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themoonking · 2 years ago
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see someone spreading misinformation about ancient greece online, gently correct them, they say "well discerning whats canon and whats fanon in greek mythology is really difficult". i am killed instantly.
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olderthannetfic · 2 years ago
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I'm happy to see some people finally realize that a lot of hate towards east asian media, especially by journalists, isn't just being critical of morally "bad" things, it's just obvious racism hidden behind a smokescreen. Yaoi? Oh ewww, how dare you? Western BL? Oh so pure and perfect! Sexy big boobed chick in anime? Eww misogynistic. Sexy big boobed chick in Western cartoon? Oh so strong big woman so good. Non sexual loli/shota in anime? Eww pedohilia! -Basically just a character who fits the loli/shota term but isn't shown in any sexual way. Actual sexualized children or experience of children in Western shows? So brave, so courages! Obvs a bit hyperbole, but it's like people are finally admitting that maybe, just maybe, calling one disgusting and the other flawless and the truly only real difference in some cases being what culture-country made it, does show some of that badly hidden racism, and western idealization.
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nikadd · 1 year ago
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Not you talking about biphobia and then saying "bi women who date men are hot and lesbians couldn't even have them if they were single"most ugly women that I have seen were straight/bi and the hottest ones were lesbians
damn, way to misread what i said. i usually wouldn’t grace such misreading w my attention, but i guess i should here bc i hate being misunderstood.
i’m assuming you’re referring to this:
“like i’m so tired of ppl online being “heartbroken” over a hot woman (bonus points if she “looks” gay) being w a man - as if you ever had a chance w her if she was single!”
now, let’s break this down:
ppl - people within the context of the entire paragraph and this sentence, yes im talking mostly abt queer women, that including both bi women and lesbians and other microlabels. not just lesbians. in fact, in my entire post i always mean all kinds of queer women.
heartbroken - having a reaction of sadness/disappointment. put quotation marks around it to express my own frustration with the framing of the reaction.
hot woman - i’m guessing this is kinda the epicenter of your issue. what i mean by hot here is who the queer women in question are attracted to. i’m not saying that they are not attractive as well, i just mean that the woman im talking abt is attractive to the ppl having the heartbroken reaction.
bonus points if she “looks” gay - whatever this means to the ppl who see her w regards to current and past trends of looking gay so to speak. short hair/undercut/buzzcut, eyebrow slit, nose piercing, handmade earrings, some kind of alternative styling. basically anything someone could make a tiktok abt wearing and saying “why would ppl assume im straight if i look like THIS?”
being w a man - self-explanatory.
as if you ever had a chance w her if she was single! - this is another part of the sentence where i’m afraid you’ve misunderstood what i meant. ok, so obv i used a hyperbole to emphasize, but what i specifically mean here is that this behavior (expressing heartbreak over somebody being with a man when you expected them to be with a woman/single) is weird and invasive and offputting and unattractive, bc it just sounds like they wish this woman was available to them, and since she’s not, it’s her fault. it sounds like a guy in a teen comedy going “this hot girl is with a stupid ugly jock when she could be with ME” kind of plot, but bc it’s a woman saying it, it’s somehow not seen as weird.
i guess i could have clarified, but the rest of my rant had to w my frustration to reactions/expressions/behaviors, so i didn’t think what im saying might be influenced by the implication of somebody being hot or not.
i guess i could also bring some examples:
natasha lyonne - an icon for queer women, was/is w a man for the longest time. you can find ppl’s surprise and heartbreak and frustration with this fact anywhere on the internet.
the cast of bottoms - when the film came out, a lot of ppl were talking abt both ayo edebiri’s and ruby cruz’s boyfriends with a very strong sense of betrayal. i think being frustrated that a lesbian character isn’t played by a lesbian is understandable, but the way ppl were reacting felt like they were actively being hurt by their celebrity crush not dating a woman.
using the word “partner” - the frustration with ppl using a gender neutral term for their significant other and then it not being somebody of the same gender. some ppl simply prefer the term over boyfriend/girlfriend, some are not strictly cisgender even if they present in ways that ppl might assume they are, some ppl actually do like the gender neutral part of it and use it as a way of allyship to not give too much information when it’s unnecessary. in general, the term is more often used to protect ppl from homophobia by divorcing it from the implication that partner necessarily means a partner of the same gender, but ppl are too used to assuming
strangers on tiktok - i see a lot of tiktoks where a queer woman will have an interaction with a woman they find very attractive in a gay way bc she looks kinda gay and then find out that she is with a man and then feel very disappointed. and then everybody in the comments is agreeing with that sentiment. now, that woman might be with a man bc she’s straight, but she might also be bi/potentially be attracted to women. and if she’s also queer there is a chance she looks kinda gay bc it’s a part of her expression. but the reaction feels like she’s being accused of misleading the other person into believing in her availability.
tldr: i think it’s rude and invasive to make inferences abt somebody’s relationships and then reacting like it’s personally offensive to you if they are dating somebody who’s not you/your gender AND then framing it like a positive/feminist/queer/political reaction. this behavior is why the person in question wouldn’t want to date you, not bc they are hot and you aren’t.
like if i was with a man, then that relationship ended, then i was interested in a woman, but then i found out that she had some kind of weird opinion on me having been with my ex boyfriend (saying that since i have the option to date women then why am i with a man, saying that im wasted being w a man, implying anything abt our dynamic/gender roles without actually knowing details abt our relationship, assuming that he’s automatically dismissive/not respectful of my identity and/or fetishizing it), i wouldn’t want her.
if there are any issues with my explanation, feel free to let me know, because i genuinely did not mean what you’re implying i meant, im just frustrated with the popular rhetoric that perpetuates negative stereotypes while the concerns abt them are being dismissed.
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welivefast-dieyoung · 1 month ago
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What’s Will Poulter’s chart saying?! He too has become a new ELITE EMPLOYEE for meeeeeeee
Lmaooo I haven't been ignoring you anon I swear, but you've started something now, because as you'll see I've got A LOT to say on this. Believe it or not I've tried to keep it brief. (If you see any typos, no you fucking didn't, I'm too dyslexic to re-read read all this shit 😭)
I'd have to know your placements and his rising sign to go really in-depth but like I mean there's a lot I like about his chart, but everyone vibes with different placements differently. I will say if you're earth heavy idk if you'd be able to deal with him because he has no earth in his personal planets and that Aries Moon is hanging on for dear LIFE.
Starting with the mix of the Aquarius and the Aries.First off, for better or for worse I always find myself being obsessed with Aquarius men and Aquarius placements in general. And secondly unfortunately despite my best efforts I do enjoy an Aries Sun or Moon..or Mars. But with the Aquarius and Aries combination (especially because of his Sun conjunct Mercury) it explains why he's BEEN standing on business when it comes to his political positions, in a way you don't see from most people in the public eye. Like the Aquarius explains the humanitarian side of him and the like, idk how to explain it, but like display of like intentional and intellectually backed activism he does. But the Aries explains why his activism is very lived in and like not performative, to the point where he ends up in places/spaces and does things, that nobody expects (the revolutionary and mouldy breaking nature of Aries). Especially when you add in his North Node in Sag which basically means he's here to talk his shit no matter what the consequences, think about the bigger picture and explore different avenues and learn about different cultures which obvs he absolutely does in his work, his life and his activism. Like he literally went viral for talking about how another culture's food is underappreciated and calling out Michelin. He's working with the Black Curiculum to tackle like the genuine root causes of racism i.e. lack of education and also every (and no that's not hyperbole if there's a way to sneak it in there no matter the interview he'll do it, look into it😭) chance he gets he says something to try and highlight lack of representation for people of colour (moreso Black people) in film, fashion, education, food like you name it. Basically, it all fits scarily well with this kind of mix of energies.
I did a whole post on here about why I like his chart personally but it depends on you, your planets/houses, how you feel about certain placement and certain dynamics in terms of houses and aspects if he can truly be an ELITE employee for you, because I'm quite errmmm messy😭. The way some of his plants interact with mine like it's just ermm idk, if you're intrested go read the post💀.
If I'm giving like a breakdown of like the more general things I like (Disclaimer: I'm not an expert I just know what I like 💀)
The Mars in Cancer in retrograde honestly however is a massive red flag because I HATE Cancer placements in men like across the board. Mostly because it usually manifests as being a whiney little bitch in my experience. It's like a triple whammy though because it's such a key placement, and not only do I HATE that it's Cancer, but Mars is in fall in Cancer, and then the retrograde just makes it horrendous. Like if I got into a fight with him I'd probably go insane because he'd be moody, reactive and driven by emotion rather than logic.
HOWEVER firstly the Aquarius placements could bring him back down when it comes to the lack of logic (it depends on aspects) and secondly the Cancer energy combined with the Venus in Pisces does mean that he's most likely the sweetheart everyone says he is, and is probably a real ride or die. All of which tracks with everything I've ever read/heard about him.
Okay looking back this isn't very brief at all😭 But I hope I've made a case for why he's a strong contender for employee of like, the century.
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manstrans · 2 years ago
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hi! so i really want to approach you in good faith here, because maybe i'm just confused about what everyone's arguing about? i'm autistic so sometimes i totally miss these nuances. and i think we have a lot in common on this topic bc i'm also a trans man who was forced into femininity for a period (i came out in middle school to... bad reception).
but i really don't understand why you feel attacked by the jokes going around right now? because like, yes, men includes trans men. but when my dad made me wear girls clothes he wasnt going '(as a queer tumblr user who likes having sex with feminine men) you need to wear makeup and 'slay' to have worth'. he was going 'you're a girl so wear girl clothes or else'.
like, i cant help but see the jokes being made as obvious hyperbolic statements, and i dont see any connection between them and the trauma guys like you and i went thru. cause when i was bullied into being feminine, it wasnt because 'men have to do that' it was because 'afab people are women'.
i guess the gulf of meaning between transphobes saying 'youre a girl so do x' and someone on tumblr jokingly saying 'men need to do x or else' is so wide that i'm not seeing the connection? if anything, i think its neat that guys wearing skirts is cool now and not just something that was used to subjugate me.
but clearly you dont feel that way. and i was hoping you could maybe explain why? because im seeing what youre saying and i understand all of it (trans guys SHOULDNT have to dress feminine, and obvs abuse is bad). but i guess i just dont understand what it had to do with the post, which everyone seems to think was only a joke?
basically my point is everything youre saying makes sense, w/r/t mistreatment against trans men, but only i don't understand why the post upset you. and since people are taking sides i'd really like to hear from you instead of just people laughing about it.
ty for asking!! I really do appreciate when people ask for more information on stuff like this
the genre of joke is upsetting to me because the specific wording makes it feel like wether or not a space is progressive doesn't matter, my masculinity will never be seen as something that has to be fought for. even if it's just a joke, it's still really uncomfortable to hear the underlying message of "it would be more groundbreaking if you were feminine" or "you should be feminine for me specifically" when that hits too close to home, even if the person doesn't really mean it it's still uncomfortable to see. appreciation of feminine men is great and I'm all here for it! but putting down masculine men doesn't only target cishet white men and people act like it does when you point that out
the specific post I've been upset about lately though was making fun of a post that I made, the person who made it reblogged a screenshot of my post without the context that I'm trans and then made a post mocking my post immediately after. I did reply to that post explaining the backstory of my post and I tried to be respectful but they've doubled down and, as far as I'm aware, still have not even acknowledged the actual context of the original post they mocked
the genre of post I'm not too upset about, I wouldn't consider it super progressive but it's also not the worst thing in the world. the specific post however is upsetting given the context of it
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drifloonz · 2 years ago
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💜hai! i'm wispy among other names.
🪀he/they primarily. | am 18 babey !! | pokemon has been my special interest since i was small. im autistic but rlly what pokemon fan isnt /hj.
my requests aren't closed but do understand i dont reply to them that often bc i have executive dysfunction. i do see them and plan to. eventually hopefully, but don't expect anything 100%
Im Really Autistic about Steven. my interpretation is very personal to me. obviously i write headcanons and x readers and he mostly draws from canon or canon implications, but do understand he is very personal to me.
he helped me thru a lot of bad times and i selfship w him etc etc but i am here to give people Food and things to chew on w him ... and sometimes other characters. i'm very picky about how people interpret him ( i hate fanon i hate fandom hes not a yaoiboy stttoppp ) which is straight up why i made the blog or one of the reasons . although the more clingy i get with steven the less i feel like updating the blog due to feeling very weird when i feel like people are using my interpretation . which is stupid. but is one of the many reasons if you ever wonder about it.
character masterlist | im updating this later probably with things like rules or boundaries but basically don't be a freak or a pr/shitter.
canon pokemon characters that arent like idk red/blue/rosa/the protags bc theyre easy to write, etc Are harder for me to write but i can write anything and anyone if i lock in enough.
i write things for pokemon/pokepasta! all headcanons and writing posts where the reader is inserted are gender-neutral by default unless said otherwise.
hello! this is my pokemon/pokepasta ( mainly pokepasta bc im fixated rn ) sideblog where i may write and draw. feel free to send requests ( mainly for writing i do not draw shit for free unless i rlly feel like it but u can still try ig ) . i looove steven strangled red he is my bbygirl. glitchy red as well. the sillies. mostly, the hyplull interps of them. i can and will write things up for them ( imagines, x readers possibly bc i am a little fruity, and gay, among other things! just ask . ) .
this also extends to the other hyplull characters just to a lesser degree . i may read up on it / actually watch the associated game if i get requests 4 the others i know less abt ( eg lost silver ) lol . i may be able to write for the ones i know less abt but it may take me a while cuz' i'll have to read up on them! i know the basic Gists abt most of them tho.
🕯 writing will be under #wispy-writes and art will be under #wispy-doodles . textposts r just wispy chatters as seen From this post. this is mostly for my own future reference lol.
🎠 please please pleaaase send me requests or questions or headcanons in my askbox i wont bite ( i will )
i will sometimes reblog those posts tht r like "send an ask in for the blog owner to answer a specific question" . as long as you link the post ( if its far back ) i Will answer those bc i love those. mostly will reblog writing and character based ones :3
i can and will write nsfw but only for characters that are over 18, obviously . ( mainly steven. and glitchy. and red ( the older version in like alola, obv ). bc im biased for those 3 particularly. steven/glitchy being based on the hyplull mod where They are 18/over. i won't write for nsfw of red or steven in timeperiods where they're implied or canonically underage, like steven before the accident or red during his og journey or on mt silver or w/e ). i'll probably block minors who int with the posts so apologies in advance for that. these will be tagged properly and have the mature content thingy on
i don't like the concept of y/nderes bc they're a demonization and hyperbolization of bpd, which i have, but i like writing possessiveness and other traits that those 'interpretations' have, which is similar but without the hyperbolization and gross fetishization or murder ( usually ) . so just say like. possessive / easily jealous [ character ] instead of y/ndere Please.
ok thank you :] plz have fun.
[ also ofc, prosh/tters, t/rfs, bigots, etc, dni! ]
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realcube · 5 years ago
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What BNHA Heroes have their s/o saved as in their phone
Class 1A x Reader
+ Aizawa and Shinsou
tw// cussing, cringe smh, lots of love <3 
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Class 1A
Yuga Aoyama 
he has you saved as ‘my ✨star✨’
and honestly you love it because he calls you that in real life too 
Mina Ashido 
she has you saved as ‘bubs 💞💓💖💝💘💕’
 the only reason there isn’t more hearts was because of the limit smh
she changes it every few weeks to a new pet name though
also she calls you that irl sometimes
Tsuyu Asui
she has you saved as ‘my flower 🌺’
honestly, the only reason she put you as that rather than your name because of your intense love for flora
every date you take Tsuyu on is always to somewhere with beautiful scenery and an abundance of flowers
Tenya Iida 
he has you saved as ‘beef stew’
he originally had you saved as ‘(Y/N) (L/N)’ 
but you showed him that you had him saved as ‘Honey’ so he wanted to save you under a pet name too
however, he couldn’t really think of one so he asked for you assistance and you told him that most cute pet names come from food
“So, what food do I remind you of, Iida?” 
“Beef stew.” 
Needless to say you both were laughing your asses off for a while after that 
but it’s still cute because beef stew is his favourite food just like you are his favourite person
Ochako Uraraka
she has you saved as ‘(L/N) <3 ’
she wanted to use a heart emoticon but her flip-phone doesn’t let her smh
Also she doesn’t have a pet name for you yet but she is working on it 
like she tried calling you ‘baby girl’ but then you explained to her the sexual undertones to that name so she stopped and she’s been too embarrassed since then to try again 
Mashirao Ojiro
he has you saved as ‘tail boy’s s/o 🤪’
y’all had a whole-ass discussion about this one time lmao
y’all were brainstorming ideas for what you should save each other as in your phones
you didn’t want to have something basic like ‘babe’ or ‘my heart🥰’ but rather something funny and you suggested (jokingly) to save his contact as ‘tail boy’
and rather than being offended like you thought he’d be, you both ended up laughing your asses of together for a solid 5 minutes (at least)
so you saved his contact as that and since he couldn’t come up with a funny nickname in relation to your quirk, he just saved you as ‘tail boy’s s/o🤪’
 Denki Kaminari 
he has you saved as ‘ASH CECHUM 😩😳💦🌚💓🧀'
plz don’t ask about the emojis idek
anyway, he saw that you saved him as ‘Pikachu <3′ which makes sense considering his quirk..
so he took it upon himself to save your contact as - in his own words - “That guy who owns the Pikachu from Pokémon’ 
however, despite the fact he has watched Pokémon before, he had no idea how to spell Ash’s second name and apparently the thought never came him that; ‘hey, maybe I should google it.’
so he just sounded it out 
as for the all caps, contrary to popular belief , he does know how to turn it off
he just chooses not to for the aesthetic and also it takes a lot of effort 
that is why he doesn’t use proper punctuation either 
Eijiro Kirishima
he has you saved as ‘love bug’
honestly, you’re not too sure of when or why he changed your contact name after y’all started dating but..
you thought it was cute but..a bit cringe
obviously you didn’t say anything about it though, you weren’t trying to be mean to your boyfriend for no reason
it’s not like he called you that irl
however, he’d be out of his mind if he thought you were gonna save him as something like that 
the best he’ll get from you is ‘Kiri babe 🤘' (get it? bc...rock!)
Kouji Koda 
he has you saved as ‘love bug’
ASKJFCWB YOU THINK IT IS OUT-OF-THIS-WORLD ADORABLE OML
like it makes sense because he like talks to insects and stuff and you’re his lil love bug cause you are his lover and stuff hhhhh
also because of the size difference between you and him, i mean, you are basically the size of an insect compared to him 
in short, Koda supremacy  🙇‍♀️🙇‍♂️
Rikidou Satou
he has you saved as ‘sugar pie’ 
honestly, poor man
he was completely clueless when you asked him to save you as something cute 
like, he know what you meant...but he had no idea what to go for 
so you chose for him 👍
and you made a pretty good decision tbh I mean, it’s cute! it relates to his quirk and all
and he has started to call you that irl sometimes and it always makes your heart go brrrrrrr
Mezou Shouji 
he has you saved as ‘hunk’ 
ok, i know i said Satou was a poor man but let me just say
THIS POOR MAN 
you told him it’d be cute if you both saved each other as cute pet names in your phones and dead ass him response ‘you’re not my pet though..’
AAAAAAAAAAA
so after a lot of explaining, as an example you whipped out your own phone and showed him how you had saved him as ‘hunk’ 
...he really went and just copied you
you thought that was so funny and precious though so you didn’t ask him to change it
Kyouka Jirou 
she has you saved as ‘my melody 🎶’
ok, so it started when she noticed that you use the same pen everyday - a My Melody one
she thought that was so fucking adorable and she kinda started teasing you for it; not that you minded though
she also thought it was so cute when you’d get all flustered 
so one day she just decided to change your contact name to that 
it also kinda tied in with her love for music (but mostly her love for you uwu)
Hanta Sero
he has you saved as ‘my honey nutter butter biscuit’
after Kirishima called his s/o ‘love bug’ infront of y’all that one time, you both spent the next hour taking the piss and laughing at how over-the-top couple nicknames are sometimes 
so just #for the meme he saved your contact as a hyperbole of what those cringe couple pet names are like
oh and you have him saved as ‘My beloved sweet peach taco’
Fumikage Tokoyami
he has you saved as ‘Helena’
yeah, he wanted to be edgy and save your contact after a MCR song
(no, he does not know that Helena is about Gerard’s grandmother but don’t you dare tell him)
Shoto Todoroki
he has you saved as ‘(Y/N) (L/N) 💖’
you texted him something during lunch one time to see his reaction while you were sitting next to him but then you noticed that your name in his phone was simply ‘(Y/N) (L/N)’
you mentioned it briefly but you didn’t make a fuss out of it because it really wasn’t a big deal
however, he asked to see what his name in your phone was and you showed him
you had saved him as ‘Babey ( •̀ ω •́ )✧’
he went home and did some research on some good pet names to save you as in his phone
after that, his search history kinda looked like;
‘pet names’
‘pet names for humans’
‘pet names for lovers’
‘cute nicknames for my girlfriend’
‘cute emoticons’
he deadass came in the next day and the first thing he did was pull out his phone and show you the emoji he put next to your name
“Look, (L/N). I found this emoticon and put it next to your contact name in my phone.”
yes, he sound like boomer..obvs
he spends 90% of his free time training rather than on his phone 
and the time that he is on his phone, he isn’t using emojis, he is searching shit like 
‘how to hack into a credit card without the PIN’
Tooru Hagakure
she saves you as ‘❤😘’
no, she doesn’t need to save you as your name to remember who you are 
she’s not a peasant
Katsuki Bakugo
he has you saved as ‘pretty stupid face’
originally it was just ‘stupid face’
but you noticed it and just dropped a subtle comment like “hey, that’s mean.”
so he came in the next day with ‘pretty’ added to the start
“i am genuinely too nice to you sometimes.” he’d say
“THE STUPID FACE PART IS STILL THERE”
“I KNOW BUT I ADDED PRETTY TO THE START!!”
“Wow, tch, such I gentleman-”
“I know-HEY WAIT WAS THAT SARCASM?!”
Izuku Midoriya 
he has you saved as ‘sweetest love muffin’
you that one couple i mentioned in Sero’s headcanons?
yeah, that’s y’all
you are both literally that couple
“No, you hang up.”
“No, you hang up!”
“Nooo, cause I’ll miss you”
“I’ll miss you moreeee”
he literally threw a bunch of his favourite adjectives into a pet name lol
also your contact name for him is something on a similar wavelength
Minoru Mineta
I know most y’all would’ve even give him your number lol
but for those who would 🤮
he has you saved as ‘sweet cheeks’ or sumn 
Momo Yaoyorozu
she has you saved as ‘My McMuffin’
HOL UP LET ME EXPLAIN
ok so she let you take her to McDonald’s cause you wanted to see her reaction since she is used to gourmet cuisine or whatever
so it was sure to be entertaining 
and it was 
but not in a good way
she was almost sick after she had a bite of a big mac and then she tried to wash it down with the Sprite but then she fainted for like a solid 10 seconds
once she came back, she obviously wanted to leave..so you did 
A year later, y’all are in the town and both of you are starving 
But Momo realised that she didn’t have her card on her or any money but that was fine because at least you had your debit card on you 
You had enough money on it for a taxi back to Momos place and a McMuffin each
Obviously she didn’t want one but when you started eating in front of her, of course she wanted a taste
and so it was love at first bite
she loved it so much so of course you bought another one for her and she consumed it in a millisecond (not literally)
so now she has your contact saved as the one thing competing against you for her love - a McMuffin
Shota Aizawa
unfortunately he does not have your contact saved as ‘kitten’
instead, in his phone you are saved as ‘The One  💙’
simple, yet it effectively shows his admiration - just the way he likes it
 and he only added the emoji to make your name stand out more so he could easily tell whether he was gonna ignore the following message or not
because if Mike is texting him telling his that he needs the extremely important documents that Aizawa keeps in his coded filing cabinet, Shota will be like -.-
but if you text him asking for him to pick up chocolate on his way home, he’ll be like 🏃‍♂️
Hitoshi Shinso 
he has you saved as ‘big daddy’
plz don’t ask 
it’s an inside joke between you and him
okay well, if you must know 
y’all were trying to come up with the most absurd nicknames for each other that kinda sound legit 
some other gems 
‘Muscleman’
‘Big scary snookums’
‘sexy giant’
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gardenstateofmind · 8 years ago
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i just saw some post about break ups and it got me thinking about how part of why some of the general attitudes towards girls i see on here and in similar communities kinda grate against me. like im all for girl positivity, uplifting each other, celebrating girls loving girls, that’s all great
but it’s not good to act like girls can do no wrong and they’re perfect and stuff like that. one thing is hyperbolic praise, that’s fine, but it’s another to talk abt that shit like ur serious. like girls can be awful and toxic and abusive and just generally Bad.
i dont have any hard facts on this, just my personal experience that abuse and unhealthy dynamics in same gender relationships go kind of ignored. i dont want any wlw to be misled into thinking that a relationship is gonna be perfect just cause it doesnt involve a guy. or for people who’ve had bad experiences being in relationships with girls to feel invalidated
like obvs it’s different to date a girl but the basics are the same like it’s just as complicated. and like im not a girl but when i was dating betrayonnaise i was presenting as one and basically it was a lesbian relationship, and after we broke up i wanted to be angry and bitter and feel validated in that. but i never rly got that from the wlw community cause it was all “uwu girls are perfect angels” and i was just like Fuck That Bitch. so anyway girls can suck too and romantic relationships are terrible
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iamnojedii · 5 years ago
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GET TO KNOW ME MEME
tagged by: @marshalcommands tagging:  all of u, tell me ur secrets
ONE - ( alias / name ) : Sarah
TWO - ( birthday ) : Feb 3rd
THREE - ( zodiac sign ) : Aquarius (like, a super Aquarius most of my star chart is all Aquarius with the rest mostly being Capricorn)
FOUR - ( height ) : 5′8″
FIVE - ( hobbies ) : writing (obvs), video games (I love !! video games), guitar, and going on walking adventures with my dogs (August and Zelda), collecting so much nerd stuff that I don’t know where to put it tbh (thanks, comic con)
SIX - ( favorite color ) : I love darker shades of purples and reds
SEVEN - ( favorite books ) : This is a dangerous question to ask me; Lexicon - Max Barry, the Kiesha’Ra series - Amelia Atwater-Rhodes (you want LBGTQ rep and fantasy and crazy powerful magic and that can literally break a person’s mind and the world around them? read it. also romance~), Revenge of the Sith - Matthew Stover, Sharp Objects - Gillian Flynn, The World Without Us - Alan Weisman, The Ocean at the End of the Lane - Neil Gaiman, Hyperbole and a Half - Allie Brosh, and so many, many more but those are the ones that come to mind.
EIGHT - ( last film or show watched ) : I’ve been rewatching The Clone Wars with my mom (who is very concerned that Anakin and Padme are going to “break up”, oh mom lol), but the last show I watched on my own was the latest ep of The Patriot Act with Hasan Minhaj.
NINE - ( inspiration for muse ) : I just love Ahsoka. There’s a lot of room for exploration for her character that I get to play around with, from the time frame right after the fall of the Jedi to SW:Rebels (like hello, she’s basically the Rebel Alliance’s Nick Fury), to the time following ANH after the Empire falls (dave filoni tell me what happened in that sith temple !!). I like exploring her morality following her departure from the Jedi Order and how she comes to terms with the world around her, her light and her dark and how she remains balanced/neutral.
TEN - ( story behind url ) : her most badass line of dialogue
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