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[mau-month]

We’re MileApo Universe Month (MAUmonth): an event for creators to share their love for MileApo + their characters!

For the entire month of November, there will be prompts every couple of days to inspire you! Check out our Twitter/X as well so you can keep an eye out for news!

[ultkpopnetwork]

Better Things aespa (2023)

[basil-does-arttt]

I have about ten billion projects that i'm working on all at once right now hshsjhsjd

so in the meantime i give you this: maus' mindscape thingy. In the past things used to be brighter here, the sky wasn't so gloomy... but then... things happened. yappage below, some thoughts on Maus and her struggles with persona degredation/resurfacing gestalt memories:

Maus experiences a lot of disconnect between her Replika body and her Gestalt body within the mindscape... maybe a bit of dysphoria too. Truth be told she hates inhabiting a Replika body though that might be due to degredation more than anything else. So, within the mindscape, she gives herself what she remembers to be her Gestalt body. She can't really recall specifics from her Gestalt life but she gets dejavu a lot, and a strong sense of longing for a time she cannot return to. Back when Falke was still around at RCF, she struggled less with this as Falke could ground her in reality and help to stabilize her during the early stages of her degredation. But since Falke's decomissioning she's just gotten progressively worse as time goes on. Without the other Kolibris to help prevent her from spiraling, combined with her own issues... yeah. More recently, Rin has helped to ground her and keep her somewhat stable, but it's a a bandaid-solution over a gaping, festering wound. Maus knows she should have been decomissioned a long time ago, but with nobody to handle admin work, she has no choice but to stick around. That and she's afraid of dying. she's stuck between who she is now and who she once was, unable to return to the past but not really wanting to keep going into the future because she knows how things are going to end, and knows that end is coming sooner than she wants it to.

[miring]

Lebih dari 1 dekade hidup di tumblr, baru ada nih kasus skandal sedekah. Mungkin karena aku ga ada wajah2 ahli sedekah ya ga pernah jadi "korban".

Cuma mau kasih saran siapapun yang suka " OPEN DONASI" atau "PANITIA SEDEKAH" Pastikan dirimu udah hidup LEBIH DARI CUKUP, kalau hidupmu aja masih kekurangan dan pas-pasan jangan coba2 jadi pahlawan open donasi sumbangan, karena peluang untuk fraud sangat tinggi.

Rekeningmu yang biasanya ga cukup bayar admin bank akan tiba-tiba terus berisi uang dalam jumlah banyak tanpa pernah bekerja apapun, duit mengalir deras seperti air PDAM yang bocor pinggir jalan.

Jangan kerjaannya ngejar orang buat sedekah atau kasih sumbangan, itu namanya mental mengemis bukan mental memberi.

Sekali lagi ga usah berlagak jadi pahlawan buat banyak orang kalau hidupmu dan keluargamu masih susah. Ga usah ngelola duit orang banyak dengan nominal banyak kalau kamu juga ga pernah bisa ngelola duitmu yang sedikit itu.

Ini saran buat diri sendiri. Kalau ada yang kesindir ya maaf.

[marsmerizing-sims]

NEVER BUY FREE CC FROM ANYONE!

So... I found this.

I know, it's impossible to prevent something like this to happen when the internet is an open world. And I have prepared myself for things like this. I am not here to call out the seller, I don't know who they are, and I am 100% sure there are more irresponsible people like this online.

I just want to tell everybody, that you SHOULD NEVER buy CC/Mods for any games, that is not posted by the creators. This seller is literally selling FREE CC. Not just mine, but many others too. And I'm talking about thousands of CC. This is from an Indonesia based online marketplace. But I'm sure, that somewhere in your area, there's one like this too. I just want you to be aware, that this is wrong. It's violating not just the creator's T.O.U, but also EA's policy. If you don't want to pay early access--that's totally fine. But this 👆 is beyond stupid.

Message for fellow Indonesian Simmers:

Tolong ya, temen-temen simmer Indonesia. Hargai kreator-kreator yang udah susah payah bikin konten dengan AT THE VERY LEAST download konten kami dengan jujur, mau bayar gak bayar, gak jadi masalah. Jangan kasih uang kalian ke orang-orang seperti seller ini!

Salam hangat untuk admin Vinci_shop dan teman-temannya.

[rubahlicik]

Kalo ketemu Uni, lantas apa?

Halo warga Tumblr yang hendak berakhir pekan~

Aink mau cerita progres dikit. Setelah seminggu ke belakang ini rame soal dugaan penipuan yang dilakukan rumahati alias Sri Wahyuni, atau yang biasa dipanggil uni, aink dkk mencoba mengumpulkan beberapa informasi soal uni.

Ada beberapa hal yang bisa aink share, berikut diantaranya:

- uni dan keluarga ada di bandung (nama suami dan anak anaknya Uda ada),. Alamat terakhir (tahun 2022) Uda dipegang. Insyaallah ada rekan Tumblr yang weekend ini mau kesana

- uni punya 3 nomor hape berbeda dan semuanya ga bisa dikontak. Satu nomor diantaranya terdaftar bukan atas nama Sri Wahyuni atau pun nama suaminya.

- tahun 2019, aink pernah ngirim tanaman ke klinik Alfaiha Medika Cisaranten, bandung. Paket atas nama Sri Wahyuni, dikirim kesana karena th 2019 suami uni kerja disana. Klinik itu beroperasi mulai Juli 2019, Aink ngirim paket November 2019. Kemarin aink coba kontak admin klinik, tapi pihak klinik mengaku tidak kenal Sri Wahyuni atau pun suaminya.

- uni mulai mengumpulkan sedekah online dari 2017. Dari laporan yang curhat ke aink, seenggaknya Uda masuk lebih dari 10juta, 2 hp dan 2 laptop yang masih layak pakai. Tapi, ga pernah sekalipun ada pelaporan bukti penggunaan dana yang masuk. Baik itu struk belanja kebutuhan orang yang uni bantu atau pun bukti yang menunjukkan kalau orang yang uni bantu bener bener ada.

Poin poin diatas itu fakta, plus hilangnya akun tumblr rumahati membuat dugaan penipuan semakin kuat. Tapi, itu semua tetap akan jadi dugaan Ampe ada fakta yang bisa menyangkal atau bisa memastikan kebenarannya.

Oleh karena itu, rencananya weekend ini bakal ada yang nyari uni dan keluarganya ke alamat yang Uda di dapat. Semoga uni masih bisa ketemu disana.

Buat yang berdomisili bandung atau ada kenalan anak Tumblr domisili bandung, boleh dong di sounding. Biar banyak yang nyari, takutnya ga langsung ketemu. Boleh pm aink aja buat teknisnya.

Kalo ketemu mau apa?

Kalo aink sih pesennya buat yang berangkat besok, utamanya buat mastiin, Ini uni bener nipu apa engga

Itu kan ini masalahnya? Kalo misal ngotot bener, coba buktiin itu aliran dananya kemana, beneran ada ga orangnya? Mumpung ada yang bisa ke lokasi. Pastiin kalo ibu2, nenek, anak2 yatim yang selalu dia sebut itu beneran ada.

Trus yang ga kalah penting, uni makan uang sedekahnya ga? , kalo misal iya, apa Uda dapet persetujuan dari yang ngasih sedekah?

Coba para donatur komen, kalo misal bener uni nyalurin sedekahnya, tapi ikut make duitnya juga, kalian ridho ga?

Kalo aink sih engga... Haram tuh uang sedekah yang aink kasih kalo misal dikasih buat keluarganya. Kotor tuh perabot yang dia beli buat keperluan sehari hari kalo emang dibeli dari uang sedekah yang katanya buat anak yatim.

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Nah, kalo ternyata uni ga bisa buktiin kalo bener dia nyalurin sedekah ke yang berhak lantas apa?

Aink yakin duit dari orang yang pernah ngasih ga akan balik. Sorry to say, pelaku scam mana ada yang sanggup balikin duit yang ditilepnya.

Aink pribadi cuma nuntut dia minta maaf, bikin video klarifikasi kalo ternyata emang dia ngemis buat keluarganya atas nama sedekah. Biar apa?

Biar para donatur bisa settle. Ternyata bener selama ini ditipu, ternyata bener uang yang disisihin buat sedekah dipake buat bayar kontrakan, beli sprei atau bahkan DP rumah.

Donatur harus tahu faktanya. Uni tuh sebenernya siapa, make duit sedekah buat apa aja, biar secara mereka yang jadi korban secara personal bisa nentuin langkah selanjutnya.

Kalo Uda terbukti uni bohong, ya Aink pribadi cuma bisa pasrah aja, sambil doain yang jelek jelek buat keluarganya uni. Biar semua cerita sedih yang dia jual buat narik simpati emang beneran menimpa keluarganya..

Aink ga akan bawa ini ke jalur hukum. Ribet, Aink ga mau berurusan sama polisi. Tapii,.. kalo ada yang mau lapor ya silakan. Aink bisa bantu ngumpulin bukti chat dia minta sedekah dan bukti trf donatur yang ketipu. Silahkan yang punya waktu dan kemampuan untuk maju ke jalur hukum, Aink dukung.

Terakhir, Aink berharap setelah kasus ini dapet closure, para warga Tumblr bisa jadi lebih makin deket lagi. Deket dalam artian punya cukup banyak kenalan yang bisa dicurhatin, bisa diajak sharing. Syukur syukur bangkit lagi komunitasnya.

Kejadian kayak gini ga bakal muncul kalo calon korban yang curiga ada wadah buat bertanya. Alih alih mengambil keputusan setelah dimanipulasi tanpa sadar, komunitas bisa bantu ngumpulin fakta yang akurat. Dari curhatan yang masuk, uni ini bisa dibilang manipulatif dalam berdialog dengan donaturnya.

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Semoga yang mau berangkat dilancarkan, segera ketemu sama ybs. Biar kita semua dapet kejelasan.

Sekali lagi, Aink sangat berharap ada lebih banyak orang yang bisa ikut nyari di bandung. Aink Masi ada agenda di Majalengka, meskipun Uda gatel banget pengen ke bandung.

Boleh bantu reblog atau kontak lagi temen temennya~

Terimakasih buat temen-temen yang Uda bantu seminggu belakangan ini. Semoga cepat dapat kesimpulan soal perkara sedekah online ini. Karena sebelum semuanya terang, kita harus selalu menyematkan kata dugaan pada kasus penipuan sedekah online yang telah uni lakukan.

[wotay27166]

REPORTING KC ON REFSHEET

Here is Kittycorn's ref sheet account:

To report on refsheet.com you need to send a message to the site admin at the email mau@refsheet.net

Kittycorn is in violation of rule 2.3.2

The refusal to harbor fugitives rule states that refsheet is NOT a fallback website for those banned on toyhouse, deviantart, furaffinity, flickr, photobucker, twitter, etc

The thread in regards to Kittycorn's violation of the rules can be found here:

Her account was banned for violating Toyhouse's rules in regards to Character usage and ownership, and Prohibited content.

Confirmation from admins that her account was banned:

And her Toyhouse page showing it is closed:

To report Kittycorn, send an email including all of these details, and you are set. You do not need to have a refsheet account yourself.

[wintersoulwitch]

I was really excited about this find! A fan-written report about the final night of A Local Tour for Local People: Blackpool, 18 June 2001.

It contains descriptions of the scenes featured in the Mayonnaise and Yoghurt featurette and some alt scenes that weren't mentioned!

This was posted by the admin of leagueofgentlemen.co.uk and I've copy-pasted it over directly

I am back! Well the last Local show was tonight, and it was a good one! The lads decided to make the last ever show, which was the 111th, the best ever...and it was! This was my 7th show...or 8th, cant remember... it was different than the others because of the amount of changes they made! During Mau Mau when Geoff got the gun out, Brian got a bigger gun out and shouted...I have told this joke 110 times and you know I have got this gun, so you are going to tell the joke (to Geoff) and we're all going to laugh (to the audience) or Mike gets it! And Geoff takes over Brian's role and when he can't remember the punch line Mike pulls a gun on Geoff! During the Mrs. levenson sketch, when the real Mrs. Levenson comes back...Pauline walks on stage and tells them they have missed a bit then walks off!  The I just Love gay guys sketch was the first to be altered, I think (?) When Tish bums a fag off Reece, he hands Steve a huge Cigar, when she wants to bum another and normally he hands her the packet, he said "Here shove that up yer arse, I have give up anyway"  The best of all was the Denton's sketch....The curtains opened to Val giving Harvey a blow job on her knees, when Benjamin walks in (and he looked like he didn't know it was going to happen) and said Morning, Val spits out a load of white stuff, all over the stage! (I later found out it was mayo!) When Benjamin is told to get the little soldier out, Val says Oh, not so little! And Reece turns round and has a huge plastic Penis hanging down! There were other changes but that's enough for now, you had to be there! The best is yet to come! At the end, during the standing ovation (led by yours truly on the front row!) The stage hand who shouts to turn the lights off when Pauline is shot, walks onto the stage and hands them a card with The End written on it...Well to say it was emotional is an understatement! Reece was nearly crying and they all agreed they were sad to end it even though they had looked forward to it finishing. Worrying was the record they played at the end, instead of Voodoo Lady they played a song which had the words "This will be our last song together" or something to that effect! Lets hope not! The best bit! After the show, my Wife and I were trying to find the Stage Door, we walked around the building and then stumbled on the door in the main foyer! There was only a handful of people waiting and as soon as we joined the Queue, the line started moving. Now I thought we were being led into the Theatre again to have autographs, but we were lead up some stairs and I recognized lee Pemberton in front of me, Steve's brother! So it slowly dawned on me that this was the Backstage Party, so I had a dilemma...gatecrash or not.  I did. In Steve's Dressing room was a group of people, the three lads plus Jeremy and mums, dads, brothers etc...My wife and I stood like idiots for a few minutes listening to the lads talking about the show, before I decided to do the right thing and my wife approached Steve and admitted we were gatecrashers and could we please have some autographs and then we would go!  Steve didn't look totally happy, and I don't blame him, but nice guy he is he signed my Wife's Special Stuff T-Shirt and I asked him a few questions and shook all their hands before saying thanks and disappearing! Steve's brother told Reece to sign my Wife's T-shirt on the front, not the back, but as she is not a Reece fan like most of the other female fans, she declined! I told Steve that we had played Neil Sedaka as guests were arriving at our wedding three weeks ago and then we played Voodoo lady as we walked down the aisle! He asked if we had paid royalties to the writer, nodding at Jeremy and Jeremy said he would invoice me! Well that was that...the last ever Local show...sad but exciting to see what they come up with next!

I love that the author saw the tour 7 or 8 times. YES op live your best life

Reece wore the Harvey Denton nude suit on the last night???

I'm sure literally everyone reading this knows that the ending song was Neil Sedaka's "Our Last Song Together"

Oof to the accidental gatecrashing. Not surprised Pembo was pissed off

Steve's brother encouraging Reece to sign some random woman's chest 👀

Jeremy should have invoiced him... if only as payback for saying "the three lads plus Jeremy"

After the tour ended The Gents went to Blackpool Pleasure Beach where they took the famous (T)LOG Flume photo

[mau-month]

🚀 INTRODUCING... KO 🚀

A talented artist with stunning pieces spanning multiple fandoms, we’re happy to have Ko (@kittysawat/@pzxce) on our guest contributor team!

[ultkpopnetwork]

Welcome To My World aespa (2023)

[projectmenetas]

Kejamnya Ibu Tiri, Tak Sekejam Pay Later!

Sebuah Bom Waktu,

Duluu, orang-orang nggak punya duit buat beli beras, dia datang ke warung. Kas bon, Beres, bawa pulang beras.  Begitu Juga garam, gula, minyak. Daripada anak-anak tidak makan, ndak apa-apalah kas bon dulu. Terdesak.

Tapi pada hari ini, dengan kemajuan teknologi, kas bon berubah wujud menjadi: pay later. Dan lebih massif dampaknya. bukan hanya buat beli sembako. Tapi Orang-orang bahkan bisa 'kas bon' buat beli HP baru “padahal HP lama masih bagus”, beli baju yang padahal ndak perlu-perlu amat, sepatu-sendal, beli tiket buat plesiran juga bisa, dan semua keperluan konsumtif-gaya hidup. Bahkan sampai perkara jajan dan makan. “Ingat itu tidak terdesak!”

Tapi sadarilah, Kawan. Mau apapun istilahnya, pay later ini utang.

Dan serius kawan, semoga kita tidak perlu mengalaminya, ketika pay later ini dengan kejam mengubah hidup kita semua. memang ini bukan pinjol, tapi daya rusaknya sama. Jika kita tidak bijak, tidak berhati-hati, sibuk klak-klik sana-sini, tiba-tiba penghasilan bulanan kita habis begitu saja untuk bayar pay later. Pay later itu pinjaman atau ngutang dengan suku bunga tinggi. 

Wahdeeh, kita tertipu sekali jika merasa cicilannya ringan, ada promo, dan diskon-diskon menarik lainnya. Perkara paylater itu ngaweri, sesungguhnya nggak sesimpel itu rumusnya. 

“Memangnya dikira yg punya duit baik hati gitu? Endaak!.”

Traveloka misalnya, bunga pay later: 2,55% sampi 4,8% per bulan. 

Alias, bisa tembus 50% per tahun. Jika kita utang 10 juta, kita cicil setahun, itu sama saja dgn beli barang itu 15 juta. Belum lagi jika aplikasi mengenakan biaya admin 2%, layanan 2%, dll. Maka, diskon di awal yang seolah menggiurkan, dapat 10% misalnya, sama saja bohong.

Jadi, singkat cerita, berhati-hatilah menggunakan pay later. 

Asal pakai paylater berarti sama saja sedang sadar "menggadaikan masa depan". Iya kalau masa depan kita lebih baik, gaji naik, karir naik, jika ternyata dipecat, PHK, gaji mentok, harga-harga naik? Kita justru menimbun bom waktu. “meledak”

Terus  apa solusinya kalau terlanjur? Segera lunasi pay later itu. Bila perlu makan nasi-garam saja, yg penting pay later lunas. Setelah lunas, jangan lagi suka ngutang. Tahan semua keinginan konsumtif-mu. Kita itu ndak akan mati gara-gara ndak ganti HP, beli ini, beli itu kok.

Kalau pun perlu uninstall sekalian aplikasinya, larisin toko tetangga saja. Luweh manfangat! 

[herricahyadi]

Salah satu problem terbesar anak-anak di pelosok adalah mereka seringkali sudah dapat mengakses TikTok, Youtube, games dsb sebab sudah diberi kesempatan pakai HP. Bukan salah orang tuanya, tapi memang anak-anak ini tidak banyak aktivitasnya setelah sepulang sekolah, selain bermain. Salah satu solusi untuk mengatasi ini adalah dengan kegiatan TPQ. Cuma dengan segala keterbatasan guru ngaji, fasilitas, dan program jadi hambatan tersendiri.

Saya berinisiatif untuk mengirimkan guru ngaji (mahasiswa/setara) yang bisa sekaligus memberikan banyak kegiatan positif untuk anak-anak ini. Sebab itu, saya membuka program Kakak Asuh Manise bagi kalian yang mau ikutan memberikan dukungan. Cukup dengan 150rb/bulan selama 6 bulan, mereka akan mendapatkan banyak manfaat.

Yang mau ikutan bisa komentar di kolom, DM ke saya pribadi, atau bisa ke Instagram/Whatsapp nomor admin tercantum ya.

[daftartotoviplogin]

TotoVIP - Gacornya Togel 4D Bikin Dompet Kecipratan Rezeki

Main di TotoVIP tuh rasanya kayak lagi jalan santai, tapi tiba-tiba ada hujan duit turun dari langit. Serius, gacornya togel 4D di sini tuh nggak main-main—banyak yang udah buktiin dan saldo mereka pun ikut senyum lebar.

Platform ini cocok buat lo yang pengen dapet cuan tanpa harus mikir ribet. Tampilan websitenya simpel, loading-nya cepet, dan pasaran togelnya lengkap dari A sampai Z. Mau tebak angka pagi-pagi atau tengah malam, semua bisa!

Yang bikin makin betah? Peluang menangnya realistis tapi ngasih greget. Ditambah admin yang siap bantu 24 jam, jadi pengalaman main bener-bener kerasa aman dan nyaman.

TotoVIP bukan cuma soal hoki, tapi juga soal rasa percaya. Udah dipercaya banyak pemain se-Asia, dan makin hari makin rame karena gacornya emang beneran nyata. Belum coba? Bisa jadi dompet lo belum sempat kecipratan rezeki.

[asktaskforce141]

Does König know you have a thing for him? If so what are his thoughts?

And yes asking if you have done anything admin hehe

I... am not sure, actually. But I would assume so? 👉🏻👈🏻 I mean, at least I'd hope so? 🤭 And I'm not one to kiss and tell... 🤫

- Admin 🥀

Maus, precious Admin of ours... 😏 Think I haven't noticed, hm? Ich sehe alles. 👀 I think it's rather adorable, the big feelings our little liebling has... very cute.

- secretly pleased, König 🇦🇹

[sontailsweek]

Sontailsweek 2023

Dear mobians, the most anticipated moment of the year has arrived!! SonTailsWeek!! We are already in our fifth edition! That's nothing!

First, thank all the followers for all your likes, there are more and more, and they encourage us to continue with this humble project for you.

[[Lots of text alert. But necessary.]]

Here you can follow and participate once again to commemorate the friendship and/or love for Sonic and Tails. (In the form of Ship, bromance, etc.).

Again remember the rules in force each year. To participate, we will ask you to follow some simple rules:

Rules:

-Hate speech/intolerance is not tolerated. -NSFW (over 18 years old) / gore / Triggering content (Content that may induce trauma or phobias) is not allowed. -Plagiarism or editing of other artists' work is not tolerated. -You can make Sketches, fanarts, fanfics, photocosplay, any way you want to express your art! -If you can't finish it or you only want to participate in one or a few days but not all, you can do so. It is a fun event, there is no obligation. -We know that this event lasts a week (from November 21 to 27). Even so, we will maintain a couple of weeks (or a month if necessary) plus the margin, in case someone runs out of time and wants an extension to continue sending works from this year's 2023 event, with the tags #SonTailsweek AND #sontailsweek2023 -The chosen week is the same as last year, and will remain the SAME each year (So you already know that every year for these dates, we will be organizing the same event in the same week), since it coincides with the dates of the 21st to the 27th of November, to celebrate the birthday of the launch of the video game "Sonic 2 MegaDrive" with the added bonus that this year, our favorite fox "Tails" turns 31!

You can ask us any questions you have, but the more imagination for each topic, the more fun 😉 -Have fun and thank you all for participating! -You will have to send your art to this page (in our inbox via message, or in a new publication), and you also have other new ways to participate and make your art reach further and meet more fans of the ship: Twitter: https://twitter.com/sontailsweek?s=20 Tumblr: https://sontailsweek.tumblr.com Instagram: using the hashtag "#SonTailsWeek".

-If you have questions about the theme days or specific dynamics, you can contact us without any problem! -We can also answer questions in English, we are bilingual 😉 See you very soon, we look forward to your masterpieces! CrimsonInari 🦊 MiceMaus🐭

PS: If the topics are not very motivating for you, we have our ears open to your suggestions as always, just do not wait for the day of the event to arrive, please, since we need to spread the word on networks and all of this requires days of planning and forecast.

Credits to this year's poster to the admin: Mice+Maus Thank you for your magnificent work! 🦊❤🦔

[babblingpipit]

Woman struggles

Nonton ini terus entah kenapa tiba-tiba nangis sesenggukan. Relatable from A-Z. Disini si uyen cerita kontrasnya perempuan diperlakukan di masyarakat rural Vietnam tempat dia tumbuh vs di Jerman tempat dia tinggal sekarang. Di kedua tempat ada plus minusnya tapi sungguh sangat relateee dengan struggle dan ternyata ekspektasi masyarakat tuh bisa bikin trauma loh.

Beberapa hal yang aku juga alami selama growing up: 1. Cewek tuh dibesarkan fokusnya untuk menjadi istri orang. Jadi harus bangun pagi, bisa beberes dan kerja domestik, rajin mandi dan dandan. Tapi sama banget sama Uyen, keluargaku karena ngeliat aku serius belajar dan sekolah malah jadi nyuruh belajar aja dan bantu-bantu sebisanya aja. Beruntung banget punya keluarga yang ngasih support di bidang pendidikan. 2. Tuntutan untuk jadi cantik dan conform dengan beauty standard tuh ga main-main di kalangan remaja pas aku tumbuh. Bener yang kayak di video, ngobrolin penampilan tuh yang kayak kasual dan b-aja gitu. Gendutan, kurusan, jerawatan, semua dikomentarin dan jujur bikin self-esteem rendah kalo ga sesuai. Jadi takut item, takut gendut, terus pake baju harus estetik. Mungkin karena tadi, peran perempuan itu ya cari suami. 3. Perempuan pilih jurusan kuliah dan cari kerjaan yang ga time-consuming banget (admin, guru, dll) karena setelah berkeluarga harus fokus urus keluarga, sementara laki-laki harus punya karir yang mentereng. Jujur ini iya banget bahkan sampai aku S3 pun ada yang mengomentari untuk kerja jadi dosen aja biar bisa fleksibel urus keluarga! Iya bener sih ingin jadi dosen tapi bukan itu alasannya :( Meskipun ngerti alasannya karena di rural area gitu kan ga banyak support seperti daycare, penitipan anak yang bagus, sekolah dari usia dini, dll. Jadi mau ga mau salah satu dari orang tua harus jadi primary care giver. Kadang aku masih suka kebawa mindset kayak gini sih. Kalo punya anak nanti mikirnya akan career break dulu atau take it easy. Baru sadar pas dibahas di video ini bahwa itu adalah hasil pembentukan pemikiran selama kita tumbuh besar ya.

Dahlah meski demikian tetap homesickk karena jadi perempuan di negara maju pun banyak tantangannya. Aku ngerasa somehow lingkungan kerjanaya lebih unnecessarily harsh dan banyak yang ga akomodatif (contoh: di kantor ane gaada ruang laktasi). Tapi senang dengan menyadari kalo ada yang salah dengan perlakuan masyarakat ke sosok perempuan dimanapun itu, jadi kita bisa pelan-pelan membuat perubahan sama-sama :)