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[the-shipper-center]

How to know if you've been manipulated into believing you are an anti

> Guilt by Association:

If you've been told that liking certain content automatically makes you a bad person or aligns you with harmful groups, that's a red flag. This tactic plays on guilt and can push you to reject things based on fear, not your own beliefs.

> Pressure to Conform

Have you ever felt like you must agree with a group or face being ostracized or attacked? Manipulation often relies on social pressure to force people into one perspective.

> Misinformation

If the arguments against proship rely on scare tactics or misinformation (like over-generalizing harmful behavior or falsely equating fiction to reality), that’s a sign that you may have been influenced through fear rather than facts.

> Silencing Nuanced Conversations

If you’ve noticed that discussions around proship/anti-ship in your circles discourage nuance, critical thinking, or even hearing out differing opinions, it’s likely you’ve been steered into a rigid belief system.

> Disconnecting from Your Own Likes

If you once enjoyed certain ships or fictional works but now feel uncomfortable or ashamed to admit it(without any clear personal reason)ask yourself if that shame was imposed from outside.

> Shaming for Thought Crimes

If you've been made to feel guilty or ashamed for simply thinking about a ship or idea, even if you’ve never acted on it, that’s a form of thought policing. This tactic implies that even private enjoyment of fiction is wrong and that you're only “good” if your thoughts align with a certain group.

> Cult-Like Group Dynamics

Does the community you’re involved in enforce strict rules about what can and can’t be enjoyed, isolating or attacking anyone who doesn’t follow the norm? Manipulative groups often demand loyalty to a single cause or belief system, punishing deviation with social exclusion, harassment, or cancellation.

> You Feel Conflicted

If deep down you still enjoy certain ships or fandom content but feel torn between your personal enjoyment and the pressure to conform, take this as a sign. Internal conflict often arises when you’re being pushed into beliefs that don’t align with your authentic self.

> Over-reliance on “Influencers”

If you’ve formed your opinions solely based on what online personalities or fandom influencers have said, you might want to rethink. Influencers can sometimes push their own agendas, and it’s important to critically evaluate their claims rather than blindly accepting them.

> Redefining Terms

Have you noticed how certain communities redefine words like “abuse” or “harm” to fit their agenda? Manipulators often blur the line between fiction and reality by changing definitions. For instance, enjoying a fictional ship doesn’t mean supporting real-life harm, but some people will try to convince you otherwise to gain control over the narrative.

> Fear of Being “Canceled”

If your fear of being attacked or “canceled” is driving you to adopt anti-proship views, then your stance is likely based on external pressure, not personal conviction. The fear of social backlash can force people into silence or compliance, even when they don’t truly agree with the anti-proship movement.

> Gaslighting

If people in your fandom spaces make you question your own enjoyment of ships, telling you that your feelings are “wrong” or that “you don’t realize how harmful that content is,” you might be experiencing gaslighting. They’re trying to make you doubt your own tastes and values, convincing you to adopt theirs instead.

> Virtue Signaling

Does your involvement with anti-proship ideas feel more about proving that you’re “good” or “moral” in the eyes of others? Virtue signaling often relies on outwardly showing alignment with the “correct” opinion without encouraging deeper thought.

> Isolation

If you’ve been cut off from friends or fandoms that are proship, ask yourself if this was really your choice. Manipulators often push you to distance yourself from people or spaces that don’t align with their views, isolating you in a controlled environment where your new beliefs are constantly reinforced.

> Moral Panic Culture

Have you noticed how anti-proship rhetoric mirrors larger societal moral panics, where certain ideas or interests are exaggerated to be dangerous or harmful? These movements often rely on fear-mongering, claiming that enjoying fictional content can lead to real-world harm, without concrete evidence to support it. Being swept up in a moral panic can make you feel like you’re doing the “right” thing, but it often stifles critical thinking.

> The “Right Way” to Fandom

If you’ve been told there’s only one way to enjoy fandom and that anything outside of those strict guidelines is wrong, you’ve likely encountered gatekeeping. Fandom is about exploring different interests, genres, and relationships. There’s no “right” or “wrong” way to engage with fictional content, but manipulation tactics thrive by enforcing rigid boundaries and shaming those who deviate.

Vs the ACTUAL Antis - how they behave?

In many fandom spaces, the term "anti" refers to individuals or groups who position themselves against certain ships, content, or fan activities, often on moral grounds. However, beneath the surface of this "moral crusade," many antis engage in harmful behaviors that revolve around bullying and censorship rather than promoting genuine discourse or protecting others from harm.

> The Focus on Bullying

Antis often claim their actions are about "protecting" people, especially minors, from harmful content. However, what they’re really doing is targeting and harassing individuals who enjoy certain ships or tropes they dislike.

Public Shaming: Antis will often single out and publicly humiliate individuals over their fandom interests, especially if they engage with “problematic” ships or tropes. This public shaming can include doxxing (releasing personal information), starting harassment campaigns, and rallying others to dogpile their target.

Harassment and Threats: Instead of engaging in productive conversation or respecting different views, antis frequently resort to sending hate messages, insults, and even death threats to people who engage in content they think is inappropriate. This extreme bullying behavior shows that the goal isn’t about morality—it’s about control.

Name-Calling and Labels: Antis are quick to label anyone who disagrees with them as dangerous or morally corrupt. They’ll often call people “abusers,” “pedophiles,” or “incest apologists” simply for enjoying certain fictional ships, even if those claims have no basis in reality.

> Censorship Over Discussion

Antis don’t engage in thoughtful dialogue or debate—they aim to censor and silence any opinions that don’t align with theirs.

Mass Reporting: One common tactic is organizing mass reporting campaigns to get fan art, fanfiction, or even entire blogs taken down. They’ll flag content they disagree with, often manipulating platform policies to enforce bans or removals, regardless of whether the content actually violates terms of service.

Policing Tags and Spaces: Antis frequently attempt to take control of fandom spaces by policing tags, platforms, and even fan events. They demand that certain ships or content be removed or banned, claiming that those things "shouldn't exist," and attacking creators who refuse to comply with their demands.

Gatekeeping: Antis often act as gatekeepers, deciding who is “allowed” to participate in fandom and who isn’t. They’ll dictate what types of content are "acceptable" and label any content or creator they disagree with as problematic, often pushing for full exclusion of that person or fandom from certain spaces.

> Hypocrisy in Morality Policing

Claiming to Protect While Harming: While antis claim they are trying to protect marginalized groups or young people from harmful content, they’re actually perpetuating harm by bullying, attacking, and driving people away from fandom spaces.

Attacking Minors: Ironically, many antis target the very people they claim to protect. Minors who engage with fandom content—whether they’re artists, writers, or just fans—are often harassed, attacked, and shamed for their interests, even if those interests are completely harmless. Antis frequently ignore the well-being of the people they supposedly advocate for, focusing instead on being “right.”

> Bullying and Censorship Aren't Fandom Values

At its core, fandom is about creativity, exploration, and community. It’s a space where people can engage with fiction in personal ways, often as a means of expressing themselves or processing difficult emotions. Antis, however, turn fandom into a battleground for moral purity, where bullying and censorship are used to force conformity.

If your fandom experience is being dictated by fear of harassment or being censored, it’s important to step back and recognize that this behavior is not normal or healthy. Fandom should be a place of joy, not a place of judgment. No one should be bullied for their fictional preferences, and everyone deserves the freedom to engage with media in their own way. Don’t let antis rob you of the freedom to explore and create.

[snail-day]

Satoru is a boobs man, Sugaru is a thigh man. This combination means reader is only ever wearing short cute sundresses round the house. Sugaru tries to be above everyone and pretend he isn't so base to have your wardrobe consist of skirts and dresses as to not lose his semblance of authority, meanwhile satoru is staring at your tits no matter how visible they are. Full deer in the headlights if you ever wear something really skimpy and low cut

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fnejjcnejsjc

No

Exactly this right here. Satoru definitey drools over you on a daily basis. It’s honestly a problem during the winter months. He hides all your cozy sweaters just so he can keep seeing you in those little low-cut tank tops that make his brain freeze like the outside temperatures. Suguru’s no better, as much as he says he's a saint, he practically pouts if you’re not strutting around the house in your tiniest booty shorts :(

They just really, really love your body, okay?? What do you mean you’re cold? That’s what warm laps are for! Satoru’s already patting his thigh like, “C’mere, baby, we’re eco-friendly in this household. No need for heaters when I’m right here.”

But when summer rolls around… oh my. Bikini season turns them feral. Satoru’s already making lewd grabby habds. Suguru’s already got the sunscreen bottle in hand, being all serious like, “You need it on your shoulders. And your thighs. And your lower back. Oh - can’t forget right here, angel - don’t want you burning.”

They're just two completely smitten, perverted idiots in love 🩷

[luvseraphh]

imagine doing the "somebody point me to the best ass eater" tiktok trend with your boyfriend and when you start pretending to feed him instead of pretending to eat the "food" he starts pretending to try to eat you, making the both of you start uncontrollably laughing <3

denki, kiri, sero, hawks, fatgum, present mic, anyone else <3

taglist - @justmylvr @lwcedribbons @im0nsaturn @dvartefox @failurewater @f0reverfaded @t0asty1 @iv-vee @mp3nai @straows @grenadehearts @hecate-frenchfries

ⓒ luvseraph

[dustinheaven059]

In the daytime, I'm Marinette

Just a normal girl with a normal life

But there's something about me that no one knows yet

'Cause I have a secret

(Rant, vent, trauma-dump & be edgy Tumblr blog)

[prouvairesverse]

my jehan prouvaire headcanons

because i feel like sharing them

flower tattoos over top scars

agender & acespec

autistic w/anxiety

HAS HETEROCHROMIA. brown and green eye’s are personally what i hc

one of my biggest hc’s is that they suffer from joint pains (aka me projecting) but i just think it makes sense!!!

is hellenic polytheistic!!! i hc they worship Persephone and Aphrodite

highly allergic to animals but this doesn’t stop them from owning them

relating to pets, hc they have a bearded dragon. it’s real to me

regularly experimenting with new hairstyles

has a little spring ritual to celebrate it (i saw this in a fic and i loved it)

big big thrifter . 90% of what they own is thrifted

used to do dancing when they were younger (before the joint pains kicked in) and still practices some of the moves in their apartment as they’re doing stuff

most of their apartment is just books and papers strewn about with random trinkets everywhere (half are probably cursed)

knows a lot of flower meanings and flower language

lots of their clothes are hand embroidered

cuffs of sleeves/hands are stained with ink

carries a little notebook everywhere (bookmarked with a flower like in the french production!)

tends to doodle on anything. napkins in the musain aren’t even safe (or their friends hands)

fear of his eyes being covered (iykyk)

[thefuzzzz]

Saw this on my YouTube feed and nearly exploded

[nymphsconstancy]

god. rhinedottir's creations all have the potential for life within them. but from what we've seen, i think, they're only able to tap into it when they realise they've come to love the world

[the-shipper-center]

Hey, do you feel uncomfortable/dislike problematic pairings in media?

But you'd never harass/thread someone over it?

And you never seek spaces of ppl who enjoy it and start arguing with everyone?

And you never search for fanworks to fix/re post to mock it?

...Then you aren't an anti! You're a proshipper!

Antis believe that people should be harassed over fan works or pairings. Even if you dislike those things, if you don’t actively hate on people who enjoy or create them, then you aren’t an anti. Proshippers don’t need to like, engage with, or create dark media. They just respect people who do, regardless of their personal taste.

[snail-day]

Silly little yan satosugu thought

Gojo forgets to feed you when he's not home, it's not like he even remembers to feed himself but all he ever leaves behind when he's gone are just snacks in the pantry and a credit card that's useless without a phone to order with or a way to leave the home. He will return carrying some takeout for the both of you and will think the reason you fling yourself at him is because he's finally worn you down.

When geto joins in he is abhorred by gojos neglect of this poor little creature, so he takes it upon himself to mealplan packed lunches for you when he's gone. Complete with decorative fruits and heart shaped notes. All that is needed for a growing girl after all. And when he is home you are only eating on his lap, as he hand feeds you his cooking. No more take out if he can help it. And of course if he finds you acting ungrateful for these delicious meals you will either find yourself eating plain porridge out a dog bowl or nothing at all until you decide that wearing a bib is better than the hunger pangs

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rigjeofikwbeiwe this this this....

Darling probably imagines Geto as her savior 😔🫶 but he's actually her demise when the bottle or the dog bowl comes out and those hands aren't as gentle as they used to be....

[luvseraphh]

lyrical inspirations

MHA boys and girls as well as Haikyuu boys and what song lyrics they reminds me of <3 Some of these might be a bit inaccurate but it is based solely off of my perspective and opinions and you are fully allowed to disagree!

Warnings - some suggestive lyrics but otherwise nothing!

"a boy who's jacked and kind" - slim pickins by sabrina carpenter KIRISHIMA, fatgum, mirio, IZUKU, BOKUTO, daichi

"lookin' at you got me thinkin' nonsense" - nonsense by sabrina carpenter KATSUKI, IZUKU, KIRISHIMA, DENKI, SERO, SHINSO, ochaco, mina, dabi, hawks, atsumu, suna, tendou, kenma, kuroo, hinata

"he's good for my heart but he's bad for business" - bad for business by sabrina carpenter BAKUGO, monoma, DABI, SHIGGY, TOGA, tokoyami, tendou, kenma

"baby I'm out of your league (but I want you so bad)" - out of your league (but i want you so bad) by olivia o'brien DABI, SHIGARAKI, denki, tendou, hinata

"put her canine teeth in the side of my neck" - red wine supernova by chappell roan TOGA (I literally just put this song in here for her, it is just her)

"feels like pornography watching you try on jeans" - guilty pleasure by chappell roan the best jeanist (haha get it? (yes I just put this song in here for this bad excuse of a joke)), KATSUKI, kirishima, osamu, iwaizumi

"an inch away from more than just friends" - naked in manhattan by chappell roan URARAKA, mina, kirishima, IZUKU, HINATA, tendou, kenma

"you're always gonna be someone that I want/I'm always forever running back to you" - spring into summer by lizzy mcalpine IZUKU, KIRISHIMA, BAKUGO, SERO, SHINSO, DENKI

"and you would smile and that would be enough" - it's quiet uptown from hamilton DENKI, KIRISHIMA, bakugo, atsumu, BOKUTO, KUROO

"but I'll still be right here waiting for you to come home to me" - come home by max allais dabi, keigo, IZUKU, ochaco, akaashi, KITA

"from the outside you're the prettiest... but inside you're hideous!" - hideous by lew dabi, AFO, shigaraki, OVERHAUL

Taglist - @justmylvr @lwcedribbons @im0nsaturn @dvartefox @failurewater @f0reverfaded @t0asty1 @iv-vee @mp3nai @straows @grenadehearts @hecate-frenchfries

ⓒ luvseraph 4/19/25

[dustinheaven059]

Bro why is Ipomoea Alba/Moonflower only associated with fandom ships💔

APPRECIATE IPOMOEA ALBAS PLEASE LOOK AT HOW PRETTY THEY ARE

I WOULD SELL MY SOUL FOR THEM💔💔💔

THEY ARE MY FAVORITE FLOWERS FOR REAL UGHGHFUHGUGUGHUGGGH

[prouvairesverse]

les mis x zombie apocalypse au . hear me out on this because i think it would be soo interesting and im sad ive never actually seen many

[thefuzzzz]

The first Captain America comics were published during the 1940’s as anti-Nazi war propaganda, so it’s not THAT far fetched to assume Nico di Angelo probably read a few. Like most kids his age, he probably thought Captain America and his cool friend Bucky Barnes were the shit.

Now, imagine Nico di Angelo meeting Jason and immediately thinking “oh, that’s literally Captain America irl. That’s funny.” After becoming better friends with Jason, Nico shares his affinity for Captain America’s comics and watches the movies with Jason. During these movies, Jason thinks “Nico kinda acts like Bucky. That’s funny.”

What I’m trying to say is they think the they’re Stucky. That’s it that’s the post.

[nymphsconstancy]

aaaaa . i need to absorb natlan lore but i have no idea where to start

[mulanvoid]

OMHSHEGSGGSSHSH

[angelwishess]

You guys have heard of Fankids…. Get ready for MOOTKIDS 🔥🔥🔥

@justm3di0cr3 @twtysevapr @skibidibabygirl @midnightmah07 (fact check me on the anya and mah being sisters thing bcs im not sure LMAO)