#SorryimModest

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Modest Shaming

So last weekend it was homecoming. Normally at homecoming people do nasty stuff with each other: like grinding and kissing. Its nasty because most of them don’t know who they’re doing it with. But anyway this girl on my bus talks to me sometimes. we’ll call her Rylie. Rylie and I started talking about homecoming and how we had fun. Then she started talking about how she was grinding the whole time. Then Rylie asked if I grinned with anyone. I said no because I didn’t. I just wanted to have fun with my friends. Then (this is the part that got me shook) she gasps really loud says something like wow no action. And because Rylie never shuts up she keeps saying stuff like that. she said stuff like your so childish, your no fun, and the worst one does no one like you or something. I just sat there in disbelieve like how could you be so rude about something so dumb. Then she goes on to talk about how some guy grabbed her butt. Rylie was going on and on and all I could think is, is she slut shaming me but the other way around. like she’s the slut telling me to stop being modest. Modest shaming? Well sorry for trying to be school appropriate. This happened on what Tuesday. today is Thursday. She still talks to me about her relationships. They really aren't romantic or anything special. They all end the same way her getting board and her dumping the boy. I feel bad for them, the boys, she hardcore leads them on. she said that she sent bra pics to one boy and a week or 2 later she dumped him. Like what? that is so rude. But keep in mind that she only talks to me about school, until homecoming. Thanks for reading if you read it. If you didn’t read your not missing out. I just needed to vent.