#my switchmate ꨄ

[wandamaximoffsbadgirl]

Ley! Tell us about your girl and switchmate I didn’t know about them that sounds lovely for you! If you would like to of course :)

I’m curious tho… what does switchmate mean?

*giggles*

I knew you'd all would be all over me the moment I said it!

So my girl is a sweetheart and we actually got to see eachother irl and it was amazing! We're planning to see each other again in April! I can't wait to see her again and hold her and give her all the love!

Switchmate is a term I made up! It is someone I have that we both switch regularly on roles of dom and sub, but also being caregiver and little.

My switchmate is such a sweet boy they always make sure I'm okay and reassure me no matter what/how I'm feeling it's okay. We're really good at smoothly switching when the other needs~

[wandamaximoffsbadgirl]

What is a switch mate?

It's a term I've come up with for one of my partners I regularly switch with since we're both switches

You can find the definition here

[wandamaximoffsbadgirl]

And they’re very lucky to have you! I hope they all let you know they care ❤️

Oh they do constantly everyday and I couldn't ask for more~

[wandamaximoffsbadgirl]

Well I’m sure they’ll see this soon enough and know for themselves! It sounds like you have a lot of love to share

I do!

I've always felt like i had too much...like it was overflowing from me with nowhere to go, and now I have people to give it to.

[wandamaximoffsbadgirl]

Aww that is so so sweet 😭 they all sound so lovely 🥰

They are and I am very lucky to have them.

Truly.

I don't think any of them realize how many times a day I think about how lucky I am to have them specifically.

Even when they feel like they don't deserve it or if they're worrying because I have the others. I'm so lucky and thankful and happy I have them.

[wandamaximoffsbadgirl]

that’s so amazing I’m so happy for you! That sounds awesome 🥰

Wow I like that! What a nice way to put it!

I’m curious, how did you meet your sub, girl, and switchmate? I’ve been looking for a relationship for quite a while and some people seem so successful where I am not!!

All of them I met on here!

Don't ask me how I pulled them as I am in fact a dork who is autistic and doesn't realize that I'm flirting lol

But seriously, I just complimented and gave them the time they deserved. I was there when they needed me and I showed them who I was.

These are other people's words that I'm using (mostly theirs) I'm kind and put others above myself. I'm always there for them and even though I'm a mom, a writer, I work, I communicate with anons and run blogs...I always make time for them. I always let them know I'm available no matter what.

If it's 3am and you need me? Call.

I'm at work and you need me? Call.

You just want to say you love me? Call.

I make time for them because I love each and every one of them for so many various reasons, but above all they make me feel loved for every bit of me.

[wandamaximoffsbadgirl]

Can I ask what a switchmate is? I’ve never heard that term before.

So I kind of answered it here, but a little better definition

Switchmate- A partner label of someone you regularly switch roles with in your relationship (dom/sub, caregiver/little, handler/pet)