#and this person couldn't accept any form of criticism without literally exploding with emotion
Explore tagged Tumblr posts
Text
It can be extremely difficult to take constructive criticism, but it's imperative that you work on making yourself a safe person to criticize. People need to know that if they come to you with constructive criticism, you're not gonna explode on them with volatility or start shitting on yourself (which puts them in the uncomfortable position of then having to comfort you). If you act like that, then it's going to be incredibly difficult to maintain healthy relationships of any kind. Communication is key; constructive criticism is part of communication. Be open to the idea that you can be wrong and have things you need to work on, or that you can be wrong and not be the worst person on the planet.
#self improvement#reminder#i recently interacted with someone who was extremely explosive and manipulative#you can be manipulative without meaning to be btw#and this person couldn't accept any form of criticism without literally exploding with emotion#and blaming other people constantly#it fucking sucked especially because this behavior was normalized within the friend group#and for someone who is my age and spouts the importance of maturity and constantly critcizes others#that shit is beyond unacceptable
109 notes
·
View notes