Up

11:00 PM - 31 March, 2025 - Delhi

My companions… I still love spending time writing with them – penning down my random thoughts and poetry. Some of these pens have been with me for years, like my Parker, which I got in 9th grade, and the Mitsubishi Uni-Compo, which my Papa brought from UAE. Some of my fountain pens are missing–perhaps lost during the house move.

Pilot and Uni-Ball always remind me of him. Back when these pens were a dream for schoolboys, he used to bring me Pilot pens. Reynolds 045 has been my all-time favorite–a trusted companion, I still remember my exam and school days. Trimax stands out among rollerball pens, just like Classmate Octane Gel, Flair Woody Ball Pen, and Hauser OX, which glides effortlessly on paper.

Some pens just have that magic–once you hold them, thoughts start flowing, and your hand keeps writing. I sometimes miss my old handwriting, the way my teachers used to praise it.

I am glad that I have developed the habit of writing in my diary on weekends, capturing short summaries of the weekdays or a weekend wrap-up.

– Sujeet

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Midnight Thoughts

20 March 2025- 12:17 AM - Delhi

In the pursuit of perfection, we often lose touch with reality. Whether it’s making choices or expressing thoughts, just be genuine and true to yourself, no need to pretend or strive for perfection.

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Midnight Thoughts and Words

18 March 2025 - 12:52 AM - Delhi

तू रात सी ढलती है,

मैं दिन सा निकलता हूँ।

तेरी चाह में हर पल,

हर दौर भटकता हूँ।

– सुजीत

In half sleep or half awake, thoughts running in my mind and, still keeping me to think about some old happy moments.

But have to sleep to catch the early metro for office.

- Sujeet

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मध्यरात्रि और कुछ विचार

16 March 2025 - 1:51 AM - Delhi

आधी रात हो चुकी है, और मैं अपनी पढ़ाई समेट रहा हूँ। साथ ही, मैंने अपनी डायरी में कुछ पन्ने लिखे, होली 2017 और बिहार में बिताए उन दिनों को याद करते हुए, वाकई ये अविस्मरणीय पल थे। अब तक मैं घंटों पढ़ चुका हूँ और The Kite Runner का लगभग 40% पूरा कर लिया है। आज Why We Sleep या Outlive नहीं पढ़ पाया, फिलहाल इस किताब पर पूरा ध्यान देने का फैसला किया है।

मैंने कई अधूरी किताबों को अपने Did Not Finish लिस्ट में Fable और Goodreads पर शिफ्ट कर दिया है, जो किताबें मैंने शुरू की थीं लेकिन या तो बीच में छोड़ दीं या बस 1-2 चैप्टर के बाद रोक दीं, उन्हें बाद में फिर से पढ़ूंगा। हाल ही में, मैं अपनी पढ़ाई की गति बनाए रखने के लिए एक बार में 2-3 किताबों पर ध्यान केंद्रित करने की कोशिश कर रहा हूँ और तभी नई किताबें चुनूंगा जब ये पूरी हो जाएंगी।

- सुजीत

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शुभ होली 🌼

14 March 2025 - 3:00 PM - Delhi

मुझे होली खेले कई साल हो गए, शायद आखिरी बार कॉलेज के दिनों तक खेली थी। 2015 के बाद से तो मुझे याद भी नहीं कि कभी होली मनाई हो। लेकिन अगर अपनी सबसे अच्छी होली यादों की बात करूं, तो 2017 में बिहार में एक दोस्त के घर पर बिताई गई होली सबसे खास थी—लोगों से मिलना, गुलाल लगाना और सच में त्योहार के रंग में डूब जाना।

वो खूबसूरत शाम, समूह में चइता (लोकगीत) गाते लोग, नाचते-गाते हर किसी के घर जाना और सबको शुभकामनाएँ देना—वो होली के सबसे बेहतरीन पलों में से एक थी।

दिल्ली में होली और दूसरे त्योहारों का उतना एहसास नहीं होता, या शायद मुझे यहां का धूमधाम पसंद नहीं आता। फिर भी, एक दिन के लिए माहौल थोड़ा बदला हुआ लगता है, शाम को पास के मंदिर में भजन और लोकगीत जरूर होते हैं। लेकिन बिहार की होली का तो कुछ और ही रंग था। मैंने पहली बार उसे इतने करीब से देखा और वो अनुभव बेहद खास था। शायद कभी, उन खूबसूरत पलों की तस्वीरें अपने ब्लॉग पर शेयर करूंगा।

आज की कुछ झलकियाँ – पकोड़े, खस्ता और गुजिया का स्वाद लाजवाब है। पुआ भी बना है, लेकिन मीठा ज्यादा पसंद नहीं, तो बस थोड़ा ही खाया। शायद सालों बाद इस होली पर काम का ज्यादा तनाव नहीं था, इसलिए कल रात समय पर सोया और सुबह जल्दी उठकर मंदिर भी गया। फिर घर आकर सबको थोड़ा गुलाल लगाया और फिर स्वादिष्ट खाने का आनंद लिया। अब कुछ समय किताबों के साथ बिताना हैं, अभी The Kite Runner पढ़ रहा हूँ और उसके साथ Why We Sleep, दोनों ही किताबें बहुत बढ़िया हैं।

– सुजीत

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Banaras Talkies (Book) and my thoughts

March 12, 2025 - 12:01 AM

Just finished Banaras Talkies by Satya Vyas! A fun and nostalgic journey through college life in BHU, packed with humor, friendship, and relatable moments. It beautifully captures hostel life and unforgettable memories – a light, entertaining read with witty conversations!

After finishing this book, I once again feel the urge to visit Banaras, a city I have always loved exploring for its beauty and charm. I still remember the stunning temples on every street, the vibrant paintings, the mesmerizing Ganga Aarti, and the serene ghats.

I have many photos from my last visit, which I have only uploaded to my Instagram page but not in blog, I thought that I will revisit against and will try to capture the city beautifully. Since my last visit it's almost 3 years but haven't planned another trip. Maybe I will plan in this year but not sure, so now I feel I should upload those pics here and write my thoughts.

I have many photos from my last visit, which I uploaded only on Instagram but never shared on my blog. I had planned to revisit and capture the city more beautifully, but it’s been almost three years, and I haven’t planned another trip yet. Maybe this year, but not sure. For now, I feel I should upload those pictures here and share my thoughts.

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Midnight Random Thoughts

9 March 2025 - 12:35 AM - Delhi

In today's era, external appearances have become so important that no one looks at your soul or tries to understand your thoughts.

आज के युग में बाहरी दिखावा इतना महत्वपूर्ण हो गया है कि न कोई तुम्हारी आत्मा को देखता है और न ही तुम्हारे विचारों को समझना चाहता है।

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Midnight Random Thoughts

8 March 2025 - 12:45 AM

तन्हाई हज़ारों बातें कहती है,

और ये रात चुपचाप सुनती रहती है…

दिल के हर दर्द को सहेज कर,

खामोशी की चादर ओढ़े रहती है…

Loneliness speaks a thousand words,

And this night listens silently…

Preserving every pain of the heart,

It remains draped in a sheet of silence…

It was quite a hectic day, the workload and the expectation to pass the days soon for the weekend. It's midnight, and I am still thinking about my few decisions that wasted time, whether it's on people or some work. Sometimes I feel I was right in my school days to not trust people and not to be friends with anyone. The circle was small with my brothers and my books and desire to read more and more books and writing diary. But buying books was really a dream those days, which I can fulfil now, but the desire is almost gone. Maybe I am building the habit to read again and not only the good books but also the articles of people on Substack too. I feel that's a good place to read and write, but still I am attached to my school days companion Tumblr. I feel free here. Spent almost 2 decades on Facebook and Twitter/X, then Instagram, but now they feel strange. I write on Tumblr with silence and peace without expecting that anyone would read. Facebook was good then; I met a best friend there, and she's still my friend, the old one, and better than the people I met and became friends with in real life. 😄

Planning to spend this weekend with books and writing a blog on Substack, as I find it quite engaging these days. Also, tracking my reading on Fable has been amazing, something I definitely won’t forget. I am about to finish book The Power of Habit and will start reading Why We Sleep along with The Kite Runner, and I am planning these both by end of this month.

It's 1:00 AM and after reading the book summary of Why We Sleep, I feel I need to change my habit of sleeping and some other habits as per the book The Power of Habit. Ending this blog here.

My Substack profile and blog -

https://sujeetsharma.substack.com/

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जीवन का प्रवाह

03 March 2025 - Delhi

हम अक्सर सही व्यक्ति की तलाश में बहुत समय बर्बाद कर देते हैं, यह सोचते हुए कि हमें वह मिलेगा जिसे हम वास्तव में चाहते हैं या प्यार करते हैं। और शायद वह मिल भी जाए, लेकिन न मिले तब हमें एहसास होता है कि हमने न सिर्फ अपना समय खोया बल्कि अपनी भावनाएँ और एहसास भी व्यर्थ कर दिए। पूर्णता के पीछे भागने के बजाय, हमें लोगों को उनके असली रूप में स्वीकार करना चाहिए और जीवन के प्रवाह के साथ आगे बढ़ना चाहिए।

आज अपनी डायरी लिखते समय यह विचार आया। शायद डायरी के शब्दों को यहां और लिख कर ये ब्लॉग पूरा करूंगा, पर उसमें कुछ संशोधन की आवश्यकता हैं, कलम से लिखते समय कुछ त्रुटि हो जाती हैं, जो हम यहां डिजिटल प्लेटफार्म पर तो सुधार कर सकते हैं लेकिन वहां नहीं। बहुत समय बाद लिखने पर तो हो ही जाता हैं, पर आज थोड़ा अधिक लिखा हैं और अच्छा भी लग रहा हैं। उम्मीद हैं डायरी और कलम से प्यार बना रहे।

आज के दिन में तो कुछ अधिक नहीं हैं तो इस ब्लॉग को यही समाप्त करता हूँ और दी काईट रनर पुस्तक को पढ़ना प्रारंभ करता हूं।

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The Midnight Thoughts

3:25 AM

Every day, we become a part of someone else's story, but what truly matters is our own, how we live it, how we shape it, and how we choose to write it.

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Decision or Destiny

21 Feb 2025 - 1:44 AM

Some good things are often left behind in pursuit of something better. Sometimes, we let go of what’s good, not because it lacks value, but because we believe something better awaits us. In the end, we have to be content with what destiny has left for us.

Sujeet