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there are worse ways to stay alive
7.5k | M rating | bipolar disorder, mentions of alcoholism and disordered eating
For @darlingian's lovely prompt: "Ian Gallagher tries so hard. He gets back up and keeps going even when things don't seem like they'll ever be okay. He's so loved, and so good." When Lip struggles a bit, Ian tries to avoid self-sabotaging in order to struggle alongside him.
read here on ao3 🧶
many thanks to @gallavichthings for hosting gge 2025 ❤️
#i call this bad coping mechanisms: the fic#i love u chani i hope this is some good ian love for you#he's always gonna be okay !#i have not published anything in a year and a half#remember that before you judge my rusty ass writing lol#i am so pleased that it was chani's prompt that got me writing#i love you i love u#tumblr writing#gallavich fic
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oh im obsessed with this actually… who ever wrote this one i am kissing u on the forehead and hugging you real tight… inigo is such a loverboy im kkkhhhhhhijnsdnfng
#ann plays awakening#EDITING TO SAY I STARTED TAG VENTING HIT READMORE AT YOUR OWN RISK#anyways#LAST LINE IS A KILLERRRR WOW#‘ann werent you just pairing olivia with thar—‘ OLIVIA IS A BUSY WOMAN OKAY#but also i just had this old save file from when i wanted to see pink inigo and decided to get some more supports#im obsessed actually like#ok tag venting time maybe this should be its own post but u guys know who i am#not only does this support in my very educated opinion do a good job at emulating inigo’s way of speaking#but i think theres also a very underrated characteristic he has that not a lot of people talk about and its that hes honestly quite morbid#him spending hours talking to and dancing with his mother’s grave is very beautiful and moving but it is also not a normal way to grieve#which makes sense because duh nothing about his life is normal but its j like. you know#if robin is his father (and maybe j the normal convo i dont remember) in the hot springs scramble he’ll insist upon bringing—#severed risen limbs home as a way to remember the peacefulness (lol) of the springs#and he thinks absolutely nothing of it!!#i think he gets attached to things just a little too intensely and because his life is surrounded by death how he expresses that can be#very interesting. and he talks about death all time more than the other kids#bc while a lot of their coping mechanisms are based in fear and the need to instill confidence in themselves (think cyn or gerome or owain#or sev or yarne or noire)#and how their SCARED of death and of loss and adapt different behaviors to act like theyre not (to varying degrees of success)#i think inigo is much more accepting of the fact that death follows him and has made it a normal presence in his life#which is not a good thing it means that he hasnt let himself grieve. he lets death hang over him and follow him instead of pushing back#also guess which one of the awakening trio in fates has the canonical story death. just by the way lmao#anyways bc im writing this in the tags on my phone i cant actually see what the hell ive been saying im j stream of consciousnessing this#but my point is that inigo has a weird fixation on death and dying that stems from his inability to make peace with death and grieve#and i think him idolizing death in this support (this BRILLIANT fan support that made me ill) is so in character and so lovely#i miss him so bad (hes literally in the photos im posting) grghhhrgah#i wuv him :(
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Let me tell you an old story , a story about two friends.
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#loose screws#loose screws and bad coping mechanisms#ls&bc au#fnaf sb#fnaf au#fnaf moon#fnaf sun#digital art#fanart#art#how would someones cry without eyelids or even a face?#sorry dun care about the granmar mistakes#this is war on the granmar#or more like was too tired to care#maybe next time will b better lol#spot how many different times i spelled together wrong lol
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like an angel sent from the heavens my therapist called me and apparently we had an appointment set for today i completely forgot about
#it was online so all good but. it was funny ive been 'bad' these past few weeks so i felt so guilty running that over her with no prep LOL#take accountability for reverting to bad coping mechanisms any%
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Can the anon who told me that they knew someone involved in the game development of Puzzle Tales please reach out and let me know what the FUCK happened??
For those who don't play: the game is being shut down completely and deleted on Dec 13th. They gave less than a month's warning.
It's weird and sudden, since there was still unfinished new content they had planned to release. Rumor on the streets is Netflix is doing massive layoffs before the holidays.
#it's fucked#i feel so bad for the employees#and also for me because it was my main coping mechanism through all the bullshit over thr last couple of years#alexa play linkin park- in the end#st puzzle tales#stranger things puzzle tales#stranger things#puzzle tales#stranger things netflix#netflix#wtf netflix#stranger things news#stranger things fandom#netflix games#st vickie#vickie stranger things#<- tagging because the anon originally replied to a vickie post!!#shot in the dark lol
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one of the fun things about 2003 stockman is that his character arc is a constant game of going "oh wow he's really reached a new low point here huh" and then he pulls out a shovel and proceeds to start digging
#bambi's rambling#tmnt 2003#2003 baxter stockman#pretty sure the only thing that he learns over the course of the show is 'if i lie to my boss i wont get in trouble (ie get maimed)'#and to be fair he's not in a good situation in the foot clan. but that's an objectively bad coping mechanism that makes things worse#beyond that he keeps failing in new and spectacular ways because he never quite wraps his head around the idea that he might not succeed#and/or he doesnt view failure as like. a thing that could affect him? its a setback. its always a minor setback too not even a major one.#and yeah he does get progressively more scared of being punished (because the foot clan is Super Bad to be in)#but even after IITM he still has utter confidence in his own methods/creations#even when other people explicitly doubt them and right before those methods/creations dont work out#anyway he's a weird little guy and i like him lol
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Thinking about dream-baby (I really can't keep calling him dream-baby) to distract me from the frankly horrific nightmare :)
Laughs with his whole tiny body and slumps into me to hide his giggles.
The little pout he does when he can't see something from where he is... curious tiny creachur...
Big blue-grey eyes that invite kisses to his brows.
Liddol giggles when he gets his kisses.
there isn't any universe that I wouldn’t name him after my brother <3 I love and miss you, JT.
#is this a bad coping mechanism??#i feel kind of embarrassed to be putting such thought into a baby that isnt even real#oh. and I'm 42. so... babies are kinda off the table.#ooc: yes this is the origin of where Tim's name is from lol. ask abt her brother if you are curious (please do.)#baby talk#homebound arc#undefined arc#tim mention#dc red robin#tim drake#batman#batman and robin#dc robin#dc rp#janet drake#tim drake wayne#dc comics#dcu#dc#dc universe#jan chats#timothy drake#robin tim drake#tim drake robin#jan thoughts#batfam#janet drake rp
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jb at variety playhouse in atlanta — sept. 4, 2021
#julien baker#boygenius#this isn’t boygenius but they’re getting tagged anyways#back with more from atl#because i miss it so bad#i had a religious experience on this night#i’m so serious#i also got blackout drunk the next day 🤥#very healthy people coping mechanisms yes 👍#the tags are literally my void (free therapy)#stfu jess#literally stfu lol
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last exam today
didnt even look at the fucking material
watch me fail
it's fine alcohol and cigs will make me forget
#gonna fail#failed#girl failure#fail#lol#pathetic loser#im pathetic#i suck at this#lmao okay#lmaooo#fts#fuck this shit#ughhhhh#dow#downfall#about to crash out#about to kms#cigarettes tw#cigarette#girls who smoke cigarettes#drinking tw#tw drinking#need to drink#drinks#need to smoke#haha#coping mechanism#bad coping mechanisms
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To kick off the new year here is a low-effort meme that appeals to me and me only
They would actually have a lot to talk about methinks
#steven meme#gotta love well-intentioned undead women who suck people's souls as a coping mechanism#quail scratches#laudna#critical role#cr3#kalista the spear of vengeance#league of legends#lol#ruination novel#legends of runeterra#my deadly flaw is that I am down bad for the butch wraith lady from League of Legends that nobody plays or cares about
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What inspires you to write? And how do you deal with a writer's block?
hi love <3
i think the little things inspire me to write? a product of my daydream, a little sth that catches my attention like a song lyric, a concept photo or a quote. i'm really inspired by kdramas or movies that i watch, or the books that i (used to) read.
as of lately, i'm more into the whole worldbuilding and the plot aspects of writing- that's where i start, and then i fit/shape the member i write for accordingly. the members are just characters in the fic, the world and the setting that i create for them is the primary focus. that mainly inspires/drives me to write.
as for writer's block, when i feel it coming, i try to find the source of it and deal with that directly. sometimes, real life is overwhelming us (real life is always overwhelming me and i actually write to cope so if even writing starts to overwhelm me... i'll have nothing left LOL).
sometimes, it's bc we just need a little break to sort our thoughts out. it's okay to not always actively write and post. i take a little congratulatory break after each fic posted where i just watch sth or read stuff or rot. it works really good bc i actually want to write when the break is over. in case i'm obsessed with an idea i just have to write, i try to do planning instead of actually writing. (and i think in the long run its better to have these little breaks instead of a big writer's block break, but sometimes we do need the big break :') don't be scared of it)
also, i think it's really imp that you know who you are writing for. you should primarily be writing for yourself, and then for the readers. the pressure of posting sometimes gets to us, and that's okay, we just need to take a few deep breaths and think. sometimes, we're losing motivation, there's lack of feedback, or various other factors that make it seem like a writer's block is coming. but really, prioritise yourself in when and what you write <3
and to add on to this-- give yourself the ego boost no one will (or write out of spite like i do). you're amazing, you're a great writer, you write juicy stuff, and that's all that matters! people don't have to love you for you to know that you're a great writer! gaslight yourself if you have to (it works). write out of spite-- hmm, why has no one written xxx trope about yyy member yet? if no one has, i will. this also works.
also, i think the most imp thing in all this yapping is being able to talk to someone if you feel like you can't write. sometimes when you feel like you're stuck and there's only darkness, talking to someone about what you feel, or what you want to write and bouncing ideas with them lights up that bulb in your head and before you know it, you're back on track again.
and if you ever need that person, i'm here for you <3
#i actually do all of this and have been narrowly avoiding a big bad writer's block#(i feel like there's so much to write but i don't have the energy to write most of the times)#(since i write to cope if i can't write i get incredibly sad sometimes)#(and i'm thinking i might be getting into the unhealthy stages of why i write this should not be my coping mechanism right)#i think i see retirement at the end of my tunnel now lol#but yeah i've almost consistently written for about 3 years so#maybe there's good advice in there idk#tldr relationship between you and your writing should be healthy guys#and barbz if you want to talk about your writer's block in detail i'm here for you <3#writer block can come at any time any reason it's so ://#all the best for you!#barbz <3#yumi.asks
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Oof I am so sorry to anyone with daddy issues for what I am currently doing to Sanemi and Genya in the google docs
#what if I used stupid fanfiction to cope lol#literally any time I see a character with a bad dad I hear that fucking lady Gaga sound#of her jazzily singing ‘uh oh! uh oh!!! WWOAUH OHH!!!!!#like uh oh! they’re MY sons now ! and also my coping mechanisms!#sorry Shinazugawa brothers mommy’s going Through something and now so are you :)#postcards from stupid town#sanemi at his mothers behest is trying to be nice and not angry#trying to forgive and be the bigger man and leave his heart open instead of closing it off with anger#(:#his reward for this will be Violence#and learning the hard lesson that it’s easier and often safer not to love
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one thing that's always a little funny to me is when you go to someone's blog and their dni basically boils down to "if you have ANY kinks then DO NOT interact with me" like ok that's fine but bro why are you here lol
#for most people it's not that deep but some ppl just give off bad vibes#like they definitely think being into anything even slightly hard means you're Bad and Evil and using Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms#and it's like... babe i think denying the complexity of the human mind is far more damaging to society than ppl who like being degraded lol#personal ramblings
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me when i have genuinely great french and italian coffee for a week and a half then go straight back to my shitty store bought ice coffee once i get home 🤙
#going on holiday with great drink and food is great to break ur bad habits if u don’t still have uni exams and essays once u get back lol#coping mechanisms gobless#jay rambles
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for the record i'm in a good enough place now that if i'm following you and you post wowcraft, i know, and i have determined i can follow you safely! always want 2 clarify this bc i don't want to worry anyone. i have already done the Trauma Math you're fine. 💞
#and honestly it was much less the game itself (i was just mad about the writing) than it was the playerbase.#as insane as i feel saying so Most of my trauma can be directly rooted back to being a kid and teenager interacting with that playerbase.#so if u ever wanna tell me about cool characters or story beats u liked i will probably enjoy that a lot!!!!#i don't want to talk about negative stuff wrt it just because that's uh. that's where a lot of my bad coping mechanisms operated and it's#not healthy for me lol. but cool stuff i like talking about :)#yoshi talks#wowcraft#edited to add: also. when the quel'thalas expac comes out. you have to tell me all the story beats. i will need them. thank you.
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the constant emphasis on the can of alcohol though… it’s like it’s telling us that yuko’s too deep in her vices/self-indulgence that she’s completely oblivious to how much her younger son loves and cares for her…
#in other words… maybe shibasaki yuko was *the* yoidore shirazu after all—#though come to think of it… the lxl movie only ever showed us the worst interactions between aizo and yuko. so.#maybe she’s a better mother when she’s sober off-screen or something? idk. it doesn’t absolve her of all her misdeeds but. still.#lowkey feel bad for her though. bad divorce coping mechanisms really do change you for the worse… maybe.#especially when you’re not the main one at fault for the divorce… but still. taking it out on your kids is going way too far.#the cans kind of gave me flashbacks to my own yuko-esque parent though… sigh. time to never listen to hahaoyatte ever again#i have many thoughts on it but. yeah. no. i get the feeling that i’ll venture too far into projecting territory if i continue lol#but ngl i absolutely love how neither of the brothers bother to try to redeem shibasaki dad lmfaoooo i hope he’s rotting offscreen or sth#anyways. that’s all from me. next time you see me i’ll be with my kawaikute gomen manga bc it finally came in ayayaayayayayayayayyayayayyyyy
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