#GRACEFUL

[glowettee]

the feminine urge to romanticize self-discipline ✧˖°

discipline isn’t punishment. it’s self-respect. but let’s actually make it soft. let’s make it beautiful.

self-discipline is a love language to your future self. it’s the little moments, sipping coffee while annotating a book, lighting a candle before opening your laptop, journaling about your dream life before bed. discipline isn’t just about getting things done, it’s about becoming the person who gets things done.

so let’s make it aesthetic. let’s make it effortless. let’s make it you.

romanticize waking up early: silk pajamas, a sunlit journal, a playlist that makes you feel like the main character.

romanticize studying: handwritten notes, cute highlighters, soft classical music playing in the background.

romanticize working out: matching workout sets, pilates with fairy lights, feeling your body become stronger.

romanticize being her: the girl who prioritizes her dreams, who moves with purpose, who embodies grace in everything she does.

discipline isn’t something you force. it’s something you cultivate.

xoxo mindy

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Stefania Ferrario

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Rachel Cook

[bunnies-and-sunshine]

Graceful zoomies!

Well, graceful right up until she ran into the center of the 3-way tunnel and flipped it over. Naomi is perpetually optimistic in her battle with momentum! 😅

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2020 2025

[thatgentlewife]

Becoming a Softer, More Gentle, and Appreciative Woman

Lately, I’ve felt a strong pull in my heart to grow into a softer, more gentle, and delicate woman—someone who radiates peace, grace, and genuine appreciation in every interaction. I want my words and actions to reflect the love of Jesus and create an atmosphere where people feel seen, valued, and loved.

I’ve realized that being soft doesn’t mean being weak. It means choosing humility over pride, patience over frustration, and kindness over anger, even in challenging situations. Being gentle means letting the Holy Spirit shape me into someone who carries the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).

Why I Desire This Change

In a world that can feel harsh and hurried, I want to stand out as someone who embodies Christ’s heart. I want my husband to feel my love and appreciation through my words and actions. I want to inspire others by showing grace in difficult moments and creating peace in my home. Ultimately, I want to honor God by reflecting His gentleness and tenderness in my life.

How I Plan to Grow in These Qualities

1. Speaking with Kindness

I’ll work on pausing before I speak to ensure my words are uplifting and thoughtful. A habit I want to develop is asking myself, “Is this kind? Is it necessary? Does it build up?” before saying anything.

2. Slowing Down

Busyness can harden my heart, so I’ll intentionally slow down to savor life’s little moments. This means stepping away from distractions to fully listen when someone speaks or simply enjoying the beauty of nature.

3. Practicing Gratitude

I want to be genuinely appreciative of everything and everyone God has placed in my life. Writing daily in a gratitude journal will help me focus on His blessings and shift my heart toward thankfulness.

4. Serving with Joy

Whether it’s cooking a meal for my husband, helping at work, or lending a hand to a friend, I want to serve with a joyful heart. I’ll remind myself that every act of service is an opportunity to reflect God’s love.

5. Nurturing My Spirit

Spending daily time in prayer and Bible study will be key in softening my heart. Meditating on Scriptures about gentleness and humility (like Philippians 4:5 and Colossians 3:12) will guide me in becoming more Christlike.

6. Responding with Grace

When things don’t go as planned, I want to respond with grace instead of frustration. I’ll practice breathing deeply, praying for peace, and choosing to see situations from a loving perspective.

7. Embracing My Feminine Energy

I want to lean into being delicate and nurturing, embracing the beauty of femininity that God created me to have. This means creating a peaceful and inviting home, taking care of myself physically and emotionally, and being a source of comfort to those around me.

I know I’ll stumble along the way, but I’m excited to grow into the woman I feel God calling me to be. With His guidance, I’ll cultivate habits and a heart that radiate gentleness, love, and appreciation. Here’s to walking this journey with grace and faith, one day at a time.

Thank you for listening

Thatgentlewife 🌷

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[glowettee]

how to stop waiting & start becoming her

the version of you that you dream about? she already exists. she’s just waiting for you to step into her.

most people spend their lives waiting. waiting for motivation, waiting for the right moment, waiting until they feel “ready.” but you don’t become her by waiting, you become her by deciding.

💡 how to step into your highest self today

act as if. if you were already the best version of yourself, how would you dress? what would you eat? how would you carry yourself? do that now.

romanticize your discipline. the life you want requires effort, but effort doesn’t have to be exhausting. make your self-improvement journey beautiful. create morning routines you adore. make studying aesthetic. turn workouts into a ritual.

speak it into existence. your words shape your reality. stop saying “i wish i was confident.” start saying “i am glowing with confidence.” your mind believes what you tell it.

let go of the past version of you. the one who procrastinated, the one who doubted herself, the one who played small, she doesn’t exist anymore. every day, you are new.

you don’t become her someday. you become her now.

xoxo mindy <3

whisper your worries to glowettee hotline. i’m listening. <3: https://bit.ly/glowetteehotline

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Valeria Rudenko

[artthatgivesmefeelings]

Nicolas de Largillière (French, 1656-1746) Portrait of A Lady, Late 1690-s Pushkin Museum of Fine Arts, Moscow

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[stanford-photography]

Enjoying Autumn By Jeff Stanford, 2024 Buy prints at: https://jeff-stanford.pixels.com/

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BOBSUNE MIKU???

my art :D

Based on TLC hehehe

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Glamorous Red Satin Strapless Deep V Neck Sequins Mermaid Prom Dress with Gloves | Ballbellas