#dynamic rper: beta

[omegaverserping]

Looking for Partners m/m or m/f

Name (Anonymous, nickname, or preferred name): Rhett URL: Age (Please click here): 40 Preferred Way of RPing (Email, Skype, etc. (you can share this publicly or only with your RP partner)): I prefer Discord, but open to other methods. Time Zone (Optional. This is only if you have a preference on how often you and your partner reply to one another.): EST First, Second, or Third Person point of view?: Third is preferred. Preferred Role (Alpha/Omega/Beta/All): Alpha or beta (preferably one still able to fertilize an omega.) I play male characters. Preferred Pairing (M/M, F/M, F/F, and so on and so forth): M/M or M/F Do you prefer to RP with OCs (Original Characters), Fandom, or both?: Original, but open depending on the fandom OCs (Optional to list them here or share them with your RP Partner): Everything from shifters, mermen, to regular social hierarchy stuff Triggers: None that come to mind Preferred length when replying: 1-3 paragraphs, or longer if it calls for it. I think length is sometimes situational depending on if it’s a highly descriptive moment as opposed to a quick banter. How long would like to RP for? (Short or long term, indefinitely, or not sure x): Long Term to Idefinitely is preferred. I prefer a story and world that grows with time spent. Prompt(s) that you would like to share for a potential partner (Optional x): Would you be willing to brainstorm a prompt (Y/N)?: Always. Omegaverse tropes that you DO NOT like to use (Use N/A if you have none x): Omegaverse tropes that you DO enjoy using often and would like to use in your RP (Use N/A if you don’t mind using certain/any tropes): Heat/Pheremones Anything else that you would like to mention or say?: I’m easy going, prefer low stress and low drama partner. available rper a/b/o rp

[tendurmeat]

VI. 25+, s/her, audhd, queer, indian-american, pst. tumblr / discord rper. catch me @ discord (eboyzoro). low activity single muse oc rp sideblog. i'm also at: @winfleure / @shinainarukaze / @musiktrack !

BYI/F. this is a sideblog so no follows back unfortunately. sb if unfollowing. ocassionally nsfw (mute: usfw //). rt heavy. terrible at dms but also! a certified yapper in the tags.

DNI/F. minors (hb me!). bigots.

GUIDELINES.

using beta editor. minors hb/dnf/dni. basic rules apply. personally ok w/ slight godmodding if it moves the plot along. any triggering themes & (m)ature threads will be tagged/no readmore unless rp partner does so (can switch over to discord for m threads!). selective & private. relaxed activity (hours to weeks). i tend to drop threads easily, however i love headcanons, world building, character & ship dev & ooc chatter! my writing style/wc ranges from ~50-300+ words. usual formatting is: bold/italics/small font. sometimes: spacing. rare: gifs (prefer gifless on tumblr, ok with discord). will adjust my formatting if necessary. my requirements: trim/cut your posts, no huge gifs & willing to chat ooc/be friends (if ooc chatter isn’t your thing, we may not be compatible — i’m sorry fren but ooc rly impacts muse & rp interactions for me!) currently open to: plots / threads / memes. open to: platonic, romantic, & antagonistic dynamics. open to: m/m romantic/sexual dynamics (m/f platonic/antagonistic dynamics). this character has slice of life themes but i'm open to au verses: supernatural, fantasy, crime, anime/manga aus and more. open to: plot / face / ship suggestions & crossovers. i prefer m/pwp threads but can fade to black.

NO- GO:

noncon/dubcon (ok w/ cnc & cdc) / incest/stepcest (ok w/ legal age gaps & power imbalances) / physical abuse (ok w/ mental toxicity/fuckery)

extremely problematic fcs (use your own discretion but you can always ask if you’re unsure!) / deceased / who do not wish to be rped / real person fiction (ie. rping ‘harry styles’ as himself) / self roleplay ... animanga faces are okay as long as they have a live-action counterpart!

TAGS. tba here.

[musiktrack]

VI. 25+, s/her, audhd, queer, indian-american, pst. tumblr / discord rper. catch me @ discord (eboyzoro). low activity multi muse oc rp sideblog. i'm also at: @winfleure / @shinainarukaze / @tendurmeat !

BYI/F. this is a sideblog so no follows back unfortunately. sb if unfollowing. ocassionally nsfw (mute: usfw //). rt heavy. terrible at dms but also! a certified yapper in the tags.

DNI/F. minors (hb me!). bigots.

GUIDELINES.

using beta editor. minors hb/dnf/dni. basic rules apply. personally ok w/ slight godmodding if it moves the plot along. any triggering themes & (m)ature threads will be tagged/no readmore unless rp partner does so (can switch over to discord for m threads!). selective & private. relaxed activity (hours to weeks). i tend to drop threads easily, however i love headcanons, world building, character & ship dev & ooc chatter! my writing style/wc ranges from ~50-300+ words. usual formatting is: bold/italics/small font. sometimes: spacing. rare: gifs (prefer gifless on tumblr, ok with discord). will adjust my formatting if necessary. my requirements: please don't use me for my top, dom and/or male aligned characters, trim/cut your posts, no huge gifs & willing to chat ooc/be friends (if ooc chatter isn’t your thing, we may not be compatible — i’m sorry fren but ooc rly impacts muse & rp interactions for me!) currently open to: plots / threads / memes. open to: platonic, romantic, & antagonistic dynamics. open to: m/m & f/f romantic/sexual dynamics (m/f pairings is low interest / muse dependent). open to: slice of life, supernatural, fantasy, crime, anime/manga aus and more. open to: plot / face / ship suggestions & crossovers. i prefer m/pwp threads but can fade to black.

NO- GO:

noncon/dubcon (ok w/ cnc & cdc) / incest/stepcest (ok w/ legal age gaps & power imbalances) / physical abuse (ok w/ mental toxicity/fuckery)

extremely problematic fcs (use your own discretion but you can always ask if you’re unsure!) / deceased / who do not wish to be rped / real person fiction (ie. rping ‘harry styles’ as himself) / self roleplay

TAGS. tba here.

[shinainarukaze]

VI. 25+, s/her, audhd, queer, indian-american, pst. tumblr / discord rper. catch me @ discord (eboyzoro). low activity multi muse oc rp sideblog. i'm also at: @winfleure / @musiktrack / @tendurmeat !

BYI/F. this is a sideblog so no follows back unfortunately. sb if unfollowing. ocassionally nsfw (mute: usfw //). rt heavy. terrible at dms but also! a certified yapper in the tags.

DNI/F. minors (hb me!). bigots.

GUIDELINES.

using beta editor. minors hb/dnf/dni. basic rules apply. personally ok w/ slight godmodding if it moves the plot along. any triggering themes & (m)ature threads will be tagged/no readmore unless rp partner does so (can switch over to discord for m threads!). selective & private. relaxed activity (hours to weeks). i tend to drop threads easily, however i love headcanons, world building, character & ship dev & ooc chatter! my writing style/wc ranges from ~50-300+ words. usual formatting is: bold/italics/small font. sometimes: spacing. rare: gifs (prefer gifless on tumblr, ok with discord). will adjust my formatting if necessary. my requirements: please don't use me for my top, dom and/or male aligned characters, trim/cut your posts, no huge gifs & willing to chat ooc/be friends (if ooc chatter isn’t your thing, we may not be compatible — i’m sorry fren but ooc rly impacts muse & rp interactions for me!) currently open to: plots / threads / memes. open to: platonic, romantic, & antagonistic dynamics. open to: m/m & f/f romantic/sexual dynamics (m/f pairings is low interest / muse dependent). open to: slice of life, supernatural, fantasy, crime, anime/manga aus and more. open to: plot / face / ship suggestions & crossovers. i prefer m/pwp threads but can fade to black.

NO- GO:

noncon/dubcon (ok w/ cnc & cdc) / incest/stepcest (ok w/ legal age gaps & power imbalances) / physical abuse (ok w/ mental toxicity/fuckery)

extremely problematic fcs (use your own discretion but you can always ask if you’re unsure!) / deceased / who do not wish to be rped / real person fiction (ie. rping ‘harry styles’ as himself) / self roleplay

TAGS. tba here.

[winfleure]

VI. 25+, s/her, audhd, queer, indian-american, pst. tumblr / discord rper. catch me @ discord (eboyzoro). low activity indie 1x1 oc & canon rp sideblog. i'm also at: @shinainarukaze / @musiktrack / @tendurmeat !

BYI/F. this is a sideblog so no follows back unfortunately. i have many ocs w/ musician and/or kpop faces (i have western and actor faces too tho if that's not ur cup of tea!). sb if unfollowing. ocassionally nsfw (mute: usfw //). rt heavy. terrible at dms but also! a certified yapper in the tags.

DNI/F. minors (hb me!). bigots.

GUIDELINES.

using beta editor. minors hb/dnf/dni. basic rules apply. personally ok w/ slight godmodding if it moves the plot along. any triggering themes & (m)ature threads will be tagged/no readmore unless rp partner does so (can switch over to discord for m threads!). selective & private. relaxed activity (hours to weeks). i tend to drop threads easily, however i love headcanons, world building, character & ship dev & ooc chatter! my writing style/wc ranges from ~50-300+ words. usual formatting is: bold/italics/small font. sometimes: spacing. rare: gifs (prefer gifless on tumblr, ok with discord). will adjust my formatting if necessary. my requirements: please don't use me for my top, dom and/or male aligned characters, trim/cut your posts, no huge gifs & you are willing to chat ooc/be friends (if ooc chatter isn’t your thing, we may not be compatible — i’m sorry fren but ooc rly impacts muse & rp interactions for me!) currently open to: plots / threads / memes. open to: platonic, romantic, & antagonistic dynamics. open to: m/m & f/f romantic/sexual dynamics (m/f pairings is low interest / muse dependent). open to: slice of life, supernatural, fantasy, crime, anime/manga aus and more. open to: plot / face / ship suggestions & crossovers. i prefer m/pwp threads but can fade to black.

NO- GO:

noncon/dubcon (ok w/ cnc & cdc) / incest/stepcest (ok w/ legal age gaps & power imbalances) / physical abuse (ok w/ mental toxicity/fuckery)

extremely problematic fcs (use your own discretion but you can always ask if you’re unsure!) / deceased / who do not wish to be rped / real person fiction (ie. rping ‘harry styles’ as himself) / self roleplay

TAGS. tags here.

[findyourrp]

💞Hi all! 25+F rper looking for some rp friends to write with over discord for a specific plot! 💞

I prefer to write with people over 21. NSFW WILL be present and can take the form of drug abuse, dub-con, toxic relationship dynamics, etc. I am a huge fan of drama and angst. Let me know your triggers.

I don’t mind doubling if that’s what you’re looking for, otherwise I only write mxf at this time. Please let me know when I contact you if you’d like to double!

I have a Pinterest board of wanted fcs but I am open to suggestions if you think anyone else fits the plot better! If we’re doubling I’m happy to play any fc for your opposite!

I’m looking for friendly people who want to chat outside of rping, share aesthetics, etc. Activity-wise I try to reply daily but there are times when I get busy, I’ll let you know if I’m going to be gone for an extended period and ask that you do the same!

Plot I’m looking for: Omegaverse-dynamic that takes the form of gangs in a city. The alpha of the pack is a ruthless leader of one gang that has never placed much importance on a relationship or eventual mate. My oc has been masking as a beta for safety. That’s just the bare bones, if we’re doubling we of course will alter it to accommodate a universe of characters!

If this sounds right up your alley, like this and I’ll give you a nudge!

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[omegaverse-seeker]

I'm sorry I got a little bit confused looking through your blog? I wanna start an rp with someone (anyone really) and I'm not sure where to start?

We shit, lol. Sorry that you got confused. 

So basically to start an rp, you can look through the available rpers in order to find someone who you think you’d be able to have a fun rp with. As soon as you find that person, you can just message them through their tumblr and get the ball rolling. 

I always suggest that you fill out the rpers ref template and then submit it, in order for your future rp partner to see what you would like too! 

The sheets are so you can see if they have the same interests in AUs, what roles they play, fandoms, and things of the like! It’s all to help you make rping fun and easy for you to do. 

[tangleweave]

♡ Munday Meme ♡ - 4, 5, 6, 7, 15, 16, 17, 18, 21, 23

{The Munday Meme}

4. Favourite thing about roleplaying?

Practicing my character portrayal. I work really hard to get the voices straightened out in my head so that when I'm writing a piece of dialogue, you can hear them when you read it. All of my muses share the "he" pronoun but you shouldn't be left guessing which "he" I refer to when I'm writing their dialogue.

5. Least favourite thing about roleplaying?

<sigh> Toxicity in the community. I realize this constitutes a minority, and a very small fraction of participants at that, but I've had the misfortune of running into a few who have been terribly disrespectful, pushy, and even flat-out insulting to their fellow RPers. I have no stomach for that. I'm here to disengage from reality and have some fun, not to engage in middle-school level dramatics (unless it's dramatics my partner and I have chosen to write for ourselves).

6. OTP for your muse?

Well, I've got seven muses, lol, but assuming you'd like to know my OTPs for all of them? Sure, I'll try it out. Be aware, too, that not all of my OTPs are necessarily in relation to RP interactions. With that said...

Beta Ray Bill -- Up until the publication of Argent Star, I would have immediately said Lady Sif. But I was so disappointed with her reaction to the notion of intimacy with him in his true form (augmentations, enhancements, equine face) that I've begun to reconsider that ship. Here on Tumblr, though, Bill found a curious kinship with the Olympian goddess Persephone, courtesy of the extraordinary @titansaints [check them out!] which quickly became a lovely, fluffy ship that I've thoroughly enjoyed.

Phil Coulson -- Two OTPs for this man, I gotta be honest. The first is with Melinda May, because do I even need to say why? But the second is here on Tumblr, with the illustrious Dejah Thoris of John Carter of Mars lore, provided by the talented @voice-of-barsoom [check them out too!]. It's a pairing I would never have thought of on my own and I stan it.

Groot -- Not really applicable in a canon context, for obvious reasons, but here on Tumblr, this one goes to Beth Riley, lovingly provided by the inimitable @brooklynislandgirl [if you're not checking them out, why not?!]. This is a ship that sails right down the center of platonic and romantic seas, and is stunningly soft... and really, I honestly do believe only Beth can adore Groot in the specific way she does. It is a testament to this fabulous writer.

Spider-Man (Peter Parker) -- Gotta toss this to MJ, out of recognition for her dedication. In most canon iterations of her, she's stuck with Pete through thick and thin, no matter what curve balls his life as Spider-Man has thrown their way, up to and including home invasion, abduction, mutation, and even death. If there's a runner-up, it's Gwen... because let's face it. If Gwen had survived, it would have been her. I don't currently have any Tumblr-based threads which ship Peter with anyone. (Yet.)

Stephen Strange -- Nnnnnngh. Okay, I'm going to out myself here, I know precious little about Stephen from the comics, so although I'm intellectually aware of his relationship with (and marriage to) Clea, I've not familiarized myself with those dynamics and nuances (but I'm interested to see what she brings to the MCU). I refuse to say Christine Palmer, I just never sensed any sparks there. Regarding RP, one of my favorite Stephen ships here on Tumblr is also probably my first one on this profile, with Sigyn Freyjadottr, as portrayed by @sigynthevictorious [yes, I'm reccing them too, deal with it!]. A true enemies-to-friends tale that really went the distance in the telling!

Venom (Eddie Brock) -- NOT Eddie / his Other. That's both obvious and low-hanging fruit. And to be honest, I think we've yet to see what a really good relationship for him in canon would be. However, here on Tumblr, there is absolutely no question at all, and this ship is my ultimate favorite OTP out of all the ones I'm listing for this question... this goes also to Beth Riley @brooklynislandgirl , who has generously worked with me to create an absolutely sprawling multiversal saga with our muses at its heart. BEddie for life.

Vision -- Okay, do you really expect me to say anybody but Wanda? Whether in canon or via Tumblr RP alongside the illustrious @illbringthechaosmagic , there's really just one woman for Vis at the end of the day, and it's Wanda Maximoff.

7. NOTP for your muse?

This answer will be far shorter, because the honest truth is, my muses tend to be pretty open-minded about relationships -- though as listed in my Rules segment, with the exception of Groot, they're all hetero males. That being said, even restricting themselves to women, these boys can get themselves in tons of trouble for the sake of a ship (and frequently do!). It's never characters I'm averse to shipping with... just situations, and a couple very specific members of this community.

15. What do you look for in an RP partner?

Primarily, someone who is decently literate and not afraid to write more than a smattering of words per tag. I'm not terribly picky about length beyond that... give me at least one paragraph. Or give me a novel. Either way, I'll run with it. What you give tends to be what you'll get in return.

16. Favourite trope?

<scratches the back of his neck> Damn it, you caught me, I'm a total sap. I really like that trope of when two characters share that revelation that they've got feelings for each other. It's been building up between them for an embarrassingly long time, and they just can't hold it in anymore. But this comes with a caveat... to be truly satisfying, I need the buildup. I need it to be sold to me.

17. Least favourite trope?

Betrayal whose flags were completely visible but entirely ignored. It kinda pulls me out of the story when I can see the turn of a coat coming from miles away and the characters can't pick up on it to save their own lives (sometimes literally).

18. Are there any AU's you'd like to explore but haven't had the chance to yet?

I have an AU concept which involves Hydra being successful in taking SHIELD down, except for Coulson, who assumes an offshoot Ghost Rider persona and seeks vengeance. I've also had a half-formed idea rattling around wherein all of my muses randomly exchange roles (Spider-Bill; Groot, Agent of SHIELD; Vision, Guardian of the Galaxy). As for universal shifts, I've been fleshing out some concepts for my spread of muses to all take up residence in the Star Wars universe (Venom is a shapeshifting spy, Stephen and Spidey are Force sensitives in exile, Coulson is an ex-diplomat turned crime lord... it's a whole thing). It's also kind of fun to imagine them all within the context of D&D (and I still have at least one request in my Inbox asking me to write a drabble of one of my muses in the realm of Dragonlance). What would happen to them in the world of Pokémon? Would they all be trainers? Y'know. Fun stuff. So the short answer is yes, there are... and I'm open to discussing them!

21. Are there certain characters that you gravitate towards?

Yes, but probably not the ones you'd think. My top three favorite characters in this spread of muses are Beta Ray Bill, Venom, and Coulson, in that order. Stephen and Spidey are present among this spread for several reasons, but among them is the fact they're mainstream and tend to attract eyes (and Follows) in a way my three favorites simply can't. Bill is obscure, Coulson is niche, and not everybody wants to interact with Eddie / his Other / Venom (or that pedantic distinction I insist upon making).

23. Do you ever get jealous when RPing? How do you handle this?

Oh jeez, calling me out, this is embarrassing... Okay, the honest truth? Yeah, I do occasionally get jealous, and that's not a good color on me. My method of dealing with it is remembering we're all doing this for fun, and we all chase the dopamine, wherever that chase leads. It doesn't always lead my mutuals towards me or the threads I'd like to work on, and that... really is okay. My own dopamine chases don't always lead me in the direction I know some of my mutuals would hope for either, and they're all incredibly gracious towards me about it. That's why I have multiple threads with multiple mutuals. At any given time, I have a ton of ideas and threads I can work on... and if a character I want to write for is lacking love, I can fairly easily find someone who'd be interested in threading. And even if my luck ran out... I've written a LOT of fanfiction over the years. I can write on my own, too! (If I ever get past the crippling anxiety and perfectionism.)

[maxparkhurst]

🔥🔥 (One about worgen, the other is your choice!)

Send me a “ 🔥 “ for an unpopular opinion.

Worgen are cool. I like worgen. My first real RP character was a worgen. On that note, I don’t like pack RPers. I dunno. I just don’t get it, I don’t want it, the alpha-beta dynamic in it creeps me out slightly. No offense to anyone who does enjoy that- you do you. I, for one, don’t think Worgen need to run around in packs. I mean, I think they’re a thing a lore (don’t quote me) but I just don’t subscribe to that. That’s a me thing, though. I...I don’t have much to say on that except...Have fuuuuun and don’t include me in your pack/cult thiiiiiings? 

Unpopular Opinion #2: I’m not a fan of overtly zany characters. Let me preface, though, before anyone burns me at the stake. I enjoy eccentric, comedic relief, and high-energy characters. I think they bring a lovely tone to a scene, especially when placed next to the overtly brooding character. It balances it out and it’s refreshing to see some wholesome, humorous content. But people who make a trollish character and approach for just a “WTF” reaction bug me. You’re breaking my immersion and it’s not coolbeans, my dudes. Unlike a lot of people who roll with the punches in said scenarios, I completely ignore it and steamroll ahead with a THICC emote. I am unapologetic in these terms. 

Thank you for coming to me TedTalk @ranekvilmas

[cantillat-moved]

There is a increasing amount of personal blogs liking my stuff, so I'd like to share a few reminders

This blog is a roleplay blog . And there are some few courtesies that are expected.

DO NOT REBLOG THREADS . Unlike fanfic, a roleplay thread isn't meant for public consumption and should only be engaged by the parts involved, namely the two roleplayers. You are welcome to send asks, likes and to follow everything unfold, but don't reblog .

DO NOT REBLOG HEADCANONS . This is actually considered theft and can be very rude and upsetting. I had my hcs stolen by another rper and I know many who stopped sharing their hcs because of theft. With the beta editor it is possible to don't have people reblogging them but older posts or the legacy format doesn't have this luxury.

YOU ARE WELCOME TO SEND ASKS ON THIS BLOG. Feel free to send asks about any of the characters I write. Would you like to me to write an analysis ? I love them. Would you like to know how I think a character would react to a situation ? Go for it. The dynamics with another character ? Sure. Just pay mind that not all rp blogs like to interact with personal blogs, this depends on each one of us.

If your blog doesn't have a image of you and no info on, or a very specific type of vibe, chances are most rp blogs might mistake you for a p.o.rn bot and you'll be blocked and reported. Please be mindful.

Quick lesson: we call the characters "muses" and the person writing is the "mun", short for "mundane". Feel free to contact me if you have more questions.

However. If you reblog a thread or a headcanon from my blog I WILL block you. Many personals like making carrds or have a pinned post to talk about themselves and want their boundaries respected, so there is no excuse for a personal ignore a rp blog with rules/guidelines stated. I don't mind if you reblog an edit, meta analysis or fanart. Unless it is stated otherwise in the post, you are free to share.

That's all ! Sorry for the long post. Have fun !

[mowseries]

[[6, 7, and 9!]]

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➏ What’s the one thing you especially love about roleplaying your muse?

Oh boy. That’s difficult, because it varies by character. I find their backstories and personalities very interesting and engaging, and they can be quite entertaining.

One that stands out for having a definite answer to this question would have to be David/Snowcone.

He’s very much a free expression of compassion and joy, without all the things that dim or choke out such positivity as people grow older and more divided. That is something so easily lost, and yet so powerful.

However… while I do really enjoy writing for Snowcone, there are IC complications of doing so. So he doesn’t see as much screen time as he could.

➐ Are there any people you’ve been too afraid of approaching?

Do you ((generic)) want the list, or?

Yes, there have been a lot of people I’ve been too afraid to approach. In many cases, I still made an attempt… but it didn’t go anywhere.

Additionally, there are… other complications, shall we say, when it comes to new people. Or rather… “new” people, if you catch my drift.

:/ That’s as much as I’m willing to say on the matter at the moment.

➒ Got any memorable threads on here? Care to mention a few?

Oh, yes, very much so! :]

One of my favorite threads was A Tale of Two Reds, which I did with @asktheangrybirdsflock and other RPers from the Angry Birds community.

Gosh, that was such a fun thread. It was one of the best experiences I’ve had in a multiperson thread. It was a rather interesting experience, in that people understood each other’s characters enough to write a /bit/ of the dynamic—but it was so well done and everyone was okay with it, and the thread and plot as a whole really benefited from this. I actually have several art pieces related to this thread, and several of the participants also drew some of my characters. That was a really fun time.

Another of my favorite threads was the time with @singer-saboteur-soldier-spy where Issimo got drunk on New Years Eve. Shadow actually had an emotion™ and decided to be mischevious and tip the Reploid into a pool. It was the first time the space ninja had smiled, and one of the first truly identifiable instances of him showing real emotion. Not a very long thread, but it had a huge impact on Shadow’s character development.

There are actually a number of memorable AND very IMPORTANT threads that happened with @singer-saboteur-soldier-spy. And there is a reason for this.

Back when this blog was new, I didn’t have many people to interact with. And—as is still the case—I wasn’t having any success in starter calls/blog promotions/what have you.

So I turned to @white-bird-in-a-cage for help, since she has a much greater sphere of influence than I do. She promoted me, and got about five responses. Of those five, @singer-saboteur-soldier-spy was the one person I ended up interacting with. The relationship that the Beta Boys then developed with the characters on that blog had a STAGGERING impact on their character development, in the best way possible.

@overx is totally to blame for Cardinal taking on his mischevious streak, though. :] Isn’t that right, Goldfish?

—T.

[sexlessrpmemes-mod-human]

Rape/csa survivor Mokap here with an unpopular opinion--1: It's worth noting that some people who don't use (not just women) here and there may go about such rps and scenes for power dynamics and the like in a safe environment which the survivor should be able to stop at any time. But the bottom line is that it's consensual/legal among all parties involved (provided the real humans are of age, of course).

 Mokap anon, 2: I’m starting to see an alarming trend of “even if you use it to cope and you just disclosed your mental status/etc., you still can’t do it because it makes me uncomfortable”, and posts like that do irk me because I don’t believe people should have to disclose that kind of info over fictional things. It’s so trivial to me, and even then, people can block/ignore/unfollow if they see that kind of thing at some point. They have the option to do so.       

Mokap,3: But then again, I’m of the opinion that people should produce and participate in whatever content they wish as long as it’s within legal limits. It can be hella gross to me, but unless I’m being pulled into it, it’s none of my business. Those kind of posts remind me of things I’d see associated with purity culture, which I’m not too keen on. Hope you have a good night.             

Thank you very much for your polite response.

First of all people should not go into other’s blogs and police, and should remember that unfollowing/blacklisting/blocking is always an option, but I have talked a decent amount on that particular part of the matter and should not

In your last message you actually hit the nail on the head as to why I reblogged that post, although now that I think of it it was perhaps not the best worded for the intention I was trying to get across. People producing such things (while I find it icky) often have a right to do so (unless if it’s illegal to produce x where they are.) The issue is that some people who are doing such things try to pull people in, or have normalized it in their own mind enough that they feel that it is something that they can simply approach people for on their Rp blogs without knowing them. In summary for me a part of the issue is when people are bringing it into places it is not desired (not just that they are fetishizing it, something I have already explained my stance on)

In my case I will and often do Rp certain darker (non-sexual) themes (death, bodily harm, etc) but I always ensure that it:

Is within my partner’s rules

They have given me direct permission to do so (even if it’s within their rules I check)

I have known them for a while and we have talked ooc so I am already roughly aware of what their limits are *

That they are 100% aware they can back out at any time, and that if they want I will rewrite a reply for them

That I check the rules again and speak to them again if things are likely to escalate in the thread **

It is when people neglect to do those sorts of things/bring those who are not consenting into this sort of thing through their actions that I have an issue. ESPECIALLY when it comes to threads of the sort we are talking about.

I am going tell you now that to me bringing those who are not consenting into things includes situations where a person was too nervous to say no or back out, consented to something else but not the new direction of the thread. It is not just a lack of consent, but a lack of INFORMED consent that I am looking at here.

For example I myself have alpha/beta/omega blacklisted in about forty different permutations of tags and wordings because the idea of a world where people are often in a state where they are unable to properly consent due to hormonal fluctuations makes me extremely uncomfortable. I keep it off my dash and say nothing, although it is in my rules as things I will not touch with a ten foot pole.*** Even if it does make me uncomfortable ultimately it’s my blogging experience that I need to control, and as such my job to block/blacklist/unfollow, not an Rpers job to stop Rping something simply in order to cater to me. (I mention the alpha/beta/omega thing in order to come back to it in a moment) 

The issue comes if the lines blur and people bring it with them to new Rp partnerships assuming it will be acceptable.

       For example, someone could come forward to me an AU where both muses were shapeshifters or werewolves, and I would say yes, because give me that awesome worldbuilding and interesting social dynamics

If that person then proceeds to add the alpha/beta/omega hormonal dynamics to this AU and had been planning to all along then that means that I did not give informed consent, and that they had ignored my rules as well just to do what they wanted to.

They are forcing this scenario and in some cases (if the person doing the forcing is popular enough) someone who has had this scenario forced upon them may feel they had to continue to Rp this even though they found it uncomfortable. People sometimes do that with their kinks as well, and it is obvious in many cases that there was no communication going on (for example the other muse backs out right away and the mun basically ends the thread there by nopeing out) If someone does this with noncon in a thread simply because it’s their kink then...yeah let’s stop that thought right there

The person desiring the noncon thread could also simply bring it up right away upon speaking to someone, and things like that are most definitely not acceptable in all ?most? situations (just in case anyone wants to argue that point.)

There are already issues with force shipping and people forcing/guilting others into Rping smut/fetish stuff (...and yes I’ve seen the latter happen) and I find that worrying, especially given the fact that people may attempt to trick others into Rping non-con scenarios when they are uncomfortable.

At the end of the day it’s most important that people can stop if they feel unsafe, aren’t being approached randomly without any concern for if they are alright with that sort of content, people aren’t doing it simply to get their rocks off without a care for the other person, people aren’t being tricked into things, and it’s all consensual and above-board.

-mod human

*And that they know me well enough to feel comfortable coming to me with any issues they may have with it

**If I have been Rping with them for a long time and we have had threads of that nature before that have escalated far further than this one I may simply send a message reminding them I can rewrite if they are uncomfortable, but I almost always check just in case

***Although the cultural aspects of lycanthropy can be super interesting to look at and I have seen it such dynamics used as a world-building to amazing effect and can make for interesting Rps. The fact that it is being mostly used as a springboard for smut that is often dubious at best when it comes to consent means I’m uncomfortable so I just don’t even try…but I digress.

[omegaverserping]

hope it’s already to resubmit! it’s been a few months and i’m still looking for partners ❤️

preferred way of rp’ing: i use discord exclusively. just shoot me a dm and i’ll give you my tag.

timezone: central. however, i work weird hours, so differing timezones aren’t a huge problem for me!

pov?: third person, present or past tense.

preferred role: any. i’m comfortable writing alphas, betas and “unconventional” omegas.

preferred pairing: m/m, f/f, nb/any. i’m also interested in m!omega x f!alpha and poly ships.

ocs, fandom or both?: ocs, mostly. ask about fandoms if you’re interested.

favorite aus: arranged marriage, royalty, soulmates, enemies to lovers (or any variation of this), “forbidden” romance, role reversals

triggers: graphic childe abuse, self-harm, suicide

preferred reply length: a few chunky paragraphs at least. most of my replies fall between 150-500 words, sometimes wayyy more if i have the muse/time.

how long are you looking to rp for?: definitely hoping to land some long-term partners and stories.

would you be willing to brainstorm a prompt?: yes! immediate yes. this is actually a must for me. if you’re not willing to collaborate and brainstorm, i’m not the partner for you. i need lots of back and forth.

omegaverse tropes that you DO NOT like to use: not big on “traditional” dynamics. overtly submissive omegas against aggro alphas doesn’t really do it for me.

omegaverse tropes that you DO enjoy using often and would like to use: animalistic behaviors (primal instincts, scenting, growling/purring, nesting, etc.), courting, bonding, “true” mates, scent descriptors, heat/rut, pregnancy, pack-building, inherent power dynamics, social hierarchies - nearly everything! i’m always down to discuss headcanons and worldbuild.

anything else that you would like to mention or say?: i’m really looking for some good, well-developed omegaverse plots -- something that isn’t solely focused on the nsfw aspect of the trope, but the deep bond between mates and a bit of worldbuilding on how society is with secondary genders.

if you’re interested in this, something with plenty of plot and character development as well as nsfw bits, feel free to shoot me a dm or like this ad! 20+ only writers, please.

[omegaverserping]

age: 24, only interested in 20+ partners.

preferred way of rp’ing: i use discord exclusively. just reach out, and i’ll give you my tag.

timezone: cdt. however, i work weird hours, so differing timezones aren’t a huge problem for me!

pov?: third person.

preferred role: any, but i usually lean towards alphas.

preferred pairing: m/m and m/nb. i’m also comfortable with poly ships.

ocs, fandom or both?: ocs, mostly. ask about fandoms if you’re interested.

favorite aus: arranged marriage, soulmates, enemies to lovers (or any variation of this), “forbidden” romance, role reversals

triggers: graphic childe abuse, self-harm, suicide.

preferred reply length: a few chunky paragraphs at least. most of my replies fall between 150-500 words, sometimes much more.

how long are you looking to rp for?: definitely hoping to land some long-term partners and stories.

would you be willing to brainstorm a prompt?: yes! immediate yes. this is actually a must for me. if you’re not willing to collaborate and brainstorm, i’m not the partner for you.

omegaverse tropes that you DO NOT like to use: helpless and weak omegas against domineering and aggressive alphas. not my thing at all.

omegaverse tropes that you DO enjoy using often and would like to use: animalistic behaviors (primal instincts, scenting, growling/purring, etc.), courting, bonding, “true” mates, scent descriptors, heat/rut, pregnancy, pack-building, inherent power dynamics - nearly everything! i’m always down to discuss headcanons and worldbuild.

anything else that you would like to mention or say?: i’m really looking for some good, well-developed a/b/o plots -- something that isn’t solely focused on the nsfw aspect of the trope, but the deep bond between mates and a bit of worldbuilding on how society is with secondary genders.

if you’re interested in this, something with plenty of plot and character development as well as nsfw bits, feel free to shoot me a dm or like this ad! 20+ only writers, please.