#new year same goals

[ruporas]

we were brothers and we only had each other — [ id in alt ]

[obsob]

once more around the sun!! :3

[mindfulstudyquest]

❥﹒♡﹒☕﹒ 𝟮𝟬𝟮𝟱 𝗴𝗼𝗮𝗹𝘀

𝟭. travel ( ✈️ )

2024 took away many travel opportunities from me. i was supposed to go to barcelona with my family, but my grandfather passed away, and we stayed in italy to handle the funeral. i was supposed to travel to sofia with my cousin, but one of my exams was rescheduled to a date i couldn’t possibly miss, so i had to give up the trip. lastly, i was planning to go to valencia to celebrate my birthday, but a flood disrupted the city, and i couldn't go anymore.

in short, it was a frustrating year in this regard — i lost a lot of money and, most importantly, many opportunities to travel, which i believe has significantly inhibited me in this area. while i used to be much more inclined to book last-minute trips when the chance to travel on a budget arose, now i feel much more anxious about doing so.

i want 2025 to be filled with travels. i want to fully take advantage of the opportunities that circumstances beyond my control stole from me in 2024.

𝟮. keep my life even more private ( 🔒 )

it's been years now since i completely disappeared from social media. i no longer post photos or updates about my life online as if i were an influencer, and my daily life has significantly improved without the pressure to appear a certain way online. life is truly better when no one knows anything about you.

however, in real life, i'm quite the chatterbox, and i often find myself oversharing without even realizing it. that said, because i strongly believe in the evil eye, i've learned that, even if i have to bite my tongue, i can't share projects that are not yet completed — not even with the people closest to me, not even if i'm 100% sure they would be happy for me.

in fact, even though i cut off toxic people from my life two years ago, other friendships i thought were strong have ended this year. i want to live a peaceful, private life, even if that means staying silent. show results rather than plans.

𝟯. meditate and journal ( 🪴 )

i started this year (2024) well with this kind of self-care, but i completely lost it around may. i'll try again in 2025, hoping i can stick to it. if not, see you in 2026.

𝟰. indulge in healthy female friendships ( 🩷 )

two years ago, i cut ties with many toxic friendships that were holding me down and keeping me from healing. since then, i've been mostly alone, except for a few surviving connections i kept after high school. when i started university, i made new friendships, but they were very superficial and always centered around university matters.

however, since moving to spain, i've really understood which people were just taking from me without truly being interested in me as a person. in return, though, these past few months i've met some truly amazing girls in madrid, and i want to let myself indulge in that beautiful feminine energy that only girl friendships can give. wine and cheese in front of an episode of gilmore girls while you cut out pictures for your vision board.

𝟱. eat healthier ( 🥗 )

these past few months have been a rollercoaster with food. i've prepared a lot of homemade meals, but i've also ordered out quite often. i don't see anything wrong with ordering takeout or eating out with friends, but since it often happened when i was alone and didn't feel like cooking, i want to try to organize my cooking better and eat as many homemade meals as possible. of course, i won’t deprive myself of lunches and dinners out with friends, but i want to limit takeaway food to social occasions, not to lonely sundays.

it's been less than two years since i got out my ed and i want to keep the happy and healthy relationship with food i gained with so much hard work.

𝟲. keeping up with goals reached last year ( ☁️ )

obviously, all the work i’ve done over the past few years won’t go to waste! i want to persevere with the good habits i’ve developed and the work i’ve done on myself. the past few years have been strange and full of changes, but i feel like it’s all been positive. i’m happy with where i’ve gotten to and the person i’ve become, but i know i still have a long way ahead of me.

happy new year's eve everyone 🎉 which goals are you planning to reach?

[thealogie]

The fact that I finally have David Shore’s address and phone number and have met him and haven’t done anything to just subtly bother or unsettle him as revenge for house md….im showing such great restraint

[emmavakarian-theirin]

man i really want to redraw my self portrait of me as shepard because when i first drew it years ago my intention was i would redraw it every few years and keep it updated (mostly for irl scarring) to keep myself motivated through struggles

but when i first drew it i also never expected it would be signed by both of shepard's voice actors themselves along with motivational messages and i feel like making a new drawing dampens it somehow

[sammbee]

Goals for 2025:

Be like Lucy from Bram Stoker's Dracula (1992) by having a harem of men obsessed with me while I kiss Winona Ryder in a maze.

[sheyshen]

Before I end up replaying mass effect again (which i mean I might do anyway) I'm curious what games from my (unsurprisingly) lengthy backlog (also included below) do you all recommend I check out once I'm done with FFXVI and BG3?

Because seriously I wanna get to these for sure before the backlog grows even more and I'm always open to recommendations!

[crankycripple]

may you all develop new skills this year, and read lots of books, and contact someone you haven’t heard from in years, and heal from things that have hurt you, and find peace, wherever you are.

orange and cinnamon hot chocolate recipe

a cool thing about people

a semi difficult slight of hand trick to practise

happy new year <3

[chiimeramanticore]

waow

[vmures]

As resolutions and new year, new me posts start making their rounds, please remember that it's okay if your goal this year is simply survival. That is the often the most important goal of all.

[thebearme]

im making my new year declaration early!

-get a job

-get therapy

-make this account feel like escapism

-only look at politics once a month, no more than that i genuinely feel like doing something drastic im sorry.

-look at the dogman and fnaf 2 movie in theaters

-learn and understand spanish

posting this so I can hold myself to that, im not good with plans but if i promise someone i'll do something im more likely to do it.

[nitetrait]

ugh.

[rangersoup]

Personal rant in the tags that I’ll probably delete later

[singinginthecar]

hey friendly reminder that in the midst of all this talk about new year's resolutions, vision boards, manifestation & goal setting... it's okay if you feel unsure about where you want to direct your energy this year. it's okay if you feel adrift and if you can't quite focus on where to take your next steps. you'll know what to do... all in due time. don't pressure yourself into not having it all figured out yet. sometimes it takes us a few months into the new year to figure out what we wanna do for ourselves this year. and if this message resonates with you, then i want you to know that you're not alone in this. you'll be okay. trust yourself.

[thawthebeez]

oikage......... if you carry the one and factor out a four... are a manifestation of the thin line between admiration and jealousy .... i've solved it....🚬

[lovecolibri]

My Valentine wreath that had a quick swerve from the original idea when the wreath form I needed was not available. I do like how it turned out, though! It's a wooden bead heart that I added garland around the edge of, and I added the wooden cutout to the middle and attached the bird nest. I made white, light pink, mint/grey, and brighter pink/chocolate brown yarn pompoms, mostly with yarn that is a little curly which makes a nice effect, and I added some plastic heart ornaments and voila! Next month I am getting a proper form and plan to do all pompoms but we'll see what actually ends up happening.