#anti lapidot

[beevean]

I don't get why lapis x peridot is such a big ship when they had zero chemistry

I'm the last person you should ask ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I think the idea is that they have become besties in the barn, supporting each other while they recover from their Homeworld trauma, mostly Lapis. The two are seen joking with each other, like in Gem Harvest when they are the only ones laughing at Lapis' joke about her traumatic past, so I buy that they're comfortable with each other.

But the thing is, their relationship was actually unhealthy. They were both stagnating in that barn. They had very little hobbies. Peridot was shown walking on eggshells around Lapis, like when she asked Steven to not mention the "J-word" in Beta. And, of course, Raising the Barn showed Lapis regressing immensely under the threat of the Diamonds, not only making the decision to flee from Earth not caring about Peridot's feelings on the matter, but responding to her friend standing up for herself by outright stealing their home with all of their possessions, leaving Peridot behind, with nothing and heartbroken. There is, of course, significance in Lapis taking the symbol of her stagnation with her.

I really thought they'd have more development where they realized that all that time, they only stalled, and didn't actually get to know each other. But no. One "hey" after Lapis out of nowhere crashes the barn on Blue's head, not even the time to talk before Yellow poofs them, and then we skip to the movie where they're besties again. Who cares about all the emotional pain Lapis put Peridot through both at the beginning and the end of their relationship, right? They just made up! Off screen! That's good enough, right?

I get that the finale was rushed to hell, and in the grand scheme of things Lapis and Peridot were not as important as the Diamonds, but as someone who had been the Peridot in a friendship, this genuinely hurt me and it was the #1 reason Lapidot became my NOTP.

In the end, I think Lapidot is yet another case of a super popular ship that benefited from a lack of screentime. We know they lived together, we just didn't get to see much of it, allowing shippers to come up with scenarios where they'd bond. Even though canon proved that they really didn't.

I recommend reading that Reddit thread I linked. I have kept it in my bookmarks ever since Raising the Barn aired because it was like someone fished in my brain and pulled out all of my thoughts about Lapis and Peridot's unhealthy, immature relationship.

[ghalind]

I'm officially inviting lapidot shippers to try and explain why they ship an extremely toxic pairing in my askbox, cmon everyone, try me

[magicalgirlypop]

"lapidot is toxic" "if you ship jaspis you support abuse!" "bellow diamond are sibling coded"

can y'all stop for a minute? we should all be going after the real enemy: people who still ship stevinel and stevidot in 2024.

[uglygirlstatus]

voting for the riverdale girls in that poll, never seen it but i need lapidot to lose

you understand 🫡

[lowpawly]

someone reblogged one of my posts and tagged it as anti lapidot 😭😭😭 girl I have bad news....................

[spacedreamon]

Blacklist

General:

Factkin (EXCLUDING fictionalized versions of real people, Sanders Sides, DSMP, Hamilton etc.)

W-nd-g- kin [e,i,o] Unless you’re Native American

Media:

Hannible/Silence Of The Lambs

D H M I S

Sweeny Todd

Riverdale

House MD

Fresh (2022)

Delicious In Dungeon

Harry Potter/Fantastic Beasts

Beastars

The Last Of Us

Characters:

Kinger (TADC)

Mike or any or his alters (Total Drama)

Wilbur/Ghostbur (DSMP)

Ships: (💛 = QPR allowed)

Radiodust

Chalastor

Radiohusk

Radiorose 💛

Lapidot 💛

Mutual Radiostatic (I would fucking die for onesided though)

Amedot

Pedophilia

Incest

Songs/Artists:

Good Luck Babe!

The Dismemberment Song

Amanda Palmer/Dresden Dolls/Evelyn Evelyn

The Orion Experence

Doja Cat

Cardi B

Boyinaband

Wilbur Soot/Lovejoy

Marilyn Manson

GRLwood

J Cole

Chris Brown

Kanye

(if you want to know why just ask)

Themes

NSFW stuff (excluding sources)

Meat/Fleshcore

Cannibalism

Hospital imagery especially mental hospitals

Yami Kawaii

Bulimia and Anorexia, other eating disorders are fine

Liminal Spaces

Claustrophobia

Poolcore

Miscellaneous

Userboxes about syscourse

Userboxes about being an anti or a proshipper

[the-lavender-lapin]

Umm hi ૮꒰˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶꒱ა

🪻I’m Lavender or Lav

🏳️‍⚧️My pronouns are he/him and I am a certified femboy

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⚠️Triggers: S/A, S/H, people touching their eyeballs (it freaks me out), vomit, bugs

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Newsies on here

Marauders on Instagram

Working on getting an AO3 account

🚫DNI: TERFs, -phobes, racists, anti-, ableists, etc etc just don’t be rude

🪭Fandoms: Newsies (Livesies, 1992, I have never seen uksies but I wanna know more), Harry Potter, My Hero Academia, Yuri On Ice, 9-1-1, DnD, She-Ra, Animal Crossing, Legend of Zelda (very casually), Demon Slayer, Beetlejuice Musical, Steven Universe, Coraline, uhhh there’s probably more

🎶Favorite Music: Melanie Martinez, Alec Benjamin, Doja Cat, Dixon Dallas, Todrick Hall,Teddy Hyde, Lizzo, Beetlejuice Musical, Newsies, lots more

📢👤Characters that I could talk about forever: Any newsie (but especially Race, Crutchie/y, Davey, Romeo, and Darcy Reid), Sirius Black, Remus Lupin, Xenophilius Lovegood, Benjy Fenwick, Tilden Toots, Kingsley (from HP, I don’t like using his last name), Denki Kaminari, Hawks, Toga, Hanta Sero, Mina Ashido, Yuuri Katsuki, Viktor Nikiforov, Yuri Plisetsky, Leo de la Iglesia, Phichit Chulanont, Double Trouble, Adora, Entrapta, Coraline Jones, Miss Spink, Miss Forcible, Tanjiro, Inoske, Peridot, Lapis, Connie, Garnet, Henrietta Wilson, Maddie Buckley, Howie “Chimney” Han, Athena mf Grant, lots more tbh

📢💏Relationships I could talk about forever: Spralbert, Javey, Blush, Xenora, Wolfstar, Hot Wings, Seroki, Hen and Karen, Maddie and Chim, Buddie, Athena and Bobby,Victuuri, Otayuri, Stevonie, Lapidot, Link and Prince Sidon, lots more tbh

🌈Fun facts:

I do the art

I make lots of ocs

I’m in PST

I have anxiety and depression, and am working on getting other diagnosis (including autism)

I really want a pet bird so I can have a lil buddy that will sit on my shoulder

💭Current hyperfixation:

Newsies, ASL, junk journaling, Sims 4 (specifically horse ranch), making ocs/designing characters

[maxbytes]

3, 4 and 7 if you have one! (for the ask game)

3. screenshot or description of the worst take you've seen on tumblr

i can't remember the details but there was a post about like how aging is a good thing and we shouldn't be anti-aging, and this other person goes, this is killing people! you want people to die? or something like that. does anybody know the post i'm talking about? i need to find it bc this is driving me crazy. wasn't the person that furry who uses fert/ferts pronouns that posted ferts fursona's asshole on someone else's post? or was it a different person? i swear to god it was the same person....

4. what was the last straw that made you finally block that annoying person?

i actually don't really block people for annoying me bc i find some level of entertainment from it. probably not healthy. i only block if they say something that makes me go "oh....ew, i can't tolerate that."

7. what character did you begin to hate not because of canon but because how how the fandom acts about them?

nobody kill me for this. lapis and spinel. in canon they're fine, but fanon of them drove me to resent them for a period of time. i have a complicated personal history involving me kindating a jasper kinnie who was obsessed with lapis and had a seething hatred for lapidot, and all that led me to despise lapis all the more, which sounds SOOOO ridiculous after the fact lmfao. also all the stevinel stuff led me to hate seeing spinel fanworks altogether, but i'm over that now. it's not the character's fault, it's just the association.

[royalsmugbird]

Enjoy Day 2 of Not-So Kinktober, Pumpkin!

Featuring a sentient rock and her gourd!

And her terrible roommate...

This blog ships LapisxTherapy and PeridotxNobody.

(Ace Peri FTW!)

Cheers!

[iloveallmyfandomsequally]

Bitches be shipping toxic pairings saying, “It’s a healthy relationship!!” when it’s a damn McDonald’s Big Mac meal super-sized with fries and a Diet Coke.

[sock-on-the-street]

“she couldn’t be at home in the nighttime because it made her feel alone, but at that time, she was.” - water fountain (alec benjamin) 

yeah is anti-lapidot deal with it

[ghalind]

Saw someone with a Lapis pfp on tiktok and had to physically remind myself that I cannot randomly demand that someone changes their pfp if I have never interacted with them before

[witchofthegermanforest]

Hey, don't tag anti ship things with the ship tag. That's an asshole thing to do regardless of what the ship is. If Jaspis bothers you, block the artists/writers and blacklist the tag and move on.

While I respect you trying to make me stop peacefully i have to disappoint you. Because whenever I get mad enough anons come and tell me to kill Myself. I didn't start this war. But i will fight it till my last dying breath.

I could potentially be negotiated into stopping my war effort.

But first those who attacked me have to apologize to me and my followers and Admit that I was correct about Rebecca hating Jasper and her fans.

THEN. AND ONLY THEN SHALL I STOP MY WAR

[edgietales]

If lapis and peridot fuse in the movie I’m officially done with Stephen male private parts

[zeezeepearl]

I absolutely never understood Lapidot. Like especially when we basically never really saw them interact all that much? Compared to all the growing Peridot did around Amethyst and all the (unhealthy but fascinating) stuff with Jasper and Lapis...Lapidot seems so weak by comparison. Sure they became awesome friends offscreen trust me! No you don't get to see most of that. Just trust me!!!!!!!!!!!! They're so close now!!!!! Look they like the same show and made crafts which we ALSO DIDN'T SEE-

ur preaching to the choir bro.

I agree with everything you’re saying, I knew someone who said she didn’t like lapidot but she was into them as friends but i couldn’t even dig a single one of their interactions.  Especially in gem harvest (the worst episode) they were just so obnoxious...

Not a fan, very not a fan.  Name any reason you don’t like them and I’ll probably agree with you.

I knew someone who liked them for the aesthetic too and... still not a fan.  what aesthetic is there.  Now any ship with Jasper... has got aesthetic... and that’s not my bias speaking it’s objective ok.

[saltwaffle]

What do you think happened to the alian that Peridot won back in "Too Short To Ride"? She looked happy when she won it. But in "Beta" it's thorn apart. My headcanon is that Lapis did that. I mean it's in a WATER tank. (Or at least it was until the water bitch blew it up) #anti lap*dot

yeah man im with you there :( i have a kind of dark headcanon that lapis drowned it to “punish” peridot for doing or saying something wrong

but then again peridot is a destructive little individual in her own right and could very well have gotten bored with it, torn the bow off for her own personal use, and said that lapis could do whatever she wanted with it