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✧・゜: she studies. she plans. she glows. :・゜✧

hey lovelies,

i need to tell you something that changed my life: you don’t glow by accident. you glow because you chose to live with intention. and behind that intention? there’s always structure. softness needs structure. dreams need systems. the glow doesn’t last if there’s no fuel. and that’s why she studies. she plans. and then, she glows.

i used to think planning made me rigid. that studying was something i did to survive school. but now? it’s sacred. planning is self-devotion. studying is energy refinement. it’s how i stay rooted in who i’m becoming.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ study like a girl who knows what she wants ･:

studying isn’t just for students. we’re always studying, ourselves, our habits, the world, patterns, people. studying is the art of paying attention. and when you start doing it on purpose? you become dangerously clear.

here’s how i study now:

1. i study myself. daily. i treat my thoughts like data. i track what energizes me. what drains me. what time of day i spiral. what triggers my self-doubt. what environments make me feel beautiful. this is a full-time subject. i don’t wait until a breakdown to learn my patterns.

2. i study things that build the life i want. if i want soft mornings, i study slow living. if i want a glowettee brand empire, i study content strategy and brand psychology. no more “i’ll figure it out eventually.” i study with intention. curiosity is a power tool, use it.

3. i study people who already have what i want, but i don’t copy them. i look for structure, not aesthetics. what systems are they using? what rituals do they repeat? what don’t they waste time on? i learn their rhythms, not just their results.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ plan like a goddess in her strategy era ･:࿔

some non-basic planning truths i live by:

✧ weekly glow rituals > daily to-do lists every sunday i set intentions based on how i want to feel, not just what i need to get done. i ask:

what energy do i want to lead with this week?

what will keep me rooted?

where can i be more gentle?

what’s the one thing that would move the needle?

✧ i schedule pleasure, not just productivity if it’s not in the plan, it gets pushed to the side. so i block time for:

doing my makeup with no rush

journaling with tea + a playlist

going outside to look at the sky

pinterest moodboarding just for fun this isn’t extra. this is fuel.

✧ i create systems for my future self i don’t plan in chaos. i plan for ease. that means:

organizing my folders so i can find things fast

having templates for content so i’m not starting from zero

using rituals (like matcha, same playlist, same candle) to signal “it’s time to work”

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ glowing is the result of living in alignment ･:࿔

the glow isn’t makeup. it’s not good lighting. it’s alignment. it’s what happens when your actions are in sync with your purpose. when your days reflect your values. when you stop running in five directions just to look busy, and instead move in one clear, beautiful direction that’s yours.

you glow when:

your nervous system is regulated

you’re clear on your priorities

you don’t betray your energy just to be seen

your rituals keep you anchored

your goals are connected to your self-respect, not your ego

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ let me be real for a sec ･:࿔

i don’t always feel put-together. i still spiral. i still cry on the floor sometimes. but the difference now is, i don’t stay lost. i have a system that brings me back.

my plans hold me when i start to slip. my study habits sharpen me when i’m confused. my glow reminds me that i’m doing this all with love.

so if you’ve been floating, flailing, forcing, pause. make it gentle again. make it strategic again. study with intention. plan with softness. glow without apology.

xoxo, mindy 🤍

[glowettee]

✧・゜: she studies. she plans. she glows. :・゜✧

hey lovelies,

i need to tell you something that changed my life: you don’t glow by accident. you glow because you chose to live with intention. and behind that intention? there’s always structure. softness needs structure. dreams need systems. the glow doesn’t last if there’s no fuel. and that’s why she studies. she plans. and then, she glows.

i used to think planning made me rigid. that studying was something i did to survive school. but now? it’s sacred. planning is self-devotion. studying is energy refinement. it’s how i stay rooted in who i’m becoming.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ study like a girl who knows what she wants ･:

studying isn’t just for students. we’re always studying, ourselves, our habits, the world, patterns, people. studying is the art of paying attention. and when you start doing it on purpose? you become dangerously clear.

here’s how i study now:

1. i study myself. daily. i treat my thoughts like data. i track what energizes me. what drains me. what time of day i spiral. what triggers my self-doubt. what environments make me feel beautiful. this is a full-time subject. i don’t wait until a breakdown to learn my patterns.

2. i study things that build the life i want. if i want soft mornings, i study slow living. if i want a glowettee brand empire, i study content strategy and brand psychology. no more “i’ll figure it out eventually.” i study with intention. curiosity is a power tool, use it.

3. i study people who already have what i want, but i don’t copy them. i look for structure, not aesthetics. what systems are they using? what rituals do they repeat? what don’t they waste time on? i learn their rhythms, not just their results.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ plan like a goddess in her strategy era ･:࿔

some non-basic planning truths i live by:

✧ weekly glow rituals > daily to-do lists every sunday i set intentions based on how i want to feel, not just what i need to get done. i ask:

what energy do i want to lead with this week?

what will keep me rooted?

where can i be more gentle?

what’s the one thing that would move the needle?

✧ i schedule pleasure, not just productivity if it’s not in the plan, it gets pushed to the side. so i block time for:

doing my makeup with no rush

journaling with tea + a playlist

going outside to look at the sky

pinterest moodboarding just for fun this isn’t extra. this is fuel.

✧ i create systems for my future self i don’t plan in chaos. i plan for ease. that means:

organizing my folders so i can find things fast

having templates for content so i’m not starting from zero

using rituals (like matcha, same playlist, same candle) to signal “it’s time to work”

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ glowing is the result of living in alignment ･:࿔

the glow isn’t makeup. it’s not good lighting. it’s alignment. it’s what happens when your actions are in sync with your purpose. when your days reflect your values. when you stop running in five directions just to look busy, and instead move in one clear, beautiful direction that’s yours.

you glow when:

your nervous system is regulated

you’re clear on your priorities

you don’t betray your energy just to be seen

your rituals keep you anchored

your goals are connected to your self-respect, not your ego

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ let me be real for a sec ･:࿔

i don’t always feel put-together. i still spiral. i still cry on the floor sometimes. but the difference now is, i don’t stay lost. i have a system that brings me back.

my plans hold me when i start to slip. my study habits sharpen me when i’m confused. my glow reminds me that i’m doing this all with love.

so if you’ve been floating, flailing, forcing, pause. make it gentle again. make it strategic again. study with intention. plan with softness. glow without apology.

xoxo, mindy 🤍

[glowettee]

. ࣪ ⋆ ۪ ׂ ✶. ࣪ ⋆ ۪ ׂ ✶ . ࣪ ⋆ ۪ ׂ ✶. ࣪ ⋆ ۪ ׂ ✶. ࣪ ⋆ ۪ ׂ ✶. ࣪ ⋆ ۪ ׂ ✶. ࣪ ⋆ ۪ ׂ ✶. ࣪

𝓗𝓮𝓵𝓵𝓸 𝓚𝓲𝓽𝓽𝔂 - 𝒞𝑒𝓁𝓁 𝒫𝒽𝑜𝓃𝑒𝓈

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✧ some girls collect books like other people collect apologies ✧ | aria montgomery

you know that girl who always looks like she’s coming from a bookstore or a heartbreak? that’s aria montgomery. oversized sweater slipping off one shoulder. spiral notebook clutched like a secret. vintage ring that doesn’t match but still looks intentional. she’s the reason why half of us still romanticize rainy days and weird thrift store finds.

aria isn’t the dark academia girl who quotes aristotle or does latin translations for fun, she’s the one who writes poems in her margins during math class, the one who shows up to school wearing velvet in september, and the one who knows how to turn every trauma into a metaphor.

i wanted to talk about what makes her the ✧ dark dream girl ✧ of rosewood, and how you can borrow that energy for your own dark academia-coded study + lifestyle routine.

(i tried a very poetic approach to this post, if you wanna see more, go follow my substack)

✧ the emotional foundation: aestheticism as survival

aria doesn’t just like pretty things, she needs them. for girls like her, beauty is a shield. it’s the perfume you spray before crying. it’s the eyeliner you perfect after your trust is broken. aria uses art and literature the way some people use therapists: she confesses to her canvas, she bleeds into her journal.

she was never just “quirky.” she was trying to survive in the most beautiful way possible.

you don’t do it to impress anyone. you do it to stay soft in a world that keeps trying to roughen you up.

✧ your aria-inspired academic lifestyle

studying isn’t boring when it’s a little bit haunted.

dark academia isn’t only about reading old books. it’s about how you live when you believe everything could be meaningful.

♡ your study rituals:

light a candle before you open your books (yes, even during the day. bonus points if it’s sandalwood or “old library” scented)

romanticize writing essays by doing them in cursive first, or outlining in your favorite pen

create a spotify playlist with dark academia music

keep a book in your bag at all times. your goal is to look like you just escaped a literature class from 1885.

♡ your tools:

a notebook that feels like it’s holding secrets (leather-bound, moleskine, or something you DIY with pressed flowers and tape)

highlighters in muted tones: deep burgundy, antique rose, sage

sticky notes with lines from poems you don’t fully understand, but feel anyway

your favorite pen that feels like it glides across paper when you write something dramatic

✧ the aria montgomery wardrobe theory

aria never dressed for trends, she dressed like a plot twist. litterally. you don’t have to copy her exact looks (feather earrings are very 2012 and that’s okay), but you can channel her ✧ vibe ✧ with this updated formula i created:

🖤 wear textures that feel like stories:

velvet, lace, knit, wool, mesh

things that look like they belong in an old attic or a cursed boarding school

🖤 color palette:

oxblood, ink black, ash grey, cream, plum, antique gold

the kind of colors that make you look like you know how to read tarot and annotate your syllabus

🖤 silhouette:

long coats, ankle boots, chunky scarves, asymmetrical hemlines

anything that gives “i’m on my way to find answers in the rain”

🖤 accessories:

rings on every other finger

book earrings, tiny lockets, vintage glasses

always wear something slightly off, a detail that makes people pause

✧ soft-spoken girls with sharp minds

aria’s quietness isn’t passive. it’s calculated. she observes everything. she remembers everything. and she hides her strength in softness.

when you adopt her mindset, your silence becomes strategy. your softness becomes unsettling. be the mystery and the solution. be the girl who reads you like a book, but won’t even dog-ear the page.

✧ making your life a literary masterpiece

aria montgomery’s entire vibe is living like she’s the main character in a half-sad, half-beautiful novel.

🕯 journal like it’s your only witness

don’t just “take notes.” write diary entries. write how your teacher’s voice sounded like static today. how you saw a bird and thought about someone who doesn’t call anymore.

don’t just do to-do lists. write manifestos.

“today i will be quiet but terrifying. i will get an A and feel nothing. i will smile like i know something they don’t.”

🎞 document everything

take pictures of your desk at golden hour

scan your coffee cup stains and call it “visual poetry”

make your notes beautiful. pretend someone will find them 100 years from now.

🖋 write poetry like it’s a weapon

start with a feeling. disguise it with metaphors.

every time someone makes you feel like nothing, write something beautiful to prove them wrong.

✧ mindy’s personal tips on ariafying your life

💌 keep one book that feels like your personality. reread it every year. 📚 annotate your textbooks like they’re love letters. 🖼 print out art that makes you feel too much and tape it near your desk. 🎭 give every outfit a backstory: “this is what i wore to break someone’s heart in an old bookstore.” 🕯 whisper poetry in the mirror when you don’t feel pretty.

✧ parting thoughts

aria montgomery was never just “the artsy girl.” she was an entire ✧ emotional atmosphere ✧. and if you’ve ever felt too sensitive, too strange, too poetic for this world... you’re not alone. you’re pll-coded. you’re aria-coded. and that makes you dangerous in the most beautiful way.

you don’t have to collect apologies. you can collect books. collect outfits. collect love letters to yourself. and most importantly, collect proof that you felt everything and survived anyway.

i hope you all love this poetic approach, an interest of mine is to study poetry and i wanted to give a more poetic writing style for this, i love this pll series so much and i hope you all do too.

[glowettee]

💌 gloss pages vol. 3 -- happily ever after is a decision✧

hi lovelies, this is a new issue of gloss pages, this idea was completely suggested by @fawnkissedfairy this amazing idea of a disney princess issue. i'm super excited!! this is the first part of the issue, the second part is coming soon. @fawnkissedfairy 's submission is featured in the issue on page 4, thank you so much for your submission and your idea for this disney princess issue! 🤍xoxo, mindy 🎀

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💌 gloss pages vol. 3 -- happily ever after is a decision✧

hi lovelies, this is a new issue of gloss pages, this idea was completely suggested by @fawnkissedfairy this amazing idea of a disney princess issue. i'm super excited!! this is the first part of the issue, the second part is coming soon. @fawnkissedfairy 's submission is featured in the issue on page 4, thank you so much for your submission and your idea for this disney princess issue! 🤍xoxo, mindy 🎀

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💌 gloss pages vol. 1 -- the audrey effect ✧

hey lovelies! i’m so excited to share the first ever issue of the glowettee magazine! it's called "gloss pages" this first issue is inspired by audrey hepburn, quiet confidence, soft girl, and becoming the most elegant version of yourself ✧ 7 pages of vintage tips, dreamy rituals, audrey quotes, and coquette-style guidance for girls who want to glow up from the inside out. take what you need, screenshot what you love, and share it with your soft girl circle 🤍 xoxo, mindy 🎀

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✧・゜: 8 rules i live by now that i used to ignore :・゜✧

hey lovelies,

i used to read endless lists of “rules to live by” and think: okay… cute, but not realistic. half of them felt like fake-deep quotes you’d see under a picture of matcha. i would save them, forget them, and go right back to being overwhelmed, over-giving, under-glowing.

but now? i’ve lived through enough messes, heartbreaks, girlhood grief, and glow-ups to actually have a few rules that changed me. not from books. from living. and they’re not perfect. they’re evolving. but they hold me.

here are the 8 i keep coming back to, the ones i used to scroll past, roll my eyes at, or ignore completely. now i live by them like they’re law.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 1. never beg for energy that should flow ･:⋆.ೃ࿔:

attention, love, clarity, respect, if i have to chase it, it’s not for me. if i have to ask more than once, it’s not aligned. i used to beg people to just see me. now i just see myself, and the right ones meet me there.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 2. if it costs your peace, it's too expensive ⋆.ೃ࿔:

i used to say yes to everything. every plan. every favor. every text at 2am. it made me anxious, resentful, not present. now if it disrupts my nervous system, i pause. peace is my new currency. i don’t overspend.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 3. repetition is the real magic ･:⋆.ೃ࿔:

i always wanted a “transformation.” a big life shift. but change came from boring, beautiful repetition. brushing my hair every night. drinking water. journaling even when i didn’t feel like it. habits that say “i love myself” in whispers, not screams.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 4. people reveal themselves in how they handle your softness ･:⋆.ೃ࿔:

i used to shrink when people laughed at my sensitivity. now i watch. softness is a test. if someone flinches at my gentleness, they’re not strong enough to hold me. my softness isn’t fragile. it’s divine.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 5. being “low maintenance” is not a personality trait ･:⋆.ೃ࿔:

i used to pride myself on needing nothing. like it made me cooler to never ask for help, care, compliments, anything. it didn’t. it made me empty. now i let myself need. i let myself want. i let myself glow. and i still don’t owe anyone an explanation.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 6. treat your space like it’s part of your nervous system ･⋆.ೃ࿔:

messy room = messy head. i used to ignore it and try to “push through.” but now i start with the space. light a candle. fold the blanket. open a window. your room talks to your body. make it speak gently.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 7. the version of you that you admire already exists ⋆.ೃ࿔:

i used to obsess over becoming “her.” the glow girl, the soft girl, the mysterious coquette. but the truth is? she’s just a version of me that’s consistent. who’s grounded. who’s unbothered. i already am her, when i stop abandoning myself.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 8. protect your energy like it’s sacred (because it is) ･:⋆.ೃ࿔:

i used to leak energy. over-explaining myself. apologizing constantly. chasing closure. posting for validation. now i pull it back. protect it. not out of fear, out of reverence. i’m not hard to reach, but i am hard to access fully. and that’s how it should be.

you don’t have to follow all of these. but maybe one of them is exactly what you needed to hear today.

you’re allowed to choose new rules. you’re allowed to rewrite the way you show up. every single day is a chance to live more like the version of you you miss.

keep glowing. keep choosing yourself. it’s working, even if it’s quiet.

xoxo, mindy 🤍

[glowettee]

✧・゜: 8 rules i live by now that i used to ignore :・゜✧

hey lovelies,

i used to read endless lists of “rules to live by” and think: okay… cute, but not realistic. half of them felt like fake-deep quotes you’d see under a picture of matcha. i would save them, forget them, and go right back to being overwhelmed, over-giving, under-glowing.

but now? i’ve lived through enough messes, heartbreaks, girlhood grief, and glow-ups to actually have a few rules that changed me. not from books. from living. and they’re not perfect. they’re evolving. but they hold me.

here are the 8 i keep coming back to, the ones i used to scroll past, roll my eyes at, or ignore completely. now i live by them like they’re law.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 1. never beg for energy that should flow ･:⋆.ೃ࿔:

attention, love, clarity, respect, if i have to chase it, it’s not for me. if i have to ask more than once, it’s not aligned. i used to beg people to just see me. now i just see myself, and the right ones meet me there.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 2. if it costs your peace, it's too expensive ⋆.ೃ࿔:

i used to say yes to everything. every plan. every favor. every text at 2am. it made me anxious, resentful, not present. now if it disrupts my nervous system, i pause. peace is my new currency. i don’t overspend.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 3. repetition is the real magic ･:⋆.ೃ࿔:

i always wanted a “transformation.” a big life shift. but change came from boring, beautiful repetition. brushing my hair every night. drinking water. journaling even when i didn’t feel like it. habits that say “i love myself” in whispers, not screams.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 4. people reveal themselves in how they handle your softness ･:⋆.ೃ࿔:

i used to shrink when people laughed at my sensitivity. now i watch. softness is a test. if someone flinches at my gentleness, they’re not strong enough to hold me. my softness isn’t fragile. it’s divine.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 5. being “low maintenance” is not a personality trait ･:⋆.ೃ࿔:

i used to pride myself on needing nothing. like it made me cooler to never ask for help, care, compliments, anything. it didn’t. it made me empty. now i let myself need. i let myself want. i let myself glow. and i still don’t owe anyone an explanation.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 6. treat your space like it’s part of your nervous system ･⋆.ೃ࿔:

messy room = messy head. i used to ignore it and try to “push through.” but now i start with the space. light a candle. fold the blanket. open a window. your room talks to your body. make it speak gently.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 7. the version of you that you admire already exists ⋆.ೃ࿔:

i used to obsess over becoming “her.” the glow girl, the soft girl, the mysterious coquette. but the truth is? she’s just a version of me that’s consistent. who���s grounded. who’s unbothered. i already am her, when i stop abandoning myself.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ 8. protect your energy like it’s sacred (because it is) ･:⋆.ೃ࿔:

i used to leak energy. over-explaining myself. apologizing constantly. chasing closure. posting for validation. now i pull it back. protect it. not out of fear, out of reverence. i’m not hard to reach, but i am hard to access fully. and that’s how it should be.

you don’t have to follow all of these. but maybe one of them is exactly what you needed to hear today.

you’re allowed to choose new rules. you’re allowed to rewrite the way you show up. every single day is a chance to live more like the version of you you miss.

keep glowing. keep choosing yourself. it’s working, even if it’s quiet.

xoxo, mindy 🤍

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This hello kitty corset notebook 💕

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pink and Paris are the best combo 🌸˚˖⋆

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it girl aesthetics ⋆𐙚₊˚⊹˚｡🌸⋆ ˚｡

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