#aspec feeder

[pleasefeast]

Romantic/flirting feels like roleplaying to me no disrespect to all the alloromantics.

Plantoic encouragement is so underrated. Tell your friends to eat more and get fat NOW!!!

[rabidslut]

Intro Post

i'll make a better version of this eventually, but for now:

call me mutt

he/it

almost 30

switch

bi aspec transfag

forcedmasc & autoandrophilia

leather culture

older men

BDSM

there will be a lot of stuff here that can be extremely triggering, including; blood, cnc, intox (drugs and alcohol), rape, incest, beastiality, etc.

prefer to keep my flirts with ppl over 25

hard limits (nothing against them, just not for me):

detransition

misgendering

orientation play/breaking

medical play

extreme gore/dismemberment

feederism

hucow/hupig

diapers

baby talk

piss

scat

i block:

minors

TERFS/radfems

transmeds/truscum

self harm blogs

eating disorder blogs

"men dni" blogs

[trans-indulgence]

18+ only! This is a place for me to express my kinks and horny fantasies. I only want other queer people interacting with me

Hey there! Call me Sheoth or Halcyon

I'm 23 and I go by they/it/he pronouns

Bi, aspec, transmasc nonbinary, and altersex. Mostly t4t

Switch vers. Prefer to power bottom or sub top

DNI: minors, ageless blogs, raceplay, ab/dl, map/pedo, bestiality, conservatives

More about me and my kinks under the cut ✨

I like being called: beast, monster, thing, boy toy, pretty boy, baby boy, whore, fuck toy, prince

How to refer to my body: chest, cock, dick, cunt, hole, slit

I'm picky about the people I follow, so if I reblog from you a lot but don't follow please don't mind me!

Original posts are tagged with #sheoth.nsft and I'll try to tag any cw's (current tags: #cw cnc, #cw blood, #breeding toy)

Kinks/interests: sensual/intimate, cockwarming, breeding, long foreplay sessions, teasing, neck kissing, praise, degredation, body worship, vocal/loud, cum play, leaky cocks, voyeurism, consensual exhibitionism, group sex, collars and leashes, bondage, cnc, light petplay, light blood play, free use, monster fucking, double penetration, biting, orgasm control/denial, edging, cock milking, cock rings, overstim, sadomasochism, begging, rough sex, sounding, frotting, fighting for dominance, manhandling, men whimpering and moaning and sobbing, omegaverse

Hard limits: feet, intox, dd/lg, ab/dl, anything with bodily waste, feederism, ageplay, fauxcest, misgendering/detrans

[ask-feederjin]

How did you all discover that you were into feedism and wanted to be involved in it with each other?

Jin had just finished cleaning up after lunch when his phone pinged, notifying him to several new questions.

After drying his hands, Jin grabbed the device and took it to the living room where the rest of the boys lounged half-asleep recovering from their recent meal. Jimin and Yoongi were all cuddled up on the love seat, growing asses now taking up a good chunk of the cushions. A hiccupping Hoseok was getting a belly rub from Namjoon, their rounded bellies beginning to brush up against each other. Taehyung had made himself at home on Jungkook’s lap, whispering in his ear what Jin could only imagine was dirty talk based on the color of the larger boy’s cheeks.

Taking a seat on his favorite armchair, Jin logged in to the Lavender Love-Handles app.

“How did you all discover that you were into feedism and wanted to be involved in it with each other?”

Oh boy, this would take a little while to answer...

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Hi Anon! I’ll start with how we all discovered we shared it, as I want to ask the boys what they’re comfortable with me sharing online before I talk too in depth about individual experiences.

It wasn’t too long after we all established ourselves as partners actually. We were pretty quick to go over hard no’s and things that we would maybe want to try in the future. A few of us were more forthright than others, as about two years into our partnership we realized that sexually we weren’t very creative or enthusiastic. Sure, Hobi and Tae had told us that they liked playing with humiliation and voyeurism, Joonie had past experience in bondage, and Jimin liked experimenting with gaping, but other than that we were all pretty vanilla.

So two months ago, to break the ice a little, Namjoon introduced us to a website that we could all use to safely “confess” our kinks.

I can’t find the website right now, but basically this is how it works: One by one, a person fills out a questionnaire that lists a vast amount of kinks. You can say that you would never want to try it, that you are just not interested, that you would try it only if your partner was into it, or that you were into it yourself.

If at the end of the quiz, everyone has chosen either try it if partner is into it or is into it, the shared kink will be revealed to everyone for future discussion. If even one person said basically “ew no”, then the kink remains hidden and there is no outing yourself to an unwelcoming audience.

It was super awesome and you can imagine our surprise when feederism was one of the only kinks that turned up at the end!

Yoongi chose only if the partner was into it, Hoseok chose into it himself, Namjoon chose only if the partner was into it, Jimin chose into it, Taehyung chose into it, Jungkook chose only if the partner is into it and I chose into it.

So, regarding individual experiences, you may be surprised to know that a good portion of us wasn’t really into it until well after we all got together!

Yoongi: Yoongi has a really slow metabolism, and has hated exercise since before we even met. Since his body is prone to gaining easily, he only really stayed slim when he wasn’t taking care of himself. Past partners would encourage him to take better care of himself, only to criticize him when he inevitably gained weight. Fat is most visible on him because his face gets pudgy first, thus he can be a normal weight and look fat.

This was frustrating for Yoongi.

Tired of conforming to society’s body standards, he just decided to say “fuck it” and not care about staying skinny anymore. It was only when we all found out we were interested in feederism that he actively decided to get fat, and even enjoy it himself.

Namjoon: For Namjoon it’s half psychological and half kink. Before he was into feederism, he was into BDSM. As a switch, he like to be both submissive and dominant. Although he was interested in the BDSM scene, he never really found anyone that wanted to participate with him.

When taking his psychology classes in college, part of the course focused on fetishes and other deviancy. Among several other kinks, feederism and weight gain was mentioned. Of course, the “reasoning” behind it was that ���Men are all hardwired to want to make babies, therefore they are attracted to pregnant women and their bellies. Feederism is just a man’s brain recognizing a big belly on a woman and mistaking it for her being with child. Thus, the attraction to fat.”

Joonie knew this was bullshit. If it was true, then why would a large portion of the feederism community be made up of gay men? He would know, he was the kinky adult equivalent of a 5 year old obsessed with dinosaurs. He told me that, for a time, he wanted to write his thesis on feederism because he had already done so much “research” on it.

Nowadays, he has “translated” a lot of what he liked about BDSM into what he likes about weight gain. Both submissive and dominant.

For example, he likes the part of feederism that requires he gives over all control of his body to his feeder, even to the point of looking like a slob. But he also looks forward to the day that he’s big enough to pin us all down with just his gut and do whatever he wants. Could he have gotten this from other non-feederism kinks? Maybe. But he’s kind of absorbed the rest of our enthusiasm by osmosis at this point. Plus he really likes eating.

Taehyung: He’s said before that he’s always known he wanted to become a big fatty. Ever since he was little he would put pillows under his shirts and walk around, waddling on purpose. His first wet dream he told me was of him being fattened up until he couldn’t fit through the front door.

He had planned on only indulging in his fetish once he got his bachelors in graphic design. Although it would have been super hot to not be able to fit at his desk or reach his computer, it wouldn’t have been very practical. So, he stuck to just watching SSBHM porn in his free time and counting down the months until he graduated.

In his last year of school however, he met a guy who ended up becoming his feeder for a few months. The relationship didn’t last though, as the man only really seemed interested in spending time with Tae if it involved stuffing him. Tae didn’t tell me this one, but according to Jimin (who was his roommate at the time), his ex didn’t like sticking around for proper after-care either >:/

Jimin was really a great support for Tae back then. I am so glad that they had each other.

Jimin: Jiminie was actually introduced to the concept of feederism by Taehyung. Tae had tried to keep his interests to himself but once his ex-boyfriend came into the picture, he was pressured into being more public with it. (The ex didn’t respect a lot of Tae’s boundaries and never set up a safe word.)

With Tae confiding his relationship doubts in Jimin, eventually the topic of their kink was brought up. Jimin was initially confused, but forever supportive of Tae. With every negative story about Taehyung’s ex, Jimin thought more an more about how he would have rubbed Tae’s belly, or how he would have cuddled him that night.

These thoughts were only solidified when he once walked in on one of Tae and his ex’s stuffing sessions. From what Jimin told me, Taehyung was nearly naked, eyes closed and cheeks stuffed full. His belly pushed out obscenely far, to the point that Jimin was almost worried it would pop.

He apologized profusely for interrupting the two and hurried away. From that day forward he knew that he definitely had an interest in it. He got into researching feederism as an outlet for his desire to help Tae, but quickly became enthralled with the thought of getting bigger himself.

Jungkook: JK has always had a competitive streak, even against himself. He would go to the gym religiously, try every fad diet and even went vegan for a couple months. His buddies at the gym would always complain that Jungkook had it easy with his insane metabolism and natural athleticism. Hearing this all the time, Jungkook realized that being fit and strong wasn’t a challenge at all.

He was roommates with Hoseok at the time, so they would often confess inner thoughts and insecurities to each other. One day he mentioned how working out felt too easy and that he was losing interest in it. Half-jokingly, Hoseok mentioned that at this point it would be harder for Jungkook to gain weight than it would be for him to lose it.

Hobi later told me that after he said that, he was immediately terrified that Jungkook would know and call him out on his kink just from him even bringing it up. Luckily for him, Jungkook was completely clueless up until we all talked about it as partners. He even thought that he was the only one!

Jungkook kept what he was told in the back of his mind for a long time, continuing to work out. Over time though, he cut down on his hours at the gym, started to have more cheat days and just overall grew disinterested in it.

All and all, his interest in feederism lies less in it being a fetish and more in it being psychological, a challenge.

Hoseok: Hoseok is similar to Taehyung in that he feels like he was born with the fetish. He repressed it for a long time though, saying that he found it too embarrassing to even acknowledge having.

He turned to exercise and dance to guarantee that he kept slim and healthy, garnering the admiration of his peers and some fans even. This only contributed to his shame though, knowing that the people who claimed to love and support him then wouldn’t anymore if they knew.

After some time, he tentatively looked online for others who are into it as well and became introduced to feederism communities. He never made any accounts or talked to anyone, but as a lurker the kink was on his mind more often. This was around the time that he recommended gaining weight to JK, by the way.

He said around then was when it was getting harder to ignore what got him off, so to compensate he would inflate himself with soda on his days off just to see his belly get bigger.

After we all got together and shared our kinks, he was relieved that he wasn’t the odd one out and that he no longer had to hide his attraction to obese men.

Due to his past experiences and fears of being humiliated by others, he thinks it’s caused him to develop a humiliation fetish as well. Although it was a fear of his initially, nowadays in situations where he feels safe and with people he trusts, he loves to be teased and shown off.

This is one thing that he and Tae really were able to bond over.

Myself? I guess, like Hoseok, I’ve always been into it… I’ve always loved cooking food and making other’s happy, even strangers! So when I have the opportunity to feed and pamper and pleasure the loves of my life? Heaven!

To be honest with you all though, I’m not really... sexually attracted to anyone of any size.

I know that sounds weird coming from a man in a seven way, allosexual, polyamorous relationship typing this on a dedicated feederism website, trust me it is. But, I’ve only ever found myself aroused by the concept of someone gaining weight. I don't find the effects on the body attractive because they are on the body, but because they are a direct effect of active weight gain.

Of course, I still love my boyfriends very much. I am very romantically attracted to each and every one of them. They are all very aesthetically beautiful and always will be no matter their shape or size. I am just not sexually attracted to… anyone's body.

I don’t know if this is a manifestation of my fetish, or if it’s just how I am, but either way it works out for all of us in the end.

Thank you for such a thoughtful question, Anon! Going down memory lane like this has been nostalgic :)

[Related post: How they all met.]

[switchy-thals-0606]

Switchy Thals

Okay, so! Hello there! You can call me Thalia or Thals (hard t, silent h). My pronouns are she/her, I'm 23, a polyamorous transfem aspec-lesbian, I'm 5'10" and a dom-leaning switch.

I'm not into men, but I'm cool with men following me and interacting for now. Just don't be a creep. Will block quickly and liberally.

DNI: minors, ageless blogs, terfs, racists, antisemites, homophobes, fascists, zionists, etc., ed/sh blogs, sissy blogs, feeder/feedee blogs

PUT YOUR AGE IN YOUR BIO, OR I WILL BLOCK YOU.

I'm perfectly okay with getting asks and anons. We can also dm and be friends!

If you wanna be mutuals, I follow from @wolfgirl-thals-0606. It’s my sfw, fandom-dump blog lol.

Any posts tagged ‘hers🩵’ and 'theirs🩵' are posts that remind me of my darling love, @the-queenbrat, as well as my lovely partners that don't have blogs.

Here's a list of some of my kinks/interests:

Green: Both - Mommy Domme, Petplay, Praise, Breeding, Oral Fixation, Breast/Nippleplay, Possession/Ownership, Marking/Hickies/Scratching, Cockwarming (Girldick or Strap), Edging, Free Use, Bondage, Clothed, Teratophila Dom - Brat-taming, Impact Play, Exhibition/Voyeurism, Ice Play, Overstim Sub - Daddy Domme, Facesitting

Yellow: Both - Waxplay, Roleplay, Knife/Blood, Intox Play, Hypnosis Dom - CNC Sub - Brat-taming, Overstim, Impact play, Exhibition/Voyeurism, Degradation

Red: Both - Scat, most Gore, Vore, Piss, Diapers, Feet, Ageplay, Raceplay, Misgendering/Detrans, Patriarchy/Misogyny, Gun Play Dom - Masculine Titles (Daddy/Master/Sir) Sub - CNC, Masculine Pet Names (Good Boy)

Again, all are subject to change. Feel free to send an ask, named or anon, if there's one I'm missing that you're curious about!

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

Do Not Interact + Before You Follow

DNI:

Exclusionists/REGs

Transphobes and enbyphobes/exorsexists

Aphobes, lesbophobes, homophobes, biphobes, panphobes, queerphobes, etc.

Intersexists and dyadists

Anti-MOGAI

Anti sex work/SWERFs

Anti-mspec lesbians/mspec gays (i.e. bi/pan/ply/omni lesbians/gays)

T(W)ERFs, radfems, febfems, and “gender critical” people

Transmisogynists, misogynists, and people who participate in misogynoir and/or transmisogynoir

Truscum/transmeds (trumeds) and trendermeds (Read about trendermeds here: x)

Anti-antis/pro-shippers

Xenophobes and racists (This includes people with racial "preferences,” unless you’re BIPOC who date within their race for safety and/or comfort reasons)

Colorists (Meaning if you participate in colorism and/or think that BIPOC who are light-skinned are affected by colorism)

Ableists

Fascists and White supremacists/neo-Nazis

Republicans, conservatives, Trump supporters, etc.

“Meninists” and people who participate in/support MGTOW

Blue Lives Matter/police supporters/apologists

Anti-BLM

Fatphobes

NSFW/18+/porn/kink blogs (including "SFW" kink/18+ blogs)

Islamophobes and anti-Semites

People who are anti-immigration

(NO)MAPs/pedophiles or supporters of them

Necrophiliacs and zoophiles (This also includes anyone who writes about, draws, reads about, or watches these things for pleasure)

Serial killer cultists/apologists

Pro-birthers/pro-life/anti-choice people

Harry Potter stans

DDLG/CGL(re) blogs, ABDL blogs, and people who are into ageplay

Non-system littles and “””SFW””” littles (Basically anyone who has appropriated the term “little” from the DID/OSDD community and pretends to be a child) 

Feederism/gainer blogs

Thinspo/pro-ana/pro-mia blogs

Anti-SJWs, anti-feminists, and White feminists

People who are "neutral" on discourse

If you follow and/or are friends with isappho

If you follow and/or are friends with transapphic (Read why here: x)

Onision fans/supporters

Cryaotic (Cry/ChaoticMonki) fans/supporters (Read why here: x)

Shane Dawson fans/supporters

Jeffree Star fans/supporters

People who support Emily Gwen AKA the creator of the orange and pink lesbian flag (Read why here: x, xx, xxx)

Biggest-gaudiest-patronuses (Gaud) followers/supporters (Read why here: x)

I-am-a-fish (Fish/Goldie Gurston) followers/supporters (Read why here: x)

If you wanna get into syscourse with me

If you use the term “cishet” to refer to anyone who isn’t a cisgender, heteroromantic, heterosexual person

If you think bi is an umbrella and that pan, ply, and omni are subsets of bi and/or think they're microlabels

If you tag queer as 'q slur,' think it's not an umbrella term and/or say people can't/shouldn't call themselves queer (If you tag it as “q word” or “queer,” that’s fine)

If you use the TERF slogan “_____ not queer” (Ex. “Lesbian not queer”)

If you call other LGBTQ+/queer people “kw*ers”

If you think it's not transphobic to refuse to date trans and nonbinary people because of their genitals and/or their being trans/nonbinary (Genital preferences due to trauma are okay, though)

If you believe pansexuality is biphobic and transphobic/enbyphobic and if you believe bisexuality is transphobic/enbyphobic

If you think bi and pan are the same thing or that one is better than the other

If you think nonbinary people aren’t trans/can’t call themselves trans

If you’re against he/him lesbians and she/her gays

If you believe you need any kind of dysphoria to be trans/nonbinary, believe being trans/nonbinary is a mental illness, believe you have to medically transition/transition at all to be trans/nonbinary, and/or believe “transtrenders” are a thing

If you think butch, femme, dyke, and corrective r*pe are lesbian-exclusive terms and think that all queer people can’t use butch and femme

If you think cis heterosexual aros, cis heteroromantic aces, and cis aroaces aren’t LGBTQ+/queer

If you criticize the split attraction model, believe it’s harmful to the LGBTQ+ community, and/or believe it’s only for aspec people

If you believe that fiction doesn’t affect reality and believe that shipping pedophilia, incest, and/or abusive relationships is okay to do

If you think that pedophiles belong in the LGBTQ+ community

If you police trans and nonbinary people’s bodies, pronouns, names, presentations, etc.

If you call bi, pan, ace, aro, and queer people straight and/or say they have “straight-passing privilege”

If you call bi people bihets and pan people “pannies”

If you’re White and think your queerness absolves your racism

If you don’t support self diagnosis

If you use autism as a insult, support Autism Speaks, and/or think autism is a disease/think it needs to be cured

If you use the r slur when it’s not yours to reclaim

If you use other ableist language (Ex. Using the words “psycho” or “psychotic” to mean “bad/evil”)

If you demonize people with addictions and call them (or anyone really) things like “crackhead”

If you believe White people can experience racism/believe in “reverse racism”

If you refuse to learn the difference between prejudice and racism

If you demonize those with personality disorders like Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, and Narcissistic Personality Disorder by calling them abusive/manipulative/mean/etc. and/or criticizing them for lacking empathy

If you suicide bait people, send anon hate, and/or send death threats to people

If you’re an “Anyone can interact” type of blog

Ask to Interact:

Men, especially cishet men

Cishet women 

***Please note that if you belong to any of the groups under “Ask to Follow”, I’m only okay with you interacting (i.e. liking or reblogging) and/or following if you’re reblogging my posts for your sapphic friends or if you have your own LGBTQ+ positivity-type blog or tag. If you’re not here for any of those reasons, don’t bother asking; instead, please just leave my blog be. Thanks!***

♡♡ If you are a multigender (bigender, trigender, polygender, pangender, genderfluid, genderflux, etc.) sapphic and/or a sapphic alter in a traumagenic system (provided that you don’t have alters who break my DNI), you are 100% allowed to follow/interact!! ♡♡

BYF

[catboytum]

♡ call me peach, im 20 years old, latino, nonbinary/bigender ( he/they/she + neos, just ask! ), bi + aspec

♡ submissive pet ( kitten, bunny, fox & possibly puppy ), feeder, fat admirer, brat, chubby goth wannabe

♡ im into feedism, so that's mostly what you'll find on this blog but i occasionally post other nsfw things as well

♡ this blog is for adults only - that means 18+

♡ stuff i genuinely enjoy / post about ;;  weight gain, belly kink, soft stuffing, praise kink, size kink, pet play, soft bdsm, dom/sub dynamics, lactation, creampies, monsterfucking, collars n leashes, stuffing/bloating, feeding someone, lighthearted teasing, worship play, burping & stomach sounds, somnophilia

♡ hard no's ;; hard degradation, death/ dark feedism, weight gain to immobility, extreme gore, violence, rape play/non-con, incest play, age play, any bodily fluids other than spit, blood, & cum, ( idm if anyone's into degradation, but don't follow me if you're into any of the other aforementioned stuff it makes me uncomfortable / srs  )

DNI / BLOCKLIST

♡ you're a minor / have no age in your bio, cishet men ( anyone queer is welcomed here  ), racists, lgbtqphobes / terfs / radfems, fatphobes, misogynists, death feedists, ed or th*nso blogs, cgl/ddlg/dmlb, zoophilacs, pedos/" maps " / " pears ", proshippers, you post nsfw of minors ( fictional or otherwise )