#go find another inbox

[lover-of-mine]

Yk, y'all like to yell at me about not caring about representation and call me fetishizer among others for wanting Eddie to be queer and some other colorful stuff surrounding the way I was talking about how rylivers press tour was handled in a textbook queerbaiting way that cannot be negated just because Buck is bi, as if Buck is peak representation for the sake of representation. We got 3 statements of how straight Eddie is before we got a single I'm bi from Buck, he fell into an unsatisfying relationship with the first dude he kissed to the degree he didn't know his boyfriend was gay and had been engaged to someone else until 6 months in, the relationship was fully centered around Eddie and their breakup was canonically because Tommy believed that one day Eddie is gonna swoop in and take Buck. Is the bar really that fucking low? "I check out guys asses sometimes" and "I don't know which pond to jump back into" and a terribly lit sex scene with Oliver and y'all are claiming this is the most beautiful bisexual arc ever and I'm just bitter as if the whole thing hadn't been about Eddie the competition Diaz. Are you really that easy to distract? And also, no, I don't care about rep for the sake of rep and I will not apologize for being a bisexual who wants to watch a bisexual character live the love story buddie can be, not just watch him in an mostly off screen mid relationship and get yelled at that I'm biphobic while people tell me Buck needs to prove his bisexuality now that he's single.

[aka-indulgence]

hey i don’t know a thing about this soundwave fella but i’ve followed you to a new man once (the dealer) and i’ll do it again

FOLLOW ME TO MORE Guys™ FRIENDS!!!!!!!!

[extravapalooza]

My friends,

🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸❤🤍💚🖤

I am doing what I can to provide a decent and safe life for my children and to provide for their basic needs in light of the poor living conditions we are living in due to the war of extermination, and I hope that you will continue to support me, whether by donating if possible, or by participating and urging friends to donate, as we are very close to half the goal, and there is less than 350€ left to reach it.

I hope to reach it today

mohammad i am sending you my love and will donate now 💖

this fundraiser has been vetted- please give if you can

[chaosduckies]

Do you ever just look at what you wrote at 2 in the morning and go “hmmm it’s fineeee.” Then hate it a few minutes later?

[dykevanny]

had a really funny idea for an ask blog ft. Vanny and another plex employee oc,,

[blackwaves]

i will stop talking publicly about this after this post i think—this is literally a bsd blog sorryyyyyy—but also: it is kind of absurd to me to get accusations of being aphobic for saying that the familial/platonic/romantic hardline distinction is not one that is useful to me nor one that i find interesting. like. i didn't (1) spend formative years lurking on aven messageboards absorbing how people talk about their relationships with being aspec (2) spend formative years turning over the labels of aromantic and asexual in my head and come out the other side with nuanced and elaborate thoughts. for this lmao.

if it's where your thoughts on the topic begin and end, "friendship is magic " is v genuinely a simplistic way to conceptualize what being aspec means, and it's one that primarily colors within the lines of cishet monogamous boundaries of what love means. i don't label myself without a bold asterisk and i count myself as horrible at being aroace thanks, but: i'm queer, i have hashtag weirder emotions than that (/said flippantly), and maybe consider that if you can find the same moral accepted on every single children's cartoon it's not like. oppressing you if i say instead that overlapping and defying and working outside of the generally accepted categorizations + boxes is both more interesting to me and more true to my rl experience, in the same way that it is to many aspec people.

[steph-anie723]

robin forever😔💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️💔

my goat 💔💔💔 boy wonder for a reason 🙁🥀🥀

[lilac-set]

5 for the ask game!

Thanks for the ask! Context

5. A song you think most of your followers won't have heard before

To be honest i have no gauge for how popular any given artist or song is, i could give you some little local ones but i dont wanna dox myself via the full names of my irl friends, so im gonna answer a bunch random different questions instead, sorry :p

For starters this ask game as a whole reminds me overwhelmingly of Playlist by Teens in Trouble

9. A song in a language you don't speak

Jeu by L’Or du Commun

14. A song you love to sing along to

Alone Together by Fall Out Boy is one i can never resist singing, Dancing’s Not a Crime by Panic! At the disco is another

16. A song that makes you think of an old (or current) crush

Monsters by All Time Low feat. blackbear (to us this is about a dude we ended up introjecting lol)

19. A song that makes you emotional

Here’s my Heart by Say We Can Fly, and Bro Hymn by Pennywise (2005 remaster) (cw death/suicide on that last one though)

What about you? Any of the questions that you wanna answer

[p33p33p00p00]

LOVE LOSES SO FUCKING HARD

[mellohiizz]

melmel

i finished the video

i'm very fucked up over it oh goodness

KADYYYY 😭😭😭 im like sobbing oh my god that was such a good episode but it HURTTT SO MUCH.....

[fruitybashir]

Haven’t stopped thinking all week about Kris’s intentions for what he wants to do to Bojan when he gets him home. Will that part feature in the next chapter (*giggle)?

aaa im afraid ill have to disappoint on that part :D this chapter is very much pure fucking fluff and self growth and realisations etc <3

[anonforlackofabettername]

And there’s another person violating a clearly marked boundary meaning they either don’t follow me or don’t care

[mad-hunts]

@question-marked asked: “are you making fresh pasta?”

barton managed to barely hear eddie over the sound of two of his kids arguing in the background — who seemed to be jack and matilda, respectively, as he would soon call out to them using their names in his native tongue. but the fact remained that he had heard him and so after he essentially told them to ' get along ' in french, barton turned to face the other. he was currently kneading what looked to be some kind of dough with his hands, ❝ sorry, they've been unusually argumentative today with each other. you're going to have to excuse them. but yeah... lucky for you, you caught me right in the middle of making dinner. ❞

barton seemed to have some experience as he hadn't gotten any of the dough on his hands and it seemed to be quite close to having the right texture (not too dry, and not too wet). and truthfully, he did as the recipe he'd gotten for chicken alfredo from winslow? it called for homemade noodles so he figured he might as well try his hand at it. though barton still wasn't good at certain aspects of it, like actually rolling the dough through the pasta maker. a purposely overdramatic sigh left his lips then, ❝ ahh, but i'm really no good at rolling the dough through the pasta maker myself. if only there were someone here who could do it for me. ❞ he discretely looked over to edward afterward as if to say ' i'm totally not talking about you here, but also, i am. ' barton really didn't like to look like he wasn't an expert at things in the kitchen after all when he'd been cooking so long.

but this was only his second time making this, so he supposed it was more than reasonable for him to still struggle with it. barton stopped kneading the dough and looked at edward through squinted eyes as if analyzing him, ❝ i'm still a bit confused as to why you would come here when you're not injured. would you mind telling me again why you're here, considering i don't think you like me enough to be here simply for a social call? oh, and while you're doing that, could you also get me that dough cutter over there? thanks, ❞ a small unreadable smile ghosted across his features while he gestured towards the blade a little ways away from him. edward had honestly given him no reason to hate him, so as it stood, he felt rather ambivalent towards him. ❝ say, you aren't a vegetarian... right? because i'm making chicken alfredo. and enough to feed a small army, probably, so you can definitely have some. ❞

[radellama]

I really hate the public health system here sometimes

[teethcore]

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[thebibliosphere]

Whenever I post about house stuff there’s always some well meaning people and the occasional vindictive shit head who thinks we didn’t have our home inspected before we bought it.

We did. It passed the private inspection we paid for in order to get our mortgage and two inspections done by the city.

The problem with my house is that it was owned by a landlord who did all kinds of illegal and sketchy shit to maximize capacity and resale value but also would require you to take down walls to find. And for those of you unaware, they don’t let you walk around with a saw and cut holes to inspect behind the drywall.

The shithead hid things behind fake walls. Literally. He put a bunch of chemicals and paints into a crawl space then drywalled over it. There is drywall on top of drywall (or there was before we took it down). He put carpet over the asbestos tiles—which is technically fine. It’s safer to seal asbestos away than remove it… except he also covered the drain for the house so the basement floods and then the carpet rots and in turn starts breaking down the asbestos tiles, making them into a hazard. He built the basement himself so that the drywall was sitting on the concrete slab—something we couldn’t see without removing the trim—causing them to wick moisture from the floor and rot until we had black mold everywhere.

The electric parts that were visible were all up to code, but again, anything that could be hidden was done so, hiding shit like a dishwasher that had been hot wired into the wall through a light plate fixture under the sink. Or the 240v socket that used to power an electric stove which had been pulled through the floorboard to power the tumble dryer. (Or the gas stove that we swapped for electric because it kept trying to kill us and then we realized he’d run a gas pipe from the water heater to power it. The plumber swore a lot about that one when he finally realized that one.)

Plumbing all looked good until you realized some of the new pipes were just pvc cut to go around the old lead pipes. Something you couldn’t see unless you got up close and personal during the inspection, and we’re talking up on a ladder jiggling the pipes around which is also generally something don’t let you do. Not to the extent we would have needed to.

The man was unhinged. And there’s very little we can do about it because we signed an “as is” thing on our mortgage thinking most of the repairs we’d need to do would be minor. Only to find out the house which looked fairly modern and well kept on the surface was actually a fucking Saw trap. And now because of all the shit we’ve uncovered, we have to fix it before we can sell it because no one in their right mind will buy a house with declared asbestos—even predatory developers hesitate on that one.

So if we’ve got to fix this place up, we’ll fix it up for us because god knows, even if we managed to sell this place, we can’t afford the mortgage rates right now. (And while yes, apartments are an option, they make my MCAS a lot less stable because you can’t control the shit your neighbors use, nevermind things like a shared laundry facility where everyone wants to smell like “a spring summer breeze” that to me smells like death by fragrance induced anaphylaxis.)

So yes, we’re stuck with this place. For now. A place we had inspected multiple times and were still let down by the reality that people hide things and will do so in the most imaginative ways possible if it means they can make a profit.

The furnace dying the instant we moved in wasn’t a good sign, but shit happens. That’s home ownership. The gas leaks we had last week? Also home ownership. It had passed yearly inspections up until now. Appliances break down and require maintenance, especially gas ones. In an ideal world we would have gotten another five years out of the furnace, but alas, it chose death so we had to yeet it.

So, yeah, if you’re the shithead currently going off in my inbox about “stupid people winning stupid prizes” I’ll take that apology now.