#💠admin rambles💠

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Friendly reminder that it is COMPLETELY NORMAL to feel extremely attached to/have intense feelings for fictional characters.

The human brain cannot differentiate the feelings and attachments we have to irl people from the feelings and attachments we have to fictional characters. Chemically, the feelings are the exact same

More to the point, if a character you love ever gets hurt or god forbid dies, it is absolutely normal to feel genuine grief and hurt because of it. As far as the chemicals in your brain are concerned, you genuinely just watched your friend/partner/family member get hurt.

Your feelings are valid and normal.

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Admin Teal

Hi!!!! I'm Serena (AKA Admin Teal, @serenavixens) I use They/She/It (Pref They) and use the neo pronouns Lunar/Honk/Xeir! I enjoy Ace Attorney, Danganronpa, MHA and JJK!! I have many more interests but these are the ones off the top of my head! I'm Autistic and have ADHD so I tend to struggle with tone so tone tags are super appreciated! I'm also INCREDIBILY sensitive so please be nice. I'll mostly be posting my manga panel colourings, cosplays and my ramblings about my hyperfixations so I hope y'all don't mind!

-Teal 💠

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so ok dumb question and idek if anyone will answer

i was inactive in the selfship community for a while, and when i come back i see people using the term yumeshipping instead of/alongside selfshipping... is there a difference?? if so what is it and why are we using yumeship instead of selfship?? im not trying to be mean and im like totally chill w/ the name change im just. Confused and curious

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*coughs loudly* so i played date everything.

(not currently comfortable talking to/about them with people who also ship with them, they're still new f/os so im figuring out my boundaries and all that :) )

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trying so hard to find a selfship discord server i vibe with.....

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me reappearing after months of barely being active. hello

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shoutout to bitches (me) who had to block their main f/o's tag on here bc the fandom is so small 90% of the posts are other selfshippers and ur uncomfy sharing

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what do you mean this song isn't specifically about me and my f/o

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Lets start a chain!

Show me an item/article of clothing/whtv that you have that makes you think of your f/o!

This sweater is super oversized and makes me think of Zacharie :)

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there are 2 different types of people in my notes.

one side is well written thoughts about how much they love their f/os and how their relationship is

and the other side is "ooga booga character make heart happy"

and yknow what? good for us

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hey hey all 201 of you (and others who see this) did u know my ask box is always open? anon is on too pLEase come gush about your f/o to me <3

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....mom it happened again i fell in love with ANOTHER fictional character

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do i have the patience to do V or Saeran's routes rn...

Cus like i have over 4000 hourglasses (and thats after getting access to another story) if i wanted to i could speedrun them but since ive never done their routes id want to have the raw, full experience. Not to mention deciding between which to do because I love both of them a lot... And both have good after ending content but hmmMm

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yknow yall can talk to me right. like gush about your f/os in my asks. please do I'm very bored, I don't bite I promise

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Just noticed that a good chunk of my followers are systems and although I am not one I wanna say you are very welcome here and I'm glad to have you 💜💜

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once again asking yall to gush in my inbox pls i love hearing it qwp

pls dont be shy you'll never be a bother to me