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nobodybetterlookatme · 8 months ago

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pls just be wary of him he’s a lot older than you and that’s not always bad but the way he keeps giving you plushies is sending off warning bells from other stories i’ve heard. again not inherently bad, he sounds sweet and that’s probably all it is, but just make sure he doesn’t start making comments about how young you look or anything like that. i know you’ve said in the past that the age thing doesn’t bother you but you still wanna stay careful

This actually is the first thing he's given me that wasn't either food or something for work ahdkaksk it's not like a regular thing so no worries there. Also it was less bc it was a date and more bc my bday is in a week and I'm not gonna be seeing him until after so he just gave it to me now bc it was convenient lmaooo. I'm being careful tho, like I'm naturally sus of men especially bc of ✨ the trauma ✨ but I really don't think he's a bad dude

#not snz #if I'm wrong i literally will never entertain the thought of being with a man ever again #like there'd be no coming back from that i think lmao #but he's never said or done anything that would make me think he'd try anything weird #and after the conversation we had yesterday i know he's not just trying to fuck me #and it's pretty damn unlikely that he would ever want to considering all that #one of the reasons he was interested in me to begin with is that I'm fairly ace irl #and he's got his own reasons for not being interested in doing it so we're compatible there #anyway yeah the gift thing is the least of my concerns lmao #the only other things he's given me have been like medical supplies or something in that ballpark #my person has given me things tho so if you're thinking this isn't the first time then you're probably thinking of them #they send me a lot of plushies lmao #neither of us really have gift giving as a love language but when you live thousands of miles apart you work with what you've got #but yeah my person and my partner are two completely different people so idk of that caused any confusion #and just so nobody comes at me my person and i are not dating and have never dated bc of the distance #like yeah there's feelings there but unless one of us moves there will never be anything more than that #and we're both fine with that and actively seek out people to date irl so that's that on that lmao #oh and i did the math bc i mentioned my sister has an older bf a while back #she started going out with him when she was like 25/26 and he was like 38 #so maybe it runs in the family LMAO #and we only share one parent so I'm laughing ahskaksm #partner posting

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