#misinterpretation. when in fact living with her/putting up with her regularly is what exacerbates the anxiety in the fucking first place
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archersgoon · 2 months ago
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wowwwww more work being done in the building common areas with zero fucking notification from my landlord? everybody pretend to be surprised!
#im so angry. im *so* angry. maybe i'm the freak here but my general understanding is that in these contexts it is not unreasonable#to expect your stupid fucking landlord to drop you a text letting you know when work's getting done. i know they tell her about this#shit. just for some reason she never thinks it pertinent to tell me. & i can't even complain to her because she'll act like i'm the dick in#this situation. and i am dependent on her for housing. she is such a fucking prick & every time i talk to my sisters they're like ohoho it'#just [redacted] being [redacted] you know what she's like & it's like well yeah actually i do. way more than you do‚ though i know that#seems impossible to you! like it's really funny how the ones telling you she is an unreasonable git are the ones who actually had to live#with her. do you think that might perhaps suggest something about the situation at hand?#i think it's because me & my eldest sister both have pretty bad anxiety they feel entitled to dismiss what we say as exaggeration or#misinterpretation. when in fact living with her/putting up with her regularly is what exacerbates the anxiety in the fucking first place#like maybe a better fucking person wouldve realised that staying with my sister for six fucking weeks when she was post partum & nearly#fucking died due to not being listened to at the hospital if you are a person who never listens to people would be perhaps not the best mov#(and the entire rest of the family is on the other side of the country so she has no other real support system!!!!!!!!)#but nooooo she was only trying to help. i don't gaf at this point really i don't. she doesn't care enough to reflect she never has she neve#will. jesus fucking christ#like i *know* what it looks like when my sister gets bad okay? i know. but the key difference there is that she actually did think about#it and change her behaviour. which is why we now enjoy spending time together but neither of us can tolerate our aunt. because she won't#& everyone acts like my sister is soooo unreasonable. man fuck you
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