#and its like fammmmmm........ the entire thing is a spectrum. different people will be at different points. they may move over time.
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This being the first thing you see after the fadeout of an NC scene is So Funny to me
It's like "good job team"
Literally though why? Like. You can be a top daddy and still be in short shorts and a tank top. please. (Sidenote, again, I still think it's really interesting how this show uses these character dynamics in this swap setting. Like. To these two, It is still just Sun topping Nuea. Something they clearly both like and enjoy and are happy with. But the viewer sees Nuea topping Sun, which is a rose reversal we rarely if ever see in bl. )
And clearly Nuea agrees.
so while they're happy with their arrangement the way it is, they both seem open to experimenting and changing how they express themselves. Which is just a very healthy way of approaching sexuality.
Notably, this isn't saying that what they had or did before was bad. Clearly they both love each other and their physical relationship very much. But it is saying that sometimes learning new things about yourself can be good too. One isn't better or worse than the other.
It's about communication and openness and trust and love.
#suntiny#so a small side rant. i think top/bottom discourse is the dumbest thing ever. its so annoying. theres no way to 'win' that argument#because theres no “right” or “wrong” way to go about being queer lmao#i do agree that it would be nice to see more variety amongst couples#but oftentimes when i see people arguing against strict top/bottom roles they kind of to all the 2ay to the other aide of the spectrum#and act like only 50/50 verse couples who both appear notably but not excessively masculine are “acceptable gay rep”#and its like fammmmmm........ the entire thing is a spectrum. different people will be at different points. they may move over time.#its different for individual to individual and also different relationships#and it can change over time.#so like. yeah. the fixed daddy/baby top/bottom pair cam still be as valid and in love as a verse couple. theyre bith literally fine.#no one is more valid than the other. and when you pair this with how femme characters are often treated in fandom.....#let me just say i think eome of you are just weird about sex. i think some of you that are asking other people to be “normal” about sex#are actually the ones being weird and overly invested.#like. dead ass. look me in the face. and say you would say the same shit to an actual irl queer couple that you would say on Reddit.
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