#AdversityToAdvantage

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If you want to change the world around you, start by changing yourself from within. Instead of dwelling on the negatives, focus your time and energy on the positives.

When I was younger, I worked at a dollar store for two and a half years. Many would think it was an easy job and that I should have been happy. But the reality was different. I felt miserable due to the long lines, one manager who constantly screamed at me and made unreasonable demands, customers who followed me home, and more. The more I dwelled on these negatives, the worse my job became.

At one point, a customer threw her iced coffee at me because I had to check IDs to sell lighters, following store protocol. It was a rule that had been in place for years. After she was escorted out and banned, my head manager, the actual boss, told me to go home early for the day and take a few days off. I think she knew I was burnt out and close to quitting, and this incident pushed me over the edge.

During that week off, I reflected and realized there were more cons than pros to staying in that job. When I returned the following Friday, I decided to try and make it a positive day. While it wasn't perfect, it was better. The lines were shorter, and I could get more recovery work done. This positive trend continued, and things began to improve.

Eventually, my head boss had her baby and quit, leading to a transition to find a new boss. A new team also merged with ours, and they were some of the nicest people. I was able to focus on my favorite job, recovering the store and making it look nice, as the night manager took over the register.

Although I lost this job due to COVID-19, I was happier towards the end of my time there. I became known as the happiest person among my coworkers and customers. Even my favorite customers noticed the change and cheered me on. While it may have seemed like chance that I became happier and things improved, I see it as a blessing.

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I Am Strong: Unleashing the Power Within Shaina Tranquilino March 20, 2024

Strength is not just a physical attribute; it's a state of mind, a quality that resides within each one of us, waiting to be harnessed and embraced. In the journey of life, challenges and obstacles are inevitable, but it is our inner strength that determines how we navigate through them. "I am strong" is not just a statement; it's a mantra that empowers, motivates, and transforms. Let's delve into the depths of what it truly means to embrace strength in every aspect of our lives.

The Power of Resilience:

Life is a rollercoaster, full of ups and downs. Resilience is the key to weathering the storms that come our way. Instead of seeing setbacks as roadblocks, consider them as opportunities for growth. Embracing resilience means understanding that failures are not the end but rather stepping stones towards success. By adopting a resilient mindset, you tap into your inner strength and learn to bounce back stronger than ever.

Mind over Matter:

Strength emanates from the mind. The way we perceive challenges and setbacks greatly influences our ability to overcome them. Affirmations, positive self-talk, and mindfulness play crucial roles in cultivating mental strength. By consciously choosing empowering thoughts, we train our minds to focus on solutions rather than dwelling on problems. The phrase "I am strong" becomes a mental anchor, reminding us of our inherent capabilities.

Physical Empowerment:

While mental strength is paramount, physical well-being is equally important. Regular exercise not only contributes to physical health but also boosts mental resilience. Whether it's through weightlifting, yoga, or cardiovascular activities, the act of pushing our physical limits fosters a sense of accomplishment and reinforces the belief that we are indeed strong. Taking care of our bodies enhances overall strength and vitality.

Embracing Vulnerability:

Strength is not synonymous with invincibility. True strength lies in vulnerability and authenticity. Acknowledging our weaknesses and seeking support when needed are signs of immense strength. It takes courage to be open about our struggles and challenges. By embracing vulnerability, we connect with others on a deeper level and build a support system that further fortifies our inner strength.

Turning Adversity into Advantage:

Life's challenges are inevitable, but our response to them is within our control. Instead of viewing adversity as a hindrance, see it as an opportunity for personal and spiritual growth. Every challenge is a chance to discover hidden strengths and resilience. By reframing adversity as a teacher rather than an enemy, we harness the power within us to turn challenges into stepping stones towards a brighter future.

"I am strong" is not just a statement; it's a mindset, a way of life. In embracing our inner strength, we transform challenges into opportunities and setbacks into comebacks. Whether it's overcoming mental barriers, prioritizing physical well-being, or embracing vulnerability, strength is a multifaceted gem that sparkles in the face of adversity. So, let the mantra "I am strong" resonate within you, guiding you through life's journey with resilience, courage, and an unwavering belief in your own power.