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egophiliac · 2 years ago

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LET THE BOY HAVE AN EDUCATION

officially at the point where we're starting to see where it's all headed and I am just going NYEEHEEHEE in delight at it all. ahhh...next week can't come soon enough...

#art #twisted wonderland #twisted wonderland spoilers #stage in playful land #stage in playfulland #leona: (devises an actually somewhat clever plan to take out the staff-puppets without breaking any rules)#leona: (taken out two seconds later because he sat down in the wrong place)#at this point i'm half expecting the ssr boys to actually bust in with a big sandwich platter or something #a cake with 'please don't kidnap people :)' written on it in shaky icing #kalim isn't good at plans but he DOES throw a good shindig and by god he's going to play to his strengths #also IT WASN'T SHINY TICKETS IT WAS GIDEL?!#MY BOY #MY BEAUTIFUL MAGICAL FELINE BOY #i mean i'm assuming at this point but that seems to be the implication #genuinely kind of shocked that they actually WERE being magicked into being extra gullible #it was ✨foreshadowing✨ all along...#the blot though! what about the blot!#is that going to be an issue or are we going to have enough to deal with already!#i have rocketed from 'i find these villains entertaining' to 'i am suddenly incredibly invested in them as characters'#LOOK there is one thing better than characters with sort of unhealthy codependent relationships #and that is characters with sort of unhealthy codependent relationships but TWIST IT'S NOT THE WAY YOU THINK #nyeeheeheeeeeee

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kyngsley01 · 4 months ago

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Burningcheese dump because I love them and Twitter doesn’t deserve them 😭

#burningcheese #my art #I need them to do terrible things to each other #codependent researching a way to regain both of their respective kingdoms with no rest no breaks ✨

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florence-not-italy · 2 months ago

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james and his 2500 day snapstreak with sirius against the world

#yes the streak kept going even during breaks #sirius getting lowkey violated by his parents? send a snap of it pls #james would restore it though because he has an emotional dependency on it #marauders era #marauders #atyd marauders #james potter #sirius black #platonic prongsfoot #prongsfoot #codependent prongsfoot #wolfstar

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mohntilyet · 3 months ago

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actually sorry dav reads like a game that was written by people who think da2 is about found family. in every other game my ending feels earned and my choices are my own and then veilguard asks the bold question what if we could bring the hr mandatory team bonding experience into a video game?

#laaarge swing at the hornet's nest #BUT. bafflingly immersion breaking script. 'im not sure i can focus... UNTIL YOU COMPLETE MY SIDEQUESTS!'#when i choose to drop or do a sidequest i should be allowed to do that all by myself. what the hell #dav critical #veilguard critical #never in my life have i ever wanted a found family dynamic frm da perhaps thats whats causing issues with dav for me post game #i know that people at times complain about the 'and then they all split up from each other' endings that the various da games have #i quite enjoy it actually. just kind of. like ofc some of you bitches are staying tgt but its like #that impermanence. fate drags you away from each other. this was never built to last!!!!! i like that in a dynamic!!!!!!!#so its like furthermore baffling that in vg they seem to try and make it a found family thing and its described as such by devs but #theyre not even like . codependent enough to stay together. LIKE WHAT VEIL R THEY GUARDING #sorry for being a negative nancy. it is tagged accordingly. i have to go back to working

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adamsrcnan · 3 months ago

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i want to talk about how crazy this line "brown like the gaze that sought jean out in every room" actually is. because what does this mean????

jean has noticed that whenever jeremy walks into a room he immediately does a scan to find jean. so what? these boys are so attuned to each other already that jean actually notices jeremy looking for him?

nora are you trying to say that there's a shift in jeremy once he finds jean in any given place?? does his body relax? do his eyes soften or shine a little brighter? you're telling me it's a physical visible thing that jeremy walks into a room and his first thought is "where is jean?" and then what?? when he finds him he goes "ah there he is" and there's a shift??? in him??? when he sees jean?? and jean can see that? he's aware of it?? he's noticed it?? it makes him feel safe enough to associate jeremy's searching brown eyes (searching for him. for Jean.) with everything else that brings him peace??? like are we hearing this???

or am i crazy? am i deluded?? am i losing my senses???

#now i'm just thinking about jerejean in a crowded room maybe at practice #at a banquet #at a party #be it in their present day or 10 years down the line #both of them on opposite ends of the room talk to different people #in their own conversations #but every now and then jeremy's eyes will scan the room and he won't break convo with whoever he's with #he'll keep talking #but then his eyes will find jean and he'll smile or his body will deflate a little in a good relaxed way #and jean will see it because jean would have already known exactly where he was/is #and maybe it's a little codependent but Fuck It #let them be codepedent together #at least it's each other #they make me SO insane #jean how can you say that and not elaborate??????#gaaaahhhhhhhh #jean moreau #jeremy knox #jerejean #the golden raven spoilers #tgr spoilers #the sunshine court #tsc #all for the game #aftg #there's a typo in my tags so if anyone reads them lets just pretend it's not there

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thepeacefulgarden · 2 months ago

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#family #parenting #relationships #boundaries #codependency #low contact #no contact #generational trauma #toxic family #dysfunctional family #breaking the cycle #unselfish parenting

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weirdglassthing · 8 months ago

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Youll never guess what I started!!

While watching the first episode I forced myself to figure out how to draw rett and it paid off look at him!!

Avantris singlehandedly forcing me to learn how to draw men

Silhouettes because they look shockingly baddass, Barbie pyke because Jesus do not leave his hair unrendered, and the sketch because I find it funny

#my sketches for everything are always CRIMINAL #I should post them more #this one had various contexts so I’m gonna share them all and you can pick which one you like best and that can be canon in your mind #1: they’re pissed at eachother but gay people can’t be normal (codependency)#2: were not mad just disappointed #3: the crew is being shenanigan heavy and they need a break #Not to brag but #I need everyone to look at several things #pykes hair #the metal rendering #pykes shoes #and retts arm #thank you #anyways um I love stardust rhapsody expect more art to come #prelude come back #legends of avantris #stardust rhapsody #pyke stardust rhapsody #rett stardust rhapsody

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starburstminibot · 6 months ago

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Transformers ARK! The Twins

Sunstreaker, the self-proclaimed "eldest" of the two is cocky and egotistical. Most bots find him hard to approach so they simply steer clear. He takes great pride in his unstable reputation, and wouldn't be caught dead doing anything to break character. The only bot who seems to be able to put up with him is his twin, Sideswipe. And even though the two are rarely apart, they sometimes seem to barely even like each other. Despite preferring isolation, Sunstreaker has always been secretly jealous of how easily Sideswipe can make friends, and how other bots like his brother over him.

Sideswipe, while just as aggressive at times, can be much more relaxed and playful than his brother. He's funny and friendly, and can quickly gain favor with others. It's unfortunate that most bots are too scared to approach him considering who he's always hanging out with. Sometimes Sideswipe is resentful of the shadow he's constantly living in, and wishes Sunstreaker wasn't setting the standards of what bots grow to expect of him.

It would probably help both of their insecurities if they weren't so codependent, but no one's had the guts to try and tell them that yet.

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scamguy · 2 months ago

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im trying to read post canon yoohankim fics and i can't be bothered to look for them on ao3 like...... im not going to lie a lot of it is really boring.... its fluff in a way that really doesnt appeal to my taste. uh oops I just wrote a bunch of shit in the tags

#i need them to stay codependent and silly and funny. i need kim dokja to try to break up with them. i need him to be scared of #his own sexuality and think that he's not a good romantic partner due to his problems #i need yoo joonghyuk to be afraid for kim dokjas wellbeing. as soft as they may have come to be after the scenarios #i think they get to have a few mental breakdowns #i need to see han sooyoung get angry and cry and have her fingernails dig inside the palm of her hands #i need them to kiss and be desperate. even in a peaceful world they still have their own issues that can just go away #kim dokja understands that he is loved by others but can he TRULY get rid of his fear of being loved?#yoo joonghyuk has found some meaning and purpose to their life of suffering but is that easy to live after only surviving?#han sooyoung has surrounded herself with a family but can she truly sleep at night with the selfish choices she made to save them?#like PLEASE.. i want more than just kim dokja learning how to be loved. it is fun but i want MORE. yhk is about deeply angsty characters #can we treat them as such #they're so traumatized and selfish. they broke the space time continuum for each other. several times #they broke the fourth wall together and youre only gonna make them CUDDLE? i want to see BLOOD EVERYWHERE #orv #orv spoilers #omniscient reader's viewpoint #yoohankim

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lambmotifz · 8 months ago

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“wincest isn’t canon!” dean winchester canonically thinks that “little brother” is a synonym for “wife”

#he doesn’t (and won’t) treat sam like an equal brother. he treats him like a wife/atticwife/cheating wife because it’s how he sees sam #and sam is so used (stockholmed) to it he doesn’t really want to break their toxic marriage. because of codependency #honestly more wincest shippers should embrace the canon toxicity & horror of their dynamic (because of dean’s unhealthy obsession with sam)#it’s literally the main reason why they’re so codependent #dean winchester #sam winchester #wincest #samdean #spn

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silverthelovebug · 10 months ago

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They are so I Don’t Smoke by Mistki

#jurassic world #jurassic world chaos theory #jwct #chaos theory #sammy gutierrez #yasmina fadoula #yasammy #i don’t smoke #mitski #If there’s a Yasammy break up scare in Season 2 I’ll actually laugh #they’ve been on and off since JWCC season one #I love my codependent U-Haul sapphics

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lesbianfakir · 1 month ago

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Watching later steven universe is high key stressful for me because it reminds me of being a suicidal sixteen year old BUT I cannot express with words how foundational the “someday, somewhere, somehow, you’ll love again” melody was for my mental health

#TODAY. RIGHT HERE. RIGHT NOW. ILL LOVE AGAIN. IVE ALREADY FOUND SOMEONE #it only took like what 5 years #anyways steven universe future was crazy because it’s all about Steven breaking down #and he was getting worse as I was getting worse #gave me horrible second hand embarrassment and anxiety #THE CACTUS EPISODE. THE PROPOSAL #but like at the end his friends and family were like we love you and we’re here for you #and that was a slap in the face because I felt utterly alone #rewatch is gonna be crazyyyyyyy #anyway if spinel were real we’d literally be the bestest most codependent besties #need her in my life fr

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completelymindfucked · 1 year ago

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