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stuck-in-the-ghost-zone · 3 months ago

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to be clear, because ive read the vagueposts. lmao. not that it matters now bc the person who apparently got bothered by this has me blocked now (hi hex! this aint about you and never was btw) : I have no issue at all with the headcanon itself!! do whagever you want forever on your own blog. in no way am i saying i want people to stop talking abt it. im not the cops i dont care about you.do whatever you want. im not talking about you if you mind your own business. youre not a bad person or whatever im not mad at anyone like. specific. i dont hate anybody. it's the people who do this shit in my own notes and my own aus and fic comments where i have only ever talked about ashe with masc terms that piss me off. your headcanon is not universal and the audacity to like. automatically assume i agree with you is insane.

it's the difference between me seeing a transfem ashe post and going "oh! this isn't for me ^_^" and ignoring it vs me posting my own art on my own blog and getting tags like this every single time :

(specifically using an old example here and cropping out the url so no one gets offended. like i said. not mad at you specifically. how many more times do i need to clarify this.)

genuienly baffling that me having an issue with this is apparently a problem?? don't do this shit ‼️ learn to read context clues‼️ this is not some cutesy inside joke everyone in the fandom definitely agrees on you're just being annoying‼️ whatever man post over. if u have further issues come to my inbox or dms or whatever instead of vagueposting bc thats kind of rude and childish.

it really really sucks that ashe winters is like one of my all time favorite characters in anything ever and yet posting anything about him is such a gamble between getting 0 notes or having people constantly misgendering him in my tags despite me using he/him pronouns directly in the post because they dont have enouhh reading comprehension to realize their headcanon is not universal. its like pulling teeth . actually i think i would have more fun if you gave me rusty pliers and a broken mirror

#people will see me say “wow i love ashe winters hes a rlly cool dude his arc is really important to me”#and go “is anyone gonna call him a girl on this post?” and not wait for an answer #like. if weve never interacted i genuinely domt have a problem with you . its only when people bring it to me and my art and my posts #especially when i like.. genuinely try to refer to ashe w masc terms and pronouns in all my posts so ppl DONT get confused #yet this still happens and it sucks.#man . whatever. this is so easily a “hey if you have a problem with me my inbox and dms are always open” issue.#i dont have a problem with anyone specific its just the phenomena is annoying.#im not apologizing. bc like..im perfectly allowed to be annoyed with minor inconveniences.#but like damn this wasnt meant to offend anyone or whatever. its my house .#if u cant like. deal with the fact that a character canonically uses masc pronouns maybe you shouldnt be on my blog #if anyone should be offended its me . its me and my friends who are being actively disrespected .#but whatever! god forbid we have issues and deal with them like adults #god i fucking hate vagueposting. its so immature. unfortunately they have me blockdd now so i cant even tag them.#man . moving on. i have more important things to deal with. like my pokemon cards

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